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BritishNaija:
Tech in Software Engineering, B Tech.

Software Engineering in UK? It seems its hard to pay bills over there.

Weekly rent is up to 300 pounds

BritishNaija:
Please come to Uk, I'm tech too and have been in Europe even since, Did not know your salary was after tax before i made the first reply.

What tech do you do

luminouz:
I really don't understand what's happening with the thread these past few days!!!

Haven't we all agreed to at least disagree on certain points.? The redpill is a journey every man must take himself. Level of journey differs also. Why litter the thread with so many arguments and back-and-forths that make everywhere an eyesore?

Again, trolls and f monikers are having a field day,seeing how disorganized the thread is.

I kept quiet because I know these type of topics eventually blow themselves out. But the infighting is getting way too much and that's not good. If you don't agree with another fellow's points, say it respectfully and bounce. We are supposed to be 'MEN' and more matured

One love

You fail to understand that arguing out points is what makes a complex issue simpler.. the arguments here helped many redpillers to understand that being alpha is not about success but women or sex.

That's what happens with a constructive argument.

Keep it up guys.

CAPSLOCKED:
YOUNG FOLKS, DISCARD THIS CLOWN AND HIS MEDIOCRITY AND NEVER CONSIDER HIS POSTS. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE PROMISCUOUS TO PROVE TO FOOLS THAT YOU'RE A MAN. GUARD YOUR SEXUAL HEALTH LIKE A SPARTAN AND BE VERY CHOOSEY WITH WHOM YOU ENGAGE IN SEXUAL INVOLVEMENTS WITH. TRUST ME, NOT BEDDING EVERY WXMAN THAT COMES YOUR WAY WILL SAVE YOU FROM A LOT OF THINGS AND IN A LOT OF WAYS. DON'T BE A CHEAP MAN.

There is no such thing as a cheap man.... If a woman offers you pussy on a platter and you're okay with it, hit that pussy and move on.. always use condom to protect yourself.

It's like Ubunja said, you have been chosen and it's your turn... The question is "are you interested or not"?

There is no morality to the redpill. There is no such thing as promiscuity when it comes to a man... Sex is for fun and when you see the opportunity to have fun, grab it by the pussy and move on...

CALEB1590:
Hello romancelanders, doctors and nurses in the house. I need you all to take me through dz with your professional thought.

I met this girl in November of 2021, asked her out and she gave in. We started our relationship life without sex up untill 7th January of this year. We had sex on 7th January and today her scan result shows that she is 10weeks and 2 days pregnant.

Please docs and nurses in the house, considering when i had sex with her and how old the pregnancy is, am I the father of the child? NOTE; I have accepted it, but I want to be sure that I ain't gotta father another man child.

Abort the pregnancy fool... Abort it so that you get a second chance

CAPSLOCKED:
IGNORE THEM DAY AND NIGHT ALIKE JUST TO SERVE BACK WHAT THEY SERVE INNOCENT MEN 24/7. THE SKY WILL NOT FALL DOWN . ALSO, WHAT SEEMS LIKE A "CHEAP LAY" MAY BE VERY COSTLY IN SEVERAL WAYS SO YOUR BEST CHOICE AS A YOUNG MAN GROWING UP IS TO FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND TRY TO BUILD UP FROM EARLIER ON, BECAUSE IT GETS DIFFICULT WHEN YOU GET TO THE NEXT LEVEL IN YOUR LIFE, AND WXMEN WILL MOSTLY OFFER PROBLEMS AND DISTRACTIONS.

This is rubbish.

Women are for fun

Whether they ignore other men is not your problem.

Get into that pussy, it just your turn, hit it and move on

eliok:
alright. Anytime you need it just message me

Hello can I get the serious niches

How many exactly

djon78:
See what I am driving at is that
Irrespective of what is posted etc, every individual views it from his cultural perspective
Or cultural bias be it anybody from any part of the world.


It's called glocalisation. Thinking Local and acting global


For example Nigerian musicians focused on there brand of afrobeats. Now it's gaining global recognition.
Local acts like burnaboy, Wizkid have won Grammys, something never heard of before. They are selling out there tours arena in the West, something never of before

They didn't shut themselves in but they are exporting there local culture to the global audience. So it's not about not exchanging ideas

But it's about understanding the fact that every culture differs and comes with its bias

That's why some guys tackle you here based on there cultural bias.
But intelligence and smartness you are. Having gained a lot of followers on this forum

All these grammar, bro

I can tell you don't have 1m in your account. If not, you won't be this angry and persuasive

Martinez39s:
Like, I don't know why people keep confusing how a female goes about her lust with how she goes about her survival and committed relationships. The rules are different.

When it comes to lust, a female will choose the guy that turns her on and gets her in the mood regardless of his social class. That's why a rich woman will fùck a hot gym rat that turns her on even though he is barely struggling to pay his rent and isn't fit to tie the shoe lace of her beta husband financially. Lust is a short term thing and what matters at that moment is the satisfaction of that lust, not your ability to pay the bills and give her expensive gifts. Such a guy can be above or below her in social status, rich or poor.

When it comes to committed relationships, particularly courtship and marriage, a woman will choose the best financial option available to her. It doesn't matter if he is a beta, alpha, redpillers or simp. All that matters is financial stability, her comfort and survival, which all boils down to your resources. You ability to satisfy her lust doesn't count as it cannot buy bread. If you are a redpiller with a great sexual appeal and a masculine frame made of adamatium or vibranium, the woman you are discussing marriage with will overlook you and pick the man that has more resources than you even if he the most pathetic simp and he is so unattractive and disgusting. She will pick him even if she has to share him with other women. Women don't marry based on lust and your ability to satisfy them in bed, they consider your resources and what you can provide, and they will keep swinging, at any time, to the better financial option available to them. This is hypergamy. Hypergamy is innate, it only cares about now and it doesn't sleep.

Women don't care about men... Wow

Dammytrager:
Thanks for the compliment

If your definition of the redpill to you is all about sex and women and your definition of Alpha is someone who probably has the biggest dick or the person who has conquered the way to satisfy women sexually then by all means, you're right with your submissions.

But for me and some other folks here we believe the Red pill refers to becoming enlightened to the truth about reality, especially a truth that is difficult to accept or exposes disillusion. In this context the truth is about women nature and even humans in general. With this truth the ball is in our court on how to navigate our lives with women, in our schools, our place of work and the society in general.

The sky is big enough for every bird to fly, you can preach your ideology of the redpill and how you apply it, those who are interested in it can definitely pick it up and follow it religiously, let others with a different angle also preach theirs without you feeling threatened or irrelevant, the world does not revolve around you.

Take care

Ubunja is right

I know you're disappointed. I was shocked as well.

But it is true.

The redpill is truth and truth is bitter

sajmark:
Women don't know what they want but they know what they don't want, if you're not her number 1... Leave!!!

Women know what they want

ubunja:
SUCCESS doesn't make anyone alpha. I don't know how many times you have to be told this. Being Alpha is about getting women. Regardless of your financial status or social class.

You can encourage men to uplift themselves and aim for the stars, which is noble. But that is not going to make any man alpha who is not already alpha. Money magnifies what you are. If you were a broke simp, money will just make you a rich simp. If you were a broke alpha, money will just make you a rich alpha. This is because it all boils down to your sex appeal. Do you turn women on or not. Alpha turns women on so women will deal with him regardless of his money status because he pulls women on a sexual level. AN ALPHA SOLVES WOMEN'S SEXUAL PROBLEMS . On the other hand, Beta doesn't turn women on, so he offers them money to have their attention, his pull on women is social. Never sexual. A BETA SOLVES A WOMAN'S FINANCIAL PROBLEMS.

Having Money and being successful seems alpha until you meet a woman with her own success and money who doesn't need yours and you become stuck. Some time ago, I asked gents here WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER TO A WOMAN WHO DOESN'T NEED YOUR MONEY? and I didn't get a straight answer. The answer is DICK. Which makes you alpha with that particular woman. You are alpha when a woman has no other reason to stick with you except sex. And you're beta when a woman has no other reason to stick with you except money. Women have two uses for men 1)money 2)sex. If you are used for money you're Beta. If you're used for sex you're Alpha. And one woman's alpha can be another woman's Beta. And vice versa. Depending on what each woman wants from him.

We can look up to great men and feel inspired and consider them alpha leaders. But that's not Alpha in the "alpha fuccs" sense of the word. If men want to be great in life it's fine. But no one must think that will make him Alpha in the sense that he'll turn women on. That shiit is about your body and sex appeal. Money without the body game and sex appeal will only yield transactional relationships and chore sex. First of all be able to turn women on, then use money and success as the icing on the cake. But if you do this you'll become too intimidating to the average woman because you're the total package now. Where most men are usually richer than their woman but the woman stays prettier,,,, you're richer AND prettier than your woman. Next to you the woman feels insignificant and invisible. YOU get the most stares. YOU get the most compliments. YOU are always the center of attraction. This is what being alpha is. You are placed first ahead of your woman. You are number 1.

Being alpha is not being rich. Or a great leader. Or intelligent. It's about having a good dick. It's about six packs, a great beard, a deep voice, veins on hand, powerful movement that will turn a woman on...

A lot of redpillers will be shocked that being alpha is all about women and sex...

As a man, you will have to understand.

ThatsONYI:



After escaping from the NwaBoi apprenticeship asylum, I wanted to head back to school; but since I wasn't paid a penny - and it's been a long time I left school. I'm dropping the idea.

Don't get me wrong, it hurts but I got a lot on my shoulders. So I'm taking my time to build myself mentally, physically etc. I'm yet to fully recover from the crazy things, I went through. I wanna get my life back on track, make my family proud, and yeah, get to see my mom after 4 years.

I'm gonna turn 20 by March 28, so I'm tryna make a difference; spent all my late teen years trying to please these humans. I ended up burning my heart in this fire consuming this sinful world.

So I'm back, it doesn't matter how you fall but how you bounce back. When I die, I wanna die happy, knowing I lived for a reason. I don't care how long it takes, but I'ma make an impact through music.

Hell yeah, I'm broke but I just got a menial job to support myself. I'm also working on my sound, I love hip hop and I'ma make a change in this industry.

Guess what? I just hit the studio today and I'm dropping a crazy 5 minutes remix to Eminem Detroit Vs everybody, yeah it's crazy but I gotta vision.

My name is Onyi

Onyi go to school or study an online course.

Copywriting, programming, writing, graphic design

emmaodet:
150 men by a 28 years old woman? And she is not a prostitute?
What kind of human beings are those ones? What kind of spirit is living within them? It is not normal.
A woman that can take up such number in nigeria before 30 years old is definitely a LovePeddler or hoe in nigeria.
Even though Nigerian girls are loose but not to that stage and in most cases, the ladies will do it mostly for money due to poverty or greed and not just fun.

I don't understand why you're shocked. It's like you've never been through a Nigerian University

Descottes:
I'm sure you're really hungry.
How much do you need to get something for dinner?

When you're done feeding yourself, come back and ask this question

Descottes:
I don't just understand why people like to assume things about me when they barely even know me.
Someone will just meet me and assume that I can't cook or do physical work and that I'm an ajebutter.
It really irks me... Upon all the beards and muscles wey I get

And this has been the case since I was a young boy even with extended family members . I meet a man/woman/guy/lady for the first time and they already think i can't cook, or clean like I'm a spoilt brat who grew up in the west.
I don't like it all

Street guys I know who are razz and always rap the pidgin language from dusk till Dawn will see me and become professors overnight
E.g
Me : bro how far wetin dey sup na
Sakaru: how you? I hope you cool?

Like wtf This will be someone who doesn't speak pure English on a norms.

Im tired of all these. Must everybody in this country frustrate my life?!

Instead of you to use your ajebutter life to make money, learn online skills and be great... You fooling yourself with people that can't feed you

ubunja:
Statements I have said that have triggered people here:

BROKE MEN ARE THE BEST FVCKERS

ALL ROADS LEAD TO SEX.

lmfo,, stay tuned fellas,, more are coming. If you're triggered already, you'll be triggered even more.....

Also add
Alpha fuzks is all about the woman's pleasure.

Most guys here think that being chosen means they can do whatever they want.

POSmecrhant:
I have a self contained Flat that's giving me 165k every year. But I want to sell the place to invest in business that will give me 120k to 150k every month, because I'm married now, responsiblites will spring up. and dont want to depend fully on 180k salary.

Could this be good or bad idea?

Mumu man

ubunja:
they admit to the rule of the majority only for women. When it comes to men they want the tiny proportion that is different to matter. You have said it all. They can't even see what they're doing. Men are motivated by sex, as in sex not just procreation.

Actually I think the way it was said was that all men are motivated by sex... If you had said outliers occur just the same way we say in AWALT. I think it will make it easier to understand.

Because not every guy is motivated by pussy but the few that aren't doesn't change the fact that most men are motivated by pussy and sex

This makes sense. I don't know if this is the message.

I know you'll ignore so anyone else can correct me if I'm wrong.

Emmynator:
You quoted the wrong person?
Or highlight where i said anyone has a problem with ubunja

Oh I quoted the wrong person


Sorry

Martinez39s:
Just read the discussion.

(1) The truth is that from the start of the human race, MOST men work tirelessly to put themselves in a favourable position where they qualify to procreate (ie. where they possess the qualities and resources that will make females be open to them). Passing on genes (aka "carrying on the family name" has always been a big thing for men; in fact, for many millenia, most men considered it a taboo, underachievement or curse if they didn't pass on their genes or they raised another man's children. As it has been right from time, most men are not alphas and most men want to establish families to pass on their genes; so in order to solve their reproductive issue, they had to work hard, compete with other men and be creative/innovative in getting resources to get the ladies. The hard work and innovation that results from this need to pass on one's gene are some of the major driving forces of civilisation. To procreate, you need women, and after getting women, you must have sex. If women's standard changed tomorrow and women didn't mind going for broke and fat men, most men would not achieve much and they would be satisfied with the barest minimum since it doesn't take much for men to survive. Most won't even go to the gym. This is how most men are.

This what Ubunja and emmaodet have been trying to say; maybe they should have used the word "procreation."

(2) Asides procreation, most men can't control their sexual urges and simping is getting bigger with ever generation. Secondly, there is this natural tendency for men to seek and pursue female validation and attention; they bask in these and can even badmouth their fellow men for this. Let's not forget how brag about scoring chicks. These also contributes to many men seeking resources to get females.

(3) Lastly, I will have to admit that not all men achieve things because of procreation or women. Throughout history, men pursue things and achieve things for love and passion. Some are motivated by their quest for knowledge; some are motivated by ideologies; some are motivated by self-love and living life to fullest; some were broke and faced a lot of disrespect and decided to get rich to stop nonsense; some lost relatives unnecessarily because of lack of money and they decided such will never happen again. I can list many more cases where people do things and achieve greatly without having procreation in mind or as their end goal. I can say much more, but let me stop here. These men are many, but their number pales in comparison to the men that are in category (1).

No 3. Is what those guys are saying. Yet some people are saying we hate ubunja.

Finally someone understands

Emmynator:
You know what is funny in this discussion?
Guys that are against it are pointing to exceptions, when we talk about female nature, don't women point to the same? Talmabout Telsa and co.
Sex is the major driving factor of civilization, whether you consider yourself to be an outlier or not, that doesn't nullify the validity of that statement.
Sexual instinct is one of the most primal instincts in humans, hardwired into us by evolution. It is important for both recreation and pleasure. And one thing about evolutionary instincts is that it isn't always obvious. Do you think women sit down and plan to do the things the red pill warns you about?
Sit down and lie to you self that "all road doesn't lead to sex".
I leave you with our popular saying "exceptions dont nullify the rule, they prove it" or does this saying apply only to judgments on female nature?

No one has a problem with ubunja

Criticism doesn't mean hate.

You're just a child so you won't understand..

Goodbye

ubunja:
Cave, I realized too late this glitch. You know what, sometimes you can repeat something over and over but people not get the meaning you're trying to convey.

It was Dierich5 statement saying "okay sex for procreation and not pleasure" that I discovered I was not being specific all along.

Guys When we say the way to get a woman is by sex WE DON'T MEAN SEX FOR OUR OWN PLEASURE. I thought people understood that Alphas don't fucc to please themselves. Alphas fucc TO PLEASE WOMEN. That's why it's the women WHO CHOOSE. It's the women WHO GET THE MAN THEY WANT. The sex is not for the alpha's enjoyment cause the Alpha IS NOT EVEN DEALING WITH WOMEN WHO ARE HIS TYPE. He's not dealing with women who turn him on, but with women HE TURNS ON. The alpha exchanges sex for power. The Beta exchanges power for sex. Which means the Alpha gets to fulfill women's fantasies and this gives him power over the women. Meanwhile women get to fulfill the Beta's fantasies and this gives WOMEN power over the Beta.

I talked about this in my popular miseducation CHOSEN:
https://www.nairaland.com/5520205/ubunjas-miseducation-chosen




Esther Vilar says the same thing in her book The Polygamous Sex,, as the quote below from the book states:

Amazing...

ProphetJeroboam:
Like it or not, you’re not in control, you’re never in control. Every aspect of your life benefits people more than it does you.

What about eating food... Does it benefits people more than it does you

iLegendd:
My last advice before I log out till next month when I come online again.

Whatever you do as a Nigerian, do something that'll make your clients pay you in Dollars, Pounds, or Euro. E get why. Keep it legit.

This is the fastest way to escape poverty. Get paid in Dollars on a regular or monthly basis and keep it legit.

We are about to vote Tinubu in 2023. Someone worse than Buhari. The suffering and smiling continues.

But Tinibu has a great track record

Trex4:
I'm someone that loves history a lot. Even when I'm a medical student.
American revolution, WW1, Franco-prussian war, The crusades Etc. Most of us might know of Napolean Bonaparte, Arguably the greatest military general of all time. Even more than Alexander the great and Julius caeser. They were 6 European coalitions against him and he defeated them 5 times.

But this great man apparently had women issues. Like the noble women thought he was ugly and unrepresentable. The woman he eventually married (Josephine) was to put it midly, a Whor* and middle aged woman that almost everyone had known her adventures. She was also in very serious debt (reason she married napolean. So he can pay off those debts for her).

The woman would even cheat on him while he was away fighting against Britain, Sweden, Prussia, Russia and Austria. She actually loved another man called Hippolyta.

But what could make a great man like this have women issues??

He didn't have issues with women

In 1798, Napoleon led a French army to Egypt. During this campaign, Napoleon started an affair of his own with Pauline Fourès, the wife of a junior officer, who became known as "Napoleon's Cleopatra." The relationship between Joséphine and Napoleon was never the same after this.[10] His letters became less loving. No subsequent lovers of Joséphine are recorded, but Napoleon had sexual affairs with several other women. In 1804, he said, "Power is my mistress."[11]

CaveAdullam:
You're still confirming what I said before @first paragraph via your question.

Whether through laboratory methods or conventional sex, procreation is expedient for civilization. Without humans, no civilization! All those researches are after getting quality humans as only them can effectively run and sustain civilization. The concept of eugenics is also tied to this.

@second paragraph, I already stated that in the section D part of my post.

Thanks.

You fail to understand his question.

Sex with women is different from IVF or procreation.

DieRich5:
really I don't wanna post about the mata but fvck it
See ehhh, any small thing men do na for sex like WTF alot of men want to live a good life not because of sex.......
The reason I started using DR5 was because my dad gat an accident ND the doctor won't help him cus money was not around at the moment ND my dad died even tho Dem didn't tell us at dat time ND things becomes really hard for my family since my dad people carry everything his car ND money.......so I promise myself I will die rich in this life

I hate it when people say Dem wanna rich for pussy

Asin... You can tell an average man by his ways...

How is a man's life orbiting around puss
Did Ben Carson become the best neurosurgeon just for pussy
What about Mark Zuck
What about Nerds that don't get any pussy but build the tech we have today

I sip my alcohol

posty56:
the problem with girls like cuppy is that they're too adventurous in nature, that's why all the men she dated /crush on do not last she gets easily bored and move on quickly ,is all fun and games until she starts to get old, you will start to here, "there are no good", "I haven't found my type" etc. when they're in the bitter phase.

,she won't learn from her sister temi, that one they cool,calm, collected,she has been with mister eazy for long no controversy , despite the guy looking ,dull, boring and Haggard , wetin cuppy they find na unpredictable,wild n*gga. but that her fantasy will never be fulfilled ,she better Mellow and follow her sister footstep

Look at this poor fool that doesn't have a house or car to his name calling Mr. Eazi dull, haggard, and. Boring

Syes:
2yrs of monk mode just go like that eh

Like a guy here yesterday said, all road leads to sex

Na now I understand that quote

You're still poor.. don't forget