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Pls does anyone have cosmo address here in lagos or anywhere i want to wish a friend happy birthday and i want them to air it |
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[size=8pt]@everybody here[/size][size=8pt][/size][/color] [color=#000099]Now let me give u a real life situation.i am in Nigeria and my fiancee is in America,she travelled 2yrs now,but her mum doenst approve of her marrying me basis TRIBALISTIC.shes yoruba and am IGBO,now take a look at that, we have been friends for 5years b/4 she travelled we are very very very close and love each other so much.what do u all think i should do??since her mum doent approve of me,her dad is late. she says she loves me but only pressures from family i need advice on here from evryone cos shes supposed to come back for the weding soon. one more thing i went to see her mum here in Nigeria and told her of my desire to marry her daughter and guess what she said? she said that she can not stop her daughter from marrying who she wants but that we should pray and put everything in the hands of God, what u all think ![]() ? |
MIZIEYA:U have there photos and mobile number and so what hey am Nigerian and am proud to be one.dont like it when pple take us for granted how on earth can u call ur fellow human Poor Men and Women thats not too good.its true that Nigerians do scam but can u tell me that pple in Wales or London or even Ameica dont do scams.Stop making some countries especially the African ones feel as if they are so poor we are not poor and u know it just our leaders are not right but we will get there. Personallly i have made good friends on yahoo messenger and i wasnt freaking about going there why because one can make it here in Nigeria all one needs is TIME.so please dont speak BAD of my Country cos everywhere u go in this world u will get the good,BAd and the UGLY. cheers[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color] |
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are u male no they have not called meeeeeeeeee ![]() |
Personnally i am in this kind of situation and its only God that can make things work. My girl Yoruba while am Igbo.my girl travelled out to the usa via lottery and the truth of the matter is we love each other so much.first her mother said shes older than me,again that she went to see a Pastor that told her that if we get married it wont work. but with all this my girl still loves me just that they put her in confusion with all this rumours that IGBO guys are this and that. my girl says we should leave everything to God and that her mind says its me so we praying that next year w'll be able to tie the knots u. but meanwhile we are putting all in the hands of God,i personnally told my girl that if her Mum thinks its becasue shes in the usa that i want to marry her that i will leave her alone but she personally told me that i shouldnt give up on her and the truth of it all is my strenght is her strength and vice versa. but i must tell u all out hear that is not an easy task. i personnally went to her mum to tell her that i love her daughte and want to marry her and she said that we should leave everything in the hands of God. Also, my girl once told me that she thinks her mum is delaying our marraige because she thinks we wont be able to hang on for long but i have one believe,"WHAT WILL BE WILL SURELY BE" my girl calls me and i call her. sometimes like one of u said on here Parents do that for their own selfish reasons without minding the Happiness of their child. but i will only advise anyone in this situation to hang on there and have one believe "if ur girl/Man is for u then no one can stop it not even ur parents. cheers[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000] |
All u need is COMMUNICATION AND PRAYER ![]() |
babonboard:i just want to encourage u babonboard, long distance relationship aint easy at all,it cost money and all that, but as long as ur mind says u should do it then do it.i'm currently in one and i do everything possible to call her all the time and she does same too but when u are in one make sure it has focus,let it be u guys are heading towards been together.like marraige if u get what i mean. one more thing always PRAY cos only God can make it POSSIBLE. CHEERS ![]() |
iice:iice u have answered it all, its btw u and the girl,u have to understand ur girl so that when she makes a confession of love u will know from ur heart its true.u will feel it deeeeeeeeeep in ur hearttttt.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000] |
Distant relationship is real and it works, but it is dependent on both paties involved.i am in one and i hope that sooner or later we will be together is just a matter of time.even when u are in a relationship with someone that is close to u doesnt guarantee u great relationship if u understand what i mean.i believe both couples should follow their heart,if u are ment to be together no devil can stop u. |
gmt:yes i heard that too. what panel were you in. Cos sumone dy ve called said that they just called panel 1 and 2 first.He also said those they called were not up to 20. so we just keep our fingers crossed till they call. It might be very soon anyway! |
ebubepaul:hey man,thanks but thats the reason why am on nairaland,well i will be there for the interview,all i wanted to know is if someone on here knows about them or may be still has received invitation from them too. anywaz thanks |
hi everyone,pls i want some information on a company known as THE CONSULTANT.They are situated along at lekki along Epe road. They sent me an email for an interview for saturday but i do not rememeber.and i would like to know which company they want to recruit for.pls hurry if u have information,so i can equip myself better. thanks |
omogenaija:ok so tell me what would u do when u feel like going to dinner and your man not having money at that time.u will take him and do the paying right infront of everybody,is it to show u are the one paying.?? how old are u?? |
omogenaija:no no no!!!!! its natural that when a guy is asking a lady out on the first date he pays and any other subsequent date depends on the couples,why did i say so? because if two couples understand themselves then any one of them can pay the bills on a date without anyone of them feeling hurt. for instance my girl once took me out to one of the eatery we have arround but she did it cos she felt like it that time and i was not having much on me.and u know what she did she actually gave me the money b/4 we left so that i would do the paying,now u get what i mean by understanding .if she had payed the bills herself it would not have ment anything but sign of respect from her.u ladies should learn from that, incase u want to take ur guy out on a date when his not having cash make sure u handover the money to him.it shows u respect him ![]() [quote author=hot-angel link=topic=21072.msg576365#msg576365 date=1156306783]If it's a first date, and as a guy you were the one that asked me, You sure as hell gone pay for the damn dinner date. Hell, u don't got money on you? Leave your shoes or something because i ain't paying, u asked me out. ![]() Now u know that's right. All im saying is, a guy should be the one to pay for a first dinner date he innitiated. If he told me before we got in and finished eating, that he doesn't have enough on him, or gave me some kind of hint that he'll need me to pick up the bill, Then i'll understand. But otherwise, your ass better be ready to pay them damn bills. I'll pity u and not order too much tho, but be ready to PAY. U asked me out, The first date says alot about a man. Now a man who asks me out and espects me to pay both mine n his bills, sure don't want no relationship. This isn't about, dating a man for his money. It's just common sense. I didn't ask u to take me on a dinner anyways, u could have just asked me to go bowling or something, somwhere u know u wont have to spend alot. ----- Now if we are talking about couples going for dinner dates, you know it could go any way. Either the guy or the girls. I realised that in relationships we have nowadays, the girl in a relationship is actually offering to pay, or even leave money on the table. Just about every lady now is saying "they are independent". They are not just saying it, they are actually showing now that THEY ARE. Now i don't know the kind of ladies u guys be moving with. But ladies in year 2006, don't go out with you, with the FUll mind that you are going to pay. Don't matter if you are dating or not. They always have their own money. WHo knows what mite happen? U mite turn crazy, and she'll need a cab home. Or worse, u say u lost your wallet on your way here, and you thought it was inside your back pocket. *rollseyes*[/quote] |
anybody here,i need a matured woman ![]() |
iice:iice ok u win i give up.i'll let u be 4 now.dont think will allow u drag me up and down not now.take care |
clocky: iice:clocky put mouth 4 this now,i go vex oooo iice,no vex a beg na udey carry me watch movie |
whatever iice ![]() |
iice:iice,na wa 4 u oooooooooo have not seen someone as sturbborn and hard to get.is it difficult 4 u to leave ur real age on ur profile. @clocky pls help me out here,this babe iice 2 hard,am beging to think she needs a battalion of men to make her agree with me as friends.shes keeping a gentle man waiting.for so long. iice ur ageeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ![]() ??pls ![]() |
iice, ur profile doesnt tell me where u are?Lagos,Abuja where tell me. and ur age pls ![]() |
iice:everyone on here beware of iice shes a male posing as female and thats not right.shes hiding her identity on NL.its not fair. ![]() |
hmmmmm life is full of ups and down,personally i believe every thing has a begining and ending.u have to decide what kind of ending u want for urself,now if u send her packing that would be worse cos pple will only laugh at the couples, remember their are pple out there waiting to hear bad news about u,so to avoid the devil taking control,as a child of God u have to forgive though u may not forget.after all u were not a virgin but make her know that she lied to u and that she should change that habit or else things will go wrong in future. Personally, wake her up arround 5am in the mourning and talk to her that u dont like that habit cos as husband and wife u need to be open and truth full to each other.without truthfullness marraige can and will never work out. in all forgive her and move on but first make her know that u hate lies and if she lies about anything again then u will call it quits.thats my opinion. ![]() |
can i add something to this thread,now it all depends on individual. individually some of us have the patience to teach and be taught while some of us dont.now one needs to check which of the group fall into.if u are the type that is patient enough to teach ur man or woman how to coitus good and if u feel u dont have all the time but rememeber when u find trueeeeeeeeeeeee love u will be have patience cos Love is PATIENCE.doesnt matter which group u fall into as long as u love each other it will work,only when u have been patient enough and the guy or girl has not picked up.then u can leave,like my fellow nairalanders said,good sex is paramount to a good relationship. cheers all |
ZuluNation:Mr Zulu or what u call urself,dont get into something u dont know about,i never said u guys are cheap ok. take care |
iice:am dissapointed but its ok but rememeber u don miss,a whole me.Don macho u nailed me,ok from now on i wont freak 4 anyone on here. as 4 clocky what u have to say,she just gave me the boots,and even she did it without considering my emotions. iice, i dont care if u do emails or pix,can we just be friends. cheers |
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she actually gave me the money b/4 we left so that i would do the paying,now u get what i mean by understanding