₦airaland Forum

Dailymice:
First of all, let me say your moniker "lesbianboy" is irresponsible and childish.

Secondly, you cannot make the same mistakes our parents made in the 70s and 80s where they thought Nigeria would get better and hence didn't travel out on time to a better life abroad. My dad is regretting why he didn't listen to the advise of his friend back then who told him to move to the US when he had the chance. Now, getting US visa be like going to heaven

Of course, most people I know in the US are buying up houses here and doing well. Let no one deceive you, life abroad is not easy, but they have job security and a better life than most Nigerians claim they have. Remember $2000 is 1m.

I kid you not, check out most of our politicians and business men who are doing well in the country today, most of them have foreign background as their parents travelled out back in the days and secured a path for their kids to follow

I advise that if you have money, seek the Canadian route and secure a PR for yourself and family so that if buhari decides to burn the country, you can have a second option. Your kids should have dual or triple citizenship.. our politicians all have more than one citizenship, a word is enough for the wise.

If you're young and have money, better start searching for abroad routes.....

My 2 cents.

Meanwhile check out this view from Iowa. US

Junnior:
Neither am I one to trade insults. But you surprise me. That was a harmless statement I made. And don't tell me "wannabe teenager forming alpha" was a joke.

Good day.

AyoII:
Masturbation and porn - will it kill you?

Porn and masturbation are the illusion of real sex. The brain can't tell the difference between real and imagined. Every time you masturbate, your brain thinks you are so good that that hottie on the screen is giving it to you just for being so cool. The Coolidge effect (the kind of effect where each successive female is better than the previous one) breaks down completely. Watching porn for hours at a time for several years erases all boundaries. Women stop giving you pleasure, you feel less and less oxytocin (the love hormone) from them.

Masturbation-induced orgasms clog up your dopamine receptors. That sex came too easily to you. You didn't seduce a woman, you didn't clean yourself up, you didn't spend any money. In simple terms, you didn't invest any resources. But in spite of that, you got a huge surge of dopamine (the hormone of happiness and motivation). The brain remembers this as a reward for nothing. It just gives a signal and that's it. On this ground, receptor sensitivity begins to decrease and the body needs more and more doses of dopamine, and it, by its quantity, suppresses serotonin. It makes you lose your discipline. It's harder for you to give up short-term pleasure in favor of long-term pleasure, you need to recharge periodically.

Because of the low sensitivity of dopamine, cortisol, the stress hormone, and leptin, the satiety hormone, begin to suffer. You're constantly under stress and trying to eat it up.

To all of the above, you lose sensitivity on a physical level and you get less pleasure in real sex. Likewise, porn fosters a co-cult mindset, where you're watching some man Bleep an attractive woman. When you have real sex with a girl, you'll start having fantasies about your woman being bleeped by another man. You won't like it, to say the least.

Masturbation is the bane of your productivity. And no, there's no prostate problem. The body adjusts to any condition. Stop jerking off and you'll feel like you don't want sex so much.

You want to masturbate, you know what to do, just don't look for loopholes, much less try to prove me wrong. In the age of the Internet, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. There is no compromise in this matter. Doing masturbation without porn, or watching porn and not masturbating, while claiming you can do it, is like saying, "I almost jumped a big cliff. You can't jump over it just a little bit. You either jumped it or you fell. So from now on, your choice is your own responsibility.

Winnerly:
The point is such research may have been rigged. They do it all the time in the pharmaceutical industry where certain side effects aren’t disclosed in a bid to sell drugs.

If infact it’s true, then my belief is that it’s not a nature thing but rather as a result of certain habbits peculiar to those races.

You can’t play puzzles and riddles from age 3 and not have a higher thinking ability than another that wasn’t exposed to such thought provoking games from birth.

I strongly believe IQ just like all other human traits and physiological characteristics is malleable

Raalsalghul:
So the other concepts I mentioned are not important to intergender dynamics?

Mehn, what a joke?

You want to spin plates by properly fucking your conquests and you think fitness is not important?

You want to have discussions that'll stimulate the juices of the other gender and you think travel or exposure is not needed?

How do you gauge a low interest conquest if not through emotional intelligence.

And for those who are traditional and prefer to be sole providers, how do you do this if not through your skills, career, investments and portfolio?

Should I go on and on?

Can you now honestly see the above and tell me those other facets of a man's life doesn't apply to intergender dynamics?

Raalsalghul:
You and Ubunja should speak for yourselves please.

So you mean 365/247 people should be talking about women?

No emphasis on fitness, skill acquisition, investment ideas, careers, travel, connecting and uplifting each other?

That borders on obsession if you ask me and yet folks here complain about oneit-is.

emmaodet:
At the bolded.......Are you really sure?
For a moment, don't you think the people who spread the disease had thee vaccines long before spreading the disease?
Just think about it.

LordVoldermort:
I agree with this quote but I disagree with you

Every race has equal amount of smart people but like you said people look for bravery in a leader not necessarily smartness...

Africans have lots of smart people but they are cowards, you could argue that being smart means not taking risks, not fighting a tyrant, always preserving yourself, always siding with the herd. It requires a kind of stupidity to put yourself in danger to achieve a certain goal...

In conclusion, whites and blacks have equal amount of smart people but whites have more brave-smart people than blacks.

pansophist:
I can agree with this. Courage have been fumigated out of the Nigerians especially, and the ones with courage are dealt with by the system (eg MNK).

ma373733:
Comrade you won't understand . everything the whites are enjoying today were set by their brilliant ancestors most whites now are dumb I'm not talking about beign intelligent in academics here ,one may have 3 doctorate degrees and still be and idiot .I mean common sense.. their luck is just few smart people leading them ours unfortunately didn't have the knowledge they had back then if we knew what they knew back then we wouldn't be in this mess we're today.

The story of the west is like the one of

Strong men create good time ..
Good time creates weakmen.
Weakmen create hard times
Hard time creates strong men(China and other assian countries today) .


Hard times will always create strong men
So relax we'll come out strong from this hard times .
You really need to see how kids here outsmart this white people (I'm not encouraging fraud o)
Book no be common sense

pansophist:
Can you see a bit further than your nose? That's my argument. In life, there are no static. It's either you're going forward, or you're going backward. Africa have been going backward for the past for hundred years since the first colonialist step into the continent in year 1619, and captured it ever since. You can't judge a people by their present, without taking their past into consideration.

I'll give you an example that is closer to home. You see those almajiri kids, if the government will not solve their issue and it perpetuate till next four hundreds time, I won't be surprised if someone deem them mentally inferior. But its a lie. Whites have been growing, and we have been declining. Everything happening to Africans right now are the effect of white folks that have designed your destiny centuries before, and it's materialising in the present. A good example is the Berlin conference in 18th century where they divided Africa and designed your destiny for you. How can you move forward when you don't even know how you got here?

Why you shocked? They did this everywhere they go. From North America, Ocenia, Africa, South America, and even Eastern Europe. China is a good example. Just 100 years ago, dead babies where trashed in the dustbin regularly like it's nothing due to starvation. You should Google pics of China before their civil war in 1949, you'll weep and be proud of that country at the same time. China suffered immeasurably. Everything Africa went through, they went through the same, and worse in some scenario. Hence they called it the hundred years of humiliation.

Back then, they were known as the "sick man of Asia", every young Chinese kids just want to sell opium (an addictive drugs, hence selling drugs is a death sentence in most of Asia because of their sad history), and make money (like yahoo currently in Nigeria), girls wanna prostitute (same with Nigeria), with pseudo western intellectuals releasing articles that the Chinese are inferior. It takes one man to change their destiny (Mao), and the result just 80 years later marvel the world. Asians have humbled the superiority of the west, and Africa will. The change of time is something you can't defeat.

How happy the white man will be, that his toiling to see you as inferior has been internalised by you. You're defeated and not a threat anymore. You're free to accept your inferiority, but please do not extrapolate it to the rest of us. You should be asking yourself why the so called superior whites are busy killing and bombing so called inferior humans and their revolutionary leaders. What does that tell you? Imagine pushing someone into a water well, then stand at the top of it, shooting him when he tries to get out, for over four centuries, then later create useless doctrines to justify his inferiority. That's the relationship between whites and blacks.

webm:
Continue to deceive yourself. I have a base salary of $4000 monthly too with stock options. I know it’s unbelievable to you. Idiot

pansophist:
How exactly?

Or you also believe you're inferior because you're a black man right? Now you've believed what they want you to be. Oya clap for yourself.

pansophist:
And your point is? What's your own opinion ? Are you hiding behind someone's else opinion or he is right because he is white, and/or because he can quote academic jargon? Ogbeni, truth is not complicated. Infact the more complicated something seems, the higher chances that a huge pile of rubbish is hidden beneath. My point stands, and it's quite simple. Which is, you can't determine if a race has a higher or lower IQ with standardise test.

Also even if we must agree for a second that one race has a higher IQ, then lots of extreme details must be accounted for, such as upbringing, culture, diet, motivations, predispositions etc. Even if a race emerge as superior, will the result be the same if they try it with blacks from the carribeans, afro Russians, or four hundred years ago? Or ten years later ? I can keep going on and on, but you should get the point.

Lots of scientifical base rubbish as this have been debunked in the past. So will you accept if you're called a monkey? Afterall scientifically racism said blacks and monkey are similar and from same family. Black women ass was conceived before as abnormally large, but it didn't stop racist to rape them and now their women killing themselves in gym to get black booty. Wake up and smell the coffee bros.

webm:
Idiot, my company bought me MacBook. That’s what i said. I bought my iPhone idiot.

webm:
Why do you think there’s nothing wrong with them arresting me and publishing my name falsely as a yahoo boy? When I earn legitimately.

Yes. I use iphone and have MacBook pro bought by my company

webm:
How are you sure of this? Did you read that I’d show them verifiable evidence?

The thing is there’s hardly any house you would go today and you’ll not see a yahoo person. Here, i make sure i don’t relate with them.

By the way, I mostly use java

ussoan:
They will arrest you
And then release you when they realize you are not among, and you will have to pay about 100 to 500k before leaving

The guilty ones that can pay 3 to 5million will be released too

Las las EFCC is the real Yahoo(They charge in dollars)

All I typed above is from experience (not personal experience)


Move out of that neighborhood ASAP

By the way, what's your tech stack and how long have you been coding

pocohantas:
And do you think the Romance scam is still as profitable as it was in the 90s and early 2000? Western women are getting to know you guys. They are now warning themselves to avoid Nigerian men. The yahoo guys cashing out now are the ones doing BEC and the likes. The rest are just collecting gift cards and iPhone that they would still sell at half the price because everyone on the street knows they defrauded a white woman of it.

Woman wey no wise up after Naija man handle am. E mean say she really get coconut head.

Any yahoo boy that tells you he is cashing out heavily from Romance scam in 2022 is a big liar.

pansophist:
Diversity slots is not a proof of low IQ. It's only proves than the system is unequal to certain groups, and needs governmental intervention. Substitute scholarship with "diversity slots then you get the point. Diversity slots are targeted towards the descendants of slaves (aka Black Americans), not blacks in total. What does that tells you ?

The question you should be asking is, "why are the black community so impoverished to a point where they needed to be assisted before they can excel ?

You're comparing a group of people that was enslaved, colonised and disenfrenchised for over four centuries with their oppressors, and now you're surprised They are not measuring up. This is the nonsense those that peddle racial superiority wants you to believe, and you did. If you know anything about black history in the western world, you won't say this thing you just said.

Every other thing you said I've always maintained from the beginning, hence I said its a case of nature and nurture. But to imply that all thing equal, a black man is dumber is nothing more than scientific racism.

Calibrator:
As we are trying to avoid manipulations from the opposite sex, we should also be wary of guys who have their priorities messed up.

One NFA guy I know who is partially divorced with no accommodation nor stable job to his name, instead of him to double his hustle and think of how to retrieve his supposed two kids his cheating exwife is hoarding from him.

At his age, he is still posting girls photos online and attaching encomiums like a teenager, this evening he called me that he invited his girlfriend who lives in another state over and they both want to spend the night in my apartment.

I asked him if he forgot to add lodging expenses to his budget before deeming himself worthy of hosting a guest. People that have spare money to waste are running from relationships because of unnecessary expenses, a jobless fowl is refusing to have sense.

I am really vexed right now!

Winnerly:
Folks please ignore that L**y monicker. It’s a female. Lets use the report button if possible

Romanoff:
I don't know about others but I ran away from marrying from my state and I am thankful for my choice.

It saved me from plenty wahala, yeye culture and traditions etc.

odinson1:
Women don't cheat for Money,they cheat for Sex.

Money is not the Drive that Pushes women to cheat,but on some cases it may be so,but it is not the Dominant or General Factor.
A woman married to a multi millionaire can cheat on him with their houseboy if she finds him "Worthy" enough. Women don't get sexually aroused for you because of your money,no,their pussy drips for you because of your Demeanor, composure, Mannerisms,Body structure, dress sense,manner of speech etc. All these are factors that will make a woman's pussy to fall in love with you.

@Ub unja can you please Expatiate on this further?

Perfectman91:
Truth be told, yahoo boys are the reason for rent increase in asaba, God punish these yahoo boys aka armed robbers

Winnerly:
In the past few days, your posts have become more aggressive and calculated to cause pain. What’s wrong?

I noticed you now angrily dictate instead of amicably discussing

Winnerly:
Bro, if you take away CA from me then you might as well take all the women in my life from me.

I don’t have or care to hone the typical stuff girls would send y’all green lights for.

DieRich5:
I'm not, I don't really have the time for dat tho

Because I'm not a player didn't mean other here re not and I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about TRP cus I believe different people different reasons for learning TRP

teebagy:
hahaha from ur statment it shows u dont toast girls or girls dont toast u . When u listen to dating coaches use wisdom bcoz dating coaches are popular and high value men so cold approaching for them is trash compared to the average joe.. Stop letting people who watch dating or redpill chanel and dont experiment themselves jeach u. U have to b extremely high value for green light to work on u bcoz u are not d only guy. Even dating coaches like ams stephiscold mj get right darius fixtfearless living a life of abundance and even keven samuels cold approach women