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All of you shouting Money Money Money, if getting a woman interested is all about money then Bill Gates wife for no leave am. That should tell you money is not everything. Money will only get the wrong women interested and in the end it will end in tears. I always tell anyone that cares to listen, the best time to get a good woman is when you never hammer.

womenareapess:
will you keep quiet

For someone who haven't left his own local government location, opening his gutter to give advise just because he is lucky with one female baboon (Naija woman) who will later deal with him in the future!

Mr man! Once you have step out this country, hit me up and let have a meaningful conversation.

God forbid that i should demote myself from my exalted position to have a conversation with someone whose highest achievement in life is that he stepped out of the country. What a shame! If i check well now na Zimbabwe you go. But i'll still give it to you. Zimbabwe is still outside the country. You don't have manners no wonder you can never get a good woman in life, even if you go search for heaven. My guy just turn Gay and save yourself the stress.

Very foolish man. If this girl na him neighbour and this event happen for him backyard and nobody hear am outside. I swear even if the girl and her parents come to him for help he will never give them a dime. Some Nigerians are so wicked. Capitalizing on a poor girl's misfortune so you can get cheap popularity is what this idiot has done. The easiest way to get popular now is to look for a trending event and see how you can attach yourself to it so that millions of people will see ur face and then you can use it to brag to any woman wey you wan chyke, telling her sey na you be that guy wey sponsor dat girl wey cult boys harass. Take that money go help ya family members wey dey beg you since time immemorial. madman.

womenareapess:
CONCLUSION

get a life and stop following those piece of shiit called Naija women

They ain't worth it.

By the way! Your write-up isn't applicable to those baboons called Naija women!


A wise man once said " give those baboons banana and they will worship you"

Sorry if you're so unfortunate not to get a good naija woman. I understand how you feel. As for me, right from when i begin do girlfriend from secondary school till now that im married, ive been very lucky to come across good women. I even recommend good ladies to my friends for marriage. I'll advice you go for knowledge. Read books and discuss with matured people that have good relationships, attend seminars too. All those knowledge will pay off some day. Naija women are sweet. I've seen naija men in the diaspora come back to naija for the sole purpose of marrying a naija babe. So leave am. No let telemundo and zeeworld deceive you to think sey na oyibo women better pass.

ClassicMan202:
Show you are interested in me by giving me money biko ..... No be only una sabi chop people money

But e get some people wey enter better woman hand wey her papa hold scatter. From there too the guy come hammer. So some women can make you hammer faster as long as no be ashawo for hotel wey you go carry. Ashawo only come to chop and go.

This man is a very foolish man. Now i see why all his wives left him. The guy no get sense at all.

It’s a social norm across animal species for the males to initiate the approach while the females choose to accept or decline. To ensure your overtures are welcome, you must be able to decipher the subtle signals from a woman’s body language before you approach her.

Failure to understand a woman’s body language can make you lose in two ways. Firstly, you will end up making unwanted advances towards women and get loads of rejections which might affect your ego and self-confidence. Secondly, you may end up missing great relationship opportunities because you could not understand the cues from her, hinting you to shoot your shot.

If you find it tough to figure out if a woman is interested in you, and if she would welcome your advances, I have lined up some research-backed indicators to give you some clues.

https://gentsaffairs.com/female-body-signs-that-indicate-shes-interested-in-you/

efficiencie:
Very true. Some unbelievers make marriage work but I believe that the principles to make marriage work are by God and can be applied by anyone even though they don't believe in God or believe in Christian principles. Paul spoke about people who may be gentiles but follow the law of the LORD GOD as it was delivered to their heart (Romans 2:14-15). This was how Naaman being a Syrian soldier and not believing in the LORD GOD obeyed the Prophet Elisha and was healed so also many unbelievers can believe in God's leading and receive the reward of obedience even if they do not believe in the very God that inspired them. So you can find an atheist, who doesn't have faith enough to believe in the existence of God, but he believes that there is woman out there that matches him and that he is to put down every mundane criteria and listen to his heart. He decides not to exploit ladies or take advantage of them and he pays attention to identify that golden lady that matches him and he matches. If he follows his heart he will marry right. And if he sees marriage as an opportunity to learn, grow, lead, evolve and become a better person he would be an atheist but a great spouse and will sustain his relationship for years...this is why no one should condemn anyone due to their faith because they may be unbelievers but yet they heed the voice of the LORD GOD in their heart so much that the LORD GOD favors them much more than He favors the so called believers...and at their death, the LORD GOD can play the ultimate rescue card seen in the verse Exodus 33: 19 and make that once upon a time unbeliever enter into His eternal kingdom.

God bless you brother

I appreciate you oh Pastor Chris. But unless the school was built in an interior village in ogun, if the school in the picture is the entire structure you built for a school in a township area, then i think you can do better than that, based on your financial strength. Even poor men that are proprietors of schools build very big schools, how much more the G.O of CHRIST EMBASSY. Haba! How many children can this school accomodate? If churches can build over 10,000 capacity mega auditorium and mega universities, then this structure na school library e suppose be. But no wahala sha. All na still charity and na "giving back to the society" from the Billions you got from it. God bless you man of God, half bread is better than none. At all at all naim bad pass.

efficiencie:
You can do all these things and yet be betrayed, cheated on or ruined by your spouse. First things first, make the right choice. No amount of learning can help an ant have a successful marriage to an elephant. To make the right choice, seek the LORD GOD in prayer and trust His counsel. Now to make the right choice is one thing, but to sustain a marriage is another thing...to sustain the marriage both spouses must agree with the divinely ordained rule that husbands must love their wives as Christ loved the church and wives must submit to their husbands as unto the LORD. Both spouses must get closer to God to allow them meet the conditions of sustaining their marriage.

You have a point bro. But then, your comment is lopsided because it makes it look like no unbeliever can live a happy married life, which is untrue in reality. What will you say about atheists that live successful married lives while pastors break up with their spouses? What do you have to say about moslems and unbelievers that are successfully married while christians file divorce every now and then? My brother, there are certain rules that when you adhere to them you get the desired results irrespective of your faith and its God that made it that way so man can live by the rules of life. Thats why if an atheist and a christian plant crops in the farm, both crops grow as long as they keep nurturing it. But the problem with christians today is that they feel as long as they have God they dont need to water or nurture the seed. They just need to have faith and give offerings to a man of God and then everything will fall into place. Thats why we have so many successful unbelievers than believers. God has given man the wisdom to run his life and that wisdom is embedded in principles. Put God first, rely on God, but follow the principles of life. This article just gave out some principles. There may be exceptional cases where it may not work. perhaps due to the individuals involved or to wrong application of these principles.

SanctifiedSista:
17 tips to gain a very good man
1. Trust GOD and listen to next level prayers everyday..yes go back and watch it on weekends
2. Listen to all pastor Bolaji tapes on marriage and do the prayers
3. Engage in prayers and fasting on ur own using the tapes on mystery of deliverance from apostle Joshua Selman
4. Open your Instagram DM
5. Follow important pages on Instagram esp d quiet successful pages and business..as d spirit leads
6. Comment intelligently
7. Run from fornication by all means...
8..run from masturbation,Indecency sites and literally anything that wld ofend GOD
9. Take beautiful professional.pics on your Instagram and intelligent posts as well
10. Be productive and read so wen on dates, u can have what to discuss not just gossips on Tonto
11. Complement him always...if there is nothing to complement, just keep quiet
12. Don't look down on anybody plssss..speak to Evryone with respect..don't let ur body language mock d person
13. Apologise wen wrong
14. Call them..yes call and call..no vex abeg
15. Don't ask for money if possible..u can throw d hint but don't look to ur man..if he is not thoughtful , then at least u now know he is stingy...never ask I beg u..earn ur own money and be content with it
16. If he Ghost u, don't take it P...just leave it be and move on..I swear a good man awaits
17. Be who u are but if wear small makeup, make ur hair, shape ur eyebrows, paint that toenails and waist trainer occasionally lose that weight as well





Hey, this sunday..come and hear what God in store for u

Nigerians and God God God all the time. Even when God has given you wisdom to run your home you still dey worry God again. You folks forget that it was God that gave Eve to Adam yet Eve led Adam to his fall. If na anointing dem dey take become good husband Pastor Chris Oyahilome and Rev Chris Okorie for no break with their wives while Charlie Boy is still with his wife. My dear, some things are not prayer and God but simple application of principles and wisdom.

Being a good husband is a sacrifice that most times involves putting your wife first and yourself second. I know this is a difficult concept for most men to grasp. Unfortunately, most of us spend our time and resources planning our wedding, but little or no preparation for our marriage. Meanwhile, weddings are the ceremonial segment of marriage, designed to last a few hours, but marriage is a lifelong commitment.

If you genuinely want to become an ideal husband to the woman you cherish, then it’s never too late. Here are some action steps to keep the flame of love burning in your marriage, making you the kind of husband every wife would be proud to have.

1. Pay Attention to Personal Grooming

She probably wouldn’t have given you a chance if you had looked like a garbage man the first time you approached her. An unattractive appearance is repulsive and a deterrent to romance. At a point in marriage, you become too comfortable with each other and gradually take certain things for granted, especially your appearance.

Good grooming is not a pre-marital activity exclusive to the female gender. Therefore, make concerted efforts to be good-looking for your wife. She will be proud of you for going the extra mile to groom yourself for her.

2. Shower Her with Love

Most African men find it challenging to express their love to their spouses. However, women love romantic gestures, especially when it’s coming from their husbands. Simple deeds like giving her random kisses and hugs during the day, buying her gifts, reassuring her of your love, and other chivalrous behaviors, will go a long way to brighten her day. To crown it all, look beyond her imperfections and focus on making her happy. Such an unconditional display of love has the potential to turn even the vilest of women into an angel.

3. Be Her Best Friend

A strong friendship bond between you and your wife is the foundation of a happy and long-lasting marriage. Nothing excites a wife than having a husband who is also her best friend. You should be able to freely share your feelings, good moments, bad moments, and even secrets with your wife before anyone else. By that, you build the trust and confidence required to keep your marriage afloat. Spend quality time with her, gisting, gossiping, and having fun together as best friends do. Trust me, being your wife's best friend will alleviate boredom in your marriage.

4. Be Protective

Believe it or not, it’s a harsh world we live in, filled with cruel people. Therefore, you must take it upon yourself to protect your wife from danger. Not just from physical threats, but also emotional, mental, and even spiritual insecurities. Do not watch others mistreat her. Never tolerate insults or unsavory remarks directed towards your wife. If she’s wrong, don’t make jest of or scold her publicly but correct her privately. Make it clear to everyone that you are always on her side, no matter what. Be her hero.

5. Enjoy the Meals She Cook

She may not have the culinary skills of the president's chef, but as long as her cuisines are not poisonous or harmful to your health, my brother, savour and appreciate it. Instead of complaining, be honest about the taste and gently point it out to help her improve. But regardless of your preferences, continue to appreciate her.

6. Be Supportive

When you have the time, assist your wife with some house chores, especially if you sense she’s fatigued from the workload. Also, support her dreams and aspirations. Never mock or laugh at her dreams, no matter how dumb they may seem, because that will crush her spirit. She should be confident to count on you, even if the world thinks she is crazy. Make her believe she can achieve anything she sets her mind to do. Then thank me later for the love and kisses you will receive from her for your unwavering support.

7. Remember Special Dates

Their birthdays and wedding anniversaries are two events most wives don't toy with. To avoid sleeping on the couch that night, never forget these dates or any other dates she mentions as significant to her. However, remembering these events is not enough. Go the extra mile and purchase some gift items for your wife to make her happy on that day.

8. Be Romantic

In marriage, it is common for romance to gradually wane with time. Being romantic should not be limited to when you want to have sex. In an online survey, couples were asked to list the top 20 physical things they want their spouse to do to them. For the husbands, sex was number one, yet it ranked below the 5th position for the women. Instead, romance was among the top three priorities for women.

Women are not wired like us. They love romantic gestures, so endeavour to keep the romance alive in your marriage. One way to achieve this is to continue wooing your wife. Repeat the things you did during courtship such as taking her out for dinner, surprising her with gifts at unexpected times and not only on special seasons, sending her love SMS while at work, etc. There are endless options of nonsexual romantic gestures. Just keep treating her like a queen and watch her fall in love with you repeatedly.

Get the complete tips here: https://gentsaffairs.com/how-to-be-a-good-husband-and-have-a-happy-marriage/

When Joe Biden rigged himself to the White house you guys where rejoicing. Una been think sey una dey do the christians by supporting that useless Joe Biden. But you see una life now? When Trump was there he maintained the US forces in Afghanistan and kept the Talibans at bay but Joe Biden came and removed the US forces now Afghanistan is the capital of terrorism. What a foolish move. The day Joe Biden was elected I told a friend that the Americans have elected their own Buhari. They will suffer the way Nigerians are suffering for making a stupid leadership error.

wow

But Nnamdi Kanu and IPOB do not need such interactions and listening ears abi? Na only fulani herdsmen and internationally-recognised terrorist naim need interaction. Gumi youre a fool just like everyone in this administration. You're just wasting your time. Nigeria can never be fulanised or islamised. So stop all these unnecessary killings.

Lisong:
Exactly �

snuffly:
Alcoholic beverages are definitely relaxing and liberating and increase attraction. So it can help to remove the barriers in your mind and make you just enjoy the moment. You do realize that you had all the sexual ideas and naughty desires in your head anyway right? No cocktail is capable of indoctrinating you into a craving for debauchery. I didn't understand that before. And before dates with young men I used to order chateau le grand vostok at the online wine shop. I thought wine would help me relax. But in the end it only made things worse. And because of my bad feeling the intercourse was not very good. So you have to know your measure everywhere.

Exactly, you're right.

Ninejaywon:
This article was surely sponsored by an alcoholic beverage company.

Believe it your own peril.

Is it possible for any alcoholic beverage to sponsor an article and then their name or brand is not mentioned in the article?

your bad mouth na in-built. Hahaha

Alcohol is no doubt a man’s favourite beverage. The soothing effect and exhilaration that accompany a drink or two is better experienced than imagined. This has made this liquid gem an essential part of a man’s life. Another part of a man’s life he doesn’t toy with is his sex life. Unfortunately, previous studies postulate that alcohol and sex cannot entwine, as boozing can negatively affect the man’s performance beneath the sheets. However, the good news is that, this is not entirely true. Recent researches unravel that it’s possible to relish your booze and concurrently maintain an awesome sex life, as long as you drink in moderation.

Without keeping you further in suspense, let’s quickly check out the 5 amazing ways alcohol can positively impact your sex life.

https://gentsaffairs.com/5-amazing-ways-alcohol-can-positively-impact-your-sex-life/

yarimo:
pictures of armed fulani men in action or I smell lies

You too mumu my broda. Person tell you sey dem rape Ur wife and you dey ask the person to show you video of the rape in action. O boy you mumu pass Buhari.

I saw this online where a traditionalist claims to have a mystical ring that protects women from losing their husbands to other women using juju, special package and charms to catch men.

I'm just wondering. So the world have become so bad that women now snatch other women's men using fetish means? This is preposterous!

The love of money is making so many women lose it. They no longer hide it again. They openly use voodoo, black magic and all other fetish means to trap men. Only God will deliver his children o. See the website below. This is what I call "merchandising the oracles". Smh

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=111698207305604&id=108550550953703

Reinaldo:
They have come again. Was Hushpuppi the only person arrested? What if he had a team of hackers? Instead of doing simple 1+1, you went ahead to type a whole bunch of nothing.

Why would I hack for someone if I can do it myself? It's the hackers that bring you into their team to be a collector. "He had a team of hackers" indeed. You that can put 1+1 together yet you no fit understand common English.

Just read that the internet scammer Hushpuppi has be extradited to the US to face the penalty of his crime. Well, I think the FBI should apply their intelligence in this case. I can swear with my last dime that Hushpuppi is not smart and intelligent enough to carry out such high level red-hat hacking. I've listen to him talk and he doesn't talk intelligently like a red hat hacker does. Besides, his love for vanity shows he's not a computer geek. Real computer geeks are mostly introverts, withdrawn into their little world of computer binary and codes. They don't have time for Instagram, clubs and parties. They don't even have time for their families.

I wonder how a hacker that could break through the airtight American security system would be playing around on instagram, shopping and traveling round the world showing off stolen wealth. Real red hat hackers are way wiser and more reserved than that.

So my take on this case is that, Hushpuppi is indeed in the syndicate that organised this evil act, therefore he and his cohorts should face the full wrath of the law but I don't think he's the main man the FBI truly wants. I suspect there's an inner baaaad red hat hacker in the group that does the real hacking while Hushpuppi, Woodberry and the others are mere collectors in charge of the money transfer and laundering aspect.

I also feel this in-house hacker might be an Arab and that's why the UAE police were quick to give up Hushpuppi and the others as a diversionary measure to create a smoke screen that protects the arab from being detected by the Interpol. Note that, Hushpuppi has been with them in the UAE for 6 years and yet the Dubai police didn't come for him but just in few days that the Interpol decided to beam their searchlight in Dubai, all of a sudden the Dubai police claim they've been tracking Hushpuppi for years and immediately arrested and gave him up to the US.

There's more to this than meet the eyes. Make dem drill Hushpuppi and the others well well, dem go talk the truth by force and expose the real man in the team that does the hacking. All of them na thieves, none should be excluded from the punishment. This might not be a fact but it's my opinion. I may be right or wrong but in every nonsense, there's an iota of sense. �

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