The rumor really hurt her feelings.

Mensa11:
Soon they will go into extinction.

.... And what happens when they go into extinction?

Women of this generation self.

Chai!

Women have finally assume the role of a full-time house wives.

And these same women would be clamoring for equal rights,

And would wish to be treated the same way as the American women.

1. Maney

If you don't have maney, 99.7% of the ladies will see you as a cow, even your very own wife.
But try and get small change in your bank account, 100.100% of the ladies will be attracted to you.

2. Facial feature

This is the first thing a woman notices about a man. The perfect jawline and sharp features and the skin tone. A neat haircut, that perfectly trimmed beard, a clean-shaven look or a well-groomed bushy moustache have the ability to add that additional oomph to any man.

A man does not have to be drop-dead gorgeous like a ramp model to get the attention of a woman but his facial features and how he has accentuated those or groomed himself do matter.

Inevitable put off: A long hair sticking out of the eyebrow or a few from the nose. Ugh! You could have the perfect features but if you haven’t taken care of this then you are not getting the second look for sure.

3. Dressing sense
The way a man wears his clothes speaks volumes about a person and can make a huge difference in his personality.

After all the saying ‘Clothes make the man’ is not just like that. Women do notice if you take care to dress up.

Throwing a formal shirt on a trouser is okay but then that well-cut trouser and the perfectly complementing tie go a long way in deciding what she really thinks of you.

Inevitable put off: Too tight clothes. Yes, many men make the mistake of thinking that muscle show under tight clothes could make him drool-worthy. Wrong perception. It could be an instant put off.

4. Eyes
Who can resist the appeal of deep-set eyes that mesmerizes one by that sparkle in it? How a man looks with his eyes goes a long way to show a woman what he is really inside. I

t’s said that the eyes are the gateway into a human being’s personality. It’s not only about the colour of your pupils – it could be an attractive brown or even a deep grey – that makes a woman skip a heartbeat. It’s also about the way you look with those eyes.

Inevitable put off: I am sure you have heard a woman saying, “He’s got bad eyes.” By that, she means the eyes that keep moving from her face to her chest or keep roving around. A woman will not give a man a second look if his eyes are doing this.
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5. Posture
The complete frame of a man distinctly makes him stand out in the crowd.

A tall well-built man with a perfect physique and the right posture is a treat to a woman’s eyes.

Some men appear taller or more imposing by the dint of correct posture. This really matters in the way a woman perceives you.

Inevitable put off: A hunch. It does look horrible or a swagger which you got from your Western movies watching days and couldn’t get rid of.

6. Smile
Oh! boy, this is an irresistible charm that can give serious infatuation to any woman. If one has that sweet, next-door look with a chocolaty kind of beguiling smile a woman will definitely go “Aww”.

You may not have that killer look but sometimes a smile goes a long way in deciding how appealing you are to a woman. Keep that in mind.

Inevitable put off: Yellow teeth below that smile. Nicotine stained teeth. Or that smirkish smile that’s more creepy than cute.


7. Fragrance
Smelling right is important for both men and women.

Although some Paris perfumeries have popular brands with heightened sweat smell, it’s definitely not something that appeals to most women. They do find a man’s strong perfume rather intoxicating.

Inevitable put off: Yes we know being sweaty is perceived as macho by many men but guys don’t get the wrong idea that women like to sniff your smelly armpits.

It’s the worst put off for a woman and the worst myth a man could be living with.

8. Manners
As it’s said that how you talk to the waiter at the restaurant is a dead giveaway of what kind of manners you have.

You could have the looks and riches but if you don’t have the right manners all the impressions you have managed till point 6 will go down the drain.

Women do look at your manners very carefully. Mind it! Really carefully.

Inevitable put off: Going to a fancy restaurant and you walk ahead and don’t hold the door for her. This is an absolute put off.

You talk with your mouth full. Eeks!

9. Conversing skill
When a man has the ability to present himself verbally, showing his great linguistic skill, it instantly adds that extra appeal that thoroughly catches her attention.

But while conversing, the right men show the right amount of interest in the woman they have just met. Women just love this.

Inevitable put off: Talking too much about yourself. Yes we know we live in an age of self-advertising but stop being blatant about it.


10. Sense of humour
Women really like men who can make them laugh and they can laugh at themselves as well.

The ability to laugh at oneself is a great quality that men, who are really secure about themselves, only have. Women do notice that about them and like it immensely too. Having a sense of humour is a must.

Inevitable put off: Making a woman laugh does not mean cracking crass jokes. Please don’t get it wrong.

11. Shoes
This could be listed last but this should not be taken lightly.

What kind of shoes a man wears and how well maintained it is, is something a woman notices. Shoes do tell a lot about a man’s personality apart from the clothes and eyes.

Inevitable put off: Shoes that have not had the touch of polish for ages, mud-stained soles and ill-kept sneakers

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Missmossy:

I get, but to the best of my knowledge such persons usually look normal. It doesn’t show physically, it’s a spiritual thing. Try to make haste and go spiritual so she can get help on time.

I get the picture now.

Ulunne777:


Are you OK at all?See how you just exposed every detail about her.Still you are sending email address to someone you don't even understand his comment.

I've modified.

Thanks for the head-up.
Please modify as well to remove it from your comment.

Iyaebe:
Same way your cousin customer told her,the bottom line is never trust anyone.

you're right.

Iyaebe:
ladies should be very careful, a high percentage of men are now ritualist,don't exempt anyone of them so as to be on the safer side.Stop allowing men come close or have access to you easily. If you are broke,work and earn money and don't depend on any man for relief.

I'm not a ritualist

Missmossy:
So in summary the man told her she has been used. It’s quite sad, however there is nothing God cannot do. She should be taken to MFM for intense prayers.

but she's normal as in, no sign of being used.

SportsHD:
Loll, dramatic fuxs?

how do you mean sir, should I bring her to you for prayers and council?
Send me your address and location.

Loxleyy:
Somethings are Spiritual

my brother, things are really happening in this part of the world...
There's even one that I saw on the front page.

hello Nairalanders, sorry for the long write-up, it's LiegeMan again.
my name is Mr Omale liegeman and I'm from Kogi State, I thank you all for your kind advice on the other thread regarding my wife's past life and I can assure you all that I decided to put to use some of the advice from here ( yes, I read all the 590+ comments from A-Z) and it's yielding positive result as I've been experiencing happiness as never before in my life, though majority of Nairalanders who contributed in the previous post failed to understand my point of view because I was trying to make the post as snappy as possible. Thank you all once more.

Now, while I was planning ways to work things out with my wife with some of the advice that I gathered here, my Aunty who's married to an Igbo man from Imo state called me that her daughter, who's a student of Imo State University (Imsu) came home during weekend, Saturday precisely, locked herself up in a room and has been crying ever since without food nor water, and has refused to see nor talk to anyone.
I advice them to keep an eye on her so as to prevent her from attempting something stupid, she assured me that they broke into her apartment where she locked up Herself and brought her out.

So on Sunday, being 31 day of October, 2021, I left everything that I was doing in Makurdi and rushed to their village in Imo State, on getting there, I observed that both her hands and legs were tied and when I inquired why, she told me that it was an attempt to prevent her from escaping. I asked them to untie her, she was still crying when I asked her to go dress up that I'll be taking her out, she quickly went inside and dressed up we left the village for Orlu.

When we reached Orlu, we entered into a restaurant, and I started asking her what the problem was, I inquired if it was her boyfriend that broke her heart, she said no, I later succeeded in making her to tell me what the problem was because she's my closest ally.

when she opened up, she told me that she decided to do a little gbaje gbaje, ie do a little runs, she booked an appointment with a man and when she reached the said hotel, she and the Man started romancing and kissing and after awhile, the man started hissing uncontrollably, she inquired from the man what the problem was, he told her that what he wanted to take from her has been taken by someone else, in her confused state, she asked the man what he meant by that, the man looked her into her eyeballs and told her that she's empty, that what he intended taking from her has been taken by another person, he counted the said amount they bargain and handed it over to her and ordered her to get out of the hotel premises. I tried to console her by telling her that the man didn't mean what he said, that maybe his manhood disappointed him, he said those to cover his shame and I also advice her to be very careful because Xmas it at hand, immediately I told her those, she became relieved and stopped crying but I know right inside of me, that what the man said wasn't a joke at all.

when we got home, the news didn't go down well with her mother as tears started rolling down her cheek, she is planning a way to take her daughter to different prayer houses.

Now what exactly is this man talking about, what exactly did he take from her, is it her womb, destiny or what?
please house, any advice for this kid cousin of mine?
or way to find out what has been taken from her and get her liberated.

ifeolamide00:
She isnt the reason you didnt live your best life in school..dont transfer the blame or aggression on the poor woman,she lived her life and you lived yours..those lives has nothing to do with now..you can tell her to stop mentioning them if ot hurts you...just live with your wife and be happy with her..instead of trying to pull hell on your head..or you dont know the effects of this wayward life..you may start yours and not be lucky .....bro rethink and arrange your home...make it your happy place

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Lokojatoofar:
These are the kind of people that poison their friends for achieving something good before them very bitter soul.

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Charleslewizy:
I have been trying really hard to understand your rant of vengeance....is your wife giving u hell in your union, like she's not doing her wifey duties and stuffs like that. Cuz it seems you're really trying hard to destroy your marriage....i myself didn't come from a rich family but i had a great time in school.....i went go parties, clubs and had lots of fun....so why would my life now decide on vengeance or whatever u chose to call it all cuz she didn't have the opportunity i had....please op there's no issue here. Unless there's something you aren't saying.....so come out all plain biko

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Starz825:
Shey op get Sense like this...
Ask yourself *say shey I get like this*..

Whatever way you dig up to revenge surely know you will pay dearly for it...

And besides...Aids is real

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skj1377:
How did she end up with you? Is her body not good enough again? How did you know the difference in quality if you did not cheat?did you not try the product you wanted to pay for before marriage? Your story not fit for front page.

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benqo01:
Op you have a big problem go for deliverance asap

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darsh:



Revenge??
This one no get sense tbvh.
Using past to judge the present?
Is it her fault you had to go through such difficulties in life..
This one go chop divorce.

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bepositive11:


Be proud of building yourself up to where you are today. Don't waste time comparing yourself to your wife

But why did you get married? Do you even love your wife? You have a very wicked and selfish heart

I always say this. When you try to get revenge, you lose yourself in the process. At the end of the day, you will be the biggest loser. You may think that you're hurting your wife but you're hurting yourself even more

Your thinking is even illogical. Your wife doesn't owe you anything. She got lucky to be born into a stable family but you didn't.

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TenQ:

If you took your action, youll be the greatest mumu in Nigeria if not in Africa.
Did betray you with her past?
Were you in her life then?
Did she cheat on you in her past?

If the answer to this is NO, you are the most stupid man in existence. Move on with your life and enjoy the best of its goodness

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Rhozabeth:

You didn't state in ur write up if u were already dating during the time u said u were going thru hardship. From my understanding u didn't even know her then, all u know about her you were told!
The question u shud ask urself is if she is faithful to u now or still living that kind of life. If say u want to do all u said in the name of vengeance, guy u will kill urself and another man will marry the and f*ck her even on top of ur grave! Everybody has a past u were only unlucky u had the type of past u had plus she was not the cause of ur hardship back then. Bros just let the past be in the past and enjoy ur marriage. U don't know the kind of life the next girl would have lived. If she is faithful and fulfilling all her responsibilitiea as a wife pls brush that thought off ur mind.

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Killermamba:


My brother anger is not what you are feeling its called jealousy, how can you get angry at the life your wife once lived before she met you? Is she still living that kind of life now? Why you come dey vex? Na jealousy dey worry u. Go church go cast that spirit out of you before you loose it all.

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deebrain:
There is no basis for your anger towards your wife.

She has not exhibited anything that will bring crises to your life.

It's her PAST.

Can someone in this honourable platform, buy a bottle of cold Gulder for the OP?

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