Celebrities › Re: Dele Momodu Dancing With Nadia Buari [PICS] by Lalaity: 2:50pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Nadia's Hair though. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Men And Their Foreign Wives. A Must Read. by Lalaity: 5:50pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Sagamite: I don't think it has anything to do with Caucasian women getting anything right.
I think it just has to do with the Nigerian men knowing that that is not the expectations/traditions of the non-Nigerian women and adapting to these and not having typical expectations themselves that they would have with a Nigerian woman.
That said, considering the antecedent of Nigerian women and the experiences of these guys with them, I suspect many Nigerian men would think a Nigerian woman would abuse the privilege of reception of similar behaviours given to non-Nigerian women. We already see how they feel they need to drag a man on the floor for wooing them, abuse of power you will hardly ever see with white women.
Personally, despite being a strong advocate of encouraging Nigerian men to date non-Nigerian women, I can confidently say I NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER treat non-Nigerian women I date differently from Nigerian women I date.
I treat them all the same as I am not one of those people that do senseless culture, traditions or whatever.
I do things like I personally feel and which I find sensible. I understand what I want and like and don't need the approval of society (who are mainly fcktards) to validate what I want.
Whether you are white or black, I will never be caught dead having a schedule or roster of sharing housework.
Not in this life or the next!
I prefer a woman to do it but it is not by force, if you don't want to, then leave it. I wouldn't disturb you.
I do my housework ad hoc-ly, when I am in the mood. My house is never that of a neat freak and I am happy with it.
I let any woman I date have her own rights to do whatever she wants to do. I only play an advisory role, if she does not want to listen, that is her business. It is her life.
I am not romantic! I will never be romantic. That is not my calling in this life or the next. You will never see me buying roses or putting up red candles.
Any girl, black or white, that does not like it is free to find a man that is romantic.
Also, I would never marry a girl, black or white, who family (including extended) does not matter to. She must see family, as far as second cousins, as important. The force is strong with this one |
Family › Re: Help With Your Advice Am In Dilema Over This Relationship by Lalaity: 4:13pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
chisunday: Thank you all for your contribution,no matter what.I have told my wife and she has forgiven me even tho what she did forced me into this other lady.I have also told the lady and she understood how genuine I was before coming to her just that she had to forgive me for not telling her initially.I have also ask God for his mercies and also promised to take care of my baby and the girls school. However the girl told me not to open up to her parents for fear of my being hurt. She also told me how I would present it to her parents for the sake of peace. Contrary to what you might be thinking my sister passed through this in the hand of a warrior guy,which my family never did any hurtful thing to the guy and now my sister is happily married.I bet you by the help of God and my effort her life is not and cannot be ruined. CORK AND BULL PLEASE LET US KNOW WHEN YOU ARE AWAKE. |
Career › Re: I Think My Staff Is Tired Of His Job by Lalaity: 2:51pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Atmmachine: He's a lazy guy. Just fire him immediately. Here in America, we don't play with our jobs. We work like slaves. Even if you're sick, you must show up for work. No birthday celebrations, No time for church activities, No time to spend with our families. I believe this is an irony  |
Literature › Re: Tormented by Lalaity: 8:55am On Dec 14, 2015 |
Thank yoi , Safari girl. |
Celebrities › Re: Paul Okoye's Message To Ladies Who Always Make Their Man Late For Events (Photo) by Lalaity: 3:58pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
BeeBeeOoh: It's women general xteristics, even when u wake them up by 2am 2 start preparing u'll still be late. Even my mum isn't an exception  You want them beautiful, you've got to have some patiencepatience  |
Politics › Re: Numbers Of Federal Workers By State Of Origin-- Bureau Of Public Service by Lalaity: 3:05pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
sheedy407: 2 What is Akwa Ibom doing with over 4000 Federal Civil Servants. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Anita Oyakhilome Shades Ex-husband, Pastor Chris by Lalaity: 2:33pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
Zico5: Many of us usually judge without knowing what is going on behind the window. Women naturally have the ability to bear to the maximum level especially when in love. As a married man, I at times pity my wife cos my own sister may not even bear what she sometimes sacrifice for me. Women build, mold and nurture home when they mean business. That is why I don't judge or blame when it comes to marital issue cos what a grown up person sees when sitting, a kid cannot when standing. U get ur decision to make and God knows it all. Prosperous new year ma When maturity speaks, ... |
Agriculture › Re: Mira Mehta To Produce Tomato Paste In Nigeria by Lalaity: 4:26pm On Dec 02, 2015 |
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Family › Re: ADVICE! What Can I Do To Help My Husband Financially by Lalaity: 5:06pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
[quote author=Young03 post=40473240]lol madam am sorry ok Bt advise no be curse oo[/quot  |
Family › Re: What A Man Told His Wife On Their First Night Of Marriage. by Lalaity: 3:39pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
I smell front page |
Nairaland General › Re: What's Your Greatest Fear? by Lalaity: 9:01am On Nov 25, 2015 |
Mine is being betrayed by the people I love. Its happened more than once but the shock is still unique each time. |
Travel › Re: Photos: Rare Pictures Of Ghettos In Lekki by Lalaity: 8:59pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Bigprozzie: This is what happens when immigrants transported by Ekene Dili Chukwu keep coming to a small state like Lagos.
They come penniless and end up living in horrible conditions like those shown on this thread.
It is time that these immigrants start ensuring that they develop their own villages, towns and cities so that it can become habitable.
To be fair, I dont think these immigrants care, they have it better living in squalor in Lekki than living in their horrible land across the east
Trouble dey siddon, Iyanga go wake. What if we loved everyone from the hate. That's smarter a beg. |
Literature › Re: In Memory Only (Romance) by Lalaity: 4:21pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
 killing me softly Safari Girl. Thanks for this beautiful story. 1 Like |
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Romance › Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Lalaity: 6:38am On Jun 08, 2015 |
I understand how you feel. I have been down that road. I wasn't a very social person in the university because I was concerned about the grades I'd graduate with. I did graduate with cute grades and absolutely no friends. I have known the pain of loneliness and the emptiness of aloneness.
I started making real efforts to build true friendships. I won't say I am there yet, but I now have an A team.
Keep trying, you will succeed someday. And draw closer to God. He knows what we need and when we need it and believe me he never let's us be tempted/tested beyond what we can bear.
(I apologize for the long epistle) |
Celebrities › Re: Don Jazzy Releases His Own BBM Stickers by Lalaity: 5:40pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
Airforce1: Gej my hero, Buhari my president, Don Jazzy my role model
Album Nears Completion Since Last Century. |
Travel › Re: Nairalander's Trip To Kenya by Lalaity: 7:21pm On May 28, 2015 |
adanduka: Are you the wife's sister or one of the shameless haters? She looks pregnant and happy  |
Career › Re: MTN Nigeria Statement On Their Alleged Plan To Sack Staff by Lalaity: 4:32pm On May 26, 2015 |
What MTN is basically saying here is * we won't sack them, but their new handlers might.  |
Business › Re: Teaming To Raise Business Capital Worth Millions For Many. by Lalaity: 1:49pm On May 21, 2015 |
Good afternoon, please I am interested in the phase 2. I don't have full knowledge of what you are doing, but I have this gut feeling that its a laudable thing.
Please send me a mail @strictlybusiness2015@gmail.com |
Family › Re: SAD! Pears Baby Lotion Reigning Queen Somkeme Chukwuka Eze Dies At 2 by Lalaity: 4:01pm On May 18, 2015 |
herald9: even the devil loves a cute baby...stfu dude  No He doesn't . Read what happened to numerous kids Bethlehem when He was out to get Baby Jesus. |
Literature › Re: Tormented by Lalaity: 1:20pm On May 04, 2015 |
Safari girl I duff my cap. Your Majesty this writeup is beyond awesome  . |
Literature › Re: A Man To Call Her Own by Lalaity: 9:04am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Tiff you are the best. 1 Like |
Family › Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by Lalaity: 9:11am On Jul 18, 2014 |
Beautiful piece, got me thinking. |