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Music/Radio › Re: Rate Cosmo 105.5 Fm Enugu And Rhythm 93.7 Fm Lagos. by loftylogs(m): 4:40pm On Apr 21, 2010
Pls does anyone have cosmo address here in lagos or anywhere i want to wish a friend happy birthday and i want them to air it
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Etisalat by loftylogs(m): 12:32pm On Sep 12, 2008
thaks
Family › Re: Pastor Or Parents: Whose Decision Is Final On Marriage? by loftylogs(m): 10:11am On Oct 13, 2006
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[color=#000099]Now let me give u a real life situation.i am in Nigeria and my fiancee is in America,she travelled 2yrs now,but her mum doenst approve of her marrying me basis TRIBALISTIC.shes yoruba and am IGBO,now take a look at that, we have been friends for 5years b/4 she travelled we are very very very close and love each other so much.what do u all think i should do??since her mum doent approve of me,her dad is late. she says she loves me but only pressures from family i need advice on here from evryone cos shes supposed to come back for the weding soon.
one more thing i went to see her mum here in Nigeria and told her of my desire to marry her daughter and guess what she said? she said that she can not stop her daughter from marrying who she wants but that we should pray and put everything in the hands of God, what u all thinkhuhhuh?
Travel › Re: Getting Married For The Green Card (Citizenship) by loftylogs(m): 11:43am On Oct 03, 2006
MIZIEYA:
[b]Hi German Lady

I totally agree with your sentiments.

What I find interesting is that a lot of Nigerians come online into the Chatrooms specifically for finding any one who will invite them over to Europe or America or similar - either out of 'love' with the Greencard Agenda in mind or purely as a means to slip unnoticed into the system and become an illegal alien.

It is interesting as well that these guys n girls are all over the internet from Myspace.com to Mixposure.com - a website for musicans - I was contacted out of the blue by a guy called Oyairo Osayi - who asked me to 'befriend' him because he ''likes music' he can't play an instrument but he likes music, I asked him what he was doing on Mixposure.com and he confessed after I had told him that Mixposure is not a dating site but purely for musicians: he said that he was hoping to meet people so they would invite him to their country, and then lose himself in the crowd. Would I be his friend?

Laughable.

I also find it amusing that within moments of a declaration of friendship or love that there is a disaster that has happened: their mobile was stolen, a family member is in hospital and they need your help to pay the bill, they were robbed, can you help them out with buying a new wardrobe? they have no money to buy food or pay for a credit top up on the mobile (even though they are online), my favourite is "I'm a refugee in Accra",

When they are confronted over their lies - it is all denial and then they play the victim - which makes me want to give out Oscars to each and everyone: to see adults squirm and try and turn the tables - cracks me up.

Suffice it to say hardly anyone in the Yahoo Chatrooms takes anyone from Nigeria seriously because everyone is aware of 419 scams, and the love scams for a green card and the 'love scams' to escape their situation. If someone tries it on- they are immediately exposed - we simply don't tolerate it.

My friends and I plan on combining our general knowledge base of these poor men and women who seek to escape their life in Nigeria, Ghana, and Gambia and write a book about it - we have their names, photos and addresses - more importantly their mobile numbers.
U have there photos and mobile number and so what hey am Nigerian and am proud to be one.dont like it when pple take us for granted how on earth can u call ur fellow human Poor Men and Women thats not too good.its true that Nigerians do scam but can u tell me that pple in Wales or London or even Ameica dont do scams.Stop making some countries especially the African ones feel as if they are so poor we are not poor and u know it just our leaders are not right but we will get there.
Personallly i have made good friends on yahoo messenger and i wasnt freaking about going there why because one can make it here in Nigeria all one needs is TIME.so please dont speak BAD of my Country cos everywhere u go in this world u will get the good,BAd and the UGLY.

cheers
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Forum Games › Re: 'face' Names by loftylogs(m): 3:42pm On Sep 19, 2006
bad face cheesy
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Oceanicbank Medical by loftylogs(m): 12:44pm On Sep 18, 2006
are u malehuhno they have not called meeeeeeeeee grin
Romance › Re: When Parents Oppose Your Relationship? by loftylogs(m): 3:27pm On Sep 12, 2006
Personnally i am in this kind of situation and its only God that can make things work. My girl Yoruba while am Igbo.my girl travelled out to the usa via lottery and the truth of the matter is we love each other so much.first her mother said shes older than me,again that she went to see a Pastor that told her that if we get married it wont work. but with all this my girl still loves me just that they put her in confusion with all this rumours that IGBO guys are this and that.
my girl says we should leave everything to God and that her mind says its me so we praying that next year w'll be able to tie the knots u.
but meanwhile we are putting all in the hands of God,i personnally told my girl that if her Mum thinks its becasue shes in the usa that i want to marry her that i will leave her alone but she personally told me that i shouldnt give up on her and the truth of it all is my strenght is her strength and vice versa. but i must tell u all out hear that is not an easy task.
i personnally went to her mum to tell her that i love her daughte and want to marry her and she said that we should leave everything in the hands of God. Also, my girl once told me that she thinks her mum is delaying our marraige because she thinks we wont be able to hang on for long but i have one believe,"WHAT WILL BE WILL SURELY BE" my girl calls me and i call her.
sometimes like one of u said on here Parents do that for  their own selfish reasons without minding the Happiness of their child. but i will only advise anyone in this situation to hang on there and have one believe "if ur girl/Man is for u then no one can stop it not even ur parents.

cheers
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Romance › Re: When Distance Separates You From Your True Love by loftylogs(m): 2:39pm On Sep 06, 2006
All u need is COMMUNICATION AND PRAYER cheesy
Romance › Re: Distant Relationship?does It Last And Is It Real? by loftylogs(m): 3:57pm On Sep 05, 2006
babonboard:
thanks sista
i just want to encourage u babonboard, long distance relationship aint easy at all,it cost money and all that, but as long as ur mind says u should do it then do it.i'm currently in one and i do everything possible to call her all the time and she does same too but when u are in one make sure it has focus,let it be u guys are heading towards been together.like marraige if u get what i mean. one more thing always PRAY cos only God can make it POSSIBLE.

CHEERS
cheesy
Romance › Re: How Can One Someone Know When A Girl Throughly Loves You by loftylogs(m): 11:47am On Sep 01, 2006
iice:
I guess you would have to really know the girl in the sense that you can read her moods/mannerisms, therefore if she tells you she loves you, you call tell for yourself or maybe you would feel it deep within that yes she really loves you. (Don't know if i made sense)
iice u have answered it all, its btw u and the girl,u have to understand ur girl so that when she makes a confession of love u will know from ur heart its true.u will feel it deeeeeeeeeep in ur hearttttt.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]
Romance › Re: Distant Relationship?does It Last And Is It Real? by loftylogs(m): 11:07am On Sep 01, 2006
Distant relationship is real and it works, but it is dependent on both paties involved.i am in one and i hope that sooner or later we will be together is just a matter of time.even when u are in a relationship with someone that is close to u doesnt guarantee u great relationship if u understand what i mean.i believe both couples should follow their heart,if u are ment to be together no devil can stop u.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Oceanicbank Medical by loftylogs(m): 11:57am On Aug 29, 2006
gmt:
hi lofland. has oceanic called you since the medical stuff because iam still yet to hear from them , they should make it fast , i heard they are calling batch by batch oooooo
yes i heard that too.
what panel were you in. Cos sumone dy ve called said that they just called panel 1 and 2 first.He also said those they called were not up to 20. so we just keep our fingers crossed till they call. It might be very soon anyway!
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: The Consultant Anybody Know Them In Lekki by loftylogs(op): 8:53am On Aug 29, 2006
ebubepaul:
Make research on d agency.Remember dey might ask you to pay certain amount!Check philip consulting for department of petroleum resources.They're authentic.
hey man,thanks but thats the reason why am on nairaland,well i will be there for the interview,all i wanted to know is if someone on here knows about them or may be still has received invitation from them too.
anywaz thanks
Jobs/Vacancies › The Consultant Anybody Know Them In Lekki by loftylogs(op): 11:58am On Aug 28, 2006
hi everyone,pls i want some information on a company known as THE CONSULTANT.They are situated along at lekki along Epe road.
They sent me an email for an interview for saturday but i do not rememeber.and i would like to know which company they want to recruit for.pls hurry if u have information,so i can equip myself better.


thanks
Romance › Re: Who Should Pay For Dinner Dates? by loftylogs(m): 11:16am On Aug 28, 2006
omogenaija:
loftylegz
i don't agree with that
ok so tell me what would u do when u feel like going to dinner and your man not having money at that time.u will take him and do the paying right infront of everybody,is it to show u are the one paying.??
how old are u??
Romance › Re: Who Should Pay For Dinner Dates? by loftylogs(m): 8:33pm On Aug 26, 2006
omogenaija:
if i suggest we go on a date then i will pay
if he suggest we go on a date than he will pay
simple !!!!!!!
no no no!!!!! its natural that when a guy is asking a lady out on the first date he pays and any other subsequent date depends on the couples,why did i say so? because if two couples understand themselves then any one of them can pay the bills on a date without anyone of them feeling hurt. for instance my girl once took me out to one of the eatery we have arround but she did it cos she felt like it that time and i was not having much on me.and u know what she did winkshe actually gave me the money b/4 we left so that i would do the paying,now u get what i mean by understanding grin.if she had payed the bills herself it would not have ment anything but sign of respect from her.u ladies should learn from that, incase u want to take ur guy out on a date when his not having cash make sure u handover the money to him.it shows u respect him cheesy
[quote author=hot-angel link=topic=21072.msg576365#msg576365 date=1156306783]If it's a first date, and as a guy you were the one that asked me, You sure as hell gone pay for the damn dinner date. Hell, u don't got money on you? Leave your shoes or something because i ain't paying, u asked me out. cheesy

Now u know that's right. All im saying is, a guy should be the one to pay for a first dinner date he innitiated.

If he told me before we got in and finished eating, that he doesn't have enough on him, or gave me some kind of hint that he'll need me to pick up the bill, Then i'll understand. But otherwise, your ass better be ready to pay them damn bills. I'll pity u and not order too much tho, but be ready to PAY. U asked me out, The first date says alot about a man. Now a man who asks me out and espects me to pay both mine n his bills, sure don't want no relationship.

This isn't about, dating a man for his money. It's just common sense. I didn't ask u to take me on a dinner anyways, u could have just asked me to go bowling or something, somwhere u know u wont have to spend alot.

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Now if we are talking about couples going for dinner dates, you know it could go any way. Either the guy or the girls.

I realised that in relationships we have nowadays, the girl in a relationship is actually offering to pay, or even leave money on the table. Just about every lady now is saying "they are independent". They are not just saying it, they are actually showing now that THEY ARE.

Now i don't know the kind of ladies u guys be moving with. But ladies in year 2006, don't go out with you, with the FUll mind that you are going to pay. Don't matter if you are dating or not. They always have their own money. WHo knows what mite happen? U mite turn crazy, and she'll need a cab home. Or worse, u say u lost your wallet on your way here, and you thought it was inside your back pocket. *rollseyes*[/quote]
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need A Nairaland Match by loftylogs(m): 8:33am On Aug 25, 2006
anybody here,i need a matured woman wink
Romance › Re: Cant Someone Hook Up On Nairaland by loftylogs(op): 3:34pm On Aug 23, 2006
iice:
@Clocky, its a funny show, get good laughs. . .and what do you mean its a UK show? Coz that show came from the mind of the ever funny Ashton Kutcher grin
@Lofty, why i go vex? say wetin happen?
iice ok u win i give up.i'll let u be 4 now.dont think will allow u drag me up and down not now.take care
Romance › Re: Cant Someone Hook Up On Nairaland by loftylogs(op): 2:57pm On Aug 23, 2006
clocky:
ah. that show is rubbish. its a UK show though
iice:
Stubborn? Yes o. sorry watching beauty and the geek grin
clocky put mouth 4 this now,i go vex oooo

iice,no vex a beg na
udey carry me watch movie
Romance › Re: If Your Boy Friend Dont Know How To Make Love What Will You Do by loftylogs(m): 2:40pm On Aug 23, 2006
whatever iice sad sad sad sad
Romance › Re: Cant Someone Hook Up On Nairaland by loftylogs(op): 2:09pm On Aug 23, 2006
iice:
@Zulu, glad i did something right today (i know you watching me sips on da bubblylol) grin grin
@Clocky. . .abeg make you go disturb Akinagirl grin grin
@lofty, don't worry friends was all i had in mind (even that is hard to accomplish) grin grin
iice,na wa 4 u oooooooooo have not seen someone as sturbborn and hard to get.is it difficult 4 u to leave ur real age on ur profile.
@clocky pls help me out here,this babe iice 2 hard,am beging to think she needs a battalion of men to make her agree with me as friends.shes keeping a gentle man waiting.for so long.
iice ur ageeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehuhhuh??pls cheesy
Romance › Re: If Your Boy Friend Dont Know How To Make Love What Will You Do by loftylogs(m): 12:36pm On Aug 23, 2006
iice, ur profile doesnt tell me where u are?Lagos,Abuja where tell me. and ur age pls wink wink wink wink wink wink wink wink
Romance › Re: If Your Boy Friend Dont Know How To Make Love What Will You Do by loftylogs(m): 12:28pm On Aug 23, 2006
iice:
LOL funloving grin
everyone on here beware of iice shes a male posing as female and thats not right.shes hiding her identity on NL.its not fair. grin
Family › Re: Man Discovers On Wedding Night That Wife Is No Virgin by loftylogs(m): 12:05pm On Aug 23, 2006
hmmmmm life is full of ups and down,personally i believe every thing has a begining and ending.u have to decide what kind of ending u want for urself,now if u send her packing that would be worse cos pple will only laugh at the couples, remember their are pple out there waiting to hear bad news about u,so to avoid the devil taking control,as a child of God u have to forgive though u may not forget.after all u were not a virgin but make her know that she lied to u and that she should change that habit or else things will go wrong in future.
Personally, wake her up arround 5am in the mourning and talk to her that u dont like that habit cos as husband and wife u need to be open and truth full to each other.without truthfullness marraige can and will never work out.
in all forgive her and move on but first make her know that u hate lies and if she lies about anything again then u will call it quits.thats my opinion.
cheesy
Romance › Re: If Your Boy Friend Dont Know How To Make Love What Will You Do by loftylogs(m): 9:27am On Aug 23, 2006
can i add something to this thread,now it all depends on individual.
individually some of us have the patience to teach and be taught while some of us dont.now one needs to check which of the group fall into.if u are the type that is patient enough to teach ur man or woman how to coitus good and if u feel u dont have all the time but rememeber when u find trueeeeeeeeeeeee love u will be have patience cos Love is PATIENCE.doesnt matter which group u fall into as long as u love each other it will work,only when u have been patient enough and the guy or girl has not picked up.then u can leave,like my fellow nairalanders said,good sex is paramount to a good relationship.

cheers all
Romance › Re: Cant Someone Hook Up On Nairaland by loftylogs(op): 8:31am On Aug 23, 2006
ZuluNation:
Very smart sis, Jos girls ain't cheap. You make us proud cool cool cool
Mr Zulu or what u call urself,dont get into something u dont know about,i never said u guys are cheap ok. take care
Romance › Re: Cant Someone Hook Up On Nairaland by loftylogs(op): 8:12am On Aug 23, 2006
iice:
na wow o, alot of wishes don't get answered when it comes to me. . .n i don't really do emails or pix. . basically i don't do alot of things grin grin well you can remove your email no now grin grin
am dissapointed but its ok

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
but rememeber u don miss,a whole me.Don macho u nailed me,ok from now on i wont freak 4 anyone on here. as 4 clocky what u have to say,she just gave me the boots,and even she did it without considering my emotions.
iice, i dont care if u do emails or pix,can we just be friends. cheers

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