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Ikpemalueziokwu:
Also, while setting up my pricing, I saw 35% and 70% royalty plan. Which should I choose bro?

I chose 70% so that i can make more money

Ikpemalueziokwu:
OP pls I received a mail that my Author name wasn't the same with my book content, therefore my book was reverted to draft. Pls what does this mean? Should I use d name I use I registering for kindle publishing? Cos my name I used in registering defers from the name I put as author's name i.e I used my local name in signing up and used a white name (pen name) on the book. Is that the problem? Thanks man

Can you screenshot the mail, they sent to you

Lalasticlala

I will be the first to say that men have an incredible amount of pressure upon their gender. Whether it’s to be the traditional breadwinner, to be physically stronger, a better dad, a bigger boss, or perhaps just more of a man. The list goes on and yet it seems like in today’s modern world the spotlight is on a woman’s struggle, and so we forget to acknowledge what men face too.
The problem with men and women nowadays is not their differences; because they are what essentially make us compatible with one another. But rather our inability to communicate and understand those differences we have and how we can make them work together. Finding love isn’t a walk in a park and it seems traditional standards still leave it up to the man to make the first move, to be the initiator and chase the girl. For women we talk openly and freely about our fears and relationship failures. We band together to form women support groups and create a sisterhood which helps us better understand where we are going wrong (mainly by dissecting every single relationship we have ever had!) Yet for men all they seem to get is a slap on the back from their mates, saying “you’ll be right” and the token brush over, because talking in depths about a broken relationship just isn’t done in the man cave. However, it’s time to talk about things in more depth and hit the nail on the head, so that men can not only take responsibility for their part in a couple but also cultivate healthy and fulfilling relationships.

1: Fear of lack

This can carry though to every aspect of your life. Whether it’s not being able to provide financially, or give enough emotionally, men need to learn to let go of this fear. Having a positive mindset and understanding that who you are is enough will help to overcome this anxiety. At the end of the day there are specific qualities that a good woman will want, and trust me, they don’t have anything to do with material things!

2: Fear of failure

For a lot of men, they have this strong connection between their identity and their ability to succeed in life. Whether it’s in their career, marriage or finances, the idea of failing is not just a small fear, but rather something that can control their total mindset and decisions. Relationships are hard work and sometimes they don’t work out. But this does not reflect your worth as a man or partner.

3: Fear of never being enough

Whilst women have played a vital role throughout the generations, the pressure for a man to live up to what the world deems to be “man enough” has left men a little lost in the process. With the empowerment of women, men have somewhat lost their voice and role along the way and therefore feel they can’t live up to our standards. This is where they need to take control back, not to dominate the woman but to step into their shoes as the man and give the relationship the balance it needs.

4: Fear of commitment

When a man falls in love, it essentially means he has to give a part of himself away with no guaranteed happy ending. Women want security, they want to know that you will not only give them your heart but also your word. Commitment doesn’t have to represent entrapment, but rather an opportunity to build a solid foundation with a worthy woman.

5: Fear of missing out

If we live our lives based off a fear of missing out, we forget to enjoy and live in the present. It’s one thing to have drive and ambition, but it’s altogether another thing to be plagued with anxiety at the thought of never being able to achieve everything. Being in a committed relationship does not signify that you can’t follow your dreams or pursue certain passions. Sometimes the journey made with someone is far better than doing it on your own.

6: Fear of being vulnerable

Relationships are always a risk, as is falling in love. If you have been hurt before in the past, chances are you will be hesitant about who you want to open up to in the future. However, being vulnerable and transparent in a relationship is essential to its progress and health. What we need to change is the mindset that vulnerability=weakness. Choosing to open yourself up emotionally to the person you are falling fall is what will improve trust and communication.

7: Fear of not having control

In general, most people want to be in control of every aspect of their life. For men, it seems that they have more pressure to be not only the provider but also the leader. Falling in love with someone will mean that you will have to let go to some extent and learn to trust the other person to guide you. Whilst having standards help keep us on track, ultimately you can’t dictate everything that goes on in the relationship.

Source: https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/7-fears-men-need-give-find-love-desire-dg/

Lalasticlala

iLegendd:
Read men's pyramid of greatness.

My ebook is not selling on kindle..

I would like to go on but I just want to know if you'd like to help

Inehmesit:
Y’all should at least look at the date I posters this stuff, it’s like months ago, I’m done with scabies.

How did you cure your scabies

By poor men, they are refering to income and not intelligence

Rich men love women with small breasts, the poor love those with big bust, study says.

There has always been the wonder of whether men prefer bigger breasted women, or women with a smaller chest. And as it turns out, it all comes down to how much money they earn!

Two studies dating back several years have finally shed some light on the question, pointing out some surprising factors.

Psychologists Viren Swami and Martin Tovée conducted a study which investigated whether men’s access to resources would influence their preferences for breast size in women.

They carried out two experiments in which they tested whether men who lack material goods would find larger breasts more desirable than men who do have material goods.

For the first experiment, they explored the relationship between financial security and men’s preferences in breast size. They recruited 266 men from three parts of Malaysia that varied in socioeconomic status – low, medium and high.



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Rich men love women with small breasts, the poor love those with big bust, study says.

There has always been the wonder of whether men prefer bigger breasted women, or women with a smaller chest. And as it turns out, it all comes down to how much money they earn!

Two studies dating back several years have finally shed some light on the question, pointing out some surprising factors.


Psychologists Viren Swami and Martin Tovée conducted a study which investigated whether men’s access to resources would influence their preferences for breast size in women.

They carried out two experiments in which they tested whether men who lack material goods would find larger breasts more desirable than men who do have material goods.

For the first experiment, they explored the relationship between financial security and men’s preferences in breast size. They recruited 266 men from three parts of Malaysia that varied in socioeconomic status – low, medium and high.


Each participant was shown animated female figures, each varying in breast size. They then rated them out of five for physical attractiveness. And it turned out, men with a lower socioeconomic status found larger breasts more appealing than those with a higher socio-economic status.

They then compared breast size ratings in a second experiment which reflected upon the evolutionary perspective of breast size – being that it is a signal of a woman’s ability to bear and nurture a child. But this time, they did it based on a full stomach.

They used 66 hungry male university students, and 55 with satisfied appetites to test whether the security of food had an effect on their preferences, participating as they either entered or exited their campus cafeteria between 6pm and 7pm.

They also only used white males for this study, as ethnicity is known to influence breast size preferences.

Again, they were shown five women with varying sized breasts. And apparently, the hungry males preferred the bigger breasted women more than the satiated men.

SOURCE:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/poor-men-love-big-breasts-the-rich-prefer-them-smaller-study/amp/?fbclid=IwAR1XXT_4p0OGaFqWqrWp1F_VCHE4xq4GfdRQKk_i_RokHcQwpl4cQj1a3q8https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/poor-men-love-big-breasts-the-rich-prefer-them-smaller-study/amp/?fbclid=IwAR1XXT_4p0OGaFqWqrWp1F_VCHE4xq4GfdRQKk_i_RokHcQwpl4cQj1a3q8

cc: lalasticlala

I published a book 2 days ago

Yet no show what am i doing wrong

eliok
Ilegendd

Wow

Grupo:
I do controversial health and fitness books.

For one of my books, people were writing on how a particular procedure cures all illness. I came up and wrote that the procedure actually harms more people than it helps.

I heard those types of books barely make money.... You must be a boss to be making money from there..

Please How many sales do you get monthly

Grupo:
Wow. Man, you are really killing it. 25k USD in one month is enough money. Jeez.

I have only made around $192 this month on Kindle. I did that with just two books. It has been my best month so far on Amazon. Haha. I'm happy. Considering it is passive income and I haven't done a new book since June.

Seems I should elevate this publishing thing as my primary business and take it seriously.

What nich are you in?

ecomerceguru:
Hello, My name is Victor Ojionu, I started kindle Publishing in 2013. I was among the First people who followed this Thread closely when it started.
My Break-through came January 2014 and ever since then it has been smooth sailing. I Made #1 Bestseller all over Amazon in 2016, Mk8 was aware of it then. What this means was that I sold Over 3000 Copies of One Book in a Day and I was Overall Best on Amazon, the book is still selling till date. Over the years I have Maintained This Stats. I am not one to brag but kindle Publishing has changed my life.

Recently, I was Accused of Fraud by the SARs, They came to my House, beat me Up and demanded for an outrageous Amount of Money, which I was unable to provide. Unfortunately, things got out of hand and they defamed my name all over the web, writing all sort of bullsh#t about me, which doesn't add Up. It was a traumatic Experience for me and my family and we are still trying to recover. Soon, the world will hear my Story.

I really do want to appreciate MK8, Kudos for Creating this Life-changing Post on Nairaland, it has absolutely changed my life. Here is my Current Earning For Anyone who's in Doubt. Kindle is a no brainer and a game changer for anyone who is focused and ambitious. I publish in the low content and Gifts book niche . Attached to this post is my current sales and earning for the Doubting Thomas

Nb: Please, Don't contact me for Tutorial or Mentoring. I don't offer tutorial or any of such, I don't have that time. But I can provide assistance on this thread whichever way possible, so everyone will learn.

What are some keywords to try out in 2019

iLegendd:
You need to do plagiarism check. You can use Copyscape or any other site you can find online.

They'll reply you, but give them 5 working days. If you copied anything online, you should remove it or you risk getting your account terminated.

I posted part of the information on my blog before turning it into a book

iLegendd:
Nice input. I appreciate.

I posted my book on Amazon and it talked about content been freely found on the internet.... I replied them and they are yet to send me a message since then.. is there any problem

ThreeBlackBird:
Just good looking, nothing spectacular. Money, NO! The only thing I have is an accent. I think that's that what many of them commend me about.

What do you mean by you dont have money?

Are you broke and tattered or at least you got a plasma tv in your room

ThreeBlackBird:
Since I completed my progamme in the university and have had ample time to flex around, I have been having too much pressure and calls from the opposite sex. Although, I might have initiated the whole process but they hijack it along the line.

They call even at odd hours and call for a long period of time. Initially, it was all fun until I began to see the drama as nauseating. A lady called me some thirty minutes ago and if I had picked that call, I would still be on it. Another called earlier which I neglected as well. Only God know who recharges for them because to the best of my knowledge, if those who work among make these calls with their hard earned salaries, it would always end in hot tears before month end.

My problem is I don’t know how to reduce this attention without hurting someone’s daughter’s feeling. I asked a girl who recharges for her and she got angry and asked me to disconnect the call. I did, thinking the call was over for the night and I could pick another call that was waiting. The called immediately and it lasted another 20 minutes. It’s not even that I have money, or send money, or have a treasury anywhere. Why should I make long phone calls when I’m not a customer care agent?

If as a guy, I now feel disturbed about these calls, how then do ladies whose phone never stop beeping deal with it? How then do politicians deal with this issue as well?

Are you handsome?

Do you have a little bit of money?

AfroKnight:
What’s up with the “photos” though? You have screenshots of conversations depicting guys falling their hands?

You want to see them

I wonder why guys like insulting women, when they spend heavily on them in reality.

Even with ubunja miseducations many guys are still spending

Imagine one guy that moved a girl he barely knowa to his location and offered her accomodation for NYSC...

Another spent almost all his money to get a girl a phone...

Guys are always trying to impress women

Even on nairaland here... Some guys possbily beg women to become their friends.... They possibly beg them for a date... Especially ladies like pocohantas....

Whats up with the males

zed7:
This is the reason for the story. A bait to scam you. Better wise up.

Pubichairs:
when u choose love and women before success



Failure is knocking at ur door kor kor kor

What kind of advice is this

iLegendd:
Sent.

Sent me a copy please

I know only a few guys have had a girl come to their room requesting for a Bleep, but that's to tell you how handsome girls think I am...

By the way, there are some girls that come around me and when I make a move, they don't push me away and they keep trying to talk to me whenever we meet.

I have seen a lot of girls post on Facebook, that they don't like when a guy starts touching when they go to visit him, so I take care, but I'm wondering if I should move to the next step with these ladies?

iLegendd:
You're welcome, dear.

Can you please send it to me

owerripaul@gmail.com

iLegendd:
Today, I made just 151k.

Write a letter why I should give you 2k from this money. I would've given more, but I'm a stingy person.

I'll transfer 2k each to the best 2 people with the best letter.

It's not by first to post, but by the letter I love the most.

Do you mean for only today or since this month all accumulated to today?