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EducationRe: University Of Nigeria (UNN) Direct Entry Aspirant 2014/2015 - Let's Meet Here. by Linzo(m): 3:18pm On Apr 03, 2015
Am vying for Accounting with HND upper credit this year, what will be my hope of been admitted into 300 level friends?. This is my email address; collinsigwe100@gmail.com. Somebody help me with past question for practice
EducationRe: Michael Okpara University(mouau) 2015/2016 Admission Thread by Linzo(m): 2:46pm On Apr 03, 2015
Am a Direct entry aspirant but I choose MOUAU as second choice. Will I be allow to take post direct entry exam and if i do what is my faith of been admitted.? Am vying for Accounting 300 level with HND upper credit in Banking and finance. Simply put does MOUAU accept 2nd choice? Somebody should help out please
EducationRe: Michael Okpara University(mouau) 2015/2016 Admission Thread by Linzo(m): 8:30am On Apr 03, 2015
Medley:
hows the post UTME like? Whats the subject combination for someone that is applying for microbiology? Do you know how to obtain the p-utme past questions?
For Microbiology aspirants your subject combinations are eng, maths,biology,chemistry,physics and current affairs. i think total is 60 questions. 10 for each subject
EducationRe: Michael Okpara University(mouau) 2015/2016 Admission Thread by Linzo(m): 7:40pm On Apr 02, 2015
Am a Direct entry aspirant but I choose MOUAU as second choice. Will I be allow to take post direct entry exam and if i do what is my faith of been admitted.? Am vying for Accounting 300 level with HND upper credit in Banking and finance
CareerRe: Hnd Holders Who Did Or Are Still Doing Bsc Share Your Experience. by Linzo(m): 10:42am On Mar 29, 2015
[quote author=Dereformer post=32062519]@ Linzo

Good decision.

I have always said that doing PGD after HND is not a good option.

The best option is always to go for a Bsc.

Maintain your current GP. You are most likely finishing with a 1st class.[/quoted ]

Thank you brother, I think you are nurturing such thought of obtaining Bsc, I will say follow your dreams and get what you want in life, I know many people will discourage you with different reasons to go for PGD but am begging you not listen to them but follow your dreams. Thank you for this thread
CareerRe: Hnd Holders Who Did Or Are Still Doing Bsc Share Your Experience. by Linzo(m): 9:39am On Mar 27, 2015
YA I will say it is the best thing to as HND graduate, am currently running my Bsc in accounting UNN Enugu campus, I made upper credit in HND and am admitted into 300 level and currently leading my Department with GPA of 4.68. I urge all my friends and fellow HND holders to take the option of Bsc and thank me later
EducationRe: University of Nigeria UNN Direct Entry 2015/2016 Aspirants....Let Meet Here by Linzo(op): 5:18pm On Mar 24, 2015
Helllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllloooooooooooooooooooo
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 4:53pm On Mar 24, 2015
ronald4lif:
Hmmm. I take it that you're open to the option of getting her back to be your girlfriend and also completely take her off your mind and life, am I correct?

To win her back I'll suggest the following options;

First of all, it seems your ex is the one in control of the friendzone relationship you both are presently engrossed in. This has to change asap. You have to be the one in control, not the other way round. When you succeed in being in control you stand a great chance of winning her back. Stop giving her attention, she'll never be back to you when she feels you're always there. Don't make yourself readily available by returning her chats and/or messages. You shouldn't take her calls always, the more she gives you miss calls the better. Let her want you more than you want her. Also, always remember that she has not completely erased you off her mind and hasn't moved on like she should, that's why she still want to be friends. She needs you as equally like you need her, so don't act desperate. To get her back you must avoid all the mannerism of low self esteem, it's a turn off.

You should also not always give the impression you haven't moved on since after the break up, no that's not ideal. Pretend as if you've move on, having a great fun-filled life, with great friends, and that you have casual female friends you relate with but you ain't ready to go into any relationship with them. Whenever she ask why are you not in a relationship say things like you decided not to, you're focusing on your career, job hunting and putting your life on track. Never tell her you can't move on without her, that's desperation and reeks of low self esteem. This doesn't mean that you should cut off every communication you have with her if you really want her back, you should keep in touch with her but endeavour to make your communication brief. Give her mix signals, please don't over react by not responding to her messages at all, other times you chat her up first but most time let her reach you first.

Okay, but if you want to really take her off your mind and forget her completely, consider the following;

I think the best and easiest way to go about this is by first ending whatever means of communication you have with her, that won't be an easy nut to crack I know but you can start by reducing the frequency you both communicate, take her call less and return her messages lesser or slowly until the communication spark weighs off. No contact rule is a 'must'.

Admit that you can't be with her anymore and move on with your life, just assume you were defeated. Also, try to move on by starting up another relationship. Don't bother at the onset if you really love your next girlfriend, the love could crop up later. And even if it doesn't, it may have given you sometime out from your ex trauma and you may be surprise how fast you can get into another relationship as soon as you forget her. Don't let her play with your emotions, get rid of her asap. Let her want you the more. It's either she moves on or get back into you. All the best.
Thank you so much for the piece of advice, i will describe you as a COMPUTER IN HUMAN. I will just do as you have said, but the issue is that i will be more comfortable and focus when i cut off all forms of communications with her, and as you said accept defeat in the whole thing.
EducationRe: University of Nigeria UNN Direct Entry 2015/2016 Aspirants....Let Meet Here by Linzo(op): 11:50am On Mar 24, 2015
Any UNN aspirant in the house?
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 11:45am On Mar 24, 2015
shaizegotswag:
Bro let me tell u my own that happened this year, I dated this girl 3 years paid her school fees till she finished her OND and all of a sudden she met this guy over a month and she left me bro forget man matter I beg her tire and she was a virgin, I love her so much that I don't want to dis virgin not that I don't have the chance that's how much I love her...no matter what you read on here you'll still do what's on your mind that's one thing have learnt and during my time I took a sachet of tramadol 200g for a day it was only God that helped me for a girl that will still Bleep another dick..bro love is real and am still moving on tho she came back crying I had to accept her but I prepared myself till when she'll leave again so am saving tfare for her, its not easy moving on and Nairaland romance section really helped me pple like ronald4lif was there and a lot of ladies don't knw dere name can't forget u all
Truly love is real but i wonder why ladies will be so heartless at times. Well i will be glad to read also directly from RONALD4LIF
Jobs/VacanciesI Need Hotel Work In Enugu by Linzo(op):
Please friends help a nairalander who just finished service last month,i have HND in Finance with upper credit, 25yrs of age, male, reside at Maryland axis of Enugu. Email:collinsigwe100@gmail.com
PoliticsRe: Die Hard Fan - i Can't Be Alive And See Buhari Fail Again (photo) by Linzo(m): 11:07am On Mar 24, 2015
Please do it fast. BOKO HARAMS. I now realize that every housa mas is boko haram and potential terrorist
PoliticsRe: If You Were Given A Chance To Meet GEJ And MB, What Would The Question Be? by Linzo(m): 11:00am On Mar 24, 2015
I would ask when will the government stop selfish companies in Nigeria from outsourcing all Nigerian jobs and stop giving our graduates hopeless future and corporate en-slavery
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 5:03pm On Mar 23, 2015
Barnalanto:
am sure she is just trying to make you develope more interest on her..... am sure she is just trying to make you develope more interest on her..... am sure she is just trying to make you develope more interest on her.....
For how long? that could have been when are about to start not at the peak of our relationship
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 4:58pm On Mar 23, 2015
runnazz:
The saying M.O.B(Money Over B1tches) is not just a rap saying.It is a mentality, a way of thinking that would help young men focus on the important things in life..u just finished ur service and whether u blv me or not the truth is God and ppl who want to favor u are observing.Focus on your job applications and research on things u never had the time for..open ur mind and be ready for anything,if possible get a professional certificate that will make u stand out in ur field get involved in things that will add beautiful colors to ur future task ur brain and mind so even if u don't get employed u could employ urself ....have lots of girl friends if u cant stay off women for a while and take non serious just treat them all the same(but keep an open mind so u wont miss the right one when she comes). I swear u will see good things happening in ur life but DO NOT REJECT LITTLE BEGINNINGS. Watch things unfold and plan with what you have the girl u need will come into ur life and grow with u as u get better and better Never let woman problems Hold u down @ this stage in ur life or be prepared to fail urself.

My honest opinion/advice
Thank you so much and i promise i will work with every little piece of advice you have dropped here. thanks again and God bless
EducationRe: University of Nigeria UNN Direct Entry 2015/2016 Aspirants....Let Meet Here by Linzo(op): 7:52pm On Mar 22, 2015
Am HND graduate in Accountancy Upper Credit, am seeking a direct entry admission into UNN and hoping to be admitted to 300l. Please friends what are my hope of been giving Accountancy 300l?
EducationUniversity of Nigeria UNN Direct Entry 2015/2016 Aspirants....Let Meet Here by Linzo(op):
Good day fellow aspirants and potential lions and lionesses, it's another great and fruitful year for us. I think it's high time we came together to join heads for a way forward to achieving our career dreams. Ask questions regarding UNN direct entry admissions and other info that will help.

Thanks everybody
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 7:10pm On Mar 22, 2015
youngchopper:
I apologize for been too
razz
Distant your self from anyone who will never add value to your life financially or otherwise
Thanks bro
RomanceRe: Caught In The Act...pls What Would You Do In This Situation? by Linzo(m): 4:59pm On Mar 22, 2015
Forget about her and move on with your life, believe me in no distance time you will get the girl that will truly be yours
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 2:43pm On Mar 22, 2015
youngchopper:
What nonsense seems everyone here is been
Ice on your stupidity
Are u from space
Dont u know ain't no shit like love
Why let a bitch give u emotional shit
Abeg grow up and act like a man
My brother I think that is too ash of you atleast emotional trauma is natural and not poo
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 1:55pm On Mar 22, 2015
Mhizizzy:
She can't eat her cake and have it
That is absolutely true. No way again I let that passed me
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 11:39am On Mar 22, 2015
Richy4:
Oh bro!!! You have been bitten by a love bug. And if not checked, it could go straight to the bone marrow and.....

what you need now is an antidote. Tell yourself she is not the most beautiful girl in the world.
Tell your self that every thing in this world got spear part.

Tell your self that her brand is all love that if you search more you can see. Those are the antidote.

Then in terms of reality, tell her you are a busy man she should stop calling unless something serious. But I know you can't say a thing like that because I read where you were begging stupidly like she got diamond rubbed all over her body.

Please stop all this and move on. Keep her in the bin of the past
Thank you for your advice. I must confess that nairaland is the best social place in the world, the advice I have gotten here as given me hope and strength to move on. Thanks to to everyone who has contributed to this post
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 11:28am On Mar 22, 2015
Lala247:
Op just move on its easy to do ... This is not even pressing issue undecided
Ya I ve to move on and as you said it's not a pressing need
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 10:40am On Mar 22, 2015
Ucheosefoh:
Here is a plan get a good female friend that can act as your girlfriend when she calls don't pick until the fourth time let your female friend pick the call and tell her you are busy that she should call back later. When she do call back pick it and tell her she is your new found love and she is not comfortable with the way she calls you. If she persist give the other girl the permission to insult her to stay away from you, nothing girls hate pass their fellow girls insult.
I think that is a good idea I just have to get a female friend and divert my feelings
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 10:35am On Mar 22, 2015
summerflame:
I had the same case,. When I travelled, she was seeinf another guy and having continuous sex with him. When I got back to Nigeria, she confessed. I live in Ibadan, she lives in Lagos. I made sure she used her money to always come to Ibadan to apologize and beg to continue our relationship, I always f*ck her mercilessly, after many months, I just showed her the way out of my life. Meaning that some women or ladies might be do bitchy and animalistic. Make up your mind as a man. There are lots of girls that are far better and qualitative more than her.
Guy ya understand you but it's not easy to move on, though I have decided to let go and so be it. Thanks man and God bless
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 10:19am On Mar 22, 2015
jnrbayano:
Get a job.

That's what you need now and not her. Let the bold solely bother you now.

I don't paint words.
Thanks bro i think am really working hard towards getting a job and that is my number one priority for now
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 10:17am On Mar 22, 2015
GinaKing:
When she dumped u,she probably had someone who she wanted to kick it with, and friend zoning u might be a way for her to keep tabs on u,so dat she gets u easly wen her boo lets her down.i say forget her completly,why must u b someone's second best,wen u be someone's only best out there.try as much as possible to get her of yo mind and start dating other ppl.even if its not for serious relationships,just go out on dates and have fun.eventually u wil meet a good demsel who will love u with all her being,and u will also feel de same and forget abt this girl does nt seem to adore u enough
That is what i observe, she really want to friend zone me to keep tab on me but i just ve to keep away from her and stop all forms of communications
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 9:45pm On Mar 21, 2015
@ jenams, i would have love to play along but am not kid anymore, i want a serious and steady relationship.
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 8:20pm On Mar 21, 2015
timijoseph01:
And datz z how you will continue to block every lady that breaks up with you in future..?? Tell them not to call you or come your way againg..??
U nid to handle this matter as a Man,, dnt be over-shadowed by love..
Maybe u still nid to read ma prev comment again..
Thanks for your encouragement bro
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 8:07pm On Mar 21, 2015
InZA:
I won't say I understand how you feel.. Because I've never been in your shoes before and I don't intend to, but really how hard can it get to see that she's using you, many girls want to have a loving boyfriend and at the same time the sweetest ever male best buddy.... But it doesn't work that way.... Girls by default are manipulative and you just have to see that she's manipulating you.

1.Block her number.
2. If she calls you with another number, block it
3.If you don't have an app that blocks phone numbers, go and download it
4.If you don't have a phone that can accommodate a phone number blocking app, then anytime she calls with an unknown number, once you pick and hear her voice. Cut the call
5. Keep cutting until she gets the message that you would rather date a snake than date her

Dude.... You have to take charge of your life... Don't allow anybody, woman or man to make you a shadow of yourself...if you continue like this, when you get that super cool job, you won't be able to concentrate and give it your best effort because you're busy thinking about some overly manipulative idiiot of a girl who wants to eat her cake and have it.

Deuces!
Thanks, ya i have a phone that blocks number from calling but am thinking i should send her a test that i dnt need her communications in any form and then block her line
RomanceRe: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by Linzo(op): 7:56pm On Mar 21, 2015
Igwevalentine:
Change Your number..gaskia
I have thought of that but the issue for now is that i have used my number in all my applications and currently am at the last stage of recruitment with 3 banks so it will be difficult to lose my lines

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