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those who killed the soldiers are not civilians abi?even the president no fit stop waiting go follow,this is the time when even army chief no fit beg,him go just keep quite.i swear that place na ground zero,army go wait after them done berry there officer and men,then there course mate go come determine watin if anything go remain for that village.

Rahkman:
fuckinģ animals useless cowards why kill innocent civilians? if you animals were brave you will fight the militants esn and bandits massacring you and desecrating ur rotten corpses,only weak men take revenge on civilians

if na me as you go no return.i no they waste my money for independent woman

Jeon:
Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.
Some Women dy marry shéha !.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.

once again your igbo leaders keep deceiving you all,if you want to leave it is simple the south east caucus in the national assembly would move the motion for the house to debate,but guess what they will never do that rather they start playing games ,Bayelsa is Igbo land,kogi and benue is going with us,we want southern Kaduna.
Go to your leaders they have been playing your generation for fool.

gidgiddy:
Nnamdi Azikiwe removed the right of people to leave Nigeria? You think if the North wanted to kesve Nigeria anyone can do anything about it?

Zik is long dead and Nigeria has never worked. Nobody needs Zik for us to call it a day and go our seperate ways, the way we were before the British cane to make the mistake of bringing us together

that is a fact,and Nnamdi azikwe was the one who remove the ability of any region to leave Nigeria.you see the older Igbo have been lying to the younger once for years to avoid taking blames for there action.the plan to dominate Nigeria started from the igbos designed by ojukwe senior ,if not for that plan Nigeria was suppose to gain independence before Ghana,when the north learnt of it they refuse the first independence date.quote me every problem of Nigeria started from the igbos ,the first coup was from the Igbo,the idea of military leadership was from the igbos,first politician to be accused of corruption is Igbo,killing other tribes leaders is Igbo,civil war is Igbo.you name the problem and I would give you the name of the first person to start it.

gidgiddy:
Ironsi abolished resource control? Who told yoy that? That's the many lies they have told

Gowon abolished resource control with Decree 15, use Google and confirm rather than talk ignorantly

una can talk rubbish,make them no say person mouth dey smell even when the thing dey smell because na woman.the fact is the woman dangle green card trick am into bondage,even when she know say she no fit ever born pikin,so your guess is as good as mine what she was doing with her life,the man too na Hungry thief,him sell him soul for green card.in the end thief thief from thief make them go settle thief matter.

thesicilian:
Don't worry, I won't insult you, but I will tell you the truth.

From the way you described her it shows you never had any feeling of love for her ab initio. How can you describe your own wife as "short, no bumbum, has mouth odor and doesn't know how to make love and sex"? Even if any of that is true, it's highly disrespectful.

You said so yourself you only married her for the visa. Well, now you're in Canada. What's your next move? All the fertility problems she has can be handled by an experienced gynecologist but I doubt you're motivated enough to go on that journey with her. She's a human being too, you know. And it's even possible she told you all these before marriage but you were blinded by your own greed and selfishness.

The president is been sabotage,first what business does nigeria have having a submit in Qatar aside the fact that those who put it together new it was to disgrace the president,secondly a note verbal is internal diplomatic communication,highly classified ,how is it on the pages of nairaland and online,thirdly our investment drive should face areas where we are strongest,Africa and the Caribbean.last and finally anybody pointing the president to the middle east is a buhari/atiku man.the President needs to wake up and do so quickly,it is time to clear the house.they are so many competent people who he needs to call in.if you want recommendations,we can help with that,for starters Abike,call in our out fielder like Onoja in the Caribbean this people are not been used.

nlfpmod:
Sam Amadi



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when they say some Men have empty brains one would think its a joke,from what you are saying it is obvious that your new wife is trying to get her out of the way for her children.the poor girl is going though alot and you are either too stupid or too blind to use your brain,my advice take her out alone,seat with her ,talk to her so she can open up to you what is going down.yes girls from that age begin rebellion and yes boys begin to advance but anybody who tells you to take a 13 year old girl to nigerian boarding house alone without any support system is evil.if you doubt me tell your wife you want her and one of her child to go to the boarding school in Nigeria and see if she wouldnt fight you with everything she has.always know this women have devil in them especially when they consider another womans children been infront of theres.



quote author=Mrperfecto post=128611957]I will just be brief without writing too much.

We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.

She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.

I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.

My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.

Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?[/quote]

and I am telling you,contrary to what you think,the whites work day and night to make sure you can never ever be prosperous because the day you can take control of your resources that would mean they become at your mercy.ask Gaddafi that is too far ask Abacha or Yaradua

Tochi360:
Your generation??

What are you saying yoo

My point is We have a rot in system not bcus some white supremacist bullshit talk.

Africa has not done well to utilize the potentials mother earth blessed her with.

this is what happen when you are program to repeat what the white man says rather than use your brain.
first no continent in the world has more resources than Africa,you are only poor because you have been tricked into believing you are poor,the white man gives you paper in the name of dollar to collect your resources
second all the largest economy in the word all has that stand because of there population eg China,Brazil, America ,India and even Nigeria that is why you have the largest economy in Africa because of your population,so smaller population means more hunger.

gorociano:
It is my firm belief that Over-population, and not corruption, is the main problem with Nigeria. Our endemic corruption stems from our being over-populated.

What do you think will happen when say a hundred million people are to use resources that are meant for 10 million people to live to survive? People will try to game the system since their personal survival and comfort will be tied to how much of the system they can bend. Hence preponderance of corruption. People will bribe, seduce or even do some religious something hoping a God/god will drive the system in their favour....hence our madness a la religion. MAULAG, UI, OAU etc were built for a population size of how much? Juxtapose that to the number they have to cater for now. Now multiply that for very Institution. Before you qoute other countries, let's do their analysis: USA is on its knees economically; China is trying...and also has a very strict one-child per couple policy for years now; India slums are the worst in the world, closely followed by Brazilian and Indonesian (sex tourism nation o) slums...all their so-called economic growth is Johnny Bravo style (top-heavy) and resembles the "Africa Rising" nonsense every sane individual is tired of.


Now take a look at Kuwait, Ghadaffi's Libya, Botswana, Namibia, Brunei, Bahrain and tell me what you see.

nobody is stopping me?what about you.
Young people love making noise no result.the president has appointed ministers,the youngest is the first to be indiated for corruption.the governor of Kogi state is the youngest governor yet all he did was kill and steal,the worst governor in nigeria.your generation is far worse than mine.

Tochi360:
Oga nobody is stopping you from fixing your problems oo,you are corrupt to the grave, Power Power and Power is all You care for.

So if You loot away the future of your Country, You turn back to blame others.

once again,if you do not know your history then how do you know what is wrong with you.you must first diagnose any problem to get the solution,what is stopping you from fixing your problem is the same people who gave you the problem in the first place.

Tochi360:
Long tori,nothing beats what We have now,Nigeria has never seen anything like Apc,total cluelessness, or perhaps delibrate bcus they never have any intention of solving problems of Nigeria.
Stop all this inferiority talks its the modern era and nobody is blocking you from developing.

What do you even mean by the white you worship Sound pretty amateur.

like I said you are young, let me help you in 1985 we had (SAP) brought by the world Bank and IMF which brought about the killing of almost all industries in Nigeria which began unemployment and japa,destroyed almost all our structures which brought corruption till date. young man go and study history oh I forgot they got the bald Igbo woman to remove history from the curriculum, so your generation would never know the root cause of your problems ,you would quickly learn that the white you worship are the cause of all your misry ,your leaders are victims just like you.

Tochi360:
You must be a child, bcus Yes the Country had always been bad but nobody born at least in the late 1980s will ever envisage a time like dis.
Buhari, Tinubu and their Apc totally killed this Country.
Na una generation I pity pass.

you must be Young too,because I know for sure that Nigerians have been suffering since the white man got here and are still suffering because the black man is trying to play the white mans game, your political party is just a pond in the process.if Labour was there,they would be no difference

Tochi360:
What is this one saying?
If them do rubbish call them out too.

Nija don suffer unimaginable suffering under this evil Apc structure hand na.

Yes its been bad but nobody ever envisaged a time like dis,to protest now don dey fear people sef

you when get brain forget it and use your google

gratefulheart:
use your brain.
What was his assets before buhari?

which right thing,people who have been trained to believe that everybody is better than your own.you done go see watin them dey do for there country abi no be journalist them lock up for uk

Tochi360:
If You refuse to do the right thing, outsiders go teach You be dat.

Shameless govt.

abi na the white go run ,if we vex stop dey give them resource.

ambale:
Bhet u go run like babiala to meet your white lords when una no see money spend again😃

we shall listen after they follow there own advice.i know some people lack understanding of the word independent nation,they think Nigeria is the colony of white people,so when any white speaks we must obey.

dey play,she married a weak ass man.the problem is most men love too much them no dey think evil about women thus they are never prepared.i have lived abroad for years,till date house I no agree buy my wife done shout tire,car I no buy.money I no save atlist none outside Nigeria.so she know nothing to get.so when I say seat you best seat,you provoke me both of us will see our maker.all the Nigerian Men dey ask oh boy how you dey take do am,I just laugh.
first thing most Nigerian women are gold diggers,second they would do as much as they know they can get away with.lastly Nigerian women do not mess with Men that are prepared,they like easy target.so from day one,I done lecture myself put my heat for back and never allow my emotions get the better of me.you loss guard and they take you to the cleaners.

Jennyclay:
Why is the man now making video, he should have raise his hand on her and see if the embassy won’t send him back to Nigeria, he’s not a saint either .

Probably the husband wasn’t taking good care of her!
Her reaction said it all.

Personally if I’m not getting enough Money, sex and true love from my man, I will definitely look elsewhere .

keep fooling yourself,a statement is regarded as a confession,fully admissible in court as evidence infact recorded as the most indiating form of evidence. everybody on that video should have a close case conviction,14 years.

KingMack:
The difficulty of anti-gay laws is that you have to define and prove the crime. A statement is not a crime - freedom of expression is a constitutional right. The act of sexual intercourse with a same gender person is the crime. Where in that video do you see a sexual act to prosecute? This is the nonsensical laws that our lawmakers churn out. Same problem with bribery and misappropriation of public funds - the crime is not defined properly, therefore your prosecution rate is abysmal...

Focus on other areas Sir! Armed robbery, Kidnapping, Banditry etc😏

AA Rano was a nobody before burhari?///?//
you must be an Igbo man and thus do not know who or what you are speaking about but think you must talk. google is your friend, please use it even if you have never lived in the north.

gratefulheart:
I don't think so...AA Rano was nobody until buhari became president?
Where did he get the money within 8 years for those mega filling stations, aircrafts and properties?

We all know it was Sabiu Tunde Yusuf's money.

keep dreaming, you think Africa is America.in Africa your father can disown you, your adopted father has a right to withdraw his name if he feel you want to destroy his name.in this case TB JOSHUA adopted her when he couldn't manage her and he sew that she was out to destroy his name, he did what any wise man would do, he withdrew his name and ask her to be on her way. this is a case of an ingrate, rather than thank God everyday for given her a name, making her somebody, she chose to destroy the name given to her.
My father use to say. money I wouldn't leave for you but a name I would give you. i never understood it until he joined his ancestors. even though he still left money for us but the name. everywhere I go, once I mention that name even the hardest door opens, I am talking local and internationally, he has Been gone over 20 years but the name still dey open door till tomorrow.

gidgiddy:
Even if this story is true, Ajoke Joshua was adopted by TB Joshua as a baby and raised by him in his household. He is the only father she knows and has every right to call the man who adopted her, gave her his surname, and raised her so.
She is as much his daughter as any biological daughter

But wether she is his biological daughter was never the issue, the issue is if the sexual molestation allegations against women she confirmed are true

TB na man,even in death him dey defend himself.
I am not a Joshua fan but my father use to attend his church right from the 1990s and I know ajokes case and once I watch the thing and listen to ajoke,i new right away it was a hit job.infact if you dont know anything at all,just look at the woman with cross eye claiming TB Joshua wanted to sleep with her.if you get TB kind of money and power plus the millions of fresh babes when dey him church,you go ever gree sleep with that kind woman.once you go know say all of them na scam.i think them ajoke enter the LG..... people hand and those once done tell them we would help you stay in the UK if you tell a story a certain way.normal white man scam.

just take a woman and leave men out or your dilldo and cucumber deserve your respect but on behalf of every man ,please we dont want your type.

Jozilinn:
Some men don't deserve respect, respect is one of the key factor of submission, the way you talk Will determine how the other one reacts... entitlement mentality of men in Nigeria and na me own you nahim make marriage dey spoil most times, you don't expect to undervalue your wife and then expect her to be submissive.

back in the days when you want to know the meaning of something,you go to the dictionary.thisdays well...............

kkins25:
I've been thinking about this alot, and can't seem to understand what "submission" means.

What does it mean for a wife to submit to me? Also, can women provide what "to submit" means to them?

Is submitting to a man similar to submitting to God in the sense that man has the last and final say? Does this mean, the man's will should supersede that of the woman? Does submitting mean, taking care of? Please, explain it to me like I'm a dumb 5 year old.

please remember,it was women like you who raised them so

MadamVanessa:





Men are no longer men anymore. Weak and timid. So emotionally ridden.

Our forebearers will be turning in their graves with much disappointment to see the numbers of weak emotional ridden dingbats calling themselves men walking now in the world.

you have hit the nail on the head,na selfishness she dey worry about because if you love your husband and after 15 years no children,na you go carry woman come say my husband try this woman so that your gate will not close.

Resetinc:
Madam, count your blessings!!

From your story it’s obvious your childlessness is your fault.. it’s not a crime in our land to have a second wife and father a child/children.
Traditionally, that second wife is also your wife because you were in the family before her..
So, welcome your co-wife and your step children with open arms if you’re a good woman ..
Na entitlement mentality and inheritance battle dey always make una jealous of a second wife, not that you really give a fvcck about the man’s welfare … Abeg chill

Instead of yeye bello to worry about life outside government house,without immunity and one million security,the clown is hell bent on making enemies till the last day.let him keep it up,next year body go tell am.

TV generation,in Africa,you are forbidding from sleeping with married women.in the African design not the western life you all are learning today.

soccerlite:
Lolzzzzz 🤣

Ighalo is entitled to your woman too

I have no time to argue with a television made generation.life teaches reality lesson.come back to me when you are 50years old with a cat,I forgot television generation women can't even keep a cat .we are men and we have told you the rules,you have two choices play or refuse to play.save your Grammer for television.

ukaface:
Unfortunately English is Nigeria’s official language and it’s required you know basic differences between words ( I know say you go still wan defend yourself)
And I feel even with your ‘ father’s language’ you won’t still be able to show intelligence.

Guy, let me just tell you straight up
Wealth or no wealth, cheating is cheating
Cheating in marriage is WRONG
You shouldn’t turn a blind eyes over a rich man who cheated in marriage just because he is wealthy
If you bash a poor man, bash the rich man

Wetin Ighalo do no good, simple
Funny how you want us to applaud him for cheating, Una Dey ment?

English is neither a measure of intelligence nor is it my fathers language.neither the Germans,Chinese,Italians or Japanese speak or write English.So English shaming is for less intelligent beens.back to topic,if you work hard and make money then chose to carry men to f.ck you with your money.good for you but know now,you still will not make the rules for Men.because by nature most of the Men you will desire will not want you neither will they agree to follow your rules.it is what it is.it is only in western countries where the weak been women control the strong Men.not in Africa or Middle East nor South America nor Asia .

ukaface:
First go and learn how to use THERE & THEIR before you start showing that you are from unemotional generation.

Is a rich woman allowed to fvck any man she likes or is this code just for men? O ye from unintelligent unemotional generation

I dont do insults,let that be the last time you make such reckless statement as foolish.back to the topic,first relationship is for dependent people,if you are independent why do you need a man,stay alone like an independent been,second if you have money and a man agrees to be dependent on you,good for you,the problem is women will never date down,there eyes is always up.third as for HIV please save us the story,so you think a billionaires doesn't like life,there is condom and those who dont like condom run test on there women regularly.money fixes things.
I repeat broke women can't set rules for food they invited them to eat.the best you can do is play your role to the best of your ability,so yourself ,children and families story changes.
as for trauma that is white man invented,they have programed you into it.men have always maintained more than one wife in Africa and they leave just fine,westernization is what brought the distruction of family in all its form.the trauma you feel is born out of greed ,selfishness and the frustration of not been in control.nothing else.

Fiscus105:
By ur foolish analogy, a wife that has enough and independent also entitled to change divks as she wanted?

Also, even if the woman not rich and dependent, she entitled to contact HIV from her own husband becs she married well to do man. She also entitled to be going thru trauma of husband sleeping with every hole around her, friends, cousin, church members, neighbours etc.