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All problems can be solved without resorting to violence and bloodshed, such as killing the baby. That's murder!

The baby is already here, in his or her mother's womb, so both parents owe him or her the duty of protecting her life, and sharing in the responsibility of looking after their son or daughter until he or she is born, and grows up.

Abortion is the worst form of child abuse in the planet's history. Those who kill babies are cowards because the baby cannot fight back or defend herself.

Linda

seriks:
The only answer here for both guys and girls is:

If u are still in school or u are not settled, abortion is the answer.

Do it, move with your life, learn some lessons.

seriks is willing to murder a baby who is growing in his or her mother's womb, to avoid the inconvenience of bringing the baby up. Like many other pro-abortionists who forget that the mother is killing the one person who will love her the most through her life, and making the mother spend the rest of her life in bitter regret, knowing she killed her child.

"I had an abortion for what seemed to be all the right reasons. Physically I'm fine. But mentally, I have so many problems. Each year that's gone by find me more remorseful for killing my daughter. I feel so helpless." --Sandi

"If only I had the courage to give it a chance. But I didn't take time to think it through--I just panicked and it was as if I had awoke from a nightmare to find my baby gone, Michael gone and nothing left but shame and guilt, and a kind of overpowering remorse that can only be felt by someone who had everything, and then selfishly, impulsively, threw it all away." --Becky

Linda

prince_onx:
my guy please no do! I beg!

Why not? It's just expressing your love for a member of your family, that's all! Don't be scared of love.

Linda

When I was born, my father held me in his arms for the first time. I believe his love for me, and my love for him, is the purest, most unconditional love there is. So I say that I met my true love when I was born. In spite of what the religions teach, incest is true love.

Linda

The situation, which occurs frequently, shows the wisdom of not having sex unless a lifetime commitment has arisen in your heart. If she is pregnant, then you should marry her and commit your life to helping her and the baby find peace and happiness.

Linda

No, it is not wrong. It doesn't matter how closely related you are. The question is not "are you related", the only important question is "do you love each other?"

She has shown by her tears that she really does love you, and I think you love her too. I think you feel it deep inside yourself, don't you. I think that if you lose her you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Morally, it is right to follow your heart and to treasure the love in your life. It is always wrong to violate the law of love.

In most of the world, it is legal to marry your cousin anyway. Your cousin is once removed, so that's even more distantly related than your cousin.

Don't listen to other people, just listen deep inside yourself and do what's right for you.

Love and prayers from Linda

If your love for someone makes you want to commit yourself to making them happy for the rest of your life, if it makes you want to strive to be a better person and be worthy of their love, if it makes you want to be kind, patient and forgiving towards them, if your greatest joy is doing nice things together and spending time with them, if you are willing to make sacrifices for their sake, if their happiness is essential to your own, then what does it matter if their skin is a different color (interracial) or if they have the same genitals you do (homosexual) or if they are closely related to you (incestuous) or if their beliefs are different from yours (interreligious). The only important question is, Do you really love them? If you do, then nothing else matters!

-Linda

Hi Ginger! I've been away from the forums for a few months. I think family members love each other more deeply than unrelated people. They grew up together, share the same genes, and have a deep bond between them.

Being a stronger deeper love, there is more likelihood that they will want to be together, more than with an unrelated stranger who they met only a few years ago. A lifetime commitment in the heart is always there, because your brother is always your brother, your father is always your father. See http://au.geocities.com/smknggn/childtp.html for example.

I'd talk to them about sex being only for couples who love each other so much that they feel a deep, permanent and certain commitment to spend the rest of their lives together, and who feel committed to raise any children who come along. I'd make sure they understand fully about sex causing pregnancy and babies. I would allow them to continue having sex *only* if those circumstances existed, and if that were the case, I would do everything in my power to protect their privacy, especially from the repressive and misguided anti-incest zealots.

Linda