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Funny people...

See Im nose.

After my first flow after child birth ( which was very painful) I never experienced menstrual pains. Guess you should reach to your doc... Hope its nothing to worry about.

I whisper those words 'thank you' in my husband 's ears.... After a great time. * comes naturally... He never asks.

GEJ....as usual.

Thanks

1960chic:
Your hair's so full

I like

Vegetable soup with wheat.

Same me

Time to join the fun...

I love both

Nah

Mtsteewwwww! I actually thought you had something important to say....

Bros calm down!


@herzumpther... I can imagine what you are going through right now. I am not good with words at a time like this. I don't know how to encourage you. But I will surely remember you In my prayers.... "May God's will be done in this issue."


e-hugs.

johnjon:
I don't get this. So your dad doesn't want you to marry a yoruba guy but he lives in a yoruba state. In short he is a tribalist and we don't need people like him in our land. If he hates yoruba people that much, he should move back to his village. Shikena

Thieves

Thank you..

Double post

Clap for seun

Classy! If I hear!

My husband loves to reverse roles. He baths our son(who won't even let me touch him when the dad is around).

When he is home and I am out, he would happily fix lunch or dinner as the spirit leads him.

Those things makes me happy.

emeraldoe:
my husband wouldn't sweep or bath d kids. Yes, no one will be comfortable with d reversal of roles but sometimes a man helps his wife with some things

My elder brother washes', cooks, and does more for his wife. We all applaud him when we see... Because this dude was particularly very lazy back then...we used to pity his wife.

harveyspec:
But Ma, as a woman, how will you feel seeing your brother washing his wife's clothes? (manual washing o, not washing machine)

Won't you feel somehow?

@babyosisi, I agree with you that a man ought to help the wife with some chores but there still a whole lot of things we are yet to come to terms with in Nigeria

Washing clothes
Washing plates
Cooking
Cleaning the house
Going to the market

These activities are still being viewed as a woman's thing so most folks will frown if a man takes upon these things.

Me personally, I don't have a problem with it, though there will be a limit & the moment u abuse it, everything will be revoked.

Some women really know how to abuse such gestures !!!

But how did our mothers cope, cos in their time, they treated their husbands as lord & masters

In my tribe, there is this saying, more of a title
Odoneehimwen( my husband owner of my soul)

So when a typical Bini calls his wife, she responds by saying "odonehimwnen"

But today the story is different, so it pays to know your spouses disposition to these things, is he/she holding on to that traditional view of the man is lord & master or is he/she a hybrid of the modern world/traditional view or solely modern view

This way, it will save u alot of heartache

Me, I'm a hybrid

Jesus had several half-brothers and sisters ( Matthew 12:46-47; 13:55-56). At least some of his brothers were named James, Joses, Simon and Judas. His sisters are not named in the Bible. History says that James became the head of the church in Jerusalem.

Copied... Thanks for the enlightenment. Chei! Been calling my atm card 'credit card in public.... See falling of hands.

Woah... Life remains a mystery.

Get well soonest op.

...and I remember ALUU4. #sad.

He knows.

I want more... Cute pictures.. Bedrooms nko?

Been married for 5 years. In all honesty, I doubt I would/can forgive my mil. I know this hurts my husband but seriously his inactions when it comes to his mother 's flaws has made me indifferent. I don't think I want to be her friend honestly.

*I must be a terrible person. Ok I will share how I got here in my next post.[quote author=babyosisi

We must copy oyibo @baby shower.




Btw ... Cute pregnant ladies.

Thank you.

Bigp0tato:
Here, a glass of water..relax!

A similar thing happened to me... On the day of my tm, my husband took me to his family house as the custom demands. When I went to greet my mother in law, she told my husband "I guess its God that joined this marriage because I prayed against this married alot".


I expected my dh to react but he didn't. I wouldn't let this woman spoil my day so I ignored. I never discussed it... I don't think I will ever forgive her. Seriously! Till today we ain't friends.

Yadoctora:
I am highly interested in talking about how to deal with the MIL.

Imagine this true story.
Its her wedding day and after all is done, ceremony's over and she is left with mother in law, she tells her, 'You are not the one I wanted for my son'.

Ladies in the house, how would you have handled this.