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Junnior:
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Junnior:
Deflowered

Mcslize:
I hope you read my write up very well. I don't encourage guys to keep on deflowering the little virgins available so that those that said it is virgin they must marry can see some to settle down with.

But this does not apply to those that have popped uncountable cherries. Any guy that keep on popping cherries and expecting to marry a virgin is just being hypocritical.

Mcslize:
That's exactly the point. Every man will one day want to have a family of his own and when that time comes knocking, one can't actually put up his player's mode with the one he wants to settle down with.

90% of girls out there have dated at least 3 to 5 guys and more. And if we continue to be play boys, it simply means we don't want to settle down at all and have our own kids.

And among all those ladies, men still pick some deserving ones as wives to fulfil nature call.

That doesn't mean the man won't command respect from the one he wants to settle down with.

Every one time player shouldn't be a novice on how to handle his wife to earn her respect.

In essence, there is stage where a man will get to, he will just have to drop the player mode, settle down and still earn his wife respect.

Mcslize:
Of course, there is the hoe phase in every lady. That's why if you look very well, ladies between the age of 18 to 24yrs always live in fantasy.

They hardly have a realistic view of what they want in life. They want to get all the attentions so much that it makes them think irrationally.

They don't have clear cut of what life entails in general that's why they waste away their youthful age jumping from one dick to another.

Now, we hardly have virgins. If we should hold all of them accountable for how they hoed around during their youthful age, all men won't want to settle down.

But procreation must continue. At a time, you just have to fulfill nature call by settling down with the one that is not completely damaged.

As it is now, virgins are rare to find. You will hardly come across virgin girls these days.

And as a guy, you will not continue to toy around with all those girls so u must still in one day want to settle down except for those that just want to be baby Fathers.

And when that time comes to settle down, you won't actually put up your player's mode with the girl u want to have as a partner.


That's why lots of guy still get married today. If you are between the age of 30 to 40 as a guy, a time will come when u will want to have your own family and when the time comes, you will not because that a lot of ladies hoed around at their primes won't let you want to settle down and fulfil nature mandate of procreation.

For those that will want to have a family of their own will still marry irrespective of the fact that so many girls hoed around in their youthful age. That doesn't mean, you will be a simp. You merely just have to fulfil nature call.

etrange:
Until you learn to treat people individually based on their personalities and not collectively based on their gender, you might just keep running in circles. If you meet your girl somewhere in the world and decide not to treat her nicely because some girl on social media who is "one of them" has said so, you'll have yourself to hold responsible for whatever turn your relationship takes.

You are celebrating this post cause it is from one of them but the numerous posts from many of them that say you should treat them nicely are forgotten. Fact is, you only picked this cause it appeals to your already structured line of thought.

If you're not nice, you're not. If you're nice, you won't think about it before being nice to your lover. If your being nice sends her away, thank your stars and look for someone receptive of your nice nature. And if you're not nice, someone who likes un-nice guys will gladly take you. Just don't claim you're doing it for the ladies, you are who you are.

Adeling:
@op you felt intimidated by that lady, nothing less.!

I once had a similar situation as yours when I went to get my voters card. This black beautiful girl was the center of attraction when she decided to rest on my back while standing. Guys were just screaming to me "omo you dey enjoy o" when in fact I wasn't feeling anything. I didn't let her rest on my back (while standing) because I was weak, or because she was beautiful(I mean real natural black beauty), but because I would have done same if she was my sister (who was tired of standing), and she felt so free with me. Las las I didn't care to collect her number as some guys would have done.

You shouldn't be rude to people because their beauty intimidate you or sth else. That young lady might just be looking for a way to be a friend.

BTW this attitude doesn't make you an alpha male.

ojuu4u:
At least it shows both physically and in ur utterances that u lack home training.

Martdc:
AA my guy... Your song "Benediction" dey always burst my brain

Ogaonos:
forget she nt into Elo frm d begining she was jux managing him.diane has her kind of guy she sexually attract to.even if she date her crush Nd he love her e fit still break.because if she see another kind of her guy beta Dan her crush she fit dump or cheat on am.her time na beta side chick.dated with wisdom.due to d immaturity.

Edibles20:
We met at work. Honestly we both were ready to settle down, and I think it worked for us.
Now married, both of us run back home soon as we are done with work. We are our own crowd and groove. We both can remain indoors for the entire year without stepping out of the house.

Rebekah029:
Why would I go to fill gas when a man is in the house....??