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quote me Igbo started every problem in nigeria.
Igbo started tribalism,started coup,first politician to be accessed of corruption is Nnamdi an Igbo man,the constitution they screem about,Igbo made the most of it,federalism they screem about igbos brought it.name the issue in nigeria Igbo started it.

Philgafauto:
Igbos might be irritants but they did not cause Nigeria's wahala. In fact, if they can get it right with leadership, unity and cohesion, they will be ready for Nigeria's imminent collapse.

They just need visiionary leaders. Peter Obi might be an idealist but his defeat (through massive electoral fraud) and the subsequent hate by the APC and certain sections of yoruba society is the needed tonic fior Igbos to wake up and commence economic and military preparation for the conflagration that Nigeria might face in the likely event of total failure. Reno Omokri is also prepping Igbos for genocide on twitter, while you are on nairaland instigating hate against them everyday. Its well though because as a people, they should have seen the likelihood of repeat of the pogrom against them if they are serious enough. If anything similar to the civil war happens to them again, then its their fault. They should normally be a prepared ethnic group and make their region a fortress against any aggression but i dont see them doing that. Anyways, please stop the hate against igbos. They are not responsible for the near total failure of Nigera.

Stop hating igbos abeg. I even blame them for paying attention to you. They should normally be returning to igboland gradually because this administration is not drawing them closer but they (igbos) seem fixated on Lagos and other Nigerian cities. APC is determined to hurt Igbo people and (igbos) need to make sure they never lose as much people as they lost during the 1967 - 70 war ever again. I just feel their leaders are too money conscious and they cant see the cloud of hate above igbos in Nigeria.

keep quite aside propaganda what do you know about Nigerian History,the plan for Igbo to dominate Nigetia started in 1954 or was known in 1954 only God knows when it started,by 1957 Nnamdi had declared serval times that Igbo was a special race and they must rule over Nigeria infact the fulanis learned of this agenda from the Igbo.you think Igbo greed started today or there hate started today.Nnamdi became the first president in a deal with the north where he proclaimed northerners as foolish people hence while he did a deal with the north and not the south west.he didn't know that the Fulani may look foolish but they are always 10 steps ahead in planning hence Nnamdi become pRESIDENT AND THE NORTH produced the prime minister but Nnamdi quickly learnt that all power of the state is in the hands of the prime minister while the president had no real power.and the Igbo began again,this is where 1963 coup came ,it is an Igbo coup designed by Igbos for power grabbing.infact the idea for that coup came from ojukwu senior who was a chief strategist to Nnamdi.
You must be a clown you want to pick me up,hahahahah
Can you stand what comes after.pikin when think say him papa dick na toy

Irony1:
In what way did igbos authorize Ifeajuna to carry out the coup? This is how how guys just go about manufacturing lies. But let me warn you ethnic baiting is a criminal offence. The guy who threatened to kills igbos that was picked up in Oshogbo will be child's play compared to what will happen to you if you continue in this your unfortunate mission.

your brain is very sound

RevDesm0ndJuju:
They both share the same ambitions but the Fulani is strategic about his and also very diplomatic in his planning except the ewu Buhari.


Ibos hate fulanis because fulanis beat them at their game and Fulani is not keen to share power with them knowing how power lusting and greedy an 0koro is.

small pikin,go enter another state make you see watin the people their go use your eye see.

Yujin:
Lol. See this onuku. Them tell you say Igboland na only the 5 SE states? You be thief?

yes they did,Igbo have hated nigeria and all other tribes since day one,both they and the Fulani,is same thing greed,resources and power.we done tire make una go abeg.

Irony1:
Stop saying rubbish and stop being stupid and dense. Did all the igbos instruct ifeajuna to shoot his Boss? Did you forget that a Yoruba man Fajuyi provided tactical encouragement and support to the coup plotters. Stop being stupid abeg.

which bible,cause I know you dont read the bible rather you listen to what you are told,many people in the bible married there relatives including Abraham who is the father of your religion.

Donaldoni:
Why does Islam permit marriage to relations

It's weird!

The Bible totally forbids it!!

I support that 100% let Igbo carry there 5 state go form there country and Fulani we give them two state up north.make them leave us in peace

Yujin:
So what do we do to both the Igbos and Fulanis? Expel them from Nigeria right?

my brother you are in big trouble,she doesn't want you to plan for the family,she wants to be independent in a dependent relation.meaning she wants you to foot the bills while she plans her own life.
take my advice reduce your spending let her suffer well,then hide your money and save well.equally tell her to find her job herself and count you out,do not assist in anyway ,she would still get the job been a woman but you have drawn the battle line early on your terms.most modern women are deeply selfish and self centered in nature.so as a man you must be wise watch out seriously for disobidence and those that love to challenge the structure so there is no leadership ,none of there house hold end up well.

EkelediliBuhari:
Let’s agree this is my story….

Pardon my long write up but I needed to get a perspective from a fresh eye/mind. I’m married for 3 years now with 2infants.

Am I overthinking or does my wife have other plans?

My dad is an established accountant with over 3 decades of experience at the highest level of his occupation in 2 multinationals. He is now retired and consults. Presently, he lives a day at a times cos he barely has plans for his firm (he is over 70 and doesn’t have anybody he’s training his my mom).

I have a good career earning almost a million monthly with side gigs that keeps me liquid (meeting all my family’s basic needs). Monthly upkeep of 200k mainly for feeding while I pay utilities and still bring out cash (no fixed amount) from time to time. Presently am setting up a firm for contracting and consultancy.

My wife is a caterer (she loves cooking and baking) whom I have supported over the years. She has gotten much better and I have invested in her business. Presently she has all the basic requirements for her work and she works from home. We live in a 4 bed and converted one to her studio (fully furnished - AC tables shelves etc).

Over the years I have encouraged her to focus on entrepreneurship. This will give her total control of her time. This way the kids get her attention while she handles business which I hope to one day retire into. I make sure she doesn’t contribute her personal funds to the home as I advise her to save for rain days. I have encouraged her to work closely with my dad to earn experience as they share same profession hopefully take over the firm in time while I groom mine for which she is the major shareholder (I’m not even a shareholder).

Overall, do not look for a 9-5 like me, let’s grow a business.

However, she applies for jobs here and there. Just this morning she woke up as early as 4:30am applying for a customer service position and had to wake me up to correct her cover note.

At this point I feel like giving up on her. I feel she just wants to have a paying Job for whatever reason. But I know know the downsides; no time for the kids, 40-80% of income goes on expenses, work stress, regrets - now you can’t quit because you have to prove you can do it.

Am I being unreasonable telling her not to work and focus on developing her business skills?

NB: I have never discouraged her in her business rather encouraged/ advised and funded.

Modified: for those insisting I let her be, how do we plan our future if we share separate visions?? When has working ever made anyone rich??

If she gets an IOC opportunity I’ll definitely support tho, but these are not the toes she’s applying for 100k -300k

that same benefit when make una won kill una self untop 3rd position when won be first.

tungamaje:
Please I am just curious. What are the benefits of having the president from your tribe? Would you be buying things cheaper or what? Please enlighten me

my brother all tribe in Nigeria go reach presidency before Igbo people,them just no get the brain for politics.

Esama:
We Edo will become president of Nigeria before any igbo .

which North Central?quote me there is no difference between Igbo and the Fulani,only difference is Fulani are smoother in operation and think further while the igbos are loud and shallow in thinking.
both tribes are the problem of Nigeria

BrodaBenad:
Typical SW Rice Bandit libelists

Still working on " let's hate igbos' madness

Stale! even north central is now aligning with Igbos




Meanwhile tinubu is a failure

For some reason unknown to me,I can't access my email.so email me on ojlifa@gmail.com

crownprince2017:
Your WhatsApp number pls so that we can talk better.

is having sex with your husband not a house chore

IconicR:
I won't ever agree to anything that justifies a man sleeping with his maid

Are maids not meant to help with house chores? Why will a husband begin to have dirty thoughts towards her just because she's doing her duties? I Dy bite ooo
Abegiiiiii

that is because no law anywhere in the world recognizes women as rapist



quote author=saphiere post=125813810]Statistic shows that 99.999% of rape cases in the world are carried out by men. What does that tells you?[/quote]

simple house helps performs all the functions of a wife,while most wives become naggist.house helps cooks,cleans,raises the kids,washes and takes care of ogas needs.

saphiere:
Stories of men sleeping with their house helps and even impregnating them is not new to us.
Why do men indulge in such act?
If you must cheat as you men do saying it's men's nature to cheat. If you must cheat why should it be the househelp?

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those who handle business requiring the highering of a whole vessel,you an ordinary agents says they need to be brief and precise.
the reason why most people are poor is bad character.quote me nobody would deal with somebody like you,you must be yahoo hence the need of the arrogance to claim importance.

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The answer is simple most people from the Caribbean are too emotional and petty,a little like the African American but better while Africans are more practical and stable because most Africans come from a two parent house hold.

Ilamina:
I used too think they are better off than us

That's why I act ghetto sometimes, so people will forget I am african but I was wrong. . instead people look down on me, And call me stupid when I act Ghetto

Interesting

both Abacha and yaradu reduced the price of fuel

TheOldGods:
In this picture, each administration that ascends there is is fuel price increase, no single adminstration has ever brought down fuel to what it was.

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crownprince2017:
Your WhatsApp number pls so that we can talk better.

send me a private message

crownprince2017:
Your location, brand if the rice and your rate?

if the house is for sale,am interested

Guyana, South America.we can land the rice at 35,000naira a bag,that is 50kg

crownprince2017:
Your location, brand if the rice and your rate?

I have sworn there are certain people I can never respect,anybody from this town in oyo,you all are foolish.one goat claiming to be a pastor hijack your traditional thrown and some mugus would be celebrating.
the stool is called traditional stool not Christian stool,only a black man can be so greedy,you are in one religion yet eyeing the seat of another religion.

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read again,he only reconnects once he wants something or he has an issue.basically for exploitation.then turns around to insult the very same person he is going to for help

Box34:
"You are just been hasty to conclusions"

If she is a bitter soul did you think she would have reconnected with her Dad along the line.

Give your advice my brother and stop been too forward towards what you have no experience about.

even worse,a man behaving like a bitter woman.you are a disaster.men are LOGICAL thinkers not emotional thinkers.

millstone:
Lol... Reading and comprehension is very difficult for a nincompoop. If your retarded brain was working you would understand I am male. Well no need to reply you more. Please bask in your ignorance and failed attempt in sounding woke

I read your story and I can tell you,you are a troubled woman,infact the way you write about your father clearly shows you are troubled.
Your mother has destroyed you for her selfishness.your mother was more concern about who her husband was sleeping with than the future of her children and been raise in a stable home,then she raised you with bitterness and hate towards your father and other children,then you blame everybody except her.my dear once you marry and give birth ,your role in life is your children and family first not yourself.your mother was a failure and I worry serious for the man who is going to marry you.

millstone:
Good day nairalanders,

APOLOGIES FIRST CAUSE MY STORY LONG SMALL!!!

In 2007 my parents divorced, part of the reasons was my Dad's infidelity and abusive nature towards my mom and siblings. My Dad is an Evangelist, a once prominent one before the divorce and had workers both male and female working for him from drivers to pastors and he occasionally has affairs with his female workers, this usually makes the male workers back then to walk out on him after discovering this. There were three of us all born in the 90s so we witnessed my dad's growth as well as his abuses towards my mom as well as occasional affairs with his workers which would always results in fights between my mom and him, on one occasion in 1997 my mom found out about his affairs and took three of us to Ibadan to live with his Boss at that time Rev. Wale Oke who warned him and sent us back home, on arrival my dad nearly killed my mom and it was an elderly neighbor and his family back then that beat him up before he stopped. 2004 my parents had the fourth child my baby brother and the following year they had a fight again after my mom caught him in office with his then secretary and he beat her up along with her sister and my elder sister for confronting him.

He continued working with this his secretary and also having affairs with other ladies. 2006 my mom found out and they had a big fight which shattered the church they had back then, we weren't also sparred from his wrath. To make matters worse he would come to the church announcing the closure of the church and removal of my mom as an ordained Pastor despite the fact that she went to Redeem Christian Church Pastoral school, the people did not accept his demands citing his infidelity. December 2007 they had another big fight and they finally divorced. My Dad seized my 3 year old brother, against court order, and relocated to South Africa and Kenya. I and my two sisters stayed with my mom and she did the best she could running the church and providing meals, after attempts to punish failed my dad then took care of our education fee while still keeping my brother away from us and parading around the country and other African countries with this his secretary as his wife, soon after she had a daughter for him. My mom struggled to raise us right and to her defense she really did her best but I had to deal with the anger and bitterness on my own path, weed and alcohol was my escape and soon after I was lured into prostitutes during the 2go era by a guy i met online, I was 18 when this happened, my family didn't know about this, I graduated best student in my faculty and got great jobs in both the private and finally the public sector. Save to say I do not let this habits affect my inputs at work or relationship with people.

My elder sister graduated successfully got high flying jobs and married a big shot, they're doing fine with kids now. My younger sister was the victim in all this as my dad refused to train her through school. During my school years I reconnected with my dad and brother only to find out my brother had been raised believing my dad's secretary to be his mom and the daughter from their affair his only sibling. My dad has raised him with the idea that he is the only son and even when we reconnected would believe the words of a 9 year old even though this boy can lie just to get what he wants from my dad and he would believe it.

2015 after graduation and my sister's marriage we fell out and even without his support i got jobs in places that needed high connections and even started three different businesses with my vices unknown to my family members. 2020 some elders in the family stepped in to settle the issues between my dad and my siblings and in that five year period thankfully we have all done well for ourselves without him. In 2021 i took some high end loans from the office and made some other investments but they went wrong and that is were I shot myself in the foot. By 2022 the pressure on me was too much and i had to go to my dad's place pending when i sort myself out and man i saw shege pro-max. I recently sorted myself out and moved out of his apartment.

For my Dad 2014 the secretary had to leave him when he was becoming abusive and her family objected their union as she was the cause of his divorce, she went along with their daughter which he has refused to carter for. That same year he married a younger lady but the marriage did not last a year, he then had another woman who they were together for a year it was this woman that caused our rift in 2015 and i left him, he then started an affair with a woman from Kenya that ended just last year while sending her monthly upkeep and paying for her rent in a luxury apartment in Kenya. January of this year he started an affair with another elderly female Pastor in Abuja and they began living together until it ended in April. May 2023 he went to Benue and once again married another lady who he just met( note in all of this his fornication his excuse is always "The Spirit of God spoke to him that this is his wife" like WTF!!!).

Now my brother was supposed to further his study 2021 but my dad and him and a silly plan to send him to the UK to play football, without any proper training. This went on for almost a year before he was hurriedly enrolled in a private university but we found out he had used the money meant for his school fees (over 400k) partying with friends and impressing his girlfriend. Now my sisters and I found out and reported it to my dad. This guy denied it and now turned the blame on me that I have been taking him round hotels to carry babes and party. Despite the fact I gave this boy a chance during the investigation to come clean that we are aware that he possibly flunked school and want honesty from him but he denied it. Now my dad is defending this boy, he's 19 o and supposed to be heading to 300L, and attacking me. My brother knows about my habits and is using this as his alibi putting the blame on me that I got him involved with my habits and even though I have cautioned him several times, attempted to guard him in academics because I struggled heavily in my 100L due to family issues( I wasn't even involved in marijuana or alcohol by then) he still went out with friends who ate his school fees with him and not theirs. Now Baba is blaming me for spending the boy's fees when my work schedule would not even allow me teach him bad habits. I found out he does drugs and even deals on harder substances that I dread from. My Dad is not holding him accountable for his actions rather as he always does blames every misfortune that comes on me or my mom. Now we had a big fight on the phone and I am ready to cut the two of them off for good. Between 2015-2020, before they both came into my life I was doing very well without their drama and distractions. At one time in 2021 my Dad even dumped this boy on me while he spends money bringing his woman from Kenya going round the country parading her as his wife and living in luxury hotels and all kind of silly antics, she's a Pastor ,and refused to support back then while I look after this boy. That period was when my investments was going down and I was even admitted in the hospital after having a heart condition that scared me and the doctors. To cover my medical bills, keep ,myself afloat and take care of my brother in my custody that period I had to sell my car which further worsened my financial condition.

THIS MAN HAS BEEN NOTHING BUT CHAOS, A FRAUD, A STAIN ON WHAT CHRISTIANITY IS AND WORSE OF IT ALL WILL DESTROY HIS FAMILY IF GIVEN THE CHANCE. 2020 after reconciliation I had a big fight with my younger sister because of this man and not until last year I settled with my sister and this man was not even happy with the peace I made. He wants to use me to attack my Mom and my sisters and only when he sees you are against them would he embrace you. I want to cut him off completely as between 2015-2020 I witnessed personal, financial and spiritual growth as opposed to having him in my life and his attempt to control me into self destruction. The depressions I had got worse with him and I had to fall into weed and booze to escape the madness. However I am recovering and pulling myself together and do not intend to bring him back to my life.

secondly why are you not discussing your brothers debt,lets talk about that.your brother is trying to defraud a bank means he is a criminal and from they way you are speaking you are trying to shield him ,which makes you an accomplice.if it was your business somebody loaned that money from and refuse to pay,would you be here saying this


I think you are reading to reply.you may not have had anything directly to do with the loan but your brother brought you into play,I repeat the banks can't have your address,if somebody didn't give it to them,if you signed as reference for your brother you became liable equally,this are things people dont know.

concho:
I'm boldly telling you that I don't have anything to do with this loan. She even admitted it in her first visit.

She apologised and left.

Then this disastrous visit again

my brother business name or address doesn't matter once you have been linked to the loan in anyway,and you and I know,that you know more than you are telling on this matter.if you go court,na you go pay the bank lawyer fees and pray they dont come after you.

concho:
what if my business name and address has nothing to do with the loan ?

somebody is lying to you,for the bank to come to your place,either your address was used in opening the account or you where used as reference.

concho:
He didn't use my address or business address