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ElizaVeta:
plss sharap and face your front.
Dick head!!

Lol Eliza don't mind him and his cohorts o, they're known trolls. Don't take him seriously, he does that intentionally and he's enjoying it. Lol

LaylaAli:
Yeah, I did, I slept like a baby

And you?

Awww, unlike you I couldn't sleep like a baby. I was tossing and turning all night long with thoughts of you

LaylaAli:
Good morning

Morning luv, hope you slept well

ElizaVeta:
No no, not at all.

Alright then...

ElizaVeta:
I won't accept it.
Speaking from my heart.
I don't want to have anything to do with guys and relationship.
Just casual friends and its alright.

Errrm, have you had any heart break before or recently?

Marisol911:
I need a man that will wife me, take care of me, give me his name and share his eternity with me.. All these small boys just wont do!
All theyre best known for is dodging responsibilities, asking for sex and smoking.. Its so frustrating. Dating is so overrated! I just want to get married jare.

OP, this is interesting... you will have to change your social circle if these are the types of guys you meet on a daily basis...

And secondly, you are the one who wants to deny your friend a "happily-ever-after" with your ex-fling yet you want a husband... ok continue...

ElizaVeta:
Invisible Hug ...
I don do am ..

Lol

ElizaVeta:
Ohh .. Sowie

Okay

Awww fine girl apology accepted, come for a hug

ElizaVeta:
Whah dah fvck!!!

start afresh and read the thread.
i was giving a gurl advice and never mentioned 'bout a guy giving ME Hbp.

Cmon Eliza, it doesn't mean you should attack me... You could have just explained calmly... you're too pretty to get this violent.

RedRubberDucky:
[color=dodgerblue]im introverted and formerly shy and be FORCED to work with the public has helped me improve[/color]

Kindly elucidate further...

ElizaVeta:
Why telling me sorry?

Cos the 'Fine Boi' you're currently dating is giving you high BP.

ElizaVeta:
The problem is ' We keep on Spying and its killing us'
If you have dah kinda guy, just love 'em and make it obvious nothing mre.

Don't try to spy oh, maybe look at his msgs or social media accts etc.

You'll soon develop HighBP .

Eeyaaa, sorry...

LaylaAli:
Do you have any solutions?

*Ladies chat him up in the street
*They slide in his dm like they pay his bill
*They offer him money
*They stalk his SM accounts
*They stalk his phone

Lawd I kant take it!

Eh ehn? Tell me more....

optional1:
who get time to dey do all this before

You can play the ostrich and misrepresent the facts to the world but the truth will still be revealed and known by you yourself.

DrayDDon:
He said just one word! "one word!!!"

Do you know he's actually the OP who set the one-word rule on his own thread yet he broke his own rule from the very genesis of the thread.

Fabulocity:
I'm not flat

Picture or adunbilivit

Drazeen:
did she really give someone BLOW J0B in the BBN HOUSE?

No, she gave someone BOMB JOB

TrapQueen77:



U making me shy suddenly... I dunno why..

Lmao, madame don't be shy, I'm waiting for the pm heads up.

LaylaAli:

When we met, i wasnt really up for a relationship and neither was he

Don't be bias... As long as they did the dance with no pants and her and the other girl are still friends then the rule remains. It's not about him it's about the friend in this case.

#Sigh... relationship and the complicatedness... well, I just feel the op is suddenly cock blocking because he has shown interest in another lady. Talking from a similar experience; and my experience this girls were not close, they were occasional friends. Suddenly the lady started claiming that they were besties #sigh

TrapQueen77:
Can I juz slide it down in ur pocket?

If pocket means pm then cool, I'll be waiting

TrapQueen77:



U want me to drop it here?

Haba... I no wan to receive death threats too

Lol, so where will you drop it?

LaylaAli:
It's the chickz code of honour! A man can only sleep with one friend! If her best friend dates this guy then her friend's a hoe! And to break up the friendship is the only solution. Would you marry a girl your friend recycled?

Ideally I shouldn't marry a girl a friend of mine has tasted. But if that friend later becomes an enemy and I like his ex I will.... however, this lady didn't take the guy serious from the start. She didn't see him good enough for a relationship as such whatever they had doesn't count.

LaylaAli:
I've taken note

Good

Kmt... you had a sex-with-no-strings relationship. You even admit that you yourself did not want a relationship but you want to cockblock a relationship tha might lead to marriage just because the lady is your friend. So because you had a fling, your friend and your ex-fling have no right to future happiness? Madam, kindly take several seats!

LaylaAli:
Beautiful message

Lol I know... hope you've taken note tho... how to treat me in the future

TrapQueen77:



Who doesn't want to receive love letters? But ofcurz I wud prefer via airmail, the old school style..

Lol ok, what's your p.o.box

TrapQueen77:




Uummm I tot it's ur love letter...

Lol awww, you want me to write you a love letter?

Dear Solace,

I will never forget the way you looked on your wedding day. You looked radiant and lovely and almost perfect. And that smile you had on your face spoke volumes of your love for John, whose ring you were going to wear, and of your hope of a better and happier future. I will cherish that image of you in your wedding gown for the rest of my life and I pray that the reality of marriage will exceed your wildest imagination and expectations.

You asked me for insights that may help you make a success of your marriage. Well, John, your husband has also asked me for the same thing. I sent him his letter last week and I have asked him to share it with you and you are also to share yours with him.

Solace, I know you know that you married a man but I am not too sure that you know what that means. A man is a very different animal from a woman and if you don’t understand that, then you may put yourself under a lot of unnecessary pressure.

First of all, a man is very simple compared to a woman. Even the anatomy of a man is simpler than that of a woman. You plan what you chose to wear. For a man, unless he is going for a special occasion, he does not plan what he is going to wear.

Look at the fashion of men. Since we came up with the shirt and trousers and jacket, we have not bothered to change them. Over that same period you women have gone through hundreds of changes in what you wear. That should tell you how simple we men are. Our needs are simple; what it takes to make us happy is simple; our world is simple.

Now the biggest mistake a woman can make is to fail to understand how simple a man is. If you make that mistake, you will waste a lot of emotional capital trying to understand a man because you will assume that there is more to his action or words than there really is.

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So, don’t second guess John. Don’t read much into his actions and words because there may be nothing there. He is a man; he does not always fully think through what he says.

The average man is not deliberate, not in the sense that a woman can be. So, for instance, if he forgets your birthday, he is not sending you a message; he is not indicating that you don’t mean that much to him; he simply forgot it. If you want him to remember your birthday, give him heads up about two weeks to the day.

If he buys you deodorant, he is not saying that you have body odor. He is simply giving you a gift, that is all. If he really wanted to tell you that you have a body odor, he would have said so to you directly and not said it through a gift. If you don’t understand this, you will take offence when none is intended.

Solace, men don’t talk when they are in pain. A woman will like to vent her feelings. A man has been socialized to hide his feelings and sometimes to even deny them. It does not mean that he does not feel; it only means that he does not know how to articulate them. If you are having problems in the workplace, you will like to talk about it any chance you get. John on the other hand, if he is having problems in the workplace will keep it to himself and talk about them only when he has decided what he is going to do about it. So, if he does not talk about what is eating him up, don’t get hurt that he does not see you as part of his life; just allow him to be. When he is ready he will open up about it. In the meanwhile, serve him his favorite meal and he will be fine.

Solace, I hope you are not too possessive because if you are, you cannot live with a man. A man has many things that take his attention and he may not always be able to prioritize them right. For instance, a man’s work or career may occupy him more than you think it should but he will respond to demands from work and ignore you not because the work is more important but because he knows he will be lost without a job and because he cannot give full attention to more than one thing at a time.

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A man’s mother has a special place in his heart and you should not even try to take that place. Never ask your man to choose between you and his mother. He may not choose right and it could have serious consequences for your marriage. So, I hope you are not too possessive. Just be content that nothing can take your place as his wife. But if you decide to pull him from some of the things that take his attention, you may find that you have cheapened your place in his heart.

Solace, I laugh whenever a young lady says I want my husband to be my best friend. Fact is, he cannot be your husband and your best friend at the same time. So, get one female best friend and whenever you really want to chat, invite that friend over or you go over to visit that friend. Or plan fun things with that friend. This way, you will not have to depend totally only your husband for verbal fulfillment.

Finally, I want you to know that men have very fragile egos. Men seem hard on the outside but inside, they are very fragile. Women on the other hand look very fragile and delicate on the outside but inside, women are very strong. So, Solace, you can easily crush John’s ego but the day you do that, your marriage is over. Never embarrass John before his friends and in public. Never question his authority when the children are within earshot. Learn to massage his ego and he will go out of his way to make you feel good all the time.

Solace, John married you because he loves you but don’t expect him to say often that he loves you. It will be nice if John will learn to say I love you to you on a daily basis but he will not. So, let your expectations of your husband be realistic and you will be very happy.

And talking about happiness, don’t expect your husband to make you happy. Find ways of making yourself happy and then whatever he does to make you happy comes to add on to the happiness you create for yourself.

All the best, Solace. John is a good man and he will try his utmost to make you fulfilled as his wife.

Yours-praying-for-your-happy marriage,

Ebo

Source; http://nigerianbase.com/a-letter-to-a-new-wife-481

Guy... lied he loved her, while sleeping with her friends. Lady... lied to her friends he's not good in bed just to spite him, not know that her friends have slept with him and they knowing the truth.

Jokers in love!

Source: http://nigerianbase.com/lol-when-boyfriend-and-girlfriend-are-fooling-themselves-468

LaylaAli:
No, I really don't know her... I'm not nigerian and she never entertain me on this side of the ocean

Really? You're not? What country are you from?

Funkybabee:
eayah!! I thought u based there cuz u understand Yoruba, anyway have a nice day!!!

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