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Send her packing.

The fault in marrying her is yours, but you will make a bigger mistake by allowing her to continue making your life miserable.

Kobojunkie:
All you have said here has no bearing to any of what I have made clear.

Again, according to Matthew 5 vs 27 -28, Jesus Christ, God's Law and Gospel in the Kingdom of God, made it clear that sexual lust, not urges, is what is sin against God..

If you want to argue against what Jesus Christ said there, I cannot help you.

So are you concluding that the OP is engaging in lust? That's the bone of contention.

Kobojunkie:
Sin is direct obedience of God's commandments and Law, in this case, [/b]in our case, as given us as individuals by Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ is God's agreement with individual man so it matters not what the next man knows or thinks as when you sin you sin against God and not man - [b]Matthew 26 vs 28 - 30.

So when you lust in your heart, the one your sin is against is God who gave you specific instructs not to - He is the one who sees in your heart and knows your sin, not your fellow man.

As for spiritual attacks, that's a whole different topic, as all those whose father are the devil - those who believe but do not obey the commandments of Jesus Christ- they live in perpetual sin against God, are rightly controlled by the one they belong to - John 8 vs 31 - 32 & John 8 vs 42 - 47

Looking at the bold statement and I can see you rushing your responses.

My dear friend, even an unbeliever knows what sin is. What is not a sin, is feeling sexual urges. Lusting is very different from feeling Hot. Horniness is part and parcel of a matured human in good health and spirits. It is why 1 Corinthians 7 says people should marry rather than burn.

I mentioned attacks to you, because the Bible says adultery is the only sin that involves the body. Someone has mentioned on this thread that the human mind is a battle field where different thoughts wage war. My point is taking the step further to engage in physical activity is giving in to temptation. Which opens the person to all sorts of stuff.

So, put yourself in God's position who do you show mercy to, people struggling with their bodies amidst temptations, bombardments, and walking in righteousness, or a person who disrespects God's word irreverently by committing as much adultery as possible?

By the way, you have cleverly sidelined the mention of the Holy Spirit again.

kkins25:
hehehehe.. i laugh in jamaican.. I wonder why some established men have sacrificed their reputation and life over non educated house maids and sidechicks. beats me. I remember one certain nollywood movie where d man only preferred village women. can't recall the name of the lead act.

You are factually incorrect when you mention side chicks. Side chicks could be educated.

I agree with the fact that some men prefer maids but that is purely on a sexual level. Those men have conditioned their minds to accept the barest minimum because they want to knack.

All men do not act the same.

Optimistic4life:
Made up?

It's not.

Good morning, you are doing well. Stay strong and healthy. Things will change with time.

Romans 12.12 should motivate you.

It is not about submissiveness only, some men avoid drama.

By the way, not everyone goes to the village to get a wife, the proportion you mentioned, which go to the village have a specific mentality.

Just as men have preferences about a woman's body, some men also prefer simple characters instead of drama queens who cannot reason beyond materialism.

Be specific about the category of men you are talking about.

An educated man can not enjoy companionship with an uneducated woman. The thread binding them will only be intercourse and mundane matters, they can never connect on an intellectual level. And this means the man will definitely prefer a different woman as time goes by.

You are probably referring to semi-literate men who learned a skill after secondary school. While all men are men, there are differences in orientation, quality and outlook.

I personally love intelligent women especially female lawyers. Men who are afraid of a woman's education belong to the last century.

Kobojunkie:
1. You have never in fact read up on Jesus Christ, have you?

The sin of sexual lust is called adultery...this by Jesus Christ, so if she has in fact had sexual lust, she has committed adultery - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28

2. Lol... Jesus Christ did not say only those who do all you claim are those who belong to Him. Instead, Jesus Christ said that those who continue to accept and obey His teachings are those who belong to Him - they are His followers- John 8 vs 31 - 32 & John 8 vs 42 - 47 & & John 14 vs 15 - 25 & John 15 vs 14. Try to spend actual time reading through the Gospel aka New Covenant so you understand God's Truth as presented you by Jesus Christ from that which you have probably been fed through listening to the lies of men.

Without boasting you are pretty wrong with all you say.

Concerning adultery when Jesus was teaching about "looking and lusting" from a real perspective no one can attack you from looking at a woman lustfully as a man.

However, take a step further and sleep with that woman and you have opened yourself up to severe spiritual attacks.

Now, I know you don't understand Christianity because I mentioned the Holy Spirit but you are talking about the new covenant, have you read the book of Hebrews? Or Paul's explanation in Romans?

Do you think I am speaking of theoretical knowledge of God? No.

I am speaking of the practical knowledge of God. That is what Jesus was, the word that became flesh. And the Holy Spirit he promised gives gifts for people to show God's power in human vessels.

I know Jesus, do you have a practical experience of Jesus? Do you have practical testimonies about Jesus? Well, I do.

Because the Bible even says "The letter killeth, but the spirit maketh alive". You can interpret the Bible how you like but you CAN'T control the Holy Spirit or expect him to dwell with you in error.

On to your comments about the teachings of men, Jesus said in Acts 1 vs 8, and ye shall receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you.

The testimonies of the power of the Holy Spirit is in the book of Acts, so why are you quoting Scripture and rejecting the words of Jesus? Perhaps you haven't read beyond the Gospels?

When the Bible says if you love me obey my commandments, has she committed adultery? No.

Kobo, I know you haven't received the Holy Spirit that is why you are talking whatever you like. When you receive gifts of vision, singing in Tongues, healing and other spectacular spiritual gifts, your life will never remain the same, because you will seek to spend more time in God's presence.

Kobojunkie:
Prayer does not take one's mind away from such things, neither does having what you call gifts of the spirit or baptism of the Holy Spirit doe any such. Also, going on a Starvation diet which many refer to as fasting also doesn't doesn't dead the body of sexual lust. Instead what does is doing as Jesus Christ commanded in John 8 vs 31 - 32 , a form of mental discipline.

Prayer directs your mind to spiritual things.

Stop misquoting the Bible.

You need to make some friends. Get on the street and get involved with the people you see every day.

I applaud your awareness but it came rather late. If you calmly beg your cousin's gf telling her you have been bored and that's was why you flared up, she might understand.

Please try to control your temper. That's very important.

You are not lusting after another person and feeling sexual urges is normal. It is not a sin.

In this situation, you need to find something to take your mind off sex. Pray more, ask for the gifts of the spirit and the baptism of the Holy Spirit, probably fast if you can because that's one major way of regulating your body and mind.

At your age, you are healthy and lively so this situation is normal.

The gen was taken for business.

If you lose your source of income, they will laugh behind your back and in your face if things get worse.

You did nothing wrong! If things were easy your brother will not complain.

Please do your best to remain productive, especially as your fiance is experiencing financial difficulties.

The end!

Is she really 43 or is that her football age?

I am really confused here because she was married in the 90's.

Her first marriage was to Mr Aboderin, a brother to Wumi Obe, the chubby woman on Charlie boy show always appearing with her husband.

saphiere:
Why do men act foolishly when they see vagina?

Why do some women use vagina as ATM?

The puzzle has been solved on this thread.

Ijesha slept with Princess, that's his business.

You were caught on camera making advances towards an under-aged girl.

No one forced you, no one induced you, yet you were grabbing a girl who you said you knew was Princess' daughter?

Within a period of less than an hour that the woman left her house?

Esabod claimed you wanted to tear her a new hole when she saw the size of your phallus, she respected her age and declined because of your size.

What's the attraction to the little girl? Why?

No one can advise you better on how to manage your wife but try to complete your house now that she isn't around.

Some women act unreasonably out of anger while they have very little to offer in terms of help.

She's the one losing as things stand. Because what she could have achieved with patience، she feels violence and anger can do it faster.

Focus on yourself. When she becomes hungry she will return to you with your kids. As long as you didn't chase her out, you are not necessarily obliged to send her money.

She already has a plan to sustain herself don't let her use your children to blackmail you.

Couples should communicate and be reasonable.

AngelicBeing:
Why did you say mfm has changed, kindly explain

May God spare our lives so that we see the end of the year. Some revelations will surface this year.

Bro call this prophet of CAWERM Ministries Ikotun.
Prophet Segun Adebayo.
08033839666.
May God help you!

MFM don change o, no be like before.

568k before allowances... Bros go and pray, but on the surface, I will choose the African country.

A friend who is a PhD student in Spain went to Netherlands for an opportunity to collaborate internationally.

So, take the opportunity.

Gunners!

Salute!

Abeg block the roads so civil servants can sleep at home.

kushme:
Biden, you and your intelligence "I too know" units are just causing uncertainty in the capital market.

And if Putin doesn't invade Ukraine in the next 48hours, then you should stop disturbing and confusing investors. Annoying thing.

It has started, so who was wrong?

I heard Putin will die this year.

He humiliated a spy chief, now he has started a war.

Sennacherib vibes!

Problem for Nigerian citizens, and blessings for FG Oil revenue.

Ndi Twitter & Nairaland that said Putin was just playing a game, hope you see that your analysis was off and the heat of war has begun.

RIP!

Sad reminder of a time when Nigeria was better.

No electricity.

No fuel.

Serious heat.

Abuja update.

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Someone's prayer has been answered...

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