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raumdeuter:
OP a month ago you were just 21, just graduated and staying with your dad



Today you are with your husband who beats you

So whats the real story

Are you here at all?

dav8id:
we don hear dat one no b today but people are still patronize them...i suggset you look fkr better way to settle you grudge with them

E be like say you dey always search for scam on nl, anywhere I see scam, I see you. You be EFCC?

Miscellaneous:
redgem , don't even dare to report to police or any activist as some guys here adviced, u even called relations for him ?…… u will only fuel the problem if u cannot chase it till the end. Guy, do u know what u are doing? This kind of father is not one dat should be dealt with this way. The beginning of trouble will be when ur dad even knows his right……… o boy nor try am do police mata o. I told u to email me let me give u proven advise which is being test-runned…… be careful if u choose not to mail me. May God give u wisdom to see the future & make the best decision……… bye man.

You can't even decipher if the Op is male or female in the post, how are we sure you read and understand the situation? smh
And you kept demanding for pm or email. No go mislead the poor girl o.

Op, your mom needs to leave that house at least for the time being. Not necessarily divorce him, but just get separated for a while, maybe when he gets the freedom he desires, he'll let you be.

booqee:
this ur baby's beauty dey totori my belle no be small..

The baby too fine I swear!

moscobabs:
Lol...if u cute and u married a cute guy ur baby will be cute too

As I no come cute nko? Wetin I go do to born fine pikin naw?

moscobabs:
My angel

Chai, you guys can make baby hungry person sha. So cute.

Lolz! Biafra religion kwa! We never settle the dispute between Catholics and Anglican in the East, na to start Biafra religion....

Well, I guess it's always easier to blame others for our own problems. Since we're too lazy and too gullible to do anything about it. The whites will do anything and everything to put Africans under their domination. Why can't Africans do anything and everything to make sure the Whites fail? huh?
I guess we're too selfish and lazy to do that. We are our own problems, and it's even more shameful trying to blame others for it. Smh!

feran14:
.... *sigh*... you either are using ur car the wrong way... or ur just trying to get on my nerves.凸(｀0´)凸

He's definitely trying to get on your nerves

Afrocatalyst:
How many ltrs pls? Our minimum qty is 5ltrs for 3500. We have 10ltrs for 5500. Which do u want pls?

I will add you on whatsapp, I need to ask a few more questions. Expect my chat. thanks.

Afrocatalyst:
yes. They come from outside. And they can be controlled from there with Newlion. Where do you stay? Lagos?

Yes! I stay at Agric, Ikorodu.
I need the chemical ASAP. The crazy, tiny vampires has finished all my blood.

Is there a way one can fumigate the outside too to prevent mosquitoes? I have mosquito nets, but mosquitoes seem to enter my apartment thru another way that I've not discovered. Can I get the chemicals to fumigate the outside as well as the inside? I don't mind doing it every week. I just need to get rid of these mosquitoes. I've used insecticide and all but nothing is helping

publicenemy:
first of all I am not blaming the man for
his own death, I am only saying this for those
of us still alive...we must learn.
Staying alive is the number rule in life...if u
die ur dead it doesn't matter whose right or
wrong.
The police didn't stop him from watching out
for oncoming vehicles...afterall the police
men were able to escape. You can't just lose
ur life and say " na police cause am" it
doesn't work that way...you protect what u've
got.

Well, you're right when you put it this way. But what I don't agree with is that Nigerian Police is one special gift to Nigerians.

publicenemy:
It was an accident... Don't blame the police, if they had found bombs in his boot we would have applauded them...

An American police would stop a black american citizen, shoot him,then place a gun beside him saying it was in self defence.


The Nigerian police is ur friend, no matter what you think, without them our society would be a worse place to live in....you will never know till they save ur asss.


I prefer the nigerian police...atleast sometimes with just N20 I can pass.

You must be a policeman. Police is your friend by pointing guns at a man and not allowing him to park his car well. I guess if the dead man is your brother or your father, you'll say police is your friend.

Hello house!
Longest time . I guess everybody is doing fine. God's child, Abbasufi, Princessmia, Xquire, Dlex, Psoto, Ogbeche, Ik, and that naughty 2nd Rodriguez etc etc
How una dey? How's life and work? Just checking on you guys

Jackeeh:
She writes, "I have always thought my husband was faithful until I saw this in his FB box. We have been married and blessed with 2kids and he acts like a saint all the time. I am shocked at this and more upset because the conversations are with both married and single ladies. What can I do in a situation like this?"

Why do I have a feeling you're the wife in question? You sounded so pained. This chat is just a normal chat between exes, don't give yourself hbp, in fact your husband is one of the few decent ones out there. If you see what other 'decent' married men say on chats ehn....... Overlook this and live a happy life with your husband. Don't destroy your marriage.

This is really scary. These children will be found by the grace of God. This is another lesson learnt: don't release your babies for anyone to take anywhere, not even to buy anything down the street. What reason would make her leave the house with an eleven month old?
God help us!

Royalejr:
Want to avoid giving the impression you lack confidence and authority? Avoid these words.

1. Might

Be careful when you tell people you "might" do something. Are you sure about that? No one is asking you to solve world peace. When you say you "might" finish a report, it implies you lack some ability, it implies you lack some ability, don't manage your time well, or have too many priorities.

This is so true, I had a friend, he's never sure about anything, it's always 'I may, I might' and he's always indecisive. I always knew he lacked confidence. How can one help such person?

There are fraudsters on facebook claiming to be GTBank customer care representative. They tell people that GTB want to give customers a new NIMC card, that will serve as national Idcard and master card at the same time. Then they send a link with a form that demands for details on the front and back of your master card. This is the link to the fraudsters facebook account: https://m.facebook.com/blessing.favour.716195?refid=12
Please, people, be careful, they are just looking for money to enjoy Christmas, looking for gullible and naive people to steal from. Don't fall victim.

Lol. List so on point, but I need to state that it's not only ladies that possess this mentality, 99.9% of men have same mentality too. Tell your boyfriend you met a stranger in the bus and he paid your transport fare or he paid for your shopping, first thing he'll say is ''I'm sure you gave him your number, mtcheeww, well done!'' Is that not true?

kayciano:
IGBO marrying YORUBA..
Tomorrow people, will berate IGBOS for detesting other tribes.
LETS PURGE OURSELVES of this MAN -MADE HATRED and move forward.
Because whenever GOD looks from heaven above, HE sees only HUMAN RACE...
Marry the one, u know u will have enough happiness with....
CONGRATS MAN...

Actually, some people disappoint their partners out of their selfishness and greed and they try to blame tribe for it so that it won't look like it's their fault, Igbos are not so myopic.

Op, happy married life, may God bless your beautiful, new home. Amen.

acidtalk:
TRAITOR wanting to form man of dignity.

I know your fellow traitor business partners are viewing this thread. [b]One single word [/b]for you all; You are all stating a business by running down your former boss, mentor, and competititor, you all should start to map out strategies to do same to yourselves.

Still looking for the single word!

markpenk:
Now I'm 110% sure this guy's business is agbero-related. Who talks like this?

Lmfao you wicked o. Agbero-related indeed

dammytosh:
NB: not taking any sides but don't pee in the pot you once eat from.

I thought the complaint here is actually NOT being able to eat from the pot, even after he worked for it. Or am I missing something?

Dygeasy:
Coming closely in the third position is Lovable Jennimma with a total of 154 Votes!! !

Wow, just one vote less. You see why every vote counts.

Boss13:
Na I am not. I only identify with him because of similar experiences - Lazy staff. People want jobs where they only sit down and get paid monthly without delivery on set objectives.

Okay sir. You type like him though #teamlongtexts#

Boss13:
The OP is not but a disgruntled employee. At first, I was sympathetic to his cause but not till I read the responses from the CEO. There are always two side to a story. Some employees just do not understand the concept of keeping a business afloat, in other works - to open shop, they are only interested in their monthly pay. Lets all assume that he is selling sub-standard products, however please note that the company's pricing has nothing to reflect with scamming people. He has to make profit so that he can pay your disgruntled a$$, pay for fuel, logistics, advert, rent etc.

Based on the CEO's response, he informed you and your colleagues that there is need to turn up to work on Saturdays, he gave his explanation - based on increase demand during weekends. Yet some of you did not turn up. How do you want him to increase sales and pay you. Honestly, you deserve to be sacked and it has nothing to do with one-man business. You will also be sacked or sanction in a joint-stock company too because stupid negative people like you do not deserve to be employed.

Okay he sells sub-standard products, let his customers do the talking by moving to the competition but you coming up here to run your mouth shows how disloyal you are, how disgruntled you are and how stupid and negative you are. You are part of the reason, small businesses don't grow. Everybody wants to own a business, yet no one want to be submissive enough to learn the ropes. Your behaviour on this forum is pissing me off and you need to get a life, you fool.

I suspect this man. Maybe he's the Mr True Rebel himself.
Afterall, the employees call him Boss.

Dygeasy:
Do you know what programming a website like this entail?

Shut down the likes feature on one thread seriously?

It's taking things too far and complicated.

Well, I don't know. That's why I asked, best you can do is explain sir, and not give attitude.

justi4jesu:
Why are Nairaland guys this Stingy


Guys please kindly start donations for the winner, no amount is too small, even the least #100 recharge card will be appreciated.

Madam, how nah? You just bone my side. Not cool at all.

Dygeasy:
Deep within yourself you know this impossible and not feasible.

And why not?

Why is Kachisbarbie not a contestant. I want to vote for her.