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All these tips and worthless

When will.nigeria have sensible law makers who will sign bills that enforce daycares in the workplace for working mum's or abolish contract staffing above 5% of the work force ?

Sad nation

charliboy654:
This guy na mumu o, so the house you rent, is it some someone else house.

Did you understand where he said buying a home to live in is different from buying a home to rent out

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Mrsserene:
The only people pained by this new rule are bitter people or people that feed from spreading false news and hate. I have been wondering why such people are going unpunished in this country. Dear FG, start with Nairaland hate vendors!

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Trash

CCTV doing great things for security in Nigeria

Amumaigwe:
If a Good Samaritan from Onitsha picks him up to give him better life, haters will term it kidnapping and publicise it to embarrass the Igbos. However, they will never publicize the harrowing hardship and subhuman conditions they are subjected to by the same people criminalizing legitimate helpers.

Hmmmm

You may have a good point

Fountainofyouth:
This is not a comparison between AA and SS or who is more healthy, it is about trust issues and the huge lie you want to keep from him, tell him today before walking down the isle on Saturday, who knows, he might not react since the wedding is so close, just tell him, if you don't and you tell him later or he finds out, he may make you suffer and frustrate you out of the marriage, is that what you want? Do you want to give him a very good reason to divorce you and then tell people what a deceitful woman you are? Think about it miss, marriage is not a do or die affair, and he is not the only perfect man out there if you're scared of losing him, tell him the truth.

Esta

Kindly respond to your msgs

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LesbianBoy:
Guys mompha instagram account has been brought back o. I noticed the people I am following increased by one and i didn't remember following anyone today only for me to check and see mompha account

Nigeria!!!!!!!!!!

I won't be surprised if he is left off the hook and his crime swept under the carpet!

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What's the name of your Instagram account let me confirm ?

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devigblegble:
Most of you are ignorant just like the western media , these lady is an American citizen but since she committed a crime, they dug out her place of origin and ignorant people like you too we say oh a Nigerian this a Nigerian that

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She is Nigerian

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Pafoma:
Thanks for your contribution, these were my exact thoughts when I decided to continue with the relationship especially as i started seeing changes in her but my mind but despite the changes and improvement my mind does not just still have peace no matter how much i try to make it have peace. I have tried many different ways of sparking up the relationship but something just keeps putting doubt and worry on my mind..

The guys are no longer in my circle but i still see them and it will always be like that because we have alot of mutual friends and interwoven circles. I totally get your point but for lack of peace that i have to take that step with her.

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Like the other lady said, you are extremely classless and suffer from chronic low self esteem, because there is no reason you would have dated seriously a lady who was passed around .

You sound mentally unstable and broken like a man-boy. you don't know what love is not should you be trusted to lead a home in marriage as you are too immature to make serious decisions.

She is also a very low level easy flavor of the week girl hence a gutter trout on the same level as you..

Unfortunately it's a recipe for disaster.. your marriage won't last it would crash , I would boldly say 6 months in. you are so immature it's sickening.

It's your type that married retired sex workers thinking they can turn them into nuns with marriage ..

Cheers

Fountainofyouth:
That lady is shameless and has esteem issues for her to have something to do with you and your former clique...

You lack high standard, moral decency, and also esteem issues for you to go for someone who has been passed around by your friends, you lack class,

Your faults,
Were you blind or deaf that you didn't know all these revelations before starting the relationship with her and falling in love?
How come it is now that you want to dump her you remember that she was once a free sample?
You are now having second thoughts but you don't want your conscience to judge you that's why you came here to rant so you won't feel and be perceived as a terrible person for wasting her time all this while abi?
And then you remembered a tale that was long forgotten cos you are tired and bored of her and need a stupid ass reason to break up with her right?

Clap for yourself mister man, we will tell you what you want to hear, break up with her and let her be, but know this, I assure you that the next woman you meet will have evil, deadly baggages as high as Mount Everest that you will never know till you are both married, and I pray by that time, it will too late for you, I so pray it will really be too late, nonsense.

Women like you give me hope that some Nigerian women indeed think normally

Your beauty radiates from your mind

Your comment is the best here

What we have is a case of a very low self esteem man who is unfit for marriage and an addict to self.hurt .. about to marry an easy flavor of the week lady and this gives us a recipe for disaster

Leave them and enjoy your peace

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Vyolet:
You alone can have your woman's back, you alone can give her respect and have others respect her.
The most important thing is if she is truly changed and remorseful, is she also ready to be loyal?
There are men that married retired sex workers and things work Perfectly, Marriage is like a black-market, you never know what you will meet until you get in there.
Since those people are no longer in your circle even long before you met your fiance, then you may go ahead with her, In the end though, follow whatever your heart tells you.

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Do not speak for men again.

I know two men who married retired sex workers And both marriages ended badly!!!

There is a reason it is said never make such ladies a house wife

If you don't know enough about something don't speak about it

Pafoma:
Guys! I need serious, real and honest contributions.. Thanks to all that will contribute.

I have a lady whom i am dating. I truly love and care about her but she has been with people that are in my circle and this disturbs me. She didnt used to be a straightforward and totally faithful person but i see that she is making efforts towards being completely honest and straightforward but still i dont have rest in my spirit about taking the decision to marry her.

I have observed she is soft with guys and is not firm, although i am aware it takes time for someone used to a particular pattern or lifestyle to adjus. I need help because breaking up with this lady will mean that i have to look for someone else to start the entire circle with again and who knows what if the new one also comes with even worse baggages.

My questions are these

1. What do you advice i do?
2. Who has been in similar situation where you fell in love with a lady your friends and circle have been with then married her? What was the experience like including things to look out for..
3. How can be sure i wont regret the decision to go forward?

Please feel free to ask me any question and i’ll answer if they are not sarcastic or jokes..

Thank you.

Sorry for coming late


1. about her being soft , she will never change not because there's something wrong with her but because people can't change ...and no one can change anyone. She has always been easy to guys and if you try to really.change this it will cause issues

2 well.about marrying her .. you can't change people or expect them to change that's unfair. If you can live and accept them as they are then that's fine , if not move on. Be sure you can accept what the future holds

3..theres no guarantee, but there is also a law that states you can't make ladies with a certain past a house wife..there is a reason such advise exists

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jaxxy:
This guy shud leave D’banj alone. What bad did he do? If it’s don jazzy is it a must he sticks with one person his whole career?? Even don jazzy has discharged Korede and the others and moved to rhema so what’s with the beef about him D’banj doing Smtn different when he feels it right?

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