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Jozilinn:
Take your child to rehab I am sure he would meet kids that were also abused there, hear their stories and decide for himself not to be like that bastard cousin of yours, install cameras in your house if you can afford it,it's really going to be hard for your kid cos it wasn't just once...if not for the sake of your marriage and the stigma I would have told you to make your cousin pay for it,but then your husband's family would definitely get involved and your marriage might just break!!!.

Your son doesn't need a broken home it might just make him become exactly what you're scared about,gosh these is really painful!!! family, family, family aren't who they seem I am sure someone in your family knew about him all along but refused to warn you about it.

Thank you so much for your kind words. My son is receiving treatment now. I have vowed never to let any relative into my house again. U come today, go today.

eyinjuege:
Madam, please check out the mirabel center for rape victims in LASUTH, Ikeja Lagos. (If you're in Lagos)
Their office is located right inside the hospital and they offer counselling and support for rape victims, I believe.
I think they also will help with lawyers, if needed.
I believe they support all victims whether male or female, adult or child.
For those who have recently being raped, go there straight for examination and I believe they can get DNA too, to bring true justice for the victim.
Don't bother to shower or bath, go there immediately so they can get good evidence.

Here is their website:
https://mirabelcentre.org/

I live in Port Harcourt.

Ganjafama:
Take down your picture. Just an advise.

I don't know how to do it.

newcommer:
Please I beg you with the name of God. I'm on my knees ma. Please get that 19 year old homosexual pedophile arrested before he goes on to abuse other young, vulnerable boys in the future. Please ma. Your son is not his first victim. Please. For the sake of justice for your son, get that pedophile arrested and imprisoned for the rest of his miserable life.

For your young son, I'm sincerely sorry for what happened. Please ma, have your husband send you and the kids abroad or relocate your family to where he's based. Your son needs intensive therapy or this traumatic rape experience will scar him for life.

I know it's not easy but it's not about you. Save your son ma. Don't allow his abuser get away with it.

God will strengthen you.

Thank you so much.

nostradamoss:
Kill your cousin by giving him rat poison

His blood will be on his head, not through me. I need to be alive to raise my sons. No relative will ever come into my house again.

JASONjnr:
A mother will not come online to ask what to do if someone molest their child....The mother in you will easily tear such a person apart.....


I mean, you'd be arrested for killing a 19yr old boy by now....

But you're concerned about your marriage even more than your own son who is now a gay.

Keep your child away from other kids before he'd also molest other kids ...

I will not be a beast like you want me to or commit murder to proof myself to be a good mum. That will make me lose my boys, so I don't need your advice. If you read clearly, I mentioned my 3 areas of fears. My marriage was the last point in all. You chose to see what you went to hear.

Weirdcamila:
Send the boy away , try and orient your son.
He’s young and can still get over it .
This is indeed very bad

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Thank you so much.

Terry44:


Your boy would be really traumatized, make it an habit to counsel and monitor him so that such sodomy act does not stick.



Also report your cousin to your mother, let his parents get him help so as not to deter his future.

I have done that, she is bagging because he is an orphan.

eyinjuege:
I wish this is a fake story, but worse things have happened in real life.
Inform your husband, no matter how difficult this is.
Get the police involved, and get the paedophile arrested for rape, defilement or whatever can stick
Your son needs therapy, serious one. He will likely need an ongoing one for life.

Thank you, its never a fake story. I will get hubby involved. Thanks

sisisioge:
I hope this monstrous evil story is a friction to draw traffic....too much of weird stories lately. It is well.

What will I gain, please.

Streett:
Your Cousin Is 19Yrs old……..
That age is ripe enough for a long term Jail !!

Slam him to the gallows


That’s an extreme traumatic child abuse

I can imagine what he is doing through right now. I feel like a failed mum for not protecting my son.

MonsieurX:
This is very tragic and that 19 year old cousin of yours must go to jail. He is evil and don't allow anyone tell you otherwise.

Also, take your son for medical check up and deliverance in Church if you're a Christian, otherwise, that boy may start having homosexual cravings even much later in life. Remember where he said he enjoyed it at first? That's a big red flag.

Please do the needful and report that gay pedophile to the nearest police station. Don't allow any family to beg you cos that's just too bad.

Thank you so much.

Am confused and don't know what to do. As am typing this message, am crying and devastated, my heart is broken into bits.

I have 2 sons, aged between 10 and 14. I have refused to live with any maid up till this time, fearing they might be abused.
Am into confectionaries, so despite my stressful business, I manage my boys as my husband works offshore.

A month ago, my mum brought a 19-years-old cousin who looks like a 14-year-old boy to assist me in kneading dough. I panicked because my husband has warned me never to bring any relatives to his house. But because he is a boy and my relative, and was very industrious, I never thought of anything evil, I let him stay.

Yesterday was my birthday, I didn't want to celebrate, but my friend brought me a cake which motivated me to go to the market to get goat meat for pepper soup.

According to my friend, immediately after I left the house, my 10year old son went to take his bath, and that's when my cousin followed. Not liking their movement, she went and peeped, and behold, she saw my cousin having anal sex with my 10-year-old son���. She started banging on the door and they immediately started taking their bath, pretending as if nothing happened.

My friend told me as I got back. I confronted my son about why did he not tell me. He said my cousin cut himself, drew out blood from his body, and warned him that if he tells anyone, he will die, fearing for his life, he refused to tell me. I asked him, why he didn't tell his elder brother, and he said his elder brother is always playing ball downstairs. I then ask him how many times have they done it, and he said almost 10 times. That at first he enjoyed it but he is beginning to feel pain and doesn't know how to end it. I ask my son to bend over, people! my son's anus is wide opened and filled with injury, ������

Please house, what do I do? These are my fears:

1. My son has been introduced to gay sex life by my evil cousin.
2. How can I help ( counsel) my son and rehabilitate him?
3. I might lose my marriage because my husband warned me to protect his kids from relatives.

I need advice from you guys please����������. Please, no insults. I will not purposely put my son in harm's way����.

Here in port Harcourt, this will go for like 3k5

Omihanifa:
In the eye of the law, Celestine omeiha was never a governor of river state. Same applies to the likes of segun oni of ekiti state, Andy uba of anambra state and emeka ihiedioha of imo state.

Why derecognize him now?

untamedd:
You’re welcome.

You don’t need an agent, you’ll do it yourself. Most 2023 application are probably already in progress but depending on your course, you might be lucky to find it still open. Some require you to email a professor directly and some require you to write general exams and interviews or both. You can email the professors in English.

http://www.prpg.usp.br/index.php/pt-br/faca-pos-na-usp/programas-de-pos-graduacao

That’s the link to the list of post graduate courses at the University of São Paulo, use google chrome browser or any browser that can translate the page. Once you click on your desired course, it will take you to the program’s website, look for “Selection Process” from the site options, that’s where you’ll find the application details. It’s usually in PDF form and downloadable but in Portuguese. You can use google document translator to translate it to English

Once you get the information, just follow the application steps.

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your effort. Please can I have your email, so I can ask so more questions? Pleeease!

BeanmanX:
So terrible but were they fighting with weapons?....

Stamped

176 people are already dead according to CNN. So sad

untamedd:
Hello,

I don’t think there are specifically English taught programs but your professors will allow you do your work in English and you can also communicate with them in English. That’s how most foreign students do it. You won’t need a language test in Portuguese but there’s a Portuguese class you have to take and complete within the first year of your study. Some courses require language tests in English, check your course for specific requirements.

Yes, your family is allowed to come with you as dependents.

Sincerely, it’s not easy to get jobs here if you don’t speak Portuguese. Outside the university environment, most people can’t speak English so it’s solely Portuguese. The good thing is you’re entitled to study grants even as a foreign student and it’s a good sum. You can also get international remote jobs that will pay you as well.

Thanks for your prompt response. Kindky clarify me on questions. Do I need an agent to help me secure admission or it's do it yourself? Please can you tell me what us involved in securing admission?

untamedd:
1. Yes, I know a few people. I thought the age limit was 10 years but someone here said 12/13 so I’m not so sure. The child must be enrolled in a school in Brazil, the process is relatively fast if you have all the requirements. You can check the Brazilian govt website for more details.

2. It’s not easy to get a Nanny here due to language barrier and most Nigerians are not willing due to bad past experience, however, you may be lucky to find one. If you want to bring someone from Nigeria, you can apply for tourist visa. They can only stay for a maximum of 180 days and won’t be entitled to permanent residency except they are grandparents or siblings of the Brazilian child.

3. Private hospitals range from R$17,000 to R$22,000. You pay obstetrician seperately between R$3000 to R$5000. Públic Hospitals are free. Same level of professionalism but private hospitals are generally more conducive. Black market rate is R$135/140 to 1 naira, USD 5.1 to 1 reas. It changes from time to time

4. Accommodation is generally not cheap in São Paulo especially for short stays. If you’re looking for something decent, your budget is USD$1000 upwards per month for an entire apartment. You might get lower but I doubt considering it’s summer soon. Nice and safe residential areas include Vila Mariana, Vila Olympia, Itaim Bibi Brooklin, Jardins, Pinheiros, Morumbi. Morumbi is home to popular private hospitals.
You might get cheaper accommodation (probably) in places at Centro, like Republica, Bela Vista, Consolação, Se etc but you may not like the sight of homeless people on the streets. Check Airbnb for options

5. I don’t know any.

Am researching for English taught master's programs in Brazil. Will I need a language test in Portuguese to gain admission to any Brazilian University? Will my family be allowed to travel with me as dependents? Are there jobs for hustling Nigerians? Please, kindly respond to me

Duisburg:
1. Having realised that the University of Sao Paulo is one of the top universities in the world, I developed interest in it.

2. I sent cold emails to the Graduate Program and the professors.

3. The Graduate Program sent me all the details I needed for my application and when the application would be opened (the next one for Master's or PhD in Physics Applied to Medicine and Biology would be opened in April).

3. The professors had interest in me, but I preferred a particular professor so, I went for him. We started working on my research proposal. I read my head out. I was also preparing for the entrance exam without which one cannot move to the next stage.

There were two stages:

Stage 1: Entrance exam.

I was asked to provide the details of a Professor here in Nigeria who would receive my questions. I sent them. They sent the professor on the day of the exam. The exam contained 12 questions. We were asked to answer five. It was set in the area of Biochemistry, Mathematics/Computer programming and Physics. Each question contained 2 marks. Making 10 marks in all. In this exam, candidates must score at least 6 to move to the next stage. I SCORED the minimum point required: 6.

Stage 2: Interview, CV assessment, undergraduate transcript assessment and project proposal assessment.

I think this was where I won their hearts. I blew the Interview. I had taken control of my proposal and so could talk confidently about it.

Just later that day after the interview, I was emailed to have been accepted for a Doctorate degree program in Physics Applied to Medicine and Biology with full scholarship.

PS: I only hold a BSc in Physics and it is second class lower.

God did!

Congratulations bro, this is quite inspiring. Did you do a language test in the Portuguese ( celpras) before your school professors contacted you? Will you be taught in English? And are there master's programs taught in English? Please kindly provide me with these answers. Portugal has stopped any kind of visa application from Nigeria.

awash:
Hello all,
I'll be going for my PHD and have to go with my family and by wife is pregnant. need to know the cost or are there Nigerians in Brazil? Nigerians in the house who live in Brazil please make yourselves known.

Hi, how are you doing? are you now in Brazil? How is the family, I guess you are done with studies now.

I will cut and take half and leave half for the owners because the stem is not in my my compound.

NothingLikeLove:
Has anyone using union bank receive alert? I never receive alert o

I never receive too o.

Ol men! See broad daylight cannibalism.

Candidlady:



If it is a girl child kindly take her to the nearest orphanage home.. •••send pm icould help financially•••

But

If it is a boy child kindly pass in peace kos the mum did what's best ... that gender needs to be exterminated from this earth of ours

You people just post comments to get cheap likes. Such horrible words coming from a future mother that is supposed to nurture nature. You are not different from that baby's mother. May God forgive you because you do not know the gravity of what you are saying

Chaos14:
Out of all the people that quoted me you made the most sense thank you

Because am a mother that has daughters. And a lot is going through my head right now, imagining losing such a beautiful child in such a brutal way. Its what no parents would want to hear, read and see.

Chaos14:
Did I say she deserves to die?

At this point, what she does, doesn't matter anymore, because a young and promising life was cut short in the most brutal way. Her loved ones, reading will feel pained to see that someone is referring to their daughter and friend as olosh. You have sisters too and will be heartbroken if this horror befalls them. Please, let's always flitter our comments on social media because it does not forget. Try and show empathy and sympathy in your daily life.

Chaos14:
If you can reason and analyse this matter well, you'll know that is a runs girl

So because she is a runs girl, she deserves to die that way abi? What makes you different from the killers? You have no soul.

Has anyone received?

She one upgrade from house girl to
housewife and come here to give testimony on how it started and ended in glory. Oga, fire her make she no put love potion for your food one day.

She one upgrade from house girl to
housewife and come here to give testimony. Oga you talk too much, man up and fire her make she no put love potion for your food.