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@dudu-dumbass
thanks i'll be taking that as a complement!
you think you all big and bad just cause you tryna talk shit over the freakin keyboard, nigga please.
what you need to do is move around with all that bullshit.
if somebody sees your ass in the streets you aint gon try to talk shit then.
that how much of a punk you is.
you feel that you can justify your low self esteem by trashin other people's opinions.
so i said my piece and its over.
just leave it alone.
we all know that you're for arranged marriages and i'm not and lets just leave at that cause its so freakin stupid that you tryna talk shit to me on the freakin computer just because you dont agree with my statement, so childish.

@dudu-dumbass
next time you want to spell my name then spell right!
and okay I will explain
most of the women who have said that they were in arranged marriages said that they weren't truely happy within their marriages and that they regretted it, and that's simply why I stated what I had stated.

@Ivvie
how is what I stated a fairytale?
so now you're trying to say that my way of thinking is simply based on movies and hollywood, I don't think so
It's my opinion and I have the right to think what I think and if yall gotta problem with it then get over it and just move on with it.

@SeanT21
thanks for the great advice and for understanding!

To me, if you[i] really[/i] love someone then you shouldn't really have to try to change them.
Just love and accept them for what they are and if you don't, then find someone else.

Most people don't really choose to be single parents.
I know damn well that my mother did not choose to be a single parent.
Its just that shit happens under certain circumstances.
Money or skill really has nothin to do with it so why would you even make a statement like that anyways.
It just something that happens whether you wanted it to or not and you learn how to deal with and try to raise your child the best way that you can with the will of God.

Thanks to all yall for understanding.
I actually do feel a lot better since posting that.
Thank God I found this website.
I feel like I can connect with people with the same thoughts as me.
Thanks and God bless you all!

@SeanT21
Oh I'm doin pretty good.
How you doin?

@big father
I don't speak pidgin English, so if you wanna say sumthin to me then say in a way that I can understand please.

@dudu-bobo
Ok first of all what the does media have to do with anything, so don't go and start bashing my opinons just because you don't agree with them.
Everyone one is entitled to their own opinion so I was just simply answering the question from my point of view, if you don't like it then simply get over it.
I was just trying to state a few simples example of what happens in a[i] failed[/i] arranged marriage and[i] yes[/i] in some of  instances what I stated are true.
So my whole main point was that arranged marriage to me is wrong and that you shouldn't try to control other people's destiny and future.

How can you people take teen pregnancy so lightly?
Why does Hollywood and everyone else try to glamourize teen pregnancy?
Stop ignoring the facts and deal with the real issue head on so that we can stop this epidemic!
I understand yeah you bleeped some dude and yeah you got pregant and whatnot, but instead of trying to take the easy road out, you should at least try to take some responsibilty for your actions.

See this type of shit makes me ashamed to even call myself an American!
I hate how those stupid ass feed the children type infomercials that they broadcast depict the continent Africa as a poor country.
And that's what some of these stupid ass ignorant people in the US don't understand is that Africa is a continent with several different countries in it and some of them don't have people running around naked, living in nasty ass mud huts, or children with big bellies.
What I don't understand is if they got all that fuckin money to even fuckin travel to Africa, then why the can't they feed all them damn children.
Why can't we as Americans just simply use what resources we have properly and do more effort in trying to help these other countries in need.
We have more money than we say we do.

Well it can go both ways.
He was just prolly askin you to chill with him at bar or something and social with his homies or whatever.
It just depends on you the person is and how you may or may not percieve the conversation or actual words that's being spoken directly to you.

I personally think that arranged marriages are just wrong because it's not even based on true love; half of the time they don't even know a single thing about each and they just don't work.
And also the other thing that I just absolutely hate is when they try to arrange these types of marriages at birth or even before the child is actually born.
Even if the marriage lasts or if they've been together for a while, they're never really happy in the end anyway and if they say that they are then most of the time they're just trying to put a front up or mask their true feelings.
I believe that we as humans should just let things run on it's natural course and let God deal with all of it and stop trying to control our futures because it's really not even up to us.

To me, it the dont really matter what ethnic group, nationality, or country you're from.
We all got some sort of emotional problem and we all do get depressed to a certain degree or extent.
It all depends on how well the individual handles stress or certain situations that may stress a person out.

What difference does it freakin make?
We all Black in the end anyways.
And that's kinda funny cuz in another post one dude said that Igbos are descendants of like Isrealis and Egyptians and shit like that.
The thing is just so funny and ridiculous!