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Celebrities › Re: Miss Ananbra's Profile-chidinma Okeke- On Wikipedia by Laveda(f): 7:18pm On Nov 07, 2016
Smellymouth:
Chaiii
Lol bad reputation.
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Offers Her Virginity On Facebook by Laveda(f): 6:14pm On Nov 07, 2016
slimthugchime:
you are right there tongue
Actually, its not true. undecided
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Offers Her Virginity On Facebook by Laveda(f): 6:05pm On Nov 07, 2016
See mumu

Who your virginity epp? Shey e go end the current recession? undecided

Things like this makes me wanna believe what these guys are always saying about ladies being just sex object.


Iranu! angry
Celebrities › Re: From Denrele To Bobrisky And Now A New Guy Has Emerged..his Name Is Bayo by Laveda(f): 5:56pm On Nov 07, 2016
undecided

*spits*
Romance › Re: 12 Hilarious Things Nigerians Are Tweeting About "Your Boyfriend" by Laveda(f): 5:40pm On Nov 07, 2016
sad
Rap Battles › Re: The Nairaland Rapbattles Newbies' Tourney -- Sign-up Thread. by Laveda(f): 3:08pm On Nov 07, 2016
ShaqFu:
Why did you edit thesonofmark's moniker? grin

Hey Maximus, what's this stuff about?
Nothing.
Rap Battles › Re: The Nairaland Rapbattles Newbies' Tourney -- Sign-up Thread. by Laveda(f): 1:20pm On Nov 07, 2016
ELYMAXiimus:
Laveda grin
thesonof mark
etc...
grin Observing..

Giyazz
Jigsawkillah
Sinizia sad
Romance › Re: Is It Ok To Sleep With Your Bestie "Conclusion" (pictures Added) by Laveda(f): 12:09pm On Nov 07, 2016
Hmmmmm
Romance › Re: See What Happened To Lady Who Went To Her Internet Friend's House by Laveda(f):
undecided You mean you slept over at a guy's place with even sexual attraction and expected nothing?

undecided Are you a learner?

Yeah not all guys are like that, but one has to be very careful.
Romance › Re: The Trouble With Premarital Sex By Jane Kolade by Laveda(f): 1:55pm On Nov 06, 2016
I want to read it, but it looks too scattered. sad
Romance › Re: How Many Guys Should A Girl Date Before Marriage by Laveda(f): 1:38pm On Nov 06, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
Hey!! Laveda nwa'm o!!... You don dey wise!!! grin
cheesytongue
Romance › Re: How Many Guys Should A Girl Date Before Marriage by Laveda(f): 11:12am On Nov 06, 2016
Papiikush:
You should really stop quoting me.
Hon, it hasn't gotten to that. smiley
Romance › Re: How Many Guys Should A Girl Date Before Marriage by Laveda(f): 10:14am On Nov 06, 2016
Benita27:
Hehehe!, someone is busy comparing the life of a guy to that of a girl...the difference is clear!.

Brilliant and simple input.
Thank you.
Romance › Re: How Many Guys Should A Girl Date Before Marriage by Laveda(f): 10:11am On Nov 06, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
Another brilliant angle.


PS: there's an amount of girls a guy will say he has dated and some of us guys will shiver in disgust.
Yeah, you're right.
Romance › Re: Naija Big Girl “poo-poo” In A Nightclub… Embarrassing by Laveda(f): 10:09am On Nov 06, 2016
undecided Dafuk?
Romance › Re: How Many Guys Should A Girl Date Before Marriage by Laveda(f):
Berbierklaus:
This is selective wants...

Lemme rephrase this to you.

It is better a girl takes her mind off what could make her happy (if relationships makes her happy) because she is a girl and there is a number of men she should be with.
A girl is supposed to live her life according to the dictates of the society because she has a vjay and not a d*ck
Probably closing her eyes to that good man that might come along that instance because there is a number of men a girl should have before she finally dumps herself to one man.

Clap! clap!! clap!!! grin
grin You don't get it mami.

Here, I'm not trying to dictate the number of guys a girl should go out with.

But come to think of it, if a girl keeps going in and out of relationships, what will you think of her? To me such girl is emotionally instable.

Its better you sit and ask yourself things like
•What's been chasing these men?
•I can't keep a relationship for too long, why?
•Whats it I want in men that I haven't found?
•Whats that thing men wants that I don't have?
•How can I make myself happy even without being in a relationship.

Spicy, truth is, if you can't be happy while single, I don't think you'll be happy while in a relationship.. What's the essence of hanging your happiness on a man? Don't you think that's just silly?

Yes, a girl is supposed to keep dating till she finds that good man, but when it gets too much, one should sit and ask what's really going on, you can't be okay and men keep 'leaving'.

Let's face reality, women get hurt the more.. Go out there and ask 5women who's dated more than 10 guys, and ask them if they proud of it, do get back to me with their answers. wink
Romance › Re: What Kind Of Girlfriend Is This? by Laveda(f): 9:43am On Nov 06, 2016
Errr her life.
Romance › Re: Two Ladies Fight Over Boyfriend, Strip Each Other Unclad (Photos) by Laveda(f): 9:40am On Nov 06, 2016
Stupid girls, when there are better men out there..

You're both fighting for one.. Smh.
Romance › Re: How Many Guys Should A Girl Date Before Marriage by Laveda(f): 9:11am On Nov 06, 2016
Berbierklaus:
You have to be more open minded OP,this is 21st century and 2016,there is no "shock" if a girl dates as many guys as possible until she meets the right one,because in this century,there is nothing a man is entitled to that a woman is not allowed to. The world has evolved from dictating what a girl should do or not do to her simply because a has a Vjay or a weaker sex.


Personally though,I believe anybody,(both boy and girl,gender segregation is a great sin to me) should think well and get to know their partners before dating, and If it's not working out,they can easily end it,Dating is just trial and error,until you are satisfied with the one that you can cope/tolerate/love for a very long time.Which is why in marriage there is no going back,the first question any sane person will ask when marriage blues start and a couple complains is "did you court your partner?"

There is nothing like what a girl is "supposed to" that is a very sexist statement. She is a human being with the brains to think for herself not a piece of property,if you think her ideas is a mistake,let her make her own mistakes.
So Safarigirl, a girl should date as much as possible while considering her best option.

PS:Even If it involves sleeping with them all,she owns her body,The world has evolved beyond judging "girls" or boys with what they use their own body for
At emboldened, in as much as I'm in support of this particular comment I don't think that's right.

There's just a number of guys a girl date, and you'd just ask 'nah wetin nau'
Yes! No one is supposed to settle for less, but there's a point it gets to and you just need to sit and ask yourself certain questions, how long will you keep changing men? When it comes to issues like these we shouldn't compare ourselves to men, let's face reality. grin

I think when a girl is faced with things like these, its better she takes her mind off relationships and think of better things to do with her life, till the next better man comes, she observes and see if he'll be good for her.

PS: the girls changing boyfriends like boxers, go ask them they aren't proud of it.
Celebrities › Re: Chidinma Okeke: Her Father, Family And UNIZIK React To Leaked Video Scandal by Laveda(f): 7:52am On Nov 05, 2016
The family has been my major concern,its just sad.

The whole emotional trauma, pity!
Romance › Re: What If you find out Your Girlfriend Has A Compromizing Video by Laveda(f): 7:24am On Nov 05, 2016
hfinest1:
damn bae, first, your profile pic is sexy... you're beautiful and I'm sure u know that
secondly, I'm a die hard fan of yours girl... I love ur posts, ur topics, the way u speak, ur diary, everything bae... everything

and thirdly, I love you babegrin

Now to the topic, for me, it's not much of a big deal... I've seen my girl kissing another guy before and I didn't push it... I just let her be, we're not together anymore sha! the relationship was all a mistake in d first place... lol..
but seriously, people make mistakes, people do things for different reasons, she may have been forced out of her will to do it, she may have been blackmailed to do it, anything could have made her do such shameful act... it's distasteful yes, but d imma take it in like a man and let her know I still love her irrespective

easier said than done Huh? I'm like that... very easy going, understanding, cool headed, that's me... life's simple, don't complicate it... signing out
Awww thanks dear.

To the topic, it takes a man with a Very strong heart to look past such, I mean your wife's/girlfriend's whole body is on display for the world to See, while she's being. Banged by another man..

The thought of it alone weakens me..

Its just bestno girl involves in such, as she should be thinking of the future and the consequences if seen by a third party.
Romance › Re: What If you find out Your Girlfriend Has A Compromizing Video by Laveda(f):
That's some hard decision mehn, just few guys would stand by her.

Do you know what it means watching your gf being banged by another? And all her body on display? And the thought of it forever?

Damn! embarassed
Romance › Re: A Question For The Female Money freaks. by Laveda(f): 10:30pm On Nov 04, 2016
But men are supposed to be financially buoyant. sad so as to cater for the family.

What's with this mentality?

In as much as we try to hide behind 'love ain't about money' my dear, that money is also necessary.
Celebrities › Re: GAY ALERT!!! An Angry Nigerian Wants Bobbyrisky Aka Naija Bobby Doll Jailed by Laveda(f): 8:38pm On Nov 04, 2016
Twaci:
cheesy what na?

Ain't he cute?

Na him we don arrange for you oh, so you'd better like him undecided
undecided Nah so you hate me reach? angry

tongue I dash you.
Celebrities › Re: GAY ALERT!!! An Angry Nigerian Wants Bobbyrisky Aka Naija Bobby Doll Jailed by Laveda(f): 8:24pm On Nov 04, 2016
Twaci:
Before pix of Bobrisky na
Chai cry Smh

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