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iamrealdeji:
Dude,whats the final score pls,chelsea vs psg

2-2 PSG advance..... away win things na

vislabraye:
Chelsea fans, how market . Mo couldnt use a man advantage. What a shame.
PSG is the bbetter side and deserves to win. BTW, my dstv decoder scrambled because of the rain.

our own do the same thing oooo hehehehe I go hear word tomorrow jare.... kai

I will never give chelshit fans my leg but they should shut up and accept "the feet"

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millions of powerful quotes on my smartphone
but rarely open them for implementation and
exhibition. Not Just saving but practice them .
*the good ones*.....




guilty my lord.... please press charges.

So here is the gist and it is form a
question…
You attended a wedding reception
and during the dancing session, the
new couple danced and danced until
they were tired and left the dancing
floor. You know the usual drill
during wedding receptions, as soon
as the couple left the scene, the
little crowd that had gathered
around them disappeared also. At
your little corner where you sat, you
felt the music from the DJ is
wasting because nobody is dancing
to it. You took the initiative, moved
to the floor that the couple
deserted some minutes ago and
started digging to the mixes from
the DJ. Suddenly, the crowd
responds to your dancing steps and
surged forward towards you. Before
long, the ground is covered with
some naira notes and even some
dollar bills. You beckoned on your
friend to help you out, he or she
picks the notes and neatly packs
them into the popular black nylon
bag. At the end f the music, you
returned to your seat waiting for
proceedings to be brought to an end.
Just moments after you returned on
your seat, you decide to know how
much you have been sprayed, on
counting it, boy, you have two
hundred and fifty thousand naira in your kitty. You
thank God for bringing you to the
party. However, on your way out of
the venue, the brothers of the
groom circle and corner to a side of
the premises and demand you return
the money people sprayed on you
claiming that their brother still has
bills to take care of. “Give us the
money they sprayed on you!” And
then, that awkward moment of
“what do you mean?”

Warlord3000:
Been using this same glo tweak you carry for head like skull even before you get money collate buy Android fone..

Yet the thing no freak or Shack me like ogogoro as you dey do... Cos the 3gb is not even up to what I use from other tweak in a day


OP.. Wants legit... Is. That too hard to comprehend

Mr. IUSEDATAALOT..... go screw yaself...... everyone is entitled to his own opinion .... that you want to use legit sub doesn't make the other ones sinners.... moreover, the 3GB for Glo is legit, its official... we pay for it.... so go get a life, its Sold out there.

Warlord3000:
Best bet is buy from SME at around 1200 for 1gb...

Don't know. Why some mumu no dey hear word when the honest man say him no wan cheats..

Yet dem dey mention glo...

So much for education

now u and the OP Don dey act religious abi? but Una go get 5 side chicks join..... abeg park well near the gutter joor...... rocking Glo mofos.

Say what you mean and mean what you say. –
Give the people in your life the information they
need, rather than expecting them to know the
unknowable. Information is the grease that keeps
the engine of communication functioning. Start
communicating clearly. Don’t try to read other
people’s minds, and don’t make other people try to
read yours. Most problems, big and small, within a
family, friendship, or business relationships, start
with bad communication.
Allow others to make their own decisions. – Do
not judge others by your own past. They are living
a different life than you are. What might be good
for one person may not be good for another. What
might be bad for one person might change another
person’s life for the better. Allow people to make
their own mistakes and their own decisions.
Talk a little less, and listen more. – Less advice is
often the best advice. People don’t need lots of
advice, they need a listening ear and some positive
reinforcement. What they want to know is often
already somewhere inside of them. They just need
time to think, be and breathe, and continue to
explore the undirected journeys that will eventually
help them find their direction.
Leave petty arguments alone. – Someone else
doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.
There are many roads to what’s right. And most of
the time it just doesn’t matter that much.
Ignore, unconstructive, hurtful commentary. – No
one has the right to judge you. They might have
heard your stories, but they didn’t feel what you
were going through. No matter what you do, there
will always be someone who thinks differently. So
concentrate on doing what you know in your heart
is right. What most people think and say about you
isn’t all that important. What is important is how
you feel about yourself.
Pay attention to your relationship with yourself. –
One of the most painful things in life is losing
yourself in the process of loving others too much,
and forgetting that you are special too. When was
the last time someone told you that they loved you
just the way you are, and that what you think and
how you feel matters? When was the last time
someone told you that you did a good job, or took
you someplace, simply because they know you feel
happy when you’re there? When was the last time
that ‘someone’ was YOU?

remsonik:
wow.... I really found strength in this post. Thank you Op

ur welcome

Always be loyal. – True love and real friendship
aren’t about being inseparable. These relationships
are about two people being true to each other
even when they are separated. When it comes to
relationships, remaining faithful is never an option,
but a priority. Loyalty is everything.
Stay in better touch with people who matter to
you. – In human relationships distance is not
measured in miles, but in affection. Two people
can be right next to each other, yet miles apart.
So don’t ignore someone you care about, because
lack of concern hurts more than angry words.
Stay in touch with those who matter to you. Not
because it’s convenient, but because they’re worth
the extra effort. Remember, you don’t need a
certain number of friends, just a number of
friends you can be certain of. Paying attention to
these people is a priority.
Keep your promises and tell the truth. – If you
say you’re going to do something, DO IT! If you
say you’re going to be somewhere, BE THERE! If
you say you feel something, MEAN IT! If you
can’t, won’t, and don’t, then DON’T LIE. It’s
always better to tell people the truth up front.
Don’t play games with people’s heads and hearts.
Don’t tell half-truths and expect people to trust
you when the full truth comes out; half-truths are
no better than lies. Remember, love and friendship
don’t hurt. Lying, cheating and screwing with
people’s feelings and emotions hurts. Never mess
with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure
of yours. Always be open and honest
. Give what you want to receive. – Don’t expect
what you are not willing to give. Start practicing
the golden rule. If you want love, give love. If you
want friends, be friendly. If you want money,
provide value. It works. It really is this simple.

Be your imperfectly perfect self. – In this crazy
world that’s trying to make you like everyone else,
find the courage to keep being your awesome self .
And when they laugh at you for being different,
laugh back at them for being the same. Spend
more time with those who make you smile and less
time with those who you feel pressured to impress.
Be your imperfectly perfect self around them. We
are not perfect for everyone, we are only perfect
for those select few people that really take the
time to get to know us and love us for who we
really are. And to those select few, being our
imperfectly perfect self is what they love about
us.
Forgive people and move forward. – Don’t live
your life with hate in your heart. You will end up
hurting yourself more than the people you hate.
Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is
okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you
did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness
is the remedy. It doesn’t mean you’re erasing the
past, or forgetting what happened. It means you’re
letting go of the resentment and pain, and instead
choosing to learn from the incident and move on
with your life. Remember, the less time you spend
hating the people who hurt you, the more time
you’ll have to love the people who love you.
Do little things every day for others. – Sometimes
those little things occupy the biggest part of their
hearts. You can’t be everything to everyone, but
you can be everything to a few people. Decide who
these people are in your life and treat them like
royalty.
Pay attention to who your real friends are. – As
we grow up, we realize it becomes less important
to have more friends and more important to have
real ones. Remember, life is kind of like a party.
You invite a lot of people, some leave early, some
stay all night, some laugh with you, some laugh at
you, and some show up really late. But in the end,
after the fun, there are a few who stay to help
you clean up the mess. And most of the time, they
aren’t even the ones who made the mess. These
people are your real friends in life. They are the
ones who matter most.

Free yourself from negative people. – Spend time
with nice people who are smart, driven and
likeminded. Relationships should help you, not hurt
you. Surround yourself with people who reflect
the person you want to be. Choose friends who you
are proud to know, people you admire, who love
and respect you – people who make your day a
little brighter simply by being in it. Life is too
short to spend time with people who suck the
happiness out of you. When you free yourself
from negative people, you free yourself to be YOU
– and being YOU is the only way to truly live.

Let go of those who are already gone. – The sad
truth is that there are some people who will only
be there for you as long as you have something
they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to
them, they will leave. The good news is, if you
tough it out, you’ll eventually weed these people
out of your life and be left with some great people
you can count on. We rarely lose friends and
lovers, we just gradually figure out who our real
ones are. So when people walk away from you, let
them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who
leaves you. It doesn’t mean they are bad people; it
just means that their part in your story is over.
Give people you don’t know a fair chance. –
When you look at a person, any person, remember
that everyone has a story. Everyone has gone
through something that has changed them, and
forced them to grow. Every passing face on the
street represents a story every bit as compelling
and complicated as yours. We meet no ordinary
people in our lives. If you give them a chance,
everyone has something amazing to offer. So
appreciate the possibility of new relationships as
you naturally let go of old ones that no longer
work. Trust your judgment. Embrace new
relationships, knowing that you are entering into
unfamiliar territory. Be ready to learn, be ready
for a challenge, and be ready to meet someone
that might just change your life forever.
Show everyone kindness and respect. – Treat
everyone with kindness and respect, even those
who are rude to you – not because they are nice,
but because you are. There are no boundaries or
classes that define a group of people that deserve
to be respected. Treat everyone with the same
level of respect you would give to your
grandfather and the same level of patience you
would have with your baby brother. People will
notice your kindness.
Accept people just the way they are. – In most
cases it’s impossible to change them anyway, and
it’s rude to try. So save yourself from needless
stress. Instead of trying to change others, give
them your support and lead by example.
Encourage others and cheer for them. – Having an
appreciation for how amazing the people around
you are leads to good places – productive,
fulfilling, peaceful places. So be happy for those
who are making progress. Cheer for their victories.
Be thankful for their blessings, openly. What goes
around comes around, and sooner or later the
people you’re cheering for will start cheering for
you.

8. The best thing you can do is to keep going.
Don’t be afraid to get back up – to try again, to love
again, to live again, and to dream again. Don’t let a hard
lesson harden your heart. Life’s best lessons are often
learned at the worst times and from the worst mistakes.
There will be times when it seems like everything that
could possibly go wrong is going wrong. And you might
feel like you will be stuck in this rut forever, but you
won’t. When you feel like quitting, remember that
sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can
be right. Sometimes you have to go through the worst, to
arrive at your best.
Yes, life is tough, but you are tougher. Find the strength
to laugh every day. Find the courage to feel different,
yet beautiful. Find it in your heart to make others smile
too. Don’t stress over things you can’t change. Live
simply. Love generously. Speak truthfully. Work
diligently. And even if you fall short, keep going. Keep
growing.
Awake every morning and do your best to follow this daily


TO-DO list:
1. Think positively.
2. Eat healthy.
3. Exercise today.
4. Worry less.
5. Work hard.
6. Laugh often.
7. Sleep well.
Repeat…


The floor is yours…

What helps you stay motivated when you’re struggling?
What’s something positive you try to keep in mind when
everything seems to be going wrong? Leave a comment
below and share your thoughts.

6. Other people’s negativity is not your problem.
Be positive when negativity surrounds you. Smile when
others try to bring you down. It’s an easy way to maintain
your enthusiasm and focus. When other people treat you
poorly, keep being you. Don’t ever let someone else’s
bitterness change the person you are. You can’t take
things too personally, even if it seems personal. Rarely do
people do things because of you. They do things because
of them.
Above all, don’t ever change just to impress someone who
says you’re not good enough. Change because it makes
you a better person and leads you to a brighter future.
People are going to talk regardless of what you do or how
well you do it. So worry about yourself before you worry
about what others think. If you believe strongly in
something, don’t be afraid to fight for it. Great strength
comes from overcoming what others think is impossible.
All jokes aside, your life only comes around once. This is
IT. So do what makes you happy and be with whoever
makes you smile, often.
7. What’s meant to be will eventually, BE.
True strength comes when you have so much to cry and
complain about, but you prefer to smile and appreciate
your life instead. There are blessings hidden in every
struggle you face, but you have to be willing to open your
heart and mind to see them. You can’t force things to
happen. You can only drive yourself crazy trying. At some
point you have to let go and let what’s meant to be, BE.
In the end, loving your life is about trusting your
intuition, taking chances, losing and finding happiness,
cherishing the memories, and learning through experience.
It’s a long-term journey. You have to stop worrying,
wondering, and doubting every step of the way. Laugh at
the confusion, live consciously in the moment, and enjoy
your life as it unfolds. You might not end up exactly
where you intended to go, but you will eventually arrive
precisely where you need to be.

5. Every little struggle is a step forward.
In life, patience is not about waiting; it’s the ability to
keep a good attitude while working hard on your dreams,
knowing that the work is worth it. So if you’re going to
try, put in the time and go all the way. Otherwise, there’s
no point in starting. This could mean losing stability and
comfort for a while, and maybe even your mind on
occasion. It could mean not eating what, or sleeping
where, you’re used to, for weeks on end. It could mean
stretching your comfort zone so thin it gives you a
nonstop case of the chills. It could mean sacrificing
relationships and all that’s familiar. It could mean
accepting ridicule from your peers. It could mean lots of
time alone in solitude. Solitude, though, is the gift that
makes great things possible. It gives you the space you
need. Everything else is a test of your determination, of
how much you really want it.
And if you want it, you’ll do it, despite failure and
rejection and the odds. And every step will feel better
than anything else you can imagine. You will realize that
the struggle is not found on the path, it is the path. And
it’s worth it. So if you’re going to try, go all the way.
There’s no better feeling in the world… there’s no better
feeling than knowing what it means to be ALIVE.

3. Worrying and complaining changes nothing.
Those who complain the most, accomplish the least. It’s
always better to attempt to do something great and fail
than to attempt to do nothing and succeed. It’s not over
if you’ve lost; it’s over when you do nothing but complain
about it. If you believe in something, keep trying. Don’t
let the shadows of the past darken the doorstep of your
future. Spending today complaining about yesterday
won’t make tomorrow any brighter. Take action instead.
Let what you’ve learned improve how you live. Make a
change and never look back.
And regardless of what happens in the long run,
remember that true happiness begins to arrive only when
you stop complaining about your problems and you start
being grateful for all the problems you don’t have.

4. Your scars are symbols of your strength.
Don’t ever be ashamed of the scars life has left you with.
A scar means the hurt is over and the wound is closed. It
means you conquered the pain, learned a lesson, grew
stronger, and moved forward. A scar is the tattoo of a
triumph to be proud of. Don’t allow your scars to hold you
hostage. Don’t allow them to make you live your life in
fear. You can’t make the scars in your life disappear, but
you can change the way you see them. You can start
seeing your scars as a sign of strength and not pain.
Rumi once said, “The wound is the place where the Light
enters you.” Nothing could be closer to the truth. Out of
suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most
powerful characters in this great world are seared with
scars. See your scars as a sign of “YES! I MADE IT! I
survived and I have my scars to prove it! And now I have
a chance to grow even stronger.”

1. Pain is part of growing.
Sometimes life closes doors because it’s time to move
forward. And that’s a good thing because we often won’t
move unless circumstances force us to. When times are
tough, remind yourself that no pain comes without a
purpose. Move on from what hurt you, but never forget
what it taught you. Just because you’re struggling doesn’t
mean you’re failing. Every great success requires some
type of worthy struggle to get there. Good things take
time. Stay patient and stay positive. Everything is going
to come together; maybe not immediately, but eventually.
Remember that there are two kinds of pain: pain that
hurts and pain that changes you. When you roll with life,
instead of resisting it, both kinds help you grow.


2. Everything in life is temporary.
Every time it rains, it stops raining. Every time you get
hurt, you heal. After darkness there is always light – you
are reminded of this every morning, but still you often
forget, and instead choose to believe that the night will
last forever. It won’t. Nothing lasts forever.
So if things are good right now, enjoy it. It won’t last
forever. If things are bad, don’t worry because it won’t
last forever either. Just because life isn’t easy at the
moment, doesn’t mean you can’t laugh. Just because
something is bothering you, doesn’t mean you can’t smile.
Every moment gives you a new beginning and a new
ending. You get a second chance, every second. You just
have to take it and make the best of it.

“Today, I’m sitting in my hospital bed waiting to have
both my breasts removed. But in a strange way I feel
like the lucky one. Up until now I have had no health
problems. I’m a 69-year-old woman in the last room at
the end of the hall before the pediatric division of the
hospital begins. Over the past few hours I have watched
dozens of cancer patients being wheeled by in
wheelchairs and rolling beds. None of these patients
could be a day older than 17.”
That’s an entry from my grandmother’s journal, dated
9/16/1977. I photocopied it and pinned it to my bulletin
board about a decade ago. It’s still there today, and it
continues to remind me that there is always, always,
always something to be thankful for. And that no matter
how good or bad I have it, I must wake up each day
thankful for my life, because someone somewhere else is
desperately fighting for theirs.
Truth be told, happiness is not the absence of problems,
but the ability to deal with them. Imagine all the
wondrous things your mind might embrace if it weren’t
wrapped so tightly around your struggles. Always look at
what you have, instead of what you have lost. Because it’s
not what the world takes away from you that counts; it’s
what you do with what you have left.