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Family / Re: Why Do Married Men Run After Young Girls? by lexandra(f): 4:43pm On Nov 20, 2009
Indiscipline.
Romance / Re: What Kind Of Gift Can U Give A Guy? by lexandra(f): 3:48pm On Nov 20, 2009
Faithfulness and support.
Culture / Re: Why do Nigerian Women Bear Their Father's Name, After Marriage? by lexandra(f): 3:10pm On Nov 20, 2009
ny
Romance / Re: Would You Want To Know If Your Partner Is Cheating? by lexandra(f): 1:45pm On Nov 20, 2009
No, instead I'll leave him to his conscience, because even if I know I'll be hurting my self and I know I love him dearly and will not want to loose him. Maybe I may talk to him about it.
Car Talk / Re: Brand New Kia Cerato Vs Used Japanese by lexandra(f): 12:51pm On Nov 20, 2009
ok
Health / Re: Attention Ladies, Pls I Hate Having Menstra-pain And I Need A Solution To It. by lexandra(f): 12:20pm On Nov 20, 2009
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Romance / Re: IS Honeymoon Trip Really Necesarry After Marriage by lexandra(f): 1:49pm On Nov 18, 2009
Yes it is, if you can afford it.
In our everyday lives, we go on vacations, make trips and just travel to relax. Now after all the planning , the little stress you go go tru' for the wedding, , then why not, honestly I think you 2 desrve it. This atmosphere will be different, romantic and really worth it Iguess, I look forward to it.
Culture / Re: Why do Nigerian Women Bear Their Father's Name, After Marriage? by lexandra(f): 1:19pm On Nov 18, 2009
Some times it's for a reason, now take a look at this.
Recently in my paternal family there was complete darkness at noon, what happened? My uncle had two children, a girl 23yrs. and a boy 22yrs (these were his only children). Just two weeks ago he lost this his only son at just 22yrs and a final year electrical engineering student in the University to a very brief illness of 3days. R.I.P Joe, and may perpetual light forever shine on you.
Now he is left with and only child and a female. If she and her husband now decides that as an only child she should bear a compound name, being her surname and her husbands name, that to me is perfectly OK.

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Family / Re: Would You Quit Your Job If Hubby Insists? by lexandra(f): 12:47pm On Nov 18, 2009
NO I will not, !!!!!!!, because quitting the job would make me ask him for money most times, Instead I should have my own money and be of help when the need arises, it's for my good and his.
Except my husband wants to put me on a good salary monthly and ofcourse allowances, benefits and bonus, lollll, then he get me a car & driver, shop for me all the time as much as I desire and ofcourse travel Overseas at will to rest and shop again, all at his expense. I tell you the truth sooner than later the man will compain and see it as a  burden.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Is Double Dating Fun Or Trouble? by lexandra(f): 4:27pm On Nov 10, 2009
Not healthy.
Romance / Re: 50 Rules All Women Must No About Men by lexandra(f): 10:32am On Nov 10, 2009
34. Admitting we are wrong also counts as "I'm sorry."
JUST SAY IT, lollll
Romance / Re: What Matters Most To you In A Relationship? by lexandra(f): 10:10am On Nov 10, 2009
LOVE is still the greatest of it all. Without love my dear, you're on your own, , because when the going gets tough, only LOVE gets it going.
Romance / Re: What Matters Most To you In A Relationship? by lexandra(f): 1:30pm On Nov 09, 2009
lollll,
I can die for good looks with confidence, I don't see money, it's secondary to me. Very hard to believe I know, but it's just me.
Am not talking about a complete broke ass here anyway,
Romance / Re: What Matters Most To you In A Relationship? by lexandra(f): 12:32pm On Nov 09, 2009
Love, looks, trust/honesty,respect.
Romance / Re: Describe The One You Love In One Sentence by lexandra(f): 12:55pm On Oct 29, 2009
He's always there.
Romance / Re: Girls: What Attracts You The Most In Boys? by lexandra(f): 12:33pm On Oct 29, 2009
God fearing, intelligent and looks.
Family / Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated? by lexandra(f): 10:51am On Oct 29, 2009
Sighs, deep breath, sighs again!!!

Now my fears are worse, I had this same fear as I was growing up in my early twenties, so I went to my mother and asked her, " mummy is true that child birth is sooooooooooooooo painful to the point of death?" She simply said NO, afterall she had seven of us, that if it was that painful, she would not have continued having children up to 7 and that if she still wanted more children, she would have continued, And my dad's mum( grandma) had 18 births, which is true, I actually remember this very well, Infact I witnessed my only sister being born.

My dad was not in the country that year, so my fathers mum (grandma) came to stay with us because my mum was almost due, but we all slept in separate rooms. Then suddenly my mum called me and said her tommy is turnning her, u know , she complained of slight abdominal pains and rolled off her bed to the floor, my immediate elder brother and I sat by her side, and in a few mins she said, Alexx pls. go and call grandma, now grandma was sleeping in the next room to ours in same flat, coming back in a few seconds, my only sister was already born and was crying, right there by my mum alone, and in the house. By this time my grandma was by her side and took over from there.

By day break she went to see her doctor in the hospital with the baby and still came came back with my sister that same day , she was adorable and sweet, I still recall.
My mum later told me that she was not due that day, but the baby just came, but still mother and child were healthy and ok.

In a nut shell I believe it varies, and like in most cases , peoples situations are not always thesame, and before I wrap it up, an instance is menstrual pain or cramps, mine is excrutiating pain, it used to be so bad that there was a particular month I passed out, I just slumpped in the middle of the pain and felt peace, but I later I woke up in the hospital. On somany occassions I was admitted, just for menstrual pain, it was that bad back then, to the extent that my family members took it upon them selves to also fast and pray about it, but still each month that came it got worse.

Then one day my dad said "GOD TAKE THIS PAIN OF MY LITTLE GIRL PLS, IF THERE'S NO WHERE TO THROW THIS PAIN, PLS. GIVE IT TO ME AS HER DAD, , AS A MAN I BELIEVE I'LL BE ABLE TO BEAR THE PAIN, MUCH MORE THAN HER" I can't forget this, am sure popsi has forgotten because so much time has rolled by, but to me its like yesterday. But my sister does not even know what this pain feels like, she does not feel the slightest of pain when she's on. I believe same applies to childbirth. But with God all things are possible to them that believe, and at thesame time can do all things thru' Christ that strengthens me.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Job Seekers: What Course Did You Study by lexandra(f): 4:34pm On Oct 28, 2009
COMPUTER TECHNOLOGY INDUSTRIES ASSOCIATION. (CompTIA A+)
A+ Certification

Master of Technology (M.Tech) Exploration Geophysics

Bachelor of Science (B.Sc) Hons. Applied Physics (Geophysics)
Politics / Re: Lagos Begins Stop And Search Tax Policy. Slams N0.62m Tax On Luxury Car by lexandra(f): 1:44pm On Oct 23, 2009
STOP 'N SEARCH, embarassedCRAZY!!. WILL THIS BRING THE DESIRED CHANGE
Politics / Re: Reps Tackle China Over Killing Of 30 Nigerians by lexandra(f): 4:00pm On Oct 22, 2009
30 LIVES just like that? another sad one cry!!       If what you get for doing drugs , murder & some other major offences against a fellow human being or people is DEATH, then back off!!!
To some countries  human life means nothing, after laying down such rules they expect them to be obeyed, or face the music.
In some parts of the world, INNOCENT human beings  are being slaughtered and processed as canned foods, just like cornbeef and the likes for export, then come to think of the fact that you were caught in the act, by breaking the rules.
But still it is wrong, why not give a fair hearing, then put 'em in coolers if found guilty  or send them back, never to enter that land again.
I will never support taking another life, just my 2 cents.

THE GOVT. SHOULD WAKE UP, TACKLE UNEMPLOYMENT, PROVIDE BASIC AMMENITIES AND SECURITY OF LIVES AND PROPERTIES. THE RESOURCES ARE THERE, WHAT NEXT, THE LEADERS, THE LEADERS, THE LEADERS!!!! shocked shocked shocked
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Need A Wife - For Marriage In 2 Months by lexandra(f): 2:14pm On Oct 16, 2009
MARRIAGE IN TWO MONTHS?? shocked IS THIS REALLY ENOUGH TO KNOW A LITTLE ABOUT YOUR SELVES, BECAUSE MARRIAGE THESE DAYS NA GOD OOH, ( TALK OF CHARACTER, THE ECONOMY , NAME IT) HONESTLY ONLY THE STRONG SURVIVE.
GOOD LUCK ANYWAYS, AFTERALL ALL U NEED IS LOCATING THE RIGHT GURL.
Romance / Re: What Can A Man Do To Make A Woman Happy? by lexandra(f): 1:43pm On Oct 16, 2009
NO TWO HUMANS ARE THESAME, WHAT THIS IMPLIES IS THAT, WHAT MISS A WILL APPRECIATE MAY BE DIFFERENT FROM WHAT THE NEXT LADY WILL.
SOME LIKE GIFTS, SURPRISES, ET ALL.
WHILE OTHERS DON'T EVEN NEED ANY OF THE ABOVE MENTIONED. ALL THEY NEED IS FOR YOU TO BE THERE AND JUST LISTEN WHEN SHE NEEDS YOU TO, BECAUSE THIS IS ONE OF THE GREATEST DUTY OF LOVE.
Romance / Re: 5 Reason Why Some Men Prefer Ashawo To Homely Babes by lexandra(f): 1:27pm On Oct 16, 2009
IT'S NOT EASY TO BE RESPONSIBLE,
BUT YOU'LL GET TO A STAGE IN LIFE THAT YOU WILL FACE IT!!! cool
Romance / Re: How Do You Know A Man Is Gay? by lexandra(f): 4:19pm On Oct 05, 2009
I don't think the guy is gay at all.
Simply because he takes his time to look good and can cook at the same time are just additional qualities to what ever qualities you found in him in the first place.

I have five brothers and four of them are good cooks except one, who only knows how to cook beans, lollll, for all other dishes he'll score very low.
And at the same time they all are ready to spend their last change to look good. These are my blood brothers am talking about, most often they are interested in ladies.

Personally I'll choose a guy who know's how to take proper care of him self anyday. Be it manicure , pendicure, and some prefer hair removal creams to shave sticks and clippers, because of bumps .
Don't be scared I guess he loves to take good care of him self, thats all.
Good luck!
Crime / Re: Nysc : Corps Member Raped To Death In Bornu State. by lexandra(f): 4:25pm On Oct 02, 2009
Very sad.
Religion / Re: urgent by lexandra(f): 2:12pm On Jul 21, 2009
Thanks folks, y'all are in my circle of friends.
Religion / urgent by lexandra(f): 2:24pm On Jul 20, 2009
Thanks for all the contributions, they were very helpful.
Romance / Re: How Do You Feel When You Are Not In A Relationship by lexandra(f): 2:36pm On Jul 14, 2009
Re: How Do You Feel When You Are Not In A Relationship

Not just any relationship, but a desired relationship, i dont feel too happy at times.
Fashion / Re: How Much Is Your Most Expensive Accessory? by lexandra(f): 3:07pm On Jul 13, 2009
my wrist watch.
Romance / Re: Are Women Intimidated By Attractive Men? by lexandra(f): 1:37pm On Jul 13, 2009
I can not be intimidated by an attractive man.
What if he's so attractive and for other qualities he's below average, and has no self confidence? Why should he's looks alone intimidate me for crying out loud, not possible.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If You Are Always Online Drop You Id Here! by lexandra(f): 2:01pm On Jul 10, 2009
duhh!!

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