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DankemzI: He can go into politics. Be a L.G Chairman or ward leader!

You don't need a certificate to be or do that.

happy Wednesday, people...... happy Wednesday, people......

the thing still dey men.....

e still dey

still dey

thank God for fun filled weekend. welcome monday.....

They really where crazy and inspired by Michael Jackson/Jacksons from the very start. Its somethings that is so obvious from their music.

So the 6th Album is already coming along. I guess all this noise about all the commotion that has befallen the Okoyes seems to be really "much ado about nothing".

I guess the need to continue making doe and remaining relevant overides all their stupidities at the end of the day.

Mondisweets: so what if she is older than him? How many women do u know that can be loyal enough to stick to a man right from when he was nothing until he was something? Peter is a man and if he didnt love Lola he would never had married her thats a fact and not even 2kids would have made a difference!

Did he marry a wife for himself or for his mother, brother and fans? Did he help his mother pick out a husband?

My brother married someone we didnt even know existed until she was 5months pregnant over a nice girl he had formally introduced to the family 3months before. We accepted her as his choice and welcomed her into the family. Thats his cross to carry not ours.

Who are u to decide who someone else should be waking up next to for the rest of his life?

why do you insist on repeating this fiction of your imagination; many people have already debunked it. What do you mean ” stick to a man right from when he was nothing until he was something”? It's a big lie. please stop saying it. it's not true.

Mondisweets: at his age his head cant reason on its own? What makes a man the head of the family if he can't make wise decisions for it on his own.
If lola werent a good wife she could have left him for the next higher bidder, she stood by the guy no matter who criticized their relationship. Its a little something called loyalty. But then again only men who use their heads to think would know that

what the hell are you babbling about? Which next highest bidder would she have left him for? Se na u dey supply dem? You think handsome young billionaire celebrity dude like Peter all over the place just for the taking?

She held on to Peter like a leech because there was no way she was going to let go of her big catch.

Then there is no mother that will be happy if her son wanted marry someone eight years old his senior. Lola is practically his aunty. If there were relatives, he would have been calling her Aunty Lola.

Most of the ladies talking here, if u had a junior brother you senior with four years, and he brought home a woman he says he want to marry who senior in years not only himself, but even YOU the senior sister with about 4 to 6 years; can you in all honesty say that you will be exited about it?

Lola is almost a decade older than Peter. Any good mother who loves her son will not be in support.

ebamma: Lola is from a very rich family, her Dad is even richer than the P square's, she is not with him because of his money, the love each other, if the love wasn't strong, with all the pressure from Peter's family, he will not still be hanging in there,
The senior brother is the immature one to me,
as an elder bro, u are supposed be the peacekeeper in the family, but he started the war by failing to attend his juniors' wedding, remember that on that day, he also posted a picture of him in a studio,
imagine your senior brother doing that on your wedding day, how will u feel?

pls tell us more about Lola's dad who is richer than P2.

then whatever money her OKAY father can give to her can't be compared what she'll gain being with Peter. Did her dad buy her car which cost over ten million naira like Peter did? I beg, talk another matter jare.

blackpanther25: Are you always this retarded? This woman was with him when he was a nobody(no money, fame etc) and now you are talking about stinking to him like a leech? IMO if someone loves you and accepts you when you are at your worst than you have found a good person. So because of fame he should leave his wife and kids just because his brother is in disagreement. Whether older or younger he is not complaining about the "vintage pussy" so why are you having a headache about it? Smdh

pls stop this bloody fake news, that Lola was with him when he was a nobody. Its a bloody lie. He was already on his way to the top, even a blind person can see that, not talk of old calculating girl like Lola.

Yes, she's a calculating girl and yes she's with him for the money, not that it is crime.

She knew the Guy's mum and his family didn't really like her, prominent among the reasons: he is eight years older than Peter. How many mothers will be happy at such.

Then she planned. Had a child for him, had another and stuck to him like a leech.... believing in the end he will have no choice but to marry. and she played the game well by always saying on social media hell live Peter forever whether he marries her or not. Before long everyone on social media began to bully Peter to do the right thing and marry the girl.

That girl is older and very much wiser than Peter. Think what you like, to anyone that has wisdom ( not all yeye small boys wey full Nairaland) its so obvious that Lola is manipulating Peter. And the mum must have seen more than age difference to reject her. P2's was not your average Christian lady. she was a DEVOUT Christian to the core. People that have such kind of mothers should try and listen to their counsel on important matters and not be feeling like ” I'm man enough to marry whomever I like.

for this kain price, you don't even need advert of Nairaland, na only word of mouth for your area you need......

ElFenomeno1: No he doesn't. it is his life, let him live it however he wants it. It is nobody's business.

Nigerians and busy body... The ones not related to the Okoyes are the ones hyperventilating the most.. FFS!!!

I believe you ate very wrong. It's simple logic. He wants the attention. Most Nigerians may not even know Jude was getting married or that he wasn't there if not for the pictures.

Why share those pictures with the whole world. Face reality. He wanted the attention. simple as that.

ElFenomeno1: I just dont understand some people.... How the dude and his wife shunning the wedding, means people have to rain curses on them

I just cant get my head round how some folks think and why they take life so seriously, they even take on other men's businesses and headache.

obviously, he wanted other people to carry his business for head the minute he posted pics of himself lounging at home in Lagos with friends while Jude's wedding was taking place at Anambra. He even sent a follow-up of pics sef.

He could have kept it private. And most people will not even know.

thank God for another party-Saturday

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ujchief: I wasn't the one that included the jargon in the bible.

There is no jargons in the Bible.......you quote jargons because you're misusing or misinterpreting the scriptures....

django1: Man, there's something wrong with your brain, that's all I will say.

Actually what you say describes yourself not me. Just try look around and ask about 10 elderly women whether they will say the same thing I said.

You think Lola is the first woman to to be accepted by her in_laws?

Wisdom is so scarce among the youth of today.

Do you have enough insight to see that if she attends despite her husband's absence, that singular act will shame Jude and may even start something that will change the mind of her in-laws about her. It will also start a process of healing and reconciliation for the family.

But I guess you don't have enough insight to perceive this.

sensaraj: Im not lying, but saying the truth, I got this information from a reliable source

Why not just say the source. This is an anonymous site, it's not as if anyone knows who you are...

tobtap: Since u refuse to get sense....how do u know it was lola that told him not to attend, when jude D eldest among dem no attend his younger brother wedding , so na lola tell jude not to attend abi...try nd use ur brain once in a while.

How can Lola tell Jude not attend his brother's wedding? not making too much sense there.

If Peter didn't attend, then Lola should have attended. Then everyone will know she has nothing to do with it.

sandijey: You that have wisdom go and settle your family problems. Hypocrite

Call me what you like, I have said the truth, tour line of reasoning is certainly wrong.

sandijey: Mr man don't go around spitting on the thread. You must be sick to conclude that I am not humble or that Lola did not try to convince her husband to go. Are u sure the Lola girl is not trying to reconcile the wife? Were you there? This is how u sit down and pass judgment acting as if you are clean. Hypocrite. Do we no what is going on in your family? Abeg don't quote me again and then pass a silly comment about me not being humble. Peter did what many would do. We are all here pretending as If we are better. Like someone said, even God through Satan out of heaven. Do you no how many people have settled quarrel wiv their enemies and died at the process? Abeg don't come here and be acting holier than thou. Nobody holy pass. Do what will sustain your dignity, your life and your family. Simple

Your refuse to answer the important question I posed. How does him not attend his brother's wedding equates to him not standing by his wife?

Sorry about saying you're not humble, but the Mulato fine babe Lola is definitely not.

Then Jude is not Peter's enemy. Some bad women will like their husband to see a sibling as such just because the sibling is not on the same page with them.

and they are many of us that will not do that. equally, they are many women that will not do that, and if their husband refuse to attend, they will make sure they go and attend the wedding. Alright. someone will now say maybe Peyer tied her down or forbid her not to go..

LBlessing: Non of us can boldly say that she didn't persuade Peter to attend the wedding because we aren't part of the family. But believe me the average woman would go on her knees and beg her husband to attend the wedding not really because of the love she has for her brother in-law but because she knows that in a situation like this, she'll be blamed for her husband's decision. Who knows if Peter was the one who stood on his grounds not to attend the wedding. There's nothing more frustrating than getting married into a family that doesn't approve of you.

The Okoye brothers should be considerate. Peter had dated Lola for years, what were they expecting? He shouldn't have married her, after that long relationship?! To think they have a sister. Let's give Lola a break and stop blaming her for everything that goes wrong.

it is certainly no true that most women will go on their knees and do that. Using Nairaland as a microcosm, by just observing the comments by ladies on Nairaland, one can see this is not true.

And seriously, though weren't there, Lola truly does not look like the type that goes for that kind of thing.... I mean not into all that kneeling down business as if the husband na one Lord & Master like that....

sensaraj: The wedding was strictly on invitation, Lola was not invited only peter was
source insider

STOP LYING!!!

sandijey: Again Nigerians are hypocrites. Is it not better for my enemy not to come for my wedding than him coming and then wishing me evil in his heart............

Or you people think everybody that came for the wedding is happy. Lmao. We too like lip service. Life would be a lot easier if we do not pretend to love people.

Girls of nowadays lack wisdom I swear. So Peter is now Jude's enemy because they have a misunderstanding..... In other words, the day your husband siblings have a serious misunderstanding with your husband, they become tour enemies.

sandijey: What is annoying me most is the women that are commenting. I pray you marry from a family that does not love you. I pray you meet a man that will not stand and fight for you when the family is against you.


I pray I meet a man like peter that will stand for me against all odds. For all those talking of forgiveness. You cannot adequately say what you will do if u were in that position so shut up before thunder will strike u. Hypocrites. What kind of thing will make me miss my brothers wedding or my sister in the first place? . Do you no that hardly do u see parents or siblings loving the spouse of their loved ones. Many object to it and even some for spiritual reasons. At the end of the day during the wedding, you see both families happy and smiling. That is what we call family. You cannot force anybody to love. You can only pray that, should things fall apart, God should give the person the grace to pull through.

So how does standing by you equates him refusing to attend his brother's wedding?

If he attends his brother's wedding, does that mean he is not standing by you or he does not stand by you?

It's a selfish and bad woman that will encourage her husband to do such. We all know that his brother didn't attend his wedding, but Peter could have used that opportunity to show that he was a bigger man. And a wife that has wisdom could have used to start the process of reconciliation, because people in the family that don't like her may just have a rethink.

The problem is just like you, the mulatto babe is not an humble woman. They can all go and jump into the Lagoon for all she cares.

singlefade25: bro, ur head dey there, na now Nigerian go dey pray bible, abeggi, I support peter, do me, I do u.

I pity the family that you will become their wife....once the dey marry to their son, they should just no son don comot for among the sons of the family be that....

ujchief: Nope, that's not childish! I don't know the full gist but if the things I read online about the genesis of the crises is true, then Peter has every justification to avoid his elder bros wedding. Jude not just missed peter's wedding but don't support his decision to marry a yoruba (that's what I read, don't know how true). But if this is the crux of the matter, then Peter is justified. If my brother doesn't support my choice of wife and even goes along to make his dislike public by skipping my marriage rights, I will avoid his own wedding like a plaque!! Yes, people have to be prepared for the consequences of their action!

Don't tell me crap about bible this bible that; same bible said "Be not decieved for God is not mocked, for every seed you sow, you shall reap."

obviously you know nothing about the Bible...neither the letter of the Word or the spirit of the Word...stop quoting jargons

texazzpete: This just reminds me that most Nigerian men make terrible husbands.

You meet a woman you love and adore, someone who has given you beautiful kid(s) and who you want to spend the rest of your life with. And then you're supposed to turn your back on her because people who will not be the ones to wake up beside who you marry for the rest of your life will now come and tell you not to marry her?

After you marry, you're supposed to protect your wife. She and your kids become your new family and your number one priority, over everyone else. Yes, even your siblings! If you cannot understand this, then you're still an emotional midget and should not marry.

If the other family members don't like his wife and he loves her, f**k 'em! That's life...and even the Bible tells you that there's now an inseparable bond (sealed with a vow) that should be stronger than any other ties.


I know a guy who met a beautiful brazilian babe in scotland during his masters. intelligent, humble and madly in love with him. This babe even flew from scotland to meet the guy's aunt to learn how to make Egusi soup. Only for him to propose and his mother came and said she will not accept him not marrying an Igbo girl. The guy calmly told his mother "Mama, it's like you don't plan on attending my wedding". The woman saw sense and now the dude is happily married with kids.

Always stand by your wife as long as you have faith in her. Let others say or do what they want. Simple.

What is the point of your analysis. Are you saying his decision not to attend his brother's wedding is that of wisdom, because he was protecting his wife.

So to protect his wife one way of doing that is by not attending his brother's wedding. A smart wife will know such acts will get her in more trouble with the family.

Then also, while it true that a man's wife is his priority, your view or postulations is too one-sided. If you allow your wife to have the belief, either by action or words that you are more important than my father, mother, brother & sister combined, you will soon be doing things to your relatives that she will never do to ours.

This confirms that Peter's wife is not really a good wife, according to the fears of the family. If she was, she would have made sure she and Peter, her husband attended the wedding. That is what a good and sensible wife will do.

Pls don't tell me it's not her decision but Peter's. Is not because of her or for her sake that Peter no go. She should have told him ”no way, don't do this because of me; if you don't attend, I your wife will attend"

But I won't surprised that she will even be pushing and cheering him to take that course of action.