₦airaland Forum

Amumaigwe:
If a Good Samaritan from Onitsha picks him up to give him better life, haters will term it kidnapping and publicise it to embarrass the Igbos. However, they will never publicize the harrowing hardship and subhuman conditions they are subjected to by the same people criminalizing legitimate helpers.

Fountainofyouth:
This is not a comparison between AA and SS or who is more healthy, it is about trust issues and the huge lie you want to keep from him, tell him today before walking down the isle on Saturday, who knows, he might not react since the wedding is so close, just tell him, if you don't and you tell him later or he finds out, he may make you suffer and frustrate you out of the marriage, is that what you want? Do you want to give him a very good reason to divorce you and then tell people what a deceitful woman you are? Think about it miss, marriage is not a do or die affair, and he is not the only perfect man out there if you're scared of losing him, tell him the truth.

LesbianBoy:
Guys mompha instagram account has been brought back o. I noticed the people I am following increased by one and i didn't remember following anyone today only for me to check and see mompha account

Nigeria!!!!!!!!!!

I won't be surprised if he is left off the hook and his crime swept under the carpet!

devigblegble:
Most of you are ignorant just like the western media , these lady is an American citizen but since she committed a crime, they dug out her place of origin and ignorant people like you too we say oh a Nigerian this a Nigerian that

Pafoma:
Thanks for your contribution, these were my exact thoughts when I decided to continue with the relationship especially as i started seeing changes in her but my mind but despite the changes and improvement my mind does not just still have peace no matter how much i try to make it have peace. I have tried many different ways of sparking up the relationship but something just keeps putting doubt and worry on my mind..

The guys are no longer in my circle but i still see them and it will always be like that because we have alot of mutual friends and interwoven circles. I totally get your point but for lack of peace that i have to take that step with her.

Fountainofyouth:
That lady is shameless and has esteem issues for her to have something to do with you and your former clique...

You lack high standard, moral decency, and also esteem issues for you to go for someone who has been passed around by your friends, you lack class,

Your faults,
Were you blind or deaf that you didn't know all these revelations before starting the relationship with her and falling in love?
How come it is now that you want to dump her you remember that she was once a free sample?
You are now having second thoughts but you don't want your conscience to judge you that's why you came here to rant so you won't feel and be perceived as a terrible person for wasting her time all this while abi?
And then you remembered a tale that was long forgotten cos you are tired and bored of her and need a stupid ass reason to break up with her right?

Clap for yourself mister man, we will tell you what you want to hear, break up with her and let her be, but know this, I assure you that the next woman you meet will have evil, deadly baggages as high as Mount Everest that you will never know till you are both married, and I pray by that time, it will too late for you, I so pray it will really be too late, nonsense.

Vyolet:
You alone can have your woman's back, you alone can give her respect and have others respect her.
The most important thing is if she is truly changed and remorseful, is she also ready to be loyal?
There are men that married retired sex workers and things work Perfectly, Marriage is like a black-market, you never know what you will meet until you get in there.
Since those people are no longer in your circle even long before you met your fiance, then you may go ahead with her, In the end though, follow whatever your heart tells you.

Pafoma:
Guys! I need serious, real and honest contributions.. Thanks to all that will contribute.

I have a lady whom i am dating. I truly love and care about her but she has been with people that are in my circle and this disturbs me. She didnt used to be a straightforward and totally faithful person but i see that she is making efforts towards being completely honest and straightforward but still i dont have rest in my spirit about taking the decision to marry her.

I have observed she is soft with guys and is not firm, although i am aware it takes time for someone used to a particular pattern or lifestyle to adjus. I need help because breaking up with this lady will mean that i have to look for someone else to start the entire circle with again and who knows what if the new one also comes with even worse baggages.

My questions are these

1. What do you advice i do?
2. Who has been in similar situation where you fell in love with a lady your friends and circle have been with then married her? What was the experience like including things to look out for..
3. How can be sure i wont regret the decision to go forward?

Please feel free to ask me any question and i’ll answer if they are not sarcastic or jokes..

Thank you.

jaxxy:
This guy shud leave D’banj alone. What bad did he do? If it’s don jazzy is it a must he sticks with one person his whole career?? Even don jazzy has discharged Korede and the others and moved to rhema so what’s with the beef about him D’banj doing Smtn different when he feels it right?

tert78:
People, please pray never to have a bitter soul like Bankulli in your life or career. He has been longing for the downfall of dbanj even though he is not perfect and no one is. You want to know how bitter a soul is? Dbanj lost his son to cold hands of death. No form of compassion from this bitter sou called bankullil! No matter terrible a business seeking want wrong, losing one's son or love one should eandear compassion but this one here does not give a Bleep.

Was even happy that thank God a supposedly afrobeat builder like Bankulli is finally getting recognition he deserves but no, he has bitterness in his soul.

Egalitarian1:
Hahahahahaha
Abeg my Belle oo! I just couldn't hold back my laughter especially the "how is your daddy and mummy? And you will answer they are fine"

PatrickOkunima:
https://patrickokunima.com/job-interview-etiquette-4-attitudes-that-can-boost-your-chances-of-landing-the-job/

Newguyhere:
hmmm interesting does it cum too?

Brightgem:
Stop trying so hard to sound woke! As for a nice life, even your imagination couldn't come close to what I have.

Brightgem:
Not quite, and if you do have a job, it should be taken away from you and given someone else based on merit, cuz you obviously cut corners in the name of connection. Now I'm done. Bye.

Brightgem:
This is a why you may never get a job. It's okay to calm down and learn