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Vendoor:
Men and infidelity are like-

Don't believe everything you read on social media. Do you really think a guy is cheating wouldn't have password on his fone or laptop? The husband had since gone to work and the computer would have hibernated since he used it the night before. For her to wake the system from hibernation she has to provide the password.

I don't believe this story.

However, let's just pretend it's true (just in case someone else needs an advise). For me, it's not wise for a lady to quickly make a decision of divorce just after 3 days without given him a chance to repent now that he is married. Marriage can change a lot of things, children can change a lot of things by the time responsibility start to come in.

The question is does he care for you and treat you nice? Does he respect you even though he cheats? If all these boxes are ticked then he stand a beta chance to repent. Even the ex will be a fool to still stick around now that he is married. Don't worry, the marriage is just 3 days old, the lady will soon realize she's wasting her time with him; even the man will soon realize he is married.


It's good that she even found out on time so that she can address it. It's not news naa, 97.3% men are cheat and if you marry another one because of that then you may have same issue. In marriage, let God fight for you through prayer but if you act in your own wisdom or what your friends say, you may just act stupidly. Don't expect the man to stop overnight especially the one that loves sex so much.

If he is attracted to just a lady (his ex) then it's easy but if he is attracted to sex, it means he will change the girls he flirt with, so don't expect such a man to change overnight. It was during one of his sexual escapades that he met you and became friends to the point of marriage. At times sef, some women will force the guy into marriage and cry he is a play boy magazine actor and want him to stop over night. Divorce is not a solution to infidelity, it has never been.

Op, you worst o! Take bullet for this drum or human being? For your information, body like this only make sense for inside clothe but if she off her clothe, you go wan vomit. Na contour go full am cos e nor go get beta shape.

tifany89:
Why not just prove me wrong by commenting like someone with just a little atom of sense ehn haba, so anybody that doesn't agree with your senseless narratives automatically becomes IPOB. Dude whenever I see ignorant people commenting I try my possible best to call them to order, but it seems your case is beyond redemption so I enjoy your folly . Bye forever

Hahahaha! You dey run? You have nothing to offer madam and it's clear. Take your frustration elsewhere. It's obviously you are an Ipob terrorist becos I can sense the pain, anger and aggression in your text.

OK, how did u call me to order? What sense did you make? What was your point exactly? All you did was insult in your first mention becos you are pained, yet your tiny brain can't even come up with fact to prove me wrong. Just go cook soup abeg, you belong to the kitchen with your egusi brain.

Bro, lesson number 1, don't ever train a girl in school unless she is already married to you.

Anyways, you should be happy you found out and didn't end up being fooled. Please look for someone else abeg.

You are kind and nice but a fool in love. Just hope this your story isn't fake oo cos your write does come cut it.

tk4rd:
You missed it..
The girl asked herself the questions and also answered..
It wasn't the assignment given

Perhaps!

Fake stories everywhere jare.

Where you from copy am (the guy above me) cos you nor first know am bfore.

Rokia2:
Peter so addicted to his phone.

Probably checking his Instagram.

Addicted? I tot it waz only one pishures that he was carrys his fones??

Anyways, Somebody waz ask if you waz not sleep at night? Have you chop winch craft?

crazygod:
This picture is an analogy of how Nigeria is today

Yea, fake and selfish leaders, fake captain. In Nigeria the captain (leader) is the first to abandon ship, while idly it's the other way around.

Wait first, which airforce 1 be that? The American jet or E-money errand boy?

Benita27:
I saw pictures of Dangote as a guest at DJ Cuppy's birthday thread, and I was amazed at what he wore to the event. You know what? After taking time to study the lifestyle of Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates, Dangote, and other great men, I realized that those who're rich don't have the time to be bragging over something they already have, it's the poor who brag in a bid to conform.

Airforce1, no one really cares about your brother if he's not on FORBE 100 most influential/richest in Africa. He still remains a nobody.

Summer Slam. #savage

tifany89:
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I don't v to know you to know that your life is very miserable as it is . From your rants it's obvious your are not okay mentally ,psychologically , spiritually and otherwise . Quoting the bible to suit your narratives ain't gon fly here so better look for Gullible people to deceive with your quotations . So it's from the bible u get inspiration to insult people , u r using Paul as a reference that he called galatians fool, just look at your life and how miserably myopic u are . You can afford to run your mouth anyhow you like coz u r hiding behind your phone. You think u can try this your nonsense in my face ? Clown

You are a slowpoke madam, it is clear. I'm not claiming saint here or holy, I only speak the truth concerning Jewish practice and the things kanu did. You are gullible but do not know becos you follow the crowd and don't even understand the meaning of fool.

Not only Paul, psalms and eclestiatics said it all. A fool thinks he is wise in his eyes. You are empty and its evidence but trying to be smart, yet you haven't disprove what I said than insult and when I called you a fool that you truly are then I'm insulting you. Did I even mention you in th first place? Take your frustration to Abuja not on me. Really? why you don't even have mouth is cos biafra failed, so shut up pls. Go and check the meaning of miserable and let's see who it best fit based on this argument. Where is biafra? Where is kanu?

It's your life that is miserable cos your leader eloped and you can't find you bearing especially now that you are regarded a terrorist . You are frustrated but really foolish to trust in man. Where is your biafran leader?

Hide behind my phone? Madam, I'm knowledgeable than you and you can't even face me one on one cos I will tear you part with the information I have without going off the context. When a fellow igbo man challenge kanu to a debate did he accept it? You guys do same and can even defend biafra with proper points without insults. Ok what sense have you made since? I have told u facts about your stupid dark dream that died, your enloped leader, explained the truth about jews and judaism; more over showed you that you are a fool based on your thinking becos it is out of context and pointless.

Okay, what is your point? Try making sense and prove me that all I analyzed is a lie.

Your biafran frustration knows no bound.

Na wah ooo, fire burn the motor remain? The guy come even put tyre for the back (for him mind na SUV him make).

This is a true definition of a motor car.
The guy try

loveth360:
see your life!

I never said you are muslim neither did i say you are yoruba but from this your reply it shows who you are,if you like deny from now till tomorrow i dont care.
Ok you are trying to tell me biafra will stop the gospel of christ.
What have you and your pastors achieve in nigeria,how many souls has they convert.and how many time have you and your pastors speak for the innocent people on the street,how many time have they speak against bad government,all they care is the money the poor and the politicians brings

for your information,Biafra must come and no man or gods can stop it.

You see your life??

Where did I say it will stop the gospel? I meant they will be serving a Jewish god thinking it's same Christ. Abi you don't know what deceit is? Your brain didn't carry it so I won't explain further.

All I know is the antichrist will disguise to be christ and ppl will follow him and thinking he is christ until he will show his true form. I'm not saying kanu is the antichrist because that's the next thing you will say since you can't comprehend it.

Yes, you called Muslims my brothers, so what do u perceive I am? If you are talking abt personality then why mention Muslims? Aren't Muslims your brothers too? Christians are also brothers and a lot of atheists too. Why didn't you mention them becos they need the gospel too. Abi u think it's all church goer like you who claim to be a Christian that knows the bible or the word of God?

I'm not preaching because I didn't mention heaven or he'll, I'm just telling you why I think biafra can't work under kanu. Period.

So did it fail or not?

tifany89:
The same u quoting and preaching the bible few minutes ago is the same person calling me a fool or don't u know what the bible says about calling someone a fool? You are just a low life nonentity with a foolish disregarded opinion so I guess u should be sensible enough to shove it where d sun doesn't shine coz no one needs it . One may be forced to think its not this same Nigeria tgat has injustice , nepotism ,evil, wickedness, killings and all as its national anthem. Does this even look like a country that has amy business with Christ? You r only just trying to be clever by half with your warped mentality but dude that aint flying . BIAFRA isnt your problem or the reasom why your life is miserable .Happy sunday

Yes you are a fool and knows nothing abt the bible.

Galatians 3:1King James Version (KJV)

3 O foolish Galatians, who hath bewitched you, that ye should not obey the truth, before whose eyes Jesus Christ hath been evidently set forth, crucified among you?

Didn't Paul call galatians fools? It's not an insult, I only tell you what you are based on what you said.

It's clear you lack information and proper reasoning. A fool indeed. Biafra is dead as evident.

My life miserable? Do you know me? Hahahaha!! You see, I said that you are a fool. How can you tell my personality and life over social media? If you are wise, you will know that managers in big firms are also on NL and a lot of responsible people too, as well as fools too.

Take your dead dream and biafran frustration somewhere else.

Ewu biafra.

loveth360:
my friend take this preaching to your muslim brothers,i think they need it most,

so you as now the one that determin who God bless.

And now you have made yourself judge over us,

for your mind God is not with we biafrans,if God is not with us by now there would be nothing like us today,not after you evil nigerians destroyed our land,sized our properties and our money too,hoping that we all will die but today we are stronger than before.

And for your info,what happen to the egyptians is what is about to happen you nigerians.

Hahahahahaha! Now I'm Muslim! How daft for you to think a Muslim will call Jesus LORD. I'm not Muslim and not even yoruba but I tell you the truth. God has plans for Africa, the world and Nigeria (the christians) will lead this end Time movement to retain the gospel and spread the word. The white race have forsaken the gospel and it now rest upon us now.

No man can divide this country, be it boko, biafra, avengers etc. They will only try but will stumble. You only see within what you know, so arguing with you is baseless. Judge over you? I'm just telling you th gospel and if anything I said can't be proven then you can question it. Besides, didn't the bible say we can judge if the judge is true? Did I judge igbos unto condemnation? Abeg go and read the bible and not some catholic bulletin that contains nothing.

Didn't Paul say know you not that we shall judge men and angels, yet we can't judge earthly matter?

◄ 1 Corinthians 6:3 ►

New International Version
Do you not know that we will judge angels? How much more the things of this life!

New Living Translation
Don't you realize that we will judge angels? So you should surely be able to resolve ordinary disputes in this life.

English Standard Version
Do you not know that we are to judge angels? How much more, then, matters pertaining to this life!



I tell you where I'm from you will not believe it. I'm not a crowd follower like you but I'm speaking scriptures and not some educational o psychological trash like the dude above me.

tifany89:
You are just spewing absolute nonsense and trash . Are your Christian inclined than the Igbos? That Kanu and some people are practicing Judaism does that mean majority of Igbos are doing same? You are just a hypocrite trying to use the bible to fool yourself only . Why are you so much concerned about Biafra when Nigeria is in shambles or r u saying Jesus Christ is present in Nigeria , some of u just come online to show your inadequacies . To think someone like u is supposedly educated irks me. Nigeria that is almost an Islamic country you are not bothered about its Jews that is your worry , better seek for knowledge coz as it is u need it

You see? You are blinded an a fool. Truth be told. Show me your leader and I will tell you what you are. This is spiritual and religion and not politics.

Already, I can see you are empty and pointless. You think this is a grammatical session? If God does not have a hand in Nigeria the church would have been wiped out. I'm more worried abt Christians converting into something else. Olodo! Why shud I worry abt what is Islam?

Don't let me start with you on that. How is Nigeria almost Islam? Is it official? Does we vote by tribe or religion? Thought you have a brain!

Don't even let me start. Abi becos of boko haram? Aren't they operating in the north only? You are fool bro.

loveth360:
God bless biafra

Which God? The one true God whose only son is Jesus the messiah or the biafrian god of judaism who doesn't regard Jesus as the saviour?

You think a jew is same as being a believer of Jesus Christ? The moment judaism was added to it, Biafra failed from day 1 (spiritual realm where battles are first dealt it) and it's an anti-Jesus movement so which God are you talking about? Kanu only talks of our ancestors, I have never heard him call Jesus the saviour or our LORD.

It's not surprising biafra failed and remained in a ditch because the foundation is without the true God. Igbos would have been converted from Christianity into judaism and still think they are following God. Many fools already said they are igbo-Jews.

You think a jew is affiliated with Jesus Christ because Christ was born Jewish? No! The bible says Jesus came to save the world but to save the Jews first, then the gentiles according to book of Romans written by the great apostle Paul. The bible tells us we have 3 types of people on earth. The Jews, the gentiles, then the church. Of these 3 where do you think the LORD is present?

This is the end time and with the failure of "kanu-led" biafran regime, God just saved the igbo race from a great calamity that will before the Jews (who does not regard Jesus as the messiah based on Jewish practice) as said by the bible. Why does kanu has to be converted into a Jews to lead biafran? There is a motive behind it but let me not tell you, else this post gets longer than it is already but know it today that Jesus Christ is not present in biafra.

Kanu is only a prophet but a false one at that. The bible says many false prophets shall arise towards the end, claiming to be the messiah and kanu was one. The biafra he preaches is spiritual and religious (Jewish) but Jesus is not the foundation based on what his adopted Jewish religion belief.

Being a jew, technically kanu compares himself with Jesus Christ and the people sing accordingly.....

Holy! Holy!! Holy!!!
Nnamdi Kanu is another saviour.

You see?

Technically, kanu compares himself with Jesus the messiah and was being worshipped. You may deny it but pictures/videos showed people bowing to him and women put their clothes on the ground for him to walk through like a king, just as when Jesus (the king) had his triumphant entry into Jerusalem.

MhizzAJ:
Al these male corpers self

Me just tire for the Mata oo! Don't know what to believe again self. Under what subject do you ask SS3 what is liquid milk and what is bleep room?

Anyways I see nothing wrong with the answers she gave because those were stupid questions. Which one is liquid milk? I thought milk is milk whether liquid or powder form. Then bleep room? Haba, op abeg get sense naa.

If you don't flirt with those children they won't give you such an answer.

Another fake story spotted.

Yeye dey smell. Gucci dey sell fake nose? By the way, why this guy dey always carry this "Ecolac bag"? Na wah o, him nor dey reach where him dey travel go?

This life ehn, may God help us.

I remember clearly when you imo people were celebrating this man that he is this, he is that. The man has his own money, he is a millionaire and won't be a bad leader etc.

Today nkor? Well, at least him nor chop una money instead they build cartoon characters all over town. Blacks have failed over and over again. Who we go ever get to bail us out?

Mickey mouse governor.

Very childish

PureWaterNylon:
Airforce i No Like All These Things You Doing. You Just De Fall Ibo people Hand... Why Show Off

Na ibo boy him be?

Afrimeg:
Well, I won't insult you... Read the news first before castigating me... Is Artist olamide the only olamide in this country?

Learn to read first!!!

Then why did you make the headline look as if it is badoo you are referring to? At first I thought same thing too and I'm sure you did to pull traffic to this thread, so don't complain becos you deserve what you are getting. Olamide badoo is the biggest olamide in this country for now in terms of fame.

austinereds:
have to admit the network have been bad for the past few days.

Did you say few days? My mum will disagree with you oo becos for something close to a year now I have always heard her complain about glo. Like today I tried calling her the thing just dey act up but as soon as I called her second line, Na once e enter.

I do not have a glo line for years now.

Tonymario58:
You're not correct

Baba specify where I nor correct naa. You can't say everything I said is wrong.

kelvinUchiha:
Hi Nairalanders,

I just packed into a new house last month and things have been moving really fast for me. So much stress and I had spent a lot of money furnishing my apartment and moving stuffs. So, two weeks ago my neighbour came to my house to greet me(as new neigbour things) I was very excited because she was beautiful and around my age bracket. I told her to come in, this was around 11:00 am i offered her a drink and we were talking about so many things.

I found out she was just my type of girl quiet and intelligent. We talked about the previous tenants and she told me my house was fine. I was happy, I said finally all the stress from packing was worth it. She left by 6:45 pm that day. The next day, I saw her spreading clothes outside so I approached her, we greeted and she asked me if I've eaten. I said no so she said she cooked spaghetti and she would bring for me. She arrived with the food, I thought to myself this must be a wife material o. We were both eating till she said let her feed me. Like play like play I'd feed her and she'd feed me. Before I said Jack Robinson we were already kissing and smooching.

I wasn't with my condom and I wasn't prepared but I felt this girl was a nice and innocent girl. She probably just likes me. So I gently removed her clothes like a gentle man and we had sex. I swore to myself I won't release early or get tired so at least she would feel me and come back for more.
We enjoyed ourselves, we were happy and I know she enjoyed it as well, she held my hand and we were stack naked gisting for about 20 minutes staring at each others eyes.

So eventually she went home.

After three days, I went to ease myself only to see white pus from my penis that morning. I was so surprised. My heart started beating and I rushed to my phone I googled it and I got things like UTI, gonorrhea, staph, HIV. I was really scared. I called her, she came and she was normal. I didn't tell her about it. I just wanted to find out if she purposely gave it to me but she seemed like she didn't know. I travelled home to see my mum.
I went for test spent about 3k for urethral swab, blood test and urine analysis.

It came back positive for Staphylococcus. I was so annoyed at myself for not using a condom the same time relieved that it was negative for HIV. I spent a total of 9k on drugs and injection and I came back home. Mind you, I bought two packs of condom in case.

I like this girl and she likes me but I wasted one week treating the staph without telling her and if I tell her now she would see me as a bad person and I don't know how she would react if I tell her she gave it to me. I'm really confused because I don't want to lose the relationship. My mind is telling me not to tell her and continue using condom( she's very sweet) but I love her and I don't want it to be harmful to her but she may decide not to give me sex again. I'm worried.

Please for matured minds okay. Its really important, life is at stake.
Thanks.

This your story sounds like a play becos a lot of people just come here and cook of lies, wasting people's time.

The only thing I want to remind you is that you shouldn't think you are free from that Staph oo. Several medical report says injections don't cure things like that but manages the problem (damage control). If you enter big local buses for Lagos sef, dem go educate you well well.

If you also Google it, you'd see there is no straight cure for staph which can pose long term danger to your liver cos it graduates to hepatitis B if it stays a very long time in your body. You can confirm from google.

Staph they say is very very very stubborn to treat. How many very did I mention?

https://www.nairaland.com/202772/does-it-really-mean-there?


Worry about your health rather than sex or the lady who is obviously already infected too. If this story is true, then what makes you think she doesn't know she has staph? Infects show up fast in ladies than men who can have it for months or years without knowing.

SmellingAnus:
it's not about trusting them... I will still stick to DSTV... It's about Dstv having a good competition so that they can crash down the subscription fees and even render a better service

Well, I use the DSTV explora, so I'm sticking to it too. It gives me a lot of option such as catch-up, extra view, recording option etc.

However, I like it too if competition is stiff becos my subscription will reduce too but it doesn't necessarily have to be as cheap as tstv; let it just drop very well. Besides, dstv is guarantee but the future of tstv has to be tested too to see if it will become like star-times, HITV etc

There are a lot of stunt that tstv will pull much later and you guys will be shocked. I don't see that 20GB data continuing for more than 6 months. For now, they need pull and later they will not only increase tariff like every other Nigeria company that uses fuel to power generator, they will change just to increase their profit margin.

SmellingAnus:
Nice move.... DSTV don too make guy... Although them dey loyal small these days...

So you actually trust this TSTV people? Don't make me laff. I can see where this is going to already. They have missed the first step already.

So what has Jesus got to do with your immoral act? Abeg show little reference for that name at least.

LuvU2:
We need black men with brains, inventors not "classless niggas". Thnx America for letting us know once more

Quote me and get a kiss

Oya where is my kiss

When I was saying it here that day some people were talking nonsense becos I compared TSTV to HITV. Actually, I said they have to do their home work well so that they don't go the HITV but some over sabi people were talking off. I sighted that it will be hard to beat DSTV on football, especially EPL because HITV tried it and they packed up. Don't get me wrong oo, I wish TSTV works so that the tarrif for dstv will come down. I use the the explora and I know how much I'm paying every month. It's too much.

There is a rumour that Bein sport will not be aired on TSTV and that they themselves have removed it from their adverts or logo. This might be part of the delay why they are hibernating.

Seeing this lies and promise that are not fulfilled, buying TSTV will look like an error oo.

Did you say first class in Physics and Elect? Your head dey hot!!

At this stage of my life, or even mention mathematics for where I dey if you nor want make we quarrel.

I mean oo, you self go even think sey we get fight before.