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Travel / Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Lalaity: 4:09pm On Jun 02, 2022
Hello Everyone. Thank you for all the useful tips.
My cousin has a Job offer with the NHS in Sunderland and Devon. Please which location is ideal for a black family.

(I am making this post on her behalf)
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 21 by Lalaity: 4:16am On Jan 29, 2022
Please I have been trying to book appointment for Medicals with IOM, Lagos with no success.

I have registered with my email but when it gets to the confirmation page, an error code appears.

Please has anyone had a similar problem.
Family / Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Lalaity: 2:03pm On Aug 21, 2020
Oga Serabuwon,

I logged on to nairaland today after several years off it.

I am thrilled to see how good the years has been to you and our Olori.

Please continue to bask in God favour and peace.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by Lalaity: 1:43pm On Aug 21, 2020
Good day,

Please does anyone has a genuine contact in Unical to help process transcripts?

Please. I have done all i can l, to no avail.

Please help a sister.
Celebrities / Re: Banky W And Adesuwa Etomi Having Nice Time Together With Friends After Proposal by Lalaity: 12:51pm On May 06, 2017
Scammer. Nothing to see there people. Save a click
Family / Re: 6 Years Of Marriage No Children.i Am Getting Depressed And Sad by Lalaity: 9:29pm On Apr 02, 2017
ItsQuinn:
OP go and commit suicide! tongue

I logged in purposely to reply your comment.

You dont laugh at another's pain.

I have seen have you have taken lightly the corrections kindly given you by other and I don't expect anything different from you about mine.

I don't know if you have a perfect life now that makes you feel invinsible or its the anonymity of Naira land that makes you feel invisible.

But you don't talk to a depressed person like that. No, you don't make jest of another's suffering.

Its against everything morally right.

You don't throw stones at a bruised soul. No

I pray you never go throw halve of what the poster is going through.

I pray God forgives you for your insensitive comment.

At poster: please hold on the faith. Please be calm and prayerful.

May God, who can do superabundantly more than what we ask of Him, grant you your hearts desire.

May He strengthen you and your wife to stay strong till that time.

You are not alone and never will you be put to shame.

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Politics / Re: LAKE RICE: Lagos State To Adopt One-man-one-bag Purchase Policy by Lalaity: 9:36am On Dec 22, 2016
Fidelity Bank Just Placed a Lien on my Account. Went to the bank they said I need to upgrade with National Id and Utility bill. I ask them about the deposit on which the Lien was placed they said its gone back to the depositor.

Please has anyone been through a similar experience?

Is the deposited money still with them?

I am sorry don't know how to create a new post.

Please any useful Information will be greatly appreciated.
Literature / Re: Tormented by Lalaity: 8:11am On Nov 15, 2016
Super Safari Girl. Welcome back.
Fashion / Re: Who Has Tried The Brand Of Perfume Called "Explore" by Lalaity: 4:45pm On Oct 22, 2016
I love the fragrance. Can't remember if its long lasting though.
Family / Re: Poor Indian Man Carries His Dead Wife On His Shoulder For 7miles Back Home. by Lalaity: 11:30am On Sep 28, 2016
VolT0xic:
They followed him all the way with camera just to make a good story? Damn. The world is spinning backwards.
I tell you.
We are more interested in showing things off, being the first to Know, first to post, first to tell than being the first to help.

Its soooo sad
Family / Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Lalaity: 3:49pm On Sep 15, 2016
Congratulations Sir. I wondered what happened eventually, thanks for updating us.

Your Experience has reinforce my convictions that if We trust Implicitly in God, He will turn our Mournings to Joyfully outcry.

Thanks for sharing Your Life, Pain, Healing and finally Joy with Us.

May God Bless Your Home. And May you see and enjoy life with Your Awesome Wife.

Please tell Her She married a King. Fly High Always Sir.
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Family / Re: Barrack And Michelle Obama: A Power Couple After Our Heart! (pics) by Lalaity: 11:58am On Sep 08, 2016
Ftc kiss
Literature / Re: Nairaland Book Club For Book Lovers by Lalaity: 10:29am On Aug 03, 2016
Good morning Guys, please does anyone have a soft copy of Chimamanda's Americanah. Please help a sister. kiss
Education / Re: Images You Would Relate To If You Grew Up Shy In A Nigerian Institution. by Lalaity: 9:13pm On Jul 01, 2016
Lalasticlala, pass this guy a beer please.
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Lalaity: 12:32pm On Jun 13, 2016
victorazy:


Them dey marry woman free for una village? All is about moni. Before man can embark on marriage now he MUST budget atleast N600k and how many ppl have that?

You've no business dating if you aren't ready for marriage. My opinion though.

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Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Lalaity: 5:51am On Jun 09, 2016
Hi, you dated this girl for FIVE years. She's given suitors for you I am sure of that. Why haven't you married her yet? Are you giving her excuses when she ask about the wedding date? She is 32 and you sound like you comfortable enough to pay for a wedding now. Please be careful. Do not let people who know nothing about your history together, nothing about the sacrifices you both have made, nothing about how much she has endured with you influence your decision.

I respect her for dating you for five years. I won't.
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Lalaity: 5:47am On Jun 09, 2016
Hi, you dated this girl for FIVE years. She's given suitors for you I am sure of that. Why haven't you married her yet? Are you giving her excuses when she ask about the wedding date? She is 32 and you sound like you comfortable enough to pay for a wedding now. Please be careful. Do not let people who know nothing about your history together, nothing about the sacrifices you both have made, nothing about how much she has endured with you influence your decision.

I respect her foot dating you for five years. I won't.
Celebrities / Re: Ebube Nwagbo Stuns In Denim On Denim by Lalaity: 11:06am On May 30, 2016
PissedOffWeed:
grin Even farmers will attest that she will serve as a better scarecrow dressed like this.

Mehnnnnn you hit the nail on the head.
Its not fine Mbok
Literature / Re: Tormented by Lalaity: 9:29am On Mar 31, 2016
kiss Welcome Back Honey.
Thanks for the update
Celebrities / Re: Yvonne Nelson Shows Off Her Bra, As She Steps Out In Style by Lalaity: 3:29pm On Feb 16, 2016
playtheblues:
Who stole her boobs?
Olympus has fallen.
Romance / Re: How Do You Feel Seeing You Ex Getting Married? by Lalaity: 5:40pm On Feb 12, 2016
I felt sad initially, I mean when I love, I love with all my heart so its heartrending when it end.

But over time I have realised that, I loved them because I saw something good in them. And whether we are together or not they still posses those beautiful qualities.

Nobody is completely evil. So why hate them. I pray to have the maturity to say " He isn't part of my life but I wish him all the best with his' and mean it.

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Celebrities / Re: #GLO-CAFAwards: Fans Say Dija Chose Her Outfit Just To Avoid Bashing by Lalaity: 6:25pm On Jan 08, 2016
Kenshinmunac:
This girl is just disgustingly ugly.
smileyeasy. She is beautiful to her MAKER.

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Family / Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Lalaity: 4:22pm On Jan 03, 2016
This Life sha: Perfect women are going through fire in the hands of men who don't deserve them, and Here is a woman playing GINGLE OVER with a good man. cry lipsrsealed

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Literature / Re: In Memory Only (Romance) by Lalaity: 11:35am On Jan 02, 2016
Thank you Safari Girl.
Family / Re: Single Ladies: Let's Share Our Experiences Here by Lalaity: 8:24am On Jan 01, 2016
coogar:


complex issue? because you earn more? grin cheesy where do you people find spineless men? if i happen to be dating oprah winfrey, i would be the boss in the relationship.

wait a minute - i hope it's not that boy of yours you didn't like cos he doesn't look presentable. if he's the one then it serves you right. grin

Don't be mean. It makes you less handsome

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Literature / Re: Literature Section's Story of the Month Awards (January) by Lalaity: 5:24pm On Dec 29, 2015
My wife and I by temitope Daniel
Celebrities / Re: Dele Momodu Dancing With Nadia Buari [PICS] by Lalaity: 2:50pm On Dec 25, 2015
Nadia's Hair though.
Family / Re: Nigerian Men And Their Foreign Wives. A Must Read. by Lalaity: 5:50pm On Dec 23, 2015
Sagamite:


I don't think it has anything to do with Caucasian women getting anything right.

I think it just has to do with the Nigerian men knowing that that is not the expectations/traditions of the non-Nigerian women and adapting to these and not having typical expectations themselves that they would have with a Nigerian woman.

That said, considering the antecedent of Nigerian women and the experiences of these guys with them, I suspect many Nigerian men would think a Nigerian woman would abuse the privilege of reception of similar behaviours given to non-Nigerian women. We already see how they feel they need to drag a man on the floor for wooing them, abuse of power you will hardly ever see with white women.

Personally, despite being a strong advocate of encouraging Nigerian men to date non-Nigerian women, I can confidently say I NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER treat non-Nigerian women I date differently from Nigerian women I date.

I treat them all the same as I am not one of those people that do senseless culture, traditions or whatever.

I do things like I personally feel and which I find sensible. I understand what I want and like and don't need the approval of society (who are mainly fcktards) to validate what I want.

Whether you are white or black, I will never be caught dead having a schedule or roster of sharing housework.

Not in this life or the next!

I prefer a woman to do it but it is not by force, if you don't want to, then leave it. I wouldn't disturb you.

I do my housework ad hoc-ly, when I am in the mood. My house is never that of a neat freak and I am happy with it.

I let any woman I date have her own rights to do whatever she wants to do. I only play an advisory role, if she does not want to listen, that is her business. It is her life.

I am not romantic! I will never be romantic. That is not my calling in this life or the next. You will never see me buying roses or putting up red candles.

Any girl, black or white, that does not like it is free to find a man that is romantic.

Also, I would never marry a girl, black or white, who family (including extended) does not matter to. She must see family, as far as second cousins, as important.

The force is strong with this one

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Family / Re: Help With Your Advice Am In Dilema Over This Relationship by Lalaity: 4:13pm On Dec 21, 2015
chisunday:
Thank you all for your contribution,no matter what.I have told my wife and she has forgiven me even tho what she did forced me into this other lady.I have also told the lady and she understood how genuine I was before coming to her just that she had to forgive me for not telling her initially.I have also ask God for his mercies and also promised to take care of my baby and the girls school.
However the girl told me not to open up to her parents for fear of my being hurt. She also told me how I would present it to her parents for the sake of peace. Contrary to what you might be thinking my sister passed through this in the hand of a warrior guy,which my family never did any hurtful thing to the guy and now my sister is happily married.I bet you by the help of God and my effort her life is not and cannot be ruined.

CORK AND BULL

PLEASE LET US KNOW WHEN YOU ARE AWAKE.

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