Minatouchiha: Alright so we back again. Just like that. I didn't want to do this, but it's just stuck in my head from childhood. Even though I consider it yuck! Anyways here we are.
I got married few months ago after dating my husband for some years.
Our relationship was really beautiful and I was the envy of most ladies.
At some point we had a long distance relationship but Communication was smooth.
The first time he came to visit , I discovered he had been chatting with one girl, having flirty conversations and all. He said he was just catching cruise and apologized for that. I forgave him.
Another time I discovered he doesn't know how to set boundaries with ladies. I complained about all that and he promised to change. This is someone that comes to visit me at any given opportunity. Then recently I found out he had been chatting with one girl on Tiktok. The girl already started calling him baby and I saw where he told the girl he likes her already. As usual he said it’s not serious, that he hasn’t seen the girl and he didn’t mean that. The girl chatted him up and he flowed because he was bored. Truth Is I’m hurt and ashamed. Where’s the self respect? Someone you don’t know from anywhere. He eventually blocked the girl but I don’t even trust him anymore. When we were together, he wasn’t anything like that and I’m wondering what went wrong.
He keeps talking about how much he loves me and how he wouldn’t have been married to anyone else if he didn’t get married to me but at this point I’m not even moved again.
I’ve asked him countless times why he is flirting with ladies online. He said nothing.
He said he hasn’t touched any lady apart from me. I’m actually tired of asking, I want to know what I can do to get the pain away.
I’ll be alone for a while.
Should I stop talking to him? Should I report him to my mum? Should I play along and just develop a coping mechanism? What coping mechanism can i develop? Should I keep complaining? I didn’t allow him touch me before he travelled and he was pained. I really just want my man, I don’t like how he’s not making me trust him anymore. I don’t go after other peoples’ men why should mine be like this? Can he possibly change?
be flirting with a guy too but dont send pictures just talk dont meet up n ones a while let him try get to ur ok pone so he can see d chats.
This is the best decision, don't tell anyone, except nairaland that sees u to be anonymous, u may realize she is fvckn ur close friends, tell her u r not sure u r coming home this Xmas, maybe u will be home a week after Xmas that's the new year, keep acting loving and caring without suspicion, visit a week before Xmas or or eve of Xmas... You will see everything. That will be the highest shock of her life. Then buy her a phone as an Xmas gift, collect hers immediately and exchange the phone immediately, act like "babe what about ur phone, have u heard about this phone (functions of the type of phone) u bought,. I'd if she says no, tell her u would like to shop for it for on Xmas day, if she is not excited note it, then tell her you have a surprise, note when she drops her phone, pick her phone and exchange it with new one, tell her to open the phone, so you can transfer all her information to the new phone, watch how she will cringe. , If she struggles for you not to have it, that's a red flag. Take your time and see all you can.
If she is cheating, save up evidence, pick ur daugheter and fly back to Canada, sell off the shop and block her ass.
Rubbish all that just to collect pone. How old are u? Stop watching zee world
Naijapolitics03: Hi everyone. I'm a popular moniker on the Politics section, however, I am currently going through some turmoil in my marriage. I cant use my main moniker because of politics ish...
Few years ago (about 4 years now), I moved to Canada with an F1 Visa. At that point, I was only 28 and married with the woman I loved. We had a daughter. However, While I was in school doing my MSc, my wife came in the second year as a dependant, together with our baby. A little over a year, she started complainning about the mundane and boring lifestyle we were living in Canada. I convinced our stay in Canada is not forever, as I equally planned to move back home once I saved enough and had a child while we stay so the baby can be a citizen. Figured she could no longer cope, and perhaps the Winter wasnt really helping matter. Because of her, I wasnt staying in a Shared appartment and was paying heavily for rent, bought a decent TV so she could occupied herself with that while I am in school. Despite her mum's and family pleas, she turned deaf ears decided to move back to Nigeria, a situation I didnt find so comforting because I became terribly lonely after she left. I started working shortly after my program and made plan with her family to set her up in business in Nigeria.
Early this year, my guys back home started telling me how they often see her in club royale partying with friends. I didnt take this serious untill I started to noticed some strange whenever I called her. She stopped doing video call with me without reasons, and there are times when we would have plan to have some sexy talks on phone during the night and she would dissapoint. I asked her about the party things and she excused that with loneliness. I planned to go visit Naija by December because I missed my daughter and wife too, but tbh, I dont know the situation of things as I am scared my wife has probably been cheating on me. And I have not inform her yet of my coming home.
can I ask a question.
Is it easier for a man to have a gf in canada than a woman having a bf?
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