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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Lifeisnotfair: 4:53pm On Dec 31, 2021
Who has a neatly used Note 9s or Mi 10 for sale. Please quote me with your price and pictures.

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Romance / My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Lifeisnotfair: 5:50pm On Apr 28, 2021
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: U.S. Imposes Wide Array Of Sanctions On Russia For 'malign' Actions by Lifeisnotfair: 3:32pm On Apr 15, 2021
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Romance / Re: She Sent Me A Picture Of Her Hand But It Looks Like That Of A Man (Photos) by Lifeisnotfair: 3:30pm On Apr 15, 2021
Life is not fair.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What You Are Doing Now VS What You Would Have Loved To Do. by Lifeisnotfair: 3:17pm On Apr 15, 2021
Life is not fair mhen!
Family / Re: My Face-to-face Encounter With 'poverty' And His Four Children (photos) by Lifeisnotfair: 9:28pm On Nov 11, 2020
Life is not fair!!

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Education / Re: Share Your Embarrassing Examination Day Experiences by Lifeisnotfair: 4:11pm On Jul 09, 2020
During my WAEC examination (mathematics) in secondary school, I had already answered the questions I was sure of just a few left and when it was time to start submitting, I got tensed cause I wanted to make sure I answered everything before submitting na there wahala start.

That very first page where you're to write the number of questions you've answered, there's a spot meant for the supervisor na there I go write put. One of my school teachers came in to check my work and the moment he found out I had written on the particular spot meant for the supervisor, slaps and heavy punches started raining down from God knows where on my head and face. I had to use corrective fluid to clean everything. My face swell up before I reach house like who tipper jam.

2. I was writing a course in 300level with chukuli, my friend and chukuli partner needed help cause the answer nor dey the expo wey he carry but e dey my own, he begged me to pass it on to him and when I put my hands under my table to search for the question he wanted answers to, lecturer caught me from under the table and asked me to stand and bring what he saw me holding, as I was about to stand I stylishly threw it out of the window, he laughed and came close. He called one random guy from outside that was walking and minding his business to pass him the chukuli (I dey signal the guy to help me carry the paper and run, he just dey look me like dead body).

Naso my paper take end after like 45mins into the exam. Wetin make am pain me be say my crush dey inside the class, see embarrassment.

And lastly we wrote a test in 400 level, the highest was I think 6/30 I managed to get 3 I wasn't the lowest oo cause some persons got 1 but then the lecturer decided to use me as a scapegoat. He called me out, checked my work again and again and asked me where I saw the nonsense I wrote down, I confidently told him I read it from my note and he was surprised. He asked me to bring my note and he compared it with the materials he uses and my coursemate's note and discovered they were very different things entirely.

The truth be say I been no too sound the previous week and when I got to school I copied those things from a fellow course mate (he never misses any class) but his handwriting was the worse I jejely copied rubbish and wrote rubbish in the test.

When the lecturer called me out, see brutality oh my God!! He say if na him be my papa he nor go pay my school fees again, I felt so embarrassed.

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Romance / Re: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by Lifeisnotfair: 4:05pm On Jun 16, 2020
Where do I even start from? My own shyness is out of this world. There're many experiences I've had but I think this one was by far the worse. I remember my second year in school I saw one girl like that and wanted to form James Bond in front of my friends, I asked my friend to call her for me and he did.

When she was coming closer to where we was standing, it was as if the world has suddenly come to an end, everywhere became very dark in my eyes like I was going blind, I was shaking, sweating and breathing very fast at the same time. Very hot tears started coming from my eyes.

She finally got to where I was standing, I didn't know how these words came out of my mouth "I just wanted to greet you" and she said okay, waited for some minutes and then she left because the silence was like a graveyard. Till forever my extremely low self-esteem would not even allow me say hi to any girl talk more of toasting her.

Life is not fair oo!!!

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TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: Tacha Advises Khafi: "Gedoni Is A Uniport Boy, Don't Mess With Him" by Lifeisnotfair: 5:39pm On Aug 06, 2019
Education / Re: Help....i Have Lost Interest In School (pls Hear My Story) by Lifeisnotfair: 7:02am On Jun 21, 2019

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Celebrities / Re: Olakunle Churchill Replies Tonto Dikeh by Lifeisnotfair: 7:35am On May 02, 2019
This man is definitely into Yahoo plus, no doubt. Naso them dey shout "GRACE" Upandan. Scammer, Grace kill you there!!....Lifeisnotfair!!

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Business / Re: Tony Elumelu Steps Out With Wife As They Attends 2019 UBA CEO Award by Lifeisnotfair: 7:32am On May 02, 2019
This man didn't even use a belt, if it were me now people would say I'm broke, I can't afford a belt. Indeed, Life is not fair!!!

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