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Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 5:19pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Pwetty2:how? I don't have ur number! |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 4:37pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Brandiebird:Lol, so in other words it's unrealistic? Why does everyone keep saying this? So being an intelligent girl that is below 30 is so rare that people see it as something special? |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 4:31pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Karlifate:I can't control the way you see things, your sense of reasoning is innate, it's what you are and the abundance of such reasoning is responsible for whatever output you give, my overestimated ego and whatnot, you're entitled to your opinion, I know what's best for me and I think something as serious as this requires honesty on my part, what I said above is my truth so if you're too deluded to see past your nose it's your problem, I can't do anything to change that, have a nice day sir. |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 4:27pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Persephone1:Lol so you're now advising based on what you read from guys here, many of them dey catch cruise. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 4:26pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
IbrahimSkiba:Hmm, how do you cope? And how long do you think you can keep it up, if you don't date, how do you intend to settle down, you'll wait for your parents to go and bring one village girl for you or what? Village girls are more dangerous sef, because the moment they tear eye you no fit control them again because they'll overdo it |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 4:25pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Edipet:Like say u know |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 4:25pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
tivhador:So because I'm a real man I should die in silence abi, abeg carry your hypocrisy away, your idea of a real man is backwards and archaic, real man doesn't mean same thing in my dictionary. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 1:53pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Persephone1:Then they'll like u because you have money, when money no dey again they'll japa, If it's about money I'll only looking for sex partner not someone to get married to, I can't marry someone who is drawn to my money, I rather die single please. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 1:51pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Geovanni412:abj |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 1:29pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
pryme:thanks |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 1:17pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
pryme:I do have the qualities, most girls in Thier 20s feel there's alot of time for them and they cheat and date multiple guys at once, this is something I am very much aware of and dread, inasmuch as I want to get married before 30, it doesn't mean I am doing it for peer pressure or copying someone, it's not a do or die affair too, you can go if you want to, but at this stage in my life any relationship I enter would be something serious and long term because this is what I need in my life rn, hope you grab, it's not a sense of duty, pressure or obligation that is pushing me, it's the will to have something meaningful with someone and we will grow together and understand each other before making any commitment. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 1:02pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Geovanni412:At the peak of my desperate attempt to find something meaningful with a girl I have even considered shallow girls who obsess over iphone and human hair, that was me back then, I still very much want to settle down but I'm not going to settle for less just because I want something meaningful anymore, you see all the playboy lifestyle? I can live that life comfortably without stress, once there's money there's always a hookup girl you can lay with every night, but after the sex and hookup, she leaves and the emptiness creeps in, you slept with a stranger you know nothing about, I know how cheap girls are, but what I am looking for is something meaningful and I know such girls are rare, but marriage is a lifetime commitment, I can't be with anything I see just because she's female and I want something serious. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 12:13pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
pryme:So make do with anything you see? You do realize it's not a relationship I want? It's something permanent, for life, wouldn't want to be stuck with misery forever na, marry headache then stay with her forever, I'd rather remain single. |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 12:11pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Geovanni412:So you're endorsing the irresponsible and careless personality? The world has gone to sh!t. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:41am On Jun 09, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Yea, I'm hoping it ends well too, thanks 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:40am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Opurumiri:They won't even reply dms, making me think something is wrong with me, I don give up on that sha, life goes on. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:39am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Runnerzz:Lol for real? |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:38am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Ade1177:Thanks for the advice, I am aware of all that, and I'm aware that desperate people make big mistakes, I'd not get married to someone that doesn't feel the same about me though, I have seen how disastrous that could be on the long run. |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:55am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Prettygirl200:I replied |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:55am On Jun 09, 2023 |
pansophist:I get bored easily if someone isn't exposed or intelligent, we can't come and be saying have you eaten everyday, it's so boring, someone that has something to say about any topic, even if she doesn't know the topic very well she can have a meaningful conversation instead of ok, ya, tnx, pls, yap. |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:36am On Jun 09, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Lol, I'll not share my pic here because I value privacy, but is it by being goodlooking? If you're only interested in someone because of his looks that relationship won't last, na looks you chop? I'm not ugly though, just average. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:33am On Jun 09, 2023 |
pryme:I am someone who doesn't care about status, money comes and goes and the importance people put on material possession is too much, yes I work hard to earn a better life for myself and my family, this is the reason why the only thing I dedicate most of my time to is hustling, that is why I have no friends or social life, and I'm not someone who is into so much socializing, so that circle thing isn't me, I just want purpose, someone that'd be my friend, confidant, wife in all, and her personality should compliment mine, but I can't seem to find anyone, that is the problem with me, I don't think this is too much to ask, someone intelligent, interesting, thoughtful, good looking, you mustn't be Beyonce just have good features, I'm not picky and I don't judge people by status or how popular you are, just be on same level with me and be loyal, cuz I don't cheat, cheating is a chore to me. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:26am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Prettygirl200:Ok. |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 8:11am On Jun 09, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:I don't know what you mean by awkward but I'm okay, not sure about the self esteem issues though. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:22pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
emekalovepets:read your advice and check the kind of person you are, if you have nothing meaningful to say just shut your trap. 11 Likes |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:21pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
TheFreshVanilla:I am not the problem trust me, I don't smoke, womanize, behave irresponsibly, what more can I do? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:14pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
TheFreshVanilla:I gave an honest assessment of my situation without sugarcoating and your only reasoning is how I am playing victim? Seriously what is wrong with you? 36 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:06pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
I am a hardworking guy, I hustle 24/7, I have no social life, few physical friends, some social media friends, I'm intelligent and I'm attracted to intelligent girls too, it's something I find attractive, and I love traveling alot, especially with a romantic partner, I want someone I can hold a meaningful conversation with that won't resort to dumb and monosyllabic responses, I don't think it's too much to ask for a girl that fits this description, my plan was to settle down in my 20s, but I'm almost 30 and unlucky with love, I've tried so many desperate things like messaging so many girls on fb, most of them don't reply, tried dating apps same news, tried setting for less, same stuff, now all I want is something serious, someone to eventually settle down with and I feel the best time to start dating her is now before I clock 30, please I am open to suggestions, what tactics do I need to employ to get a serious girlfriend quickly, all my life I've only dated twice and it's so depressing seeing people with Thier partners and I'm some lonely guy who only cares about work and video games. 11 Likes |
Programming / Re: Am I Too Old To Be Learning Fullstack Development by Lexzeey: 11:09pm On May 12, 2023 |
rickyamos:this is crazy honestly. |
Programming / Re: Am I Too Old To Be Learning Fullstack Development by Lexzeey: 11:09pm On May 12, 2023 |
Sheriman:Yea you're right about the family problem part, as it is I'm the only one providing for my family, it's my biggest reason to why I am learning fullstack in the first place. |
Programming / Re: Am I Too Old To Be Learning Fullstack Development by Lexzeey: 11:07pm On May 12, 2023 |
haybhi1:So what do u suggest I learn, great advice but you didn't include what you'd do to remedy the problem. |
Programming / Am I Too Old To Be Learning Fullstack Development by Lexzeey: 2:09pm On May 12, 2023 |
I am going to be 28 this year, I bought two courses on udemy last year, first one is about designing, I have finished it, I had some challenges but I overcame although I feel I'm not good enough to work with my design skills, now I'm into the second course( fullstack development) and it has been tedious and stressful, I used to be intelligent when I was in school, stopped at ND because they was no money to further my education and get HND, instead of staying idle I decided to learn those skills, now I'm not grasping anything, I'm learning and giving my best but no results, I just can't grab it, I don't know wether it's because I am too old or b because I am bad at math, pls advice me on how to to actually know this, I want to be proficient enough to know it instead of googling and using chatgpt to bail myself out always. 2 Likes |
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