Emmafe:
Ignore that, you can pickup in person or send a third party. If you want to pickup ursef just go with photocopy of your international passport n write ur tracking number on it.

@Emmafe I got a mail from VFS that my passport is ready for pick up at Abuja CVAC, meanwhile I submitted in Lagos through DHL. How do I go about it? Should I wait for them to send it to Lagos? Or make arrangements for pick up?

Emmafe:
Ignore that, you can pickup in person or send a third party. If you want to pickup ursef just go with photocopy of your international passport n write ur tracking number on it.

@Emmafe please does one need to book an appointment before going in to pick up.Or we can just walk in and pick up.

There is nothing going on here in Enugu o, we are a waiting the final list for those that will write the test later today, so far just 30 names from Anambra have been announced. Imo peeps et al are still waiting.

Hmmmmm OK na

obiorathesubtle:
but some girls like boring guys.. My girlfriend doesn't complain

A lot of girls love action and activities am just saying sha

Having talked to and observed many girls  of all kinds in UNN   it became clear to me that one of the biggest turn-offs to them, if not the biggest one, is when the guy is being boring. Women seem to be able to overlook all kinds of other unattractive qualities. You may be bald, overweight, lacking in style or are not even that well off financially, and you could still date decent women if you have great personality, sense of humor and you can be a stimulating company to them. Even physically abusive guys get away with their temper and be forgiven if they are interesting.
In this brief write up , I would like to first present one major but rarely mentioned reason why so many seemingly educated and accomplished guys appear boring to women. Then, I will suggest a simple way in which any such guy can become more interesting or at least less boring.
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The Problem: Many Guys Became Boring Because They Have Been Beta-fied

You go out on a few dates with a few uptight girls with serious entitlement issues, who think they are God’s gift. They can’t take the most mildly inappropriate joke or even get over the most mild disagreement, screaming “I can’t believe you just said that” as if you suggested that you endorse slavery or grant book haram amnesty ‎
 
You then start believing that all the girls are like that, and the only way to be attractive to any of them and the only chance to get laid is by being extremely careful and neutral when talking to them. You then start limiting your interactions, at least during the first few dates, to the most innocent topics, avoiding any kind of disagreements.
The over-the-top gentle and careful approach with girls, in turn, makes you appear extremely boring and ultra-beta, especially to the girls who have personality and a sense of humor. They want to spend time with a guy who has a backbone, can be both funny and stimulating, and can dish out dark humor and sarcasm.

‎The Solution: Don’t Compromise Your Wit And Sense of Humor, and Don’t Settle For Uptight Girls

The solution to this problem is two-fold. First, you must not start falling victim to your own past negative experiences with girls, and you must not start believing that all the women out there are uptight, high-maintenance bitches with no personality. They are not, no matter how many of them you met in the past. There are enough great women out there who you will have a great time meeting,Therefore, you should not alter or suppress your behavior if you are naturally funny and sarcastic guy, because it will inevitably work on the type of girl that matches well with you. Dark humor / sarcasm is one of the most powerful flirting and seduction weapons you have been blessed with. And the smarter and more interesting the girl you are talking to is, the more intrigued and the more turned on (both physically and mentally) she will be by a man of sharp wit.   Happy Sunday y'all.‎

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Ds kain chin chin na wa o

Audu is on point

ucheogini:
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iluvweed:
Why wont the OBA be angry? When one foolish man (JK) said " Igbo developed and controlled Lagos" Now how is this possible? Cos all the flat heads I see around me are either Yahoo boys, Thieves, Blood money ritualist, 419ners, drug pushers, or kidnappers!...So how have they developed and controlled lagos? with PIRACY?








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And you think u have sense like this :'

realdee44:
so what amount do u thing should b enough for an average wedding, 3 to 4 million?

yes na, 3-4 million can serve for an average wedding[color=][/color][quote][/quote]

missbehave247:
Nawa ooo0

Wetin wa you

Fancy weddings are the ultimate exercise of narcissism and commercialism in modern society. It’s been observed countless times that women all over the world want to get married, but they do not want to be married. They want the year-long attention of being in “wedding planning mode,” culminating in the ultimate party where they are the supreme princess for the day. When it comes to fulfilling a role as a wife and mother, though, they will suddenly balk at any mention of tradition. Her unilateral insistence upon a large wedding reflects especially poorly on her character in these ways
1. Financial Irresponsibility
The average naija wedding costs 3 to 4 million naira, now en  For anyone besides the super-rich, how can throwing a big party to commemorate your financial castration  be considered anything but irresponsible? Your sweetie would rather squander money (often much of it yours) on a lavish celebration rather than investments such as buying a house, saving for retirement, or traveling the world to educate yourselves. An expensive, pointless wedding is the ultimate display of low future-time orientation, a bad trait for someone to whom you’re pledging half your future earnings in a legally binding contract.

2. Selfishness
Have you ever seen a dead-eyed man dutifully trying to choose between yellow and goldenrod for his wedding’s place settings? Men don’t enjoy planning weddings. Though they make up half of a marriage partnership (and usually more financially-speaking), a preference for a courthouse or a small ceremony is almost always ignored because it’s “her day.” This sets a poor precedent for future decisions you will make as a couple. If you give a mouse a cookie…

3. Herd mentality
Though the silliness of the modern wedding ceremony are fairly easy to elucidate, women are more susceptible to the whims and opinions of those around them. Bella naija  have taught her from her teenage years that she deserves a grand storybook wedding. Her friends goad her into one-upsmanship by showing off their expensive engagement rings on Facebook and Instagram. Her parents want to bring the entire extended family to the ceremony to show off their success at raising a well-adjusted little girl. And the aforementioned popular media normalizes the extravagance and consumerism of the experience by suggesting she is somehow abnormal or deficient if she doesn’t keep up with the joneses.

If you’ve committed yourself to getting married in grandeur you’ve already made a tremendously risky move. If your babe insists that you dump a bunch of your hard-earned money into what amounts to a one-sided victory party, you know unequivocally that she will not make a good partner in the long run. Get out while you still can.:

Final result here

falconey:
no no no.....your car plate number ni, am a mechanic incase I see your plate number in my shop my service will be free

lol

Thank you all, just felt like adressing that issue this morning. @Falconey 08037006978

What would women think if we told them who they should find attractive? What if morbidly obese men in Nigeria declared that they are the male ideal, and then used multiple mainstream media outlets to shame women for not liking men with potbellies, no muscle mass, low monthly incomes,  What if this group of fat male folks would also announce that if women liked the opposite of what they deemed attractive, they were “shallow” and “stupid” with no understanding of what a “real” man is?

If this really did occur, women would rightly call the men insane and delusional, arguing that they are free to choose the type of men they want to be attracted to, a choice made either consciously from their current tastes or subconsciously due to genetics that tell them to land the most resourceful and fit men in order to pass on good genes to their offspring. The fat male folks would be shamed and ostracized.

This scenario has not actually happened because most men are not idiots—they know that most women are attracted to status, money, bad boys, and good looks, but the same can not be said of women. Through a media effort that at times seems conspiratorial, they are trying to brow-beat men into liking unattractive women. Their agenda scolds men for not liking…

single moms (women who made the decision to keep spawn of a bad boy who wanted little or nothing to do with the child)... may not be the case sha 
overweight women (women who are ugly, gluttonous, gelatinous, and lacking in all manner of self control)... it may be hereditary sha
strong women (women who are overbearing, masculine, annoying, irritable, and whiny)
women who have had dozens of prior sexual partners (women who don’t know the word “loyalty” unless it pertains to buying an Apple product)
older women (women who are less fertile and more likely to pass on genetic defects to your child)
Attraction is not a social construct that can be brainwashed into a man. Am a guy, and I feel i have something called a logic module hardwired into my brain. If something am doing is not helping me accomplish a specific goal, i make adjustments to improve my chance of success. Most Naija ladies who lack this module, instead say that the goal they want should become sentient and drawn to her just because. Her existing behaviors and habits should be enough to give her a lifetime of happiness, and if that happiness is not realized, a man or a culture of patriarchy is to blame.

The interesting fact of DNA is that it can’t be persuaded. No matter how many wildebeest and spinsters declare themselves to be worthy of the best men, those men will follow their biological desires. Trying to persuade men what to like will all be for naught, but at least if am with  buddies  we can point and laugh at the broken and ugly girl who suggested it.