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acunon:
Hi

When you connect Startimes decoder or DVD with either AV or HDMI cable... Press the input button on the remote and locate the source where you connected the Startimes or DVD(It might be AV, HDMI 1 or 2 or 3 or 4 and EXT meaning 21 pin connection) and press ok.

Thanks

adeyemi91:
The guy never send. I can't blame him o. I once did this, na so people dey troop in till my whole data finish. We too like awoof

adeyemi91:
yhemmygenius@gmail.com
Thanks

holymarlian:
what I got to tell you all is that may your sister date a cultist and agbero ijn since agbero Alberto is good in your eyes.

holymarlian:
only God can understand women even women do not understand themselves.there is girl in my compound I have chyked her but she keeps forming Porsche worst part of it she thinks she is smart every time she borrows my phone to listen to music because she doesn't have a phone at the moment so she usually calls her boyfriend with my phone when am absent but I don't care because I have up to #6000 airtel bonus on my phone.i didn't bother since she is not using my airtime but something happened that shocked me to pieces our street did their carnival on the 29th and her boyfriend came my God! if you see the rugged looking and dirty guy with black igbo lips and yellow eyes this pretty girl calls her boyfriend Damn I am far better in looks, finance and social class I asked her friend once again if he is really her boyfriend she usually calls at night with my phone she said yes I was shocked I laughed so hard I had to leave the carnival right now I give up on chyking this girl because am disappointed. I cannot come and eat leftover from an agbero.

women are truly illogical as people always say in this forum they are not worth the stress because they don't know what they want and always end up making the wrong choice..

Irijosa777:
I fine it difficult to trust ladies after reading articles about relationship in this forum.


I am a strong fun of this forum and I read a lot of stories in nairaland in fact I have be so addicted to reading articles in nairaland, though I don't believe all stories.

My issue is this, I have read a lot about relationship issues in this forum as a result of that I fine it difficult to trust ladies especially the ones that has to with ex.
Sometime, I just feel it is better to remain a single, I don't want anybody to break my heart.
But to be frank and sincere after reading those stories I just feel relationship is a big scam but man can't remaining a single forever... Am just tire of the whole thing maybe I should just stop reading stories about relationship in this forum


Please don't get me wrong, I am not in any way saying ladies can't be trusted.

coolfredo:
Hello am an active member here, but first HAPPY NEW YEAR TO U ALL i asked my girl frnd of almost 2 years on 31/12/2019 night how many time she cheated on me last year she said 2 times that i was the cause of it that she was hony n she could not tell me so one thing lead to another she went to de guys house even though she did not planned on having sex with de guy so de ended up having sex, that she was sick n she needed someone to take care of her so de guy take advantage of her. I ended her with 2019

okechukwu101:
I AND MY COLLEAGUE HAD AN ARGUMENT AND SHE SAID MOST WOMEN DATE MARRIED MEN FOR SEX AND I GAVE HER MY REASONS WHY I THINK OTHERWISE PLEASE WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK.

Merrymen1:
Dear All,

I have been a member of NL for sometime now, though I have to create this new account for this purpose.

Am happily married with 3 kids (2boys ,1 girl) for 9 years now, equally work as an Engineer in one of the Oil and Gas companies.

I met this Young lady, 2 months ago (Oct 2019), she is 19 yrs (except she tells you, you will doubt it with the last drop of your blood that she is 19 because she looks bigger than her age), though she works with one of our contractors as a causal staff in same company. We started getting along .I was Frank to open up to her that I am married because I don't want issues on the long run in my marriage, she said no issues. Actually ,reason for knowing her, was not for anything trust me, I just wanted someone I would always chat with it or something. I love my wife / kids so dearly that I wouldn't wish anything to cause issues in my home. I have been faithful to my wife ever since we got married.

To fast forward. So at a point, the girl stated telling me that she is having issues with her BF, she sent me screenshot of argument she had with him , how the guy insulted her, calling her names, that she always cheat on him. So I called her and she explained , of a truth, she cheated on him because he wasn't taking care of her. She said the guy stays in other State, while she is in other state. Feeling remorse, she did everything to see the guy each time he comes to town, but he wouldn't want to see her.So I advised her to pls make up with him, it could be he doesn't have the money or something. For the fact he doesn't take care of you, does not mean you should sleep around. I told her the implication of premarital sex, that God frowns at it, and that if she needs anything , she should talk to me than sleeping around, she accepted, and promised not to do it again, and ever since then, I have been there for her financially, but haven't slept with her. I told her she's more of a sister to me than a friend, I do want I do not because of sex but to see her grow as responsible girl with Bright future because she just got admission into higher institution. We've had the opportunity of being all alone in a room, I didn't sleep with her, even though we had a slight romance, I was so conscious. I always tell her I wish to see her grow as a responsible girl with Bright future.

My pains, recently , something happened, I was questioning her, her told me she slept with a guy just last month, I was pissed off, I told her is this how you wish to appreciate what I've been doing for you? you promised me provided I will be there for you financially, you won't sleep around again. Am not pained that I didn't sleep with her, never, afterall, it's not my intention to have it with her , mind you , I love my wife,;rather am pained that she seems not to listen to all I have been telling her about living a good life, sticking to her Bf if at all and quitting such life style.
Though she appolized for her actions, but then I am yet to respond to her. Though she is getting on with her Bf.

Please I need your candid advice on what to do. No abusive language pls.

Victoronah1:
Is it possible to find a girl and marry from here. I'm saying this cause I saw a girl and I like her. But I don't know if her dp is real or not. I'll mention her name later today by 10am so you guys can check em out. Meanwhile is it advisable. I want a woman to marry and not date. Thanks

emmy584:
I met this girl on facebook whom we both know each other not very much. We started chatting together for a while and things gradually started taking another dimension. We both fell in love with each other in a way that we can't stay without communicating with ourselves. As we all know, in every relationship there is bound to be a misunderstanding in one way or the other and ours wasn't different. There was a day as we were talking on phone, all of a sudden she became provoked and told me not to call her anymore and whenever I tried calling is either she busy the call or never picks. Her sudden attitude started affecting me emotionally because I fell deeply in love with her. On a good day, she finally picked and told me that we need to talk. These was when she told me that she has a boyfriend and I was for some minutes dumbfounded. She went further telling me that she really loves me and she doesn't want to hurt me that's why she couldn't bring it to her mind to tell me when we first met online. I asked her if she loves the other guy and she said yes she does. Please I need an advice on what to do because I truly love her and I don't want to lose her.

Victoronah1:
I made an earlier post about a week ago about my girlfriend who claimed she is a virgin here https://www.nairaland.com/5581767/please-girlfriend-claimed-she-virgin/4#5581767.138
But to be frank I don't know what else to believe again.
She came yesterday and we had sex. Leme not lie I bought lubricant. At first it was hard to penetrate but when I applied to lubricant the thing entered like plane. She refused to open legs as usual telling me she is still scared. But after some few thrusts, she opened her legs wide and was even dragging me inside. Jesus!! I became confused. I told her to get on me which she did, but was finding it difficult to go deep on me cause my dick is kinda tall shaa upto 8.4 length from my measurements. When she was on top riding, at a time she said in quote" what am I even doing" as she just came down. It was as if she noticed she was now exposing her self easily ori don't understand again. Please I love this girl oo. But it's like she lied to me.if you need more information ask me bikonu. I can't marry a person who lies. Please at a time she became obsessed with the sex that she was holding me so tight. She was on her ovulation and we did Raw sex. I was surprised when she asked me " is she not supposed to take any drugs"? I then asked her which drug and she said she doesn't know. Since yesterday we haven't talked again oo after the sex. But she was moaning so loud that I told her to stop and she told me she can't stop moaning. Biko help me
@princenonye the update is here

Paige001:
so you had a girlfriend and you still had the mind to invite another girl over, i feel sorry for your ex, she should have dumbed your sorry ass first

milemimi93:
Uder 96 hours I have slept with 6 beautiful Nigerian ladies. What amazes me most is not how easily you get in bed with them but how low-price they are.

Ellarhh:
I'm 21, a graduate, will be serving in March. I don't have money ooo
I'm kinda broke (struggling with my importation business I started of recent). I'm not looking for a guy that'll spend on me tho' (spending on me is a plus but it's not a priority). Still, I need a man that's okay financially. Someone with a legit source of income.
I'm inexperienced with sex but I'm open to it if we vibe well.
Also, before you indicate interest, I'm not a slay queen ooo abeg. I'm quite lean, a bit busty and *not* tall.

I can really fun to be with when I like a person and can definitely have intelligent conversations and motivate you to do better. I'm not promiscuous as well.

I'm searching for an honest guy that I can be friends with (I lack male friends). As time goes on we'll decide on if we want a relationship or not.
If you're between the ages of 24–27, you're fair , fun to be with and smart then I'm your girl. If you reside in Port Harcourt as well, that'd be nice.

Any interested persons should PM me please. Thanks

Cc: Lalasticlala

lilmax:
So this week on Friday, she confessed that she accepted to date the guy, that she did it becaue the guy is disturbing her too much.. I got mad at her and tell her again to blocked the guy number which she did. She later accused me of not having human feelings that I should pity the guy, she said if she blocked the guy now that how do I expect the guy to feel.






Look at this WEAK animal, you're a woman not a man

Rrchrd:
I met a girl on Facebook recently & she is interested in me too but I don't know if I should be serious with her. she is 29 & am 29 too ,could it be that she wanto hold me and have hope for marriage?

And what also make me to be reluctant is dat she work in a hotel, though she said that she's not fumbling with men there that she always discipline & value herself.

happney65:
I cannot respect you if you dont respect the waiter"..Mohammed Ali..

Your wife is not a good woman and you should consider divorcing her sef..For looking down on a housemaid she isnt worth it..I dislike people who behave like that to people on the lower ladder

unique357 I hope you see this..

grossintel:
I have something paining me so much, and for this reason, I'm seriously reconsidering settling down. My girlfriend and I have been together for a while, and even though we plan to get married soon I always see reasons to hold on. Marriage is not something you really rush into, honestly, it might look good on the outside but inside it's something else.

She used to be a student and come visiting once in a while but now she's done with school and has been around for a month. This is the longest time we've ever seen since we started dating and now I'm getting the vibe of what it feels like living with a woman. In fact it's better she's away and we see like we used to.
There are so many things I can't do anymore, simply because she's here. I can't play my ps4 in the sitting room anymore, as soon as I have the time and decide to, she's already there watching Telemundo or some other channel I can't relate to. When you tell her to switch to something we both have interest in she'll nag about how I don't want her to have a good time. When I insist I want to play games or watch something else she'll just leave the sitting room and enter the room and lock herself.

I had a talk with her, and she suggested I move the ps4 to the guest room, I have a 32 inch TV there, and a 60 inch 4k UHD in the well-furnished sitting room. I just looked at her as she said this while sipping Fresh Yogo with a wide smile. How can I live like a church rat inside my house? I can't keep something and it will still be there when I return. I can't eat what I want, it has to be what she wants or she'll cook it anyhow and give me.

She said we need 30k for feeding, no problem as long as we eat well. But when she go market and come back, I was looking for money one day and asked her if she had, she asked me to check her purse and I saw 1k everywhere. When I asked her she said it's her savings.

I'm here because these whole thing is paining me, if it's like this, then imagine how it will be when married forever. I spoke to a friend about it, and he said I'm too soft on her, that if I tell her something and she refuses then I should hit her. That's a no-no for me, I can't do that instead I ask her to leave. Please married people, how do you deal with women? It's driving me completely nuts.

donbachi:
Her ex said that to make ur friend dislike and see her as a cheat..to enable him have her all to himself and u guys fell for it.