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RomanceRe: Why You Should Be-careful When Inviting A Woman by lecturerdabo(m): 8:38am On May 09
fineboynl:
I invited this lady. She used her mother's phone to call me before coming and already 1 sent her money to her OPay.When she came, she called the mother; that she is with me.Every hour the mother keeps calling her.Until it gets late and she tells the mother she will not be coming home again.In the morning. Very early the mother called her around 5:30. After serious nacking that lasted hours. I noticed She was very strong and healthy.

This girl is a lady, not a small girl, oh.I was just asking myself if anything happened to her; what would I tell the mother or family the way the mother was calling her? Already she told her we know each other just newly . And I haven't seen the mother before.

I still remember dating one single mother. Before she drives out, leaving her house, she will first call her mother and tell her that she is going to see me.So guys, be careful. If a woman is not fit, strong, and healthy and nor put her body, e get why
Wonderful insurance package!

Might not even be the mother but well orchestrated policy to stop you from doing something stupid!!

Wise lady I must say!!!
PhonesRe: Official/normal Whatsapp Stopped Working On My Redmi 15c by lecturerdabo(m): 5:53pm On Apr 25
Have warned myself never to near anything redmi device no matter how good and fanciful!


Had a Redmi 5 Plus that kept me off Whatsapp for more than 2 months!

The silly phone just out of the blues started telling me "unofficial Whatsapp" and gave me link to the so called official app which will still tell me same grammar!

Sadly I was in an environment where I could only get phones at a cut-throat price because it's an island and I was low on cash!!

As if that was not enough, my wife's phone(Redmi product too) also experienced same though her's worked with a different Sim card!!
CareerRe: Pilot Career Choice by lecturerdabo(op): 4:51pm On Jan 14
WhiteIverson:
She should have a good knowledge of Mathematics, Physics, Geography and English. And also 5 credits in her O'level including Maths, Physics and English language. A minimum age of 17 years and a valid class 1 medical certificate.

It is not studied as a course in a university

You go to a flight school and get your license.

We have various flight schools in Nigeria but I suggest you check out Nigerian College of Aviation Technology (NCAT) as it might be cheaper than private flight schools. The Standard Pilot (SP) course is 2 years and costs about 12 million.
Although the training can be done in various stages at your own pace depending on your financial level.

https://ncat.gov.ng/flying-school-courses/
Thank you so much Sir/ma. Really appreciate your inputs and enlightenment
CareerPilot Career Choice by lecturerdabo(op): 3:24pm On Jan 14
Pilot Information! by lecturerdabo(m): 3:14pm
Good day great Nairalanders,
Please I'm in serious need of your assistance in making informed decisions here!

I have this young star who is desperately focused on becoming a pilot. I'm an average Nigerian struggling to make ends meet but cannot discourage this damsel from pursuing her dream, I believe God will make provisions as we progress!

What I need to know:

1. What are the courses required for one aspiring to be a pilot?

2. Is it being studied as a course without going through other courses?

3. Ideas of Nigerian institutions that offer the courses.

Any other information that can be of assistance!

Thanks in anticipation!!

NB: The aspirant is my only daughter! NO JOKES!!!

EducationPilot Information! by lecturerdabo(op): 3:14pm On Jan 14
Good day great Nairalanders,
Please I'm in serious need of your assistance in making informed decisions here!

I have this young star who is desperately focused on becoming a pilot. I'm an average Nigerian struggling to make ends meet but cannot discourage this damsel from pursuing her dream, I believe God will make provisions as we progress!

What I need to know:

1. What are the courses required for one aspiring to be a pilot?

2. Is it being studied as a course without going through other courses?

3. Ideas of Nigerian institutions that offer the courses.

Any other information that can be of assistance!

Thanks in anticipation!!

NB: The aspirant is my only daughter! NO JOKES!!!
PhonesRe: Airtel's Fake Free Youtube Data. by lecturerdabo(m): 9:28am On Nov 10, 2025
I believe they will sit up once subscriber starts boycotting them for the daylight robberies!!!


meobizy:
They should remove it so one wouldn’t have hope. Haba, person swear for them?
PhonesRe: Airtel's Fake Free Youtube Data. by lecturerdabo(m): 4:10pm On Nov 09, 2025
meobizy:
I was browsing yesterday with the last megabytes of my data. I hoped that once my bundle was exhausted (not expired), I would be able to rely on Airtel's 24 GB of free Youtube data which had accumulated over a few months. To my surprise, this did not happen. I could see whenever I keyed the prompt that I had almost 30 GB of free data to browse Youtube videos, yet both the website and app did not respond to any input I made.

Has anybody called Customer Care to find out why this is the case?
Airtel is nothing but a criminal organization!

Subscribed to 18G data meant for 30 days without even doing much or hotspoting my PC, they zapped it in a week!

Even the stupid customer care line after deducting your air time from the first second after dail, its machine and no idiot!!

I tried their Instagram, two different idiots kept at limbo for more than 4days now!!

Avoid those scammers if you can!!!
Car TalkRe: What’s The Most Reliable Engine You’ve Ever Used And Why? by lecturerdabo(m): 1:09pm On Nov 08, 2025
My first car back in 2010 was Volvo 740(don't know much about the engine technicalities)

Young guy with no experience in car maintainance! Did plenty mistakes with that car yet it refused to give up on me!!

One particular incident remains fresh in my memory, drove this beast from PH to Calabar sometime in 2012 to visit wife and kids. The next morning, I came out, dipped engine oil stick and realised the oil was completely dried up!! Just went to auto mart for a 4litre oil, poured it in, started the beast and all was good. Drove it back to PH after more than a week in Cally before servicing!!!

Wish I can get that Swedish tank again!!!
HealthRe: HIV AIDS Test Is Not Free In Government Hospitals And Clinics. by lecturerdabo(m): 1:43pm On Nov 03, 2025
RealLordZeus:
Shey you dey whine me ni..
You get money to carry OS but no money for HIV test..
Well to your question.. Egbon Donald Trump don cancel funding for all those free kits oo so you gats to pay
Is it only through sex that people get infected with HIV?
EducationRe: Throwback: Which Prefect Position Did You Hold In Primary or Secondary School? by lecturerdabo(m): 7:23am On Nov 01, 2025
Class prefect primary 4
School Time Keeper - primary 4
Class prefect - primary 6
School Head boy - Primary 6 (St Patrick's Ndiowerre)

Class prefect JSS 1 - SS 2
School Regulator - SS1
Deputy Senior Prefect - SS 2
(LABOREMUS PROPATRIA)
FamilyRe: Why Are Some People Like This? by lecturerdabo(m): 8:40am On Oct 30, 2025
Sonnobax15:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders......

So there's this female neighbor of mine whom I've always rendered help to countless of times...... Tho I don't like disclosing how I've helped people but I think some people don't deserve help at all.......Last time,I was rhe one who paid her kids school fees,cuz her husband was out of town and couldn't afford to send money to his family........Well,I didn't do that without the awareness of my woman cuz she was the one whom I gave the money to go and give to her....And there were times she came to me to borrow her money,ranging to up to 140k.....Tho she promised to pay back upon the arrival of her husband...But since her husband came back,I haven't heard from them and I don't even intend on confronting them cuz I knew that money was as good as gone forever.... Hence,I wasn't expecting them to pay back as well....

Now the problem is, this the same woman came to me last week , while my woman was in my shop to ask for financial help of 12k... I told her things haven't been as good as they were before as I've just opened my shop and still trying to balance things up........ Omoh,since then,this neighbor of mine and her husband started keeping malice with me and my woman......I just weak angry. All of a sudden, they've forgotten everything I've done for them simply because of this one time they came to me for help but couldn't help angry. My woman have been planning to go and meet them to ask of the money they came to borrow but I've been telling her not to.......The worst thing is that they no longer come to my shop to charge their phones and fill their gas as well..... Imagine the same people whom I've been charging their phones for free of charge angry. Omoh,I swear to help people these days just tire me....

But why are some people like this? angry

Nlfpmod
Obembet
Mynd44
Dominique
I need answers from y'all before I will do something to this couple that will hit Nairaland Front page angry
Always do your kindness as a sacrifice to God rather than business transaction thus you wouldn't feel hurt when your kindness is not reciprocated or scorned!

Some people have entitlement mentality and behave as though they gave you something to keep for them. Some will even accuse you of being a ritualist - what you are giving them is why they are poor or intended to exchange their star. Nevertheless, we must not be weary in doing good!!

To those saying he ought to be happy, believe me it's not easy to move freely knowing that the finger you once fed snobs and keeps malice with you just because you could not indulge them a single time!!

GOD HELP US!!!
FoodRe: Stop Using Alligator Pepper (atare) Until You Read This by lecturerdabo(m): 4:44pm On Oct 19, 2025
Careerscholar:
Thanks for waiting. As promised, here are 5 proven health benefits of Alligator Pepper, backed by science.

1. A Powerful Body Protector: Atare is loaded with antioxidants. These are molecules that fight cell damage in your body, helping to prevent diseases and aging.

2. Soothes Your Digestive System: Traditionally used for bloating and stomach ache. Studies suggest it helps your body produce the enzymes needed to digest food properly.

3. Fights Inflammation: If you suffer from aches and pains, this is important. Research in the Journal of Agricultural and Food Chemistry confirmed that Atare has strong anti-inflammatory properties.

4. Has Antimicrobial Effects: While not a substitute for prescribed antibiotics, research has shown that oil from Atare seeds can stop the growth of harmful bacteria like E. coli and Salmonella.

5. Clears a Congested Chest: The warming, peppery nature of Atare makes it excellent for clearing catarrh and phlegm, especially when combined with bitter kola or ginger.

Next up, we'll dive into the part many of our elders hold sacred: The Spiritual Work of Alligator Pepper.

I'll be back shortly to share.
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RomanceRe: NairaLand Is Gradually Dying Seun Do Something by lecturerdabo(m): 12:28pm On Sep 24, 2025
Freshtruth:
Nobody rush for FTC again, if U see 3 pages again a day na miracle, the ban is getting worse even wetin no reach to ban, every body is afraid to say d truth to escape ban

40 characters that thing people done tire to type cause is not a force to be talkertive
Why wouldn't it?

Even when you take out time to write comments, one silly person/bot will ban you for unknown reason. No wonder responsible people have drawn back and those visiting don't waste their time commenting on a forum where their efforts will be deleted.

I have been on this forum since 2012 and can confidently say Nairaland is now a ghost of itself!!!

DELETE IT IF YOU WISH!
FamilyRe: Do I Have Any Responsibilities To My Deceased Ex Father In-law by lecturerdabo(m): 6:00pm On Sep 21, 2025
Afodot0022:
Happy Sunday to you nairalanders and top of the morning. There is this issue I want to let the house know so I can get advise from matured and experienced people here that have got through the same issue and how they deal with it

I have been separated or let say divorced for close to 3yrs and this had created lot of acrimony between myself and my ex wife including issues with her family. The last issue I had with her was she took my kids to her father to live there without my consent. Ever since then , she had been denying me access to my children cos the new place her parents stay is a new site which I don't have the location, I stop interfering when the issue was becoming too much for me and focus on my life cos I know at the right time things will sort itself out.
This morning I got a call from a strange man and he introduced himself to me, by that, I knew the man is from my ex wife family by mentioning the location he was calling from.He told me that did I heard that my father in-law passed away few days ago, I mentioned I wasn't aware. Non of the family called me to pass the information to me neither did they call my own family to notify them. At first I find it strange getting a call from a strange man and giving me such info while it was supposed to be done my either my ex wife or her family, but I thought maybe because of the acrimony going on, they decided not to communicate with me cos ever since my ex took my kids to stay indefinitely with her father without my consent, I stop communicating with her or her family members.

Now that the man is late, I was told by the man that he wants to see me and have a meeting with me that he got my number from my ex wife.
What I need to know is that, now that am divorced, do I have any responsibilities whatsoever to render to the family being that am no longer married to their daughter again. Is it a must to be present in whatsoever they want to do or present at the burial. Pls I need advice from people that have experience this before and how they handled it or people that are vast in wisdom. I don't want to be mean to ignore the family cos their daughter really disappointed and betrayed me and also her family had input on how our marriage collapsed. My kids are still with them and also I have the intention to taking custody of my kids as the grandpa they live with is dead and seems like my ex wife have remarried and can't leave my kids to strangers. I want to use this as an opportunity to get custody of my children.

Pls all your advice are welcomed and appreciated. Gracias
From your post op, I can deduce you are not officially divorced. Has the bride price been returned? If legally married, there must also be legal divorce.

If the above has not been addressed, I'm sorry to inform you that you are still married to the said lady hence may consider your role as an in-law if you wish. Also like someone suggested, you must bear in mind that you have children with the lady, you must be careful not to burn bridges.

The man that called might be thinking the death of your father in-law presents avenue for reconciliation.

My advice:
Proceed with caution. Never embark on that journey alone! Never go without letting people know your movements. If possible involve security!!
RomanceRe: I Have Been Noticing This Strange Signs by lecturerdabo(m): 5:36pm On Sep 21, 2025
Davizee:
Three days ago I started noticing this strange signs which I won’t call a coincidence cause it happened more than two times followed with a strange dream. Three days ago i woke up from sore just to check the time and is saw 22:22pm. I overlooked it and the following morning, I woke up just to see 11:11am again. This time I looked at it as a normal coincidence not until it happened twice again. After the fourth time that it happened, I had a dream and in that dream I killed a very long snake. Please what does all this signs mean
I will advice you to be careful and prayerful. You are likely going to face trials sooner than expected but you will triumph!

Intensify your prayers!!
EducationRe: Man Calls Out His Two-year-old Daughter's School For Giving Her Assignment by lecturerdabo(m): 6:32pm On Sep 18, 2025
If your two years old child cannot talk and should not be given assignments, please keep him/her at home.

If it's because of work, please get a Nanny!

You intentionally took a toddler to school to disturb the teacher and distract others from learning.

If we check the assignment now, e no go pass painting, scribbling and sketches!!!
PoliticsRe: Is Governor Otti Sabotaging President Tinubu? by lecturerdabo(m): 12:30pm On Sep 17, 2025
Alex Otti's refusal to be a sycophant is the premise upon which the writer concluded Alex's inefficiency!

As much as I don't subscribe to taxing the poor market men and women, I also believe that Otti's achievements within his short time in office has surpassed 24years of PDP misrule in Abia.

Alex Otti, abeg pay pensioners their entitlements!!
If na you, you no go like am. They are humans like you!!!
RomanceRe: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by lecturerdabo(m): 2:48pm On Aug 24, 2025
ediko5:
A lady created a scene some weeks ago at a place known as Solution city in Akwa when she publicly proposed to his 'far younger' and the young man rejected her proposal citing age difference and also the fact that it's unethical for a lady to publicly propose to a man in his culture.

According to the lady, she's been dating the boy for 7 years.

They both shared their separate side of the story to Luck Udu experience.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5K7XOCD5DFg?si=jsMyhJ6YAHE0bIH7

Me: If I talk my own now eh.........
God has picked the lady's call finally!!!
CrimeRe: Maid Refuses To Give 10 Years Old Girl Food As She Did Not Wash Plates by lecturerdabo(m): 9:04pm On Jul 11, 2025
Danjuma04:
A video has surfaced online showing the moment a madam asked her maid why she didn't give her 10 year old daughter her food.

The maid said it was because the 10 year old girl did not assist her to wash plate while she was feeding the other kids.

The boss asked the maid why she will ask her daughter to wash plate knowing that the daughter does not enter the kitchen.

Watch and share your thoughts.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7VAjkA8c7kY
If I'm not married, I surely would have looked for this "maid" and if "MADam" were to be my wife, I would have replaced her with the "maid"!

At 10, my daughter could prepare rice. Though not the most delicious and sometimes with errors yet eatable!

This " MADMAM" is indeed a disgrace to motherhood.
My prayers are with the unfortunate man that will later end up with the small "MAD am".

I trust God, destiny helpers will surely locate the young girl and change her story!!
PoliticsRe: Aliyu Audu Resigns As Tinubu’s SSA On Public Affairs by lecturerdabo(m): 12:39pm On Jun 09, 2025
Don't know your unspoken/unwritten motive but going by what is said/written, one need not be "Pastor/Reverend/Bishop" or "Sheik/Imam" to have conscience!!

God bless Nigeria!!!
PoliticsRe: This Is Not For Civil Servants: A Mockery Masquerading As Marketing by lecturerdabo(m): 7:23am On May 19, 2025
valentino057996:
*This Is Not for Civil Servants: A Mockery Masquerading as Marketing*
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Our society has sincerely debased to a horrible status and we all are to blame worse of all our religious institutions!

Some weeks ago, someone told us Jesus hate the poor. Some others are busy making them "Pastors". "Knights" and "Elders" all in the bid to share in the crime/corruption infested pockets!

Even a top politician once ridiculed hard work with the political talk "They will labour till they die" and we hailed him!

Today we are encouraging youths to get rich by all means or die trying!!!
CrimeRe: Hit And Run by lecturerdabo(m): 10:00am On May 08, 2025
sirgusto:
Someone hit my car from behind on Tuesday night at Eliozu, Port Harcourt. It was a black Toyota RAV4, and the driver fled, but I got his plate number. Someone advised me to report it to the police as a stolen vehicle—that way, when they find him, they’ll contact me. Another person suggested going to the road safety/license office, as they might help retrieve his details (address, NIN, etc.) to trace him further.

It’s not like I want to track his home and harm his family—I just want his information. How can I go about this discreetly, without leaving traces?

This happened at Eliozu. All I have is his plate number, and I want to trace him without involving the authorities. I’m willing to pay ₦1M to get to him.
You don't want to follow legal process because you cant prove it that the number plate you have was actually the car that bashed your car!

i have experienced what you are feeling now as well as that special crave to prove to the individual "you can't just mess with anybody you see and escape"

Since God in his infinite mercies availed you with the resources, just go fix your car and leave the clown with God. he will meet his waterloo someday somewhere!
FamilyRe: My Experience Taking A Diamond Bank Small Ticket Loan by lecturerdabo(m): 9:25pm On Nov 14, 2024
That is Nigeria for us!

I took a loan from FCMB, every month they send me SMS of Principal deduction as 12k and interest deduction to the tune of 40k.

Nigerian banks are evil!
FamilyRe: Daughter Steals Late Mother’s Burial Money, Buys Herself A Car, Books Vacation by lecturerdabo(m): 2:10pm On Apr 14, 2024
Funeral is nothing more than a show!

Why waste scarce resources feeding public while some dudes in the same family is looking for capital to establish a business pay school fees or even hospital bills?

Some will even borrow in the name of "BEFITTING BURIAL"

Africa and wahala, to hell with burial!!!
PhonesRe: Who Needs This Phone, New Nokia Torch by lecturerdabo(m): 5:35pm On Feb 13, 2024
Vgstar18:
I bought this phone for a year now and haven't used it. I'm selling it for 6000.
Based in Port Harcourt
You want to sell an item without phone contact?

08057019960 I need it
PhonesRe: Globalcom Cheating On Data by lecturerdabo(m): 10:24am On Feb 13, 2024
frog12:
Anyone noticed your data plan expire before you even use it ?
I never used up to 10mb of gigs plan I just buy and they tell me exhausted and expired. Cheaters
GLO is nothing short of a criminal network!
AgricultureRe: Help Nairalanders, My Farm Is Going Down by lecturerdabo(m): 1:06pm On Jan 10, 2024
janedonez:
I did Beans farming to help sustain livelihood, unfortunately, the DD Force Chemical I applied destroyed all my Beans. I don't know what to do.

When I was offered the Chemical, I objected but the Dealer insisted that it was the appropriate Chemical to use, after going through the Label I also read that it can used plants such as Maize, beans and others.
Highly concentrated, not diluted properly caused the burns and the seed was already infected before chemical was applied!

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