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purplesummer: It shows you are civilised. You would've been wrong if you had given out the girl's number without her consent.
Happy now?

But its just a number, will it hurt?

glitest: Never meet a girl or make friends with a girl, with the mindset that she's going to end up been your girlfriend. That is the biggest mistake men make.
Most guys confuse common smile with love; Imagine that.

Most guys act nice, caring and friendly towards girls, thinking that's automatically going to make girls fall in love with them; That is not how it works for girls.Most girls just see such guys as their save heaven and place of comfort, but not as a boyfriend.

So what's the best way to start a relationship
By running after the girl on the road?

Lol
You made him an ex and you still want his attention.
Talk of eating cake and wanting to have it.

I'm disappointed.
Op is just a random guy

parismarc: I only pray for financial success and his general well being, I can't worry God over trivial issues like my husband resisting temptations, for wetin na? That's why God gave him a brain and free will. If he is not matured enough to know that marital infidelity will destroy his household, that's none of my business.

Why pray for his financial success when you should be out there huzzling for your own cash.

In summary you are a gold digger

500k, serious buyer

Lol

Pics are cool.

Keep a distance

Elantracey: you can try that on a girl you just met not someone you've been friends with for months

You may be right sha. Maybe that explains why it is difficult to get out of friendzone

Mondisweets: the ministry is going well. You been to hell before?

lol, sound of victory

J0nyb0y: by trying my best to convince myself am her boyfriend without her seeing herself as my girlfrnd me would put me in the friendzone... I fear dat side die!

He already said the girl is into him and responded well when he told her he loves her. Does he need to continue the telling? He just need to act as a lover and watch out for the result
Before he could do that he need to convince himself he is her lover. He need to be the lover he said he is. What's the big deal here?

Elantracey: That will be deceiving himself, the outcome when he will find out that the girl was just playing along and not string attached will be heart breaking. @OP just ask her out simple, it's either she say a yes or no, she might have been waiting for that since.

You will not understand cos you are a girl and at the receiving end.

MizMyColi: Its not advisable to coerce yourself into liking someone. Don't be scared of the ticking biological clock.....all things being equal you'll meet your man soon enough #Word

Are u serious?
Not be scared of ticking biological clock and depreciating market value at 25?
Can you recommend this advice for yourself?

What other telling do you want to do? You already told her you love her, except I didn't read well.
Bro, it doesn't stop in telling, it goes into role play. Even after the telling if ur game isn't tight you will still lose

Mondisweets: how u dey

I'm fine. Hope all is well?

Mondisweets: used for the public but decisions with regards to the varsity and made by private invidiuals, which is usually the alumini. Whoever puts their money on it, can make whatever decision with it. Its still run like a private entity

Mondi, we know you are viewing

Adaeze003: Ouch! I'm hurt...
But with all your comprehension skills, you couldn't figure that I didn't meant that literally.

I'm so sorry if you are hurt. Its a wrong way to treat a princess

But really I didn't expect anybody to have problems with that post except the person didn't understand it.
The use of models before the real stuff is a common practice in todays world, mainly to minimize risk

Before every engineering construction there is always a model construction. Before serious exams there use to be mock exams, Before serious football matches there is always a friendly match. Even model wars are simulated for soldiers during training.

The reason is it is easier to destroy and rebuild on the model than the main stuff. I don't see any wrong in trying out that on marriage considering the huge risk involved.

Adaeze003: That is to say, we get married 3-10 times before we actually get married?
Its this skewed mentality that leaves people heart broken when one party calls it quits...

Btw I agree with aluta, it depends on the dynamics of the relationship but! There are better ways to tell her not to go! Its just messed up n disturbing to say shii like "don't say I didn't warn u"... Unless he knws smtn bad is gon take place tho...

You have comprehension problem. Check for the meaning of MODEL.

Op sorry bro, they will never learn. Making mockery of true and sensible write up like this is heartbreaking.

Why is she still single at 28
As if that is not enough, she still gat time to listen to bad advice

A LOVE RELATIONSHIP is meant to be a MODEL MARRIAGE where each partner is expected to simulate the husband or wife role though they ain't married yet. If the lady feel she could take such orders when they get married she better start doing so now to a avoid sending the wrong message and probably ruin a beautiful relationship.

Its a free world, anybody can disobey anyone. You can disobey a military man if you so wish, but you gat to first understand and weigh the possible consequence and sincerely ask yourself if it is worth it.

Boateng played very but he didn't do much attention demanding stuff like bad tackles, fights, gething injured, gething booked, arguing with ref and some fantastic saving stunts.

She doesn't like you that much. Meaning she's not that into you.
Friendzone is the best you can get

Op you are doing the best for yourself. You are a muslim so you need to program yourself for polygamy cos it can happen anytime. I see you are arranging some shock absorbers for yourself. Good luck.

Op go back and organise that post If you want me to read it.

badoosecret: very close, but a lab scientist/technologist. Just that I was taught all these your Norton, Kirchioff, Principle of superposition, Thevenin's etc those days

ok, you got a little of engineering, that's great. But you are a technologist, you are still one of us.