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Hi everyone. I’m new here.
Please do I need to join a whatsapp group to get a favorable visa interview date? Especially since I’m trying to get a date before August.

Zico5:
Is that what matter to u right now. Even what make it sure that u will see the 2023. U guys are so myopic and self centered. It's like the whole of the country resources should belong to u alone. Get it to ur brain today, IGBO can never rule this country cos everyone knows ur motives. We will never put fire on the building and sleep.

I was about agreeing with you after reading the poster who said 'Igbo 2023' but from the middle of your comment you just come off as nepotist. I ain't Igbo but I want u to answer these.
Why won't the Igbos rule again?
What is this their motive that u know which the rest of us aren't privy too?
Pls let's avoid colouring our judgement with ethnicity.

SoapQueen:
Prayers, encouragement, laughter, (money, if she has), and the list goes on..As for me and some awesome ladies out there, our selling points have never been and will never be our bodies.

To be frank, not much on offer.

donstan18:
Plastic surgery that cannot bring back a woman's virginity after loosing it because of coke and biscuit , is that one plastic surgery.

Trust me, restoring virginity? That's easy.

akinloluwao:
If you want to help him, tell him to get married, by the time he sees responsibilities ehn his sense will correct. I used to be like him but I don't drink and I don't womanize like that. I will use all my money to buy clothes, shoes, gadgets etc spend on people as if I am Dangote's son. But now my sense don correct wella, I am always calculating now. Let him rent house first and settle down. Nobody go tell am

Ah! Get married ke, from frying pan to fire.

i have a friend like that, he earns enough but spends it all on booze and cigarettes. i always try to help him by visualizing the future, chipping in projects he could invest in. helps him better than direct warnings.

op's question has only one characteristic, STUPIDITY. has God ever come down to pay school fees before?

Tribe Blindness
Racism. What is it?
It is the overreaching of concepts, artificial standards or cultural beliefs which are engraved into our unconscious or conscious such that they give particular alternatively normal actions a meaning that envelopes a message of superiority on the person/persons who are being acted upon. It is “Tom Cruise” telling “Jamie Foxx”, ‘No, thank you.’, but Jamie Foxx hearing ‘Get your black ass out of my face.’ Trust me, only the 2 of them know what Tom “really” said.
But I am black, an African in an African country in the continent from which man evolved. And from all indications Racism doesn’t exist in my country, Nigeria, or does it. My good friend eats roughly, not caring how many of his fingers get stained or how the food looks like while eating or how to clean up the plate after eating. He just eats, ‘Bi omo mola.’ Or how in my former room, I couldn’t do something right and my roommates were like, ‘Se Egun ni e ni?’ I also remember when I was planning to get a shop to sell particular stuff, some people told me, ‘Do not use an Ibo person as your salesperson, you have been warned.’ I was working in a particular school at a certain period and I heard my Edo boss saying ‘Yoruba people, hypocrites all of them, they smile with you then stab you in the back.’ His friend replied, ‘Yes oo, you can’t trust them.’
Now I am trying to remember when a tribe’s name became an item of abuse, or when particular tribes became attached to particular vices like a camel to its hump. Are we racists? No. This is because there is no recognized ethnic stratification system and no tribe is conventionally accepted as top with the remaining tribes in a particular order. But are we ethnocentric? Of course. Since the Yorubas are the best because they are actually smarter than the rest, or the Ibos are the best because they can make money out of thin air or the Hausas are the best because they were made for power and power for them. Yes, rep your tribe. No, your tribe isn’t better.
So when dealing with local or national issues, please be ‘Tribe Blind’ because being bright eyed only pushes up stereotypes that are actually only empty.

Janet101:
No o,she is just been naughty.just ignore her

u are saying this because u are a woman.

Toonice:
My story, my dad and mom divorce when i was 8 and now my dad is rich, but am now married with two kids. I lost my job recently and currently jobless. Am leaving a poorest life presently that i can't even pay my house rent for 2years now. Now my dad has promise to assist me but the problem am having now is that my dad and mum did a meeting recently and my dad told my mom that before he can assist me financially i have to divorce my wife with two kids. My dad has been payin for my university degree program that am currently running at national open university. He said he we stop the payment if i dont divorce my wife with two kids. Please what should i do, am yet to inform my wife about this. Should i forget my dad assistant and continue leaving my poverty life and stop my university program, or divorce my wife and start a new and enjoyable life. Please mature advice is needed. Thanks

sorry to say but u av written some pretty dumb shit. u enjoyd ur parents' divorce abi

Sunnycliff:
At marriage you are subject to the decisions of your husband! If you don't want change of name why get married? Is marriage by force

baba decision enforcer, marriage is an equal rights partnership. Not an autocratic govt, d man might as well change his number.

Bluezy13:
No matter what; never raise you hand on a woman.
If she hits you, walk away...

If she blatantly berates you and there is no room to walk away, be quite and think about something else better.
You can always discuss it later...depending on you.

Always be in control...




of yourself!

masochistic olodo

missdebs:
mo fe lowo ju daddy mi ooo, only in nigeria would u see parents using java phones and dier kids using iphone 6.

dats not true, that is a general issue. But op only stated pure truth. i usually say 'na only suffer fit give pikin real sense.' for those who understand

shut:
I can do worse,believe me.
we don't always do those shit just to get your stuff,sometimes it's just a play

Hos everywhere.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, why do men drive up to Prost!tute Spot and then watch them walk around and then leave?[/color]

how you take sabi?

Op, i feel you have a real message deep in your writing. But your write up has too bitter an undertone to it for us to extract it. You are sounding like one of the APC's serial opponents.

wow! d love is evident. Amazed by your loyalty even in obvious times of paucity. will remember ur hubby if i see any jobs.

Teensway:
see question abeg? u are a big MUMU

like for real

xynerise:
My question still stands

yes, he will. She changed on the guy.Its either that or he leaves, thats what I'll do.

i am a pastor's son and frankly i have very different beliefs in comparison to my parents. And i assure you, my parents ticked all christian boxes in bringing me up. So many times its about the path the child chooses than the path the parents gave.

Op, except u want to live a life of stress and constant lack even d 60k cummulative salary i.e if he takes d job, isn't enuf for a family of 3. show my reply to ur hubby and he'll take d job.

Happy birthday my husband,my sunshine,your days are numbered

dat one get one kind strong subliminal msg. If i catch u with any woman,"ur days are numbered."

being frank fear catch me no be small. I think d pics revealed too much, as per say she b mother.

Blackberrybabes:
Thats the main reason i consider her beautiful..i cant believe she is look this fit

ki lo de. baba easy nah.

abeg no one noticed dis guy's grammar ni. Guy how far na?

Op give us a better storyline! Amaka Igwe will never sell this. Its amateurish.

Baba I would have appraised your knowledge of history but hmm hmm. You know only a minor part of the minor parts of religious history.

I partook in a hell of an argument yesterday on truth. I stood on the grounds that when looking at things from all premises, there is nothing like absolute truth. What we know as truth is limited to our knowledge base and our perspective. White is white to everyone because we see it as white, it might be that light plays tricks on us and a particular shade of yellow is always reflected as white, that's just an assumption. I think I am right. But I need someone to prove me wrong because my interpretation is toxic to many things I feel to be true.i.e in reality. Am I right?