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OROSUNBOLB:
Baba you get time o!

Out of 24hrs, 10 mins to type isn't too much. I have a job in a multinational firm (by God's grace), have a wife and two kids and I still take our time to organize myself. I also give time for my kids too. So don't sound like I'm jobless, it's all abt setting priority. OK why didn't I answer you since? It's because i've been busy at work.

So Nigerians sha! Una can talk arrogantly as if someone is jobless. At least u had time to read through.

Mtcheew

Muafrika2:
Is plastic surgery a sin?

If you are looking for the word plastic surgery in the bible you won't find it or you expect it to be listed as a sin, then you shouldn't be looking at the bible.

However, there are two ways the bible talks about things like this. Mind you, when the Apostles wrote the bible this sort of thing wasn't in the world then but it was listed under two things.

1. Vanity 2. Immorality which are both Unrighteousness.

Are these two things sinful? YES they are!

One thing you must know is that plastic or cosmetic surgery has SEX written all over it as long as it is not to correct a deformation by birth or accident and that is immorality. Mind you, God didn't create any child deformed, at times it is the pills mothers take or during birth that a child gets deformed or position of a child in the womb.

Why do you think they say oh she looks sexy? Enhancement of the breast, hips, buttocks, lips, eyes, etc; all lead to one thing and that is putting up a sexy look (an attraction) becos the people involved have confidence issue with how they look. You don't have to be a queen to be confident and proud of yourself. You may say that is not the intention but believe it when I say that is the out come and most women do it to become attractive. Why is it that it's only something that shows the body shape that is regarded as being sexy? That's the word the devil has given to mankind in the name of fashion to fool people with. Everything comes down to sex (immorality). You get sex from the word sexy based on appearance and Na bed e go end up. If she's not sleeping with you, she's doing it with someone else becos men will run after your bumbum ooo.

A woman that will wear something like female Agbada or cover herself up like a true African woman will not be regarded as being sexy unless the bumbum is shooting out from the wrapper that's the only time they will say sexy mama. Being sexy is down to backside and breasts; which can lead to fornication/corruption of the mind. People with implants in the buttock, checkout the kind of clothes they wear because you have to flaunt it. The process of the surgery self is immoral becos you have to be naked before strangers when it's not as if you are in labour or a sick patient.

There are some scriptures that talks about vanity, immorality and righteousness.


Proverbs 31:30 Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.

..... the point here is if you fear God you won't try to manipulate His creation. That's like trying to manipulate sin into self righteousness and God hates that. That's what western nations do. Self righteousness by calling the truth of God a lie. They justify sin.

1 John 2:16 For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world.

.......desire of the flesh wanting to satisfy the flesh (the thoughts of the mind). Desire of the eyes is lusting after physical things and pride of life is.... oh, I wanna be miss bumbum to feel prideful that you are sexy or a hot commodity, I want to have this or that to oppress them. Many of us are guilty of this cos it's not only in one area.

Colossians 3:5 Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry

2 Timothy 3:1-5 But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people.


Let me stop here so that it doesn't become so long than it is already but the point is that it is a sin if it is not a corrective surgery, after when Peter cut off someone's ear Jesus mended it back right away. That may be regarded as spiritual surgery but it was a case of deformation. Don't ask me if a sagging breast is deformation that's why you went and shook something inside but the question me I will you is..... do you have cancer? one cut commot?

This is long I know but hopefully it will answer all your questions but the one you already asked and the one in your mind..

There is one way that seems right in the eyes of men but that way (cosmetic surgery in this context) leads to destruction.

Liliyann:
Nothing wrong in her working on her body.
Most of you guys should stop body shaming ladies.

Sister, some things are not Christian-like or even born again that she claims. There is nothing wrong with what she is doing on the flip-side but why contradict it by claiming to be born again?

Did she become born again under duress?

InansBobo:
Why u d hide the registration number? So we don't confirm right?

Na wah for you ooo! This is social media, do u have to post everything? Infact let me warn you, mind the kind of information of yoursef you put on social media. The internet never forgets and it has no secret ooo. Things could hunt you, this one that there are enemies everywhere.

Even this info he shared self, make him village people nor see am oo because Na dere Dem go sey him name nor come out. (just kidding).

But joking apart, everyone on the Internet is a stranger so you don't have to put everything about yourself, not even pictures.

donstan18:
Young man, stop making mockery of yourself by sounding pointless with all your epistle.

What exactly are you arguing about?

You are just typing with no direction, highlight a point and counter my instances.

Obviously u are confused.

My points are valid, simple and straight.

1. How can a man who earns 50k live in such luxury that you claim?

2. In an ideal world especially in Africa, how many couple have different rooms in a flat or duplex? The percentage is very little. So must the OP fall in that class? Staying in a diff room means a lot and their sex life will suffer. People are wiser now! White couples won't do it not to talk of blacks.

3. The OP is looking for sympathy and it's clear. OP painted himself as a poor man (who lives in luxury as you claim he has rooms) but his wife is better off in terms of earnings, yet she's sleeping outside.

Condom and money!

1. Condom because he is not satisfying her sexual since they share separate rooms, so she's flirting.
2. Money because she needs money despite she's probably earning well since he is broke.

Which of the two is the OP accusing her of?

You are confused as the story. Argue on!

donstan18:
You called it luxury because he currently earns 50k, what if he use to earn higher before that made him acquire that apartment.? answer!

I can't remember telling you that I didn't see where OP wrote that she has her own room, I simply asked you highlight it for me, so that i'll clear you on that fact that couples having multiple and different rooms doesn't necessary mean that the couples don't leave together in a room.

OK now u have taken it to be that he probably was rich before becos I have made it clear that such a setting you are painting (having separate rooms and still live in one) is luxury which will mean 2 or 3 bedroom for the couples alone. You are very funny honestly and a typical Nigerian man who will argue to the last even when you are wrong.

Did he say he was rich before? Yoursef answer me!!!

This is simply psychological, a brain work. You have to analyze things before talking. The OP painted a picture that makes him the victim so that he will attract sympathy and if he lost his job or was rich before, he will quickly state it just to sweeten the story and give an excuse for why the wife was cheating on him.

Did he explain why she cheats? Whether he was impotent due to accident after their kids? Or If he was terrible in bed? Or if he doesn't have time for the woman based on work or being busy? Or he was broke? The only thing he said was money in her bag just to paint a picture that her action was driven by money and attract sympathy but this is a woman he said was earning more than him which could be good money or satisfying enough.

If the woman earns well, money "may" not be the reason for doing that becos I have listed possible reasons. However, all is still bad but I'm just saying the OP is creating a picture that would make him get sympathy and accuse her indirectly.

If he was rich before, trust me he would say it because that would put the woman in a more guilty position that she's cheating becos he is now broke.

Oga use your head naa! The man's story is not neat and that's why I didn't believe it. It's questionable.

donstan18:
You alone should cool down and read a possible meaning to story lines brO, having different rooms mustn't mean you don't leave together in a room.

Some rooms in buildings just bear the wife's name, even when she's living together in her husbands room.

Think brO........Think.

Yes naa! That's still luxury for someone who earns 50k and the wife's room is also a suite cos it has separate toilet and perhaps separate bath room too.

Baba use your brain naaaaa! Just give up arguing. Even the point you made makes little sense because it still doesn't fit the kind of picture the OP painted. You wan just argue.

Firstly, u didn't see where he said she has her own room, after I showed u now, u dey wan twist am. Having a room inside a room. That's one of the dumbest things I have read today becos it's out of context based on the story line.

See below naaa! Wetin the guy talk nor clear enuf? Which one is room inside another room? They clearly don't share same room.

gamelove:
So today, I got back home from work, walk into my wife’s room but didn’t see her. I called her name loudly and she answered from the Toilet and I told her it was me so she won’t get worried thinking it was a strange that entered her room.

donstan18:
Did the story say that they leave in different rooms?

gamelove:
So today, I got back home from work, walk into my wife’s room but didn’t see her. I called her name loudly and she answered from the Toilet and I told her it was me so she won’t get worried thinking it was a strange that entered her room.

Baba, if you dey read try to dey cool down. As seen above, the wife has her own room and obviously he will have his own too. Trust me, this story is fake as the OP's name suggest. Gamelove

donstan18:
You obviously couldn't confront your wife because she earns more than you, are you that weak?

Had it been she's a housewife, would you have asked for our advise without confronting her?

How on earth can a man of the house see such things in her wife's bag and couldn't confront her or ask questions, are you scared to let her know that you went to her bag?


I detest WEAK men, they irritate me.

Keep on going from forum to forum to complain until you contact HIV from her.

What nonsense!!

You too funny! Save your zeal and energy because that is a fake story. So you believe all these things bloggers?

Someone that earns 50k and painted a picture that he is not doing well financially has money to stay in an apartment that he and his wife have separate bedrooms. Did he tell us what the wife earns? NO!

If the wify wants to be doing runs, will she be the one carrying condom about? She get diick? Haba! That is a joke becos ordinarily it won't happen.

That story is just focused on 100k and a pack of condom, then he concludes she's with a man. Since she has money, why can't she have 100k she probably wanna use for something? I'm sure Na the man get the condom but he's dumb enuf to remember it.


Anyways, let's pretend the story is true? Why on earth will a man allow his wife to sleep in a different room? Na you push her outside with your own hand ooo! Even if I have a mansion, Na one room, one bed, else you will be creating a gap and you won't know it until your spouse will just lost taste of you.

babatee4all:
Thanks for your observations we sell cars due to 1. value 2. neatness 3. durability well if u had call me and make more enquiries i would have told u so many things u don't even know about that car above remember i never said that car is not negotiable? pls make some effort to talk to me privately u will never regret having that car and that is my selling point. There are some used car that is even better than in terms of durability and less stressful do u agree wit me?

Absolutely!! I didn't say it's not clean and the fact that it's negotiable is very good and it's Uber friendly too (makes it great). I'm sure you will get a bargain (a good deal) for it very soon.

This car should be going for 700k from the exteriors, it doesn't really look as exotic as toyota Camry (Envelop and big daddy) that the Nigerian use is sold for 950k to 1.1M.

As at last week, there is a camry (big daddy) of about 6months old on Nigerian road going for 1.2M but a serious buyer will get it at 1M I'm sure.

I'm not spoiling your market but just feel the car is over valued.

apexJ:
always suffering wardrope malfunction

she no geh friends wey de talk to her

Why are you talking like this? Don't be fooled, it is delibrate. These people know what they are doing and it is for them to make headlines. You can't keep having wardrope malfunction all the time. These women are whores and their dressing says it all. Nikky booty, even while she was twerking is all over the Internet, so what else?

It's part of the plan for her boob to pop out on stage and she gets heavily paid for it by the organizers. It's a game!

It's not like in Nigeria when everything is free. In a movie in Hollywood, even if na your head you shave, they will pay you for it not alone being naked in a film. It's business.

SamoaJoe:
Your Mbaise people are very terrible in bride price. Till date, Mbaise is the worst place to marry from Igbo land.They will demand an arm and leg for bride price!

Very beautiful fair Queens with terrible characters and toxic, life sucking attitudes. I have never seen a place with high concentration of beauties more than Mbaise people. But the problem with them is that its also the place with a high co concentration of evil and wickedness. Quote me anywhere!

Na vex you take talk am

Baba, Na to kill oyen Mbaise first oo before you kpake snake oo. Na so Dem talk am.

Funny enuf, I once had an Mbaise girl friend and I decided we can't marry becos of a singular stunt she pulled. Just becos I got closer to her niece as par friend level, this babe came to my house with a knife to fight me oo. Just because you claim to be suspecting me and your niece which is not even what she think. SHE CAME WITH A KNIFE ALL THE WAY FROM HER HOUSE TO MY HOUSE TO QUARREL WITH ME.

Na there you go fear oyin-mbaise oo! Na to run for your life ooo.

That was where I decided this can't be the lady I should marry oo. So if we quarrel, Na to wait make I sleep then forget knife for my Belle. To leave her nkor? E nor easy ooo but I succeed. Today I'm married to a sweet delta ibo sweet heart.

classicMan22:
is not much na

You dey see Dem? "Is not much na".

Have you considered the cost in Naira value?

dafeyankee:
Op stop lying.

The stuff I am seeing on this pix has to be for 3 weddings. No way that is for one person or one wedding.

OK, why will they put items from three weddings together, owned by three different people? Them write their name on top? Besides, HOW ON EARTH CAN YOU TELL FROM THE PITCURE THAT THE ITEMS BELONGS TO THREE DIFFERENT PEOPLE? THE MAN INSIDE THE PICTURE NA EIM TELL YOU? It looks more likely owned by one person that three people.

Abeg use sense talk naaa! Nor be today an average igbo man dey sell eim daughter in the name of marriage. Greed!

Giddymoney:
Front page loading........

Dem dey pay person for front page?

This thread is very tribal and it's capable of causing division as well as hate. I wonder what Mynnd44 is doing.

Bros, abeg do your work naa!

Nigerian women are beautiful irrespective of the tribe. The only Mrs world (Darego) we have produced is neither yoruba, Fulani or igbo.

Ena nor get knife? You for kukuma kill the man naaaa!!

These ladies know what they are doing, they are all gold diggers.

PrettySleek:
Some people who know Adams claimed he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder some years ago. I don't know if u hv heard about it but the disease consists of both a depressive state and a manic state that's means he can extremely happy one minute and depressed in a few minutes. During d depressive stage, suicide is very common. My only concern is that, if this claim is true den y was he allowed to b alone? Families are always advised to b close to such person, he should hv been going to school from home so that his parents would know when his crisis starts or a trusted friend should hv been told to keep an eye on him. I know one person will quote me and say who can care for a mad man? It's dangerous. True but everyone needs love, mad or not. Just b careful while doing so. By d way, Rip Adams, my friends always talked about u, although I never met u, I could tell u had an impart on so many lives while u were alive. U will b remembered.

Hummmmm! Honestly this things you wrote now is making me very angry, which the below story is probably true which I hoped it wasn't. Honestly, it's very sad. While I was reading, the first thing that crossed my mind is.......WHY DID THEY ALLOW HIM STAY ALONE? I understand he is an adult and would want to live his life but you stay close to such people. I just hate the part where he took his own life. Suicide is a massive sin.

Thank God he didn't Carry out genocide in the course of his anger. I blame the family.

adorh:
Heard the news yesterday night and thought it was a Rumour, i hope it stays that way though

Yea, me too but what's the source? Was it on any national news agency or on TV? Shiit happens but I'm not convinced yet, hoping it's not true.

emperortony:
Adams had mental issues? Really?? Are you saying he had mental issues because he took is life or because you really knew him like u claim?

Or the computer in his brain has knocked or shut down? If he did, then how come he went all the way to 500L in Engineering and was even on first class, unless Na the book affect him brain.

That faculty (engineering) was my faculty way back in uniben and it was even during my years there that uniben created department of computer Engineering, then it stated with a 2-year diploma program, so I'm touched by this news.

Could it be that they killed him make him for nor grag? Na engine boys we dey talk abt here oo! Forget abt that part that says him lock himself from inside, that made the story questionable sef saying the sister from another campus had to be the one to discover the body.

That part sounds like a Micky mouse story. No room mates? No neighbours? Was it in Ekosodin, bdpa, osasogie or hostel? Where did he stay? The story is half baked.

Of cos he knew the sister was travelling all the way down, so he hung himsef because he doesn't wanna see her; or was the another campus referring to Ekewan campus, while the alleged diseased was at ugbowo campus? Stories like this should be detailed because bloggers are liars.

SolexxBarry:
I do think of it at times before now like does it arouse women when their babies suck their breast and a lady answered on the affirmative,i think its normal shes just the first to admit it publicly

She's a LovePeddler and it's clear. She's probably a single mother who gave birth by mistake.

It's a thing of the mind, else how can your baby arouse you? That's a dirty mind and masturbating means having MouthAction that involves your own child. An infant or a toddler! What a mother!!

Even if you feel aroused, saying it publicly defines her kind of person. No shame or moral at all. SHE WILL COMMIT INCENSE, it's a matter of time unless that child is not a boy. If na girl child, lesbianism is loading becos the child will watch you do it and you transfer that your demon into the poor child.

So SolexxBarry, don't see anything good in what she said oo. She is abusing that child.

Bamz:
Why do you want this on FP?

I need just 3 reasons

Nor mind am! Why him nor copy obasanjo and buhari?

SKhanmi:
Mr Real man go soon dey lean anyhow soon, just wait & see. By the way, let's stop encouraging this abnormalities (obesity& anorexia)

The guy sef knows that's why he is not smiling at all.

DabLord:
I will join yahoo yahoo for a month,after collecting like 10m i will go to Russia to learn the True art of hacking then return to Nigeria to hack Saraki,Gej,PMB,Abacha's family,Tunubu,Amaechi,Fashola infact all the past,present and future looter bank account

This your write up is reckless and detrimental and Nairaland can be sued for this. Don't joke with politicians ooo.

You have broken article 7 of the Nairaland security act.
Cc: Mynnd44

chukslawrence:
Trust Nigerians nah, they don't dull. Look for a way sharply

NA TO WRITE ANSWERS FULL THAT CARD-BOARD PAPER; NA THERE YOU GO FEAR 9IJA NAAA!

NOBODY GO FAIL ESPECIALLY IF THE ANSWERS NA OBJ.

Na dere you go fear-fear naa!

Corruption get grade and level oo.

Bahddo:
It's your camera. Snap very bright artificial light at close zoom, and you'd have similar results.

Me I just tire oo! In this life, there is nothing like ufo or aliens; they are all conspiracy. God didn't create any other form of being except humans and the only human-like creature that may now exist are demons (which is what they call aliens). An alien is a stranger living in a foreign land, like a Nigerian living in New york.

Even when u snap someone, at times the camera changes your eyes and put a bright orange light and you look like a vampizo. It's basically the camera and physics should explain beta.

BankeSmalls:
There's market for goods in Lagos and no market for goods in other places? People who prosuce in Aba sell most of it in Onitsha and expot goods too to Cameroon, north and middle belt.

Yea, excluding a large market hub like Lagos