loliapoopy2013:


Thank you so much.

make sure u report the matter so ur cousin be arrested. So ur son can also know that it was bad thing the both engaged in. U must not keep quite and let it slide. Beg ur husband. U will need his help to properly manage the situation.

JASONjnr:
A mother will not come online to ask what to do if someone molest their child....The mother in you will easily tear such a person apart.....


I mean, you'd be arrested for killing a 19yr old boy by now....

But you're concerned about your marriage even more than your own son who is now a gay.

Keep your child away from other kids before he'd also molest other kids ...

Why are you trying to label her underage son as gay and even saying he will molest other children?
Why do you guys always blame the victim?
He is the victim in all of this, and should be supported through this difficult period.
Let's fear God o.
Even if you're angry at the mother for not tearing the boy apart, you shouldn't let your anger touch the underage victim in all this

fyzaila:
Don't your cousin need the counselling and therapy aswell? That orphaned cousin of yours might have also been initiated into this by someone else. Does sending him away solve the problem? He will still go about molesting other innocent kid like yours. Or do you think sending him away will stop them from meeting in future? You better think well. If his parent were alive, do you think they would be happy to see their son turned out this way?

When one is indifferent to other people's kid, always protective of theirs, the end result is not always pleasant. You see where you all getting it wrong, taking in a housemaid/help doesn't mean subjecting them to labour and the rest. You can bring in a maid who you would also nurture like your own child. It only God who sees the heart. When you have pure intentions and you treat that maid or help like you would treat your own child, believe you me, posterity will be kind to you in return.

Now here you're saying My son My son, is that teenage cousin of yours not your son aswell? Do you know if God can use your intention of sending the two of them for therapy and counselling to heal all them completely?

That cousin is a paedophile ma, and should be cooling off in prison.
I hope the OP doesn't sweep this under the carpet and allows the law to take its course.

Take your child to rehab I am sure he would meet kids that were also abused there, hear their stories and decide for himself not to be like that bastard cousin of yours, install cameras in your house if you can afford it,it's really going to be hard for your kid cos it wasn't just once...if not for the sake of your marriage and the stigma I would have told you to make your cousin pay for it,but then your husband's family would definitely get involved and your marriage might just break!!!.

Your son doesn't need a broken home it might just make him become exactly what you're scared about,gosh these is really painful!!! family, family, family aren't who they seem I am sure someone in your family knew about him all along but refused to warn you about it.

loliapoopy2013:


Thank you so much.

Madam, please check out the mirabel center for rape victims in LASUTH, Ikeja Lagos. (If you're in Lagos)
Their office is located right inside the hospital and they offer counselling and support for rape victims, I believe.
I think they also will help with lawyers, if needed.
I believe they support all victims whether male or female, adult or child.
For those who have recently being raped, go there straight for examination and I believe they can get DNA too, to bring true justice for the victim.
Don't bother to shower or bath, go there immediately so they can get good evidence.

Here is their website:
https://mirabelcentre.org/

loliapoopy2013:


Am confused and don't know what to do. As am typing this message, am crying and devastated, my heart is broken into bits.

I have 2 sons, aged between 10 and 14. I have refused to live with any maid up till this time, fearing they might be abused.
Am into confectionaries, so despite my stressful business, I manage my boys as my husband works offshore.

A month ago, my mum brought a 19-years-old cousin who looks like a 14-year-old boy to assist me in kneading dough. I panicked because my husband has warned me never to bring any relatives to his house. But because he is a boy and my relative, and was very industrious, I never thought of anything evil, I let him stay.

Yesterday was my birthday, I didn't want to celebrate, but my friend brought me a cake which motivated me to go to the market to get goat meat for pepper soup.

According to my friend, immediately after I left the house, my 10year old son went to take his bath, and that's when my cousin followed. Not liking their movement, she went and peeped, and behold, she saw my cousin having anal sex with my 10-year-old son���. She started banging on the door and they immediately started taking their bath, pretending as if nothing happened.

My friend told me as I got back. I confronted my son about why did he not tell me. He said my cousin cut himself, drew out blood from his body, and warned him that if he tells anyone, he will die, fearing for his life, he refused to tell me. I asked him, why he didn't tell his elder brother, and he said his elder brother is always playing ball downstairs. I then ask him how many times have they done it, and he said almost 10 times. That at first he enjoyed it but he is beginning to feel pain and doesn't know how to end it. I ask my son to bend over, people! my son's anus is wide opened and filled with injury, ������

Please house, what do I do? These are my fears:

1. My son has been introduced to gay sex life by my evil cousin.
2. How can I help ( counsel) my son and rehabilitate him?
3. I might lose my marriage because my husband warned me to protect his kids from relatives.

I need advice from you guys please����������. Please, no insults. I will not purposely put my son in harm's way����.

report him to the police. You see feminist has eaten your brain. When Bible say wife be submissive to your husband, you said no. Your husband warn you and you refuse to listen, sorry you'll lose your marriage.

RingRoadMafia:
Take down your photograph, madam.

what photograph pls

Akpornana!!!

eyinjuege:


Madam, please check out the mirabel center for rape victims in LASUTH, Ikeja Lagos. (If you're in Lagos)
Their office is located right inside the hospital and they offer counselling and support for rape victims, I believe.
I think they also will help with lawyers, if needed.
I believe they support all victims whether male or female, adult or child.
For those who have recently being raped, go there straight for examination and I believe they can get DNA too, to bring true justice for the victim.
Don't bother to shower or bath, go there immediately so they can get good evidence.

Here is their website:
https://mirabelcentre.org/

I live in Port Harcourt.

Jozilinn:
Take your child to rehab I am sure he would meet kids that were also abused there, hear their stories and decide for himself not to be like that bastard cousin of yours, install cameras in your house if you can afford it,it's really going to be hard for your kid cos it wasn't just once...if not for the sake of your marriage and the stigma I would have told you to make your cousin pay for it,but then your husband's family would definitely get involved and your marriage might just break!!!.

Your son doesn't need a broken home it might just make him become exactly what you're scared about,gosh these is really painful!!! family, family, family aren't who they seem I am sure someone in your family knew about him all along but refused to warn you about it.

Thank you so much for your kind words. My son is receiving treatment now. I have vowed never to let any relative into my house again. U come today, go today.

Mzwealthy:
what photograph pls

On her profile

eyinjuege:


That cousin is a paedophile ma, and should be cooling off in prison.
I hope the OP doesn't sweep this under the carpet and allows the law to take its course.

My mom is seriously crying and begging and feeling so miserable for bringing evil into my house.

Ask your son how manage water take enter coconut?.let him answer you.then come and give us the remaining part of the fake story.something does not just add up in your story.

Jesus!!!!

This one pass me.

eyinjuege:


Why are you trying to label her underage son as gay and even saying he will molest other children?
Why do you guys always blame the victim?
He is the victim in all of this, and should be supported through this difficult period.
Let's fear God o.


Even if you're angry at the mother for not tearing the boy apart, you shouldn't let your anger touch the underage victim in all this

I refuse to respond to the guy you mentioned. Am just surprised at how people reason and comment without conscience. My son is undergoing treatment. I came here because I needed advice on where I can go for rehabilitation in P. H. Thank you

loliapoopy2013:


Thank you, its never a fake story. I will get hubby involved. Thanks

It is a must.
You have to tell your husband.

His reaction towards you will be heavy but it is secondary.

Your son needs help, that is the main thing.
And you can't give it alone.

That cousin needs to go to jail.

Kingozymandias:
FAKE STORY

So here is my FAKE ANSWER.

LOCK YWO OF THEM ALONE IN THE HOUSE FOR ONE YEAR LEAVE THEM ENOUGH FOOD SO THEY DONT HABE TO GO ANYWHERE AND THEN ENJOY YOUR LIFE

Not everything is fake.

I don't think this is fake. The account has been around for a while and posts often but doesn't chase clout.

Is he from ebony state? What's the name of that mudafucker?

yinkabeauty:



bla bla bla

So many words yet no sense, no valid point.

2 Timothy 3:16
16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:

2 Peter 1:20-21
20 Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation.
21 For the prophecy came not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God spake as they were moved by the Holy Ghost.

Hosea 4:6
6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou(yinkabeauty and co) hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou(yinkabeauty) hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.

Romans 1:22
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they (yinkabeauty and co) became fools,

1 Corinthians 2:15
15 But he that is spiritual judgeth all things, yet he himself is judged of no man

The scripture is clear on LGBTQI:

Leviticus 20:13
13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.

Romans 1:26-28
26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.
28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient

loliapoopy2013:


Am confused and don't know what to do. As am typing this message, am crying and devastated, my heart is broken into bits.

I have 2 sons, aged between 10 and 14. I have refused to live with any maid up till this time, fearing they might be abused.
Am into confectionaries, so despite my stressful business, I manage my boys as my husband works offshore.

A month ago, my mum brought a 19-years-old cousin who looks like a 14-year-old boy to assist me in kneading dough. I panicked because my husband has warned me never to bring any relatives to his house. But because he is a boy and my relative, and was very industrious, I never thought of anything evil, I let him stay.

Yesterday was my birthday, I didn't want to celebrate, but my friend brought me a cake which motivated me to go to the market to get goat meat for pepper soup.

According to my friend, immediately after I left the house, my 10year old son went to take his bath, and that's when my cousin followed. Not liking their movement, she went and peeped, and behold, she saw my cousin having anal sex with my 10-year-old son���. She started banging on the door and they immediately started taking their bath, pretending as if nothing happened.

My friend told me as I got back. I confronted my son about why did he not tell me. He said my cousin cut himself, drew out blood from his body, and warned him that if he tells anyone, he will die, fearing for his life, he refused to tell me. I asked him, why he didn't tell his elder brother, and he said his elder brother is always playing ball downstairs. I then ask him how many times have they done it, and he said almost 10 times. That at first he enjoyed it but he is beginning to feel pain and doesn't know how to end it. I ask my son to bend over, people! my son's anus is wide opened and filled with injury, ������

Please house, what do I do? These are my fears:

1. My son has been introduced to gay sex life by my evil cousin.
2. How can I help ( counsel) my son and rehabilitate him?
3. I might lose my marriage because my husband warned me to protect his kids from relatives.

I need advice from you guys please����������. Please, no insults. I will not purposely put my son in harm's way����.

Send that your cousin away immediately and take your son for counseling.

Mzwealthy:
what photograph pls

please I am lost . What photography did I post . Am confused. Where do I check to see d photography so i can take it down .

Your husband probably heard about your cousin for him to warn you not to bring relatives to the house. Somehow you seem to be protecting the cousin when the first thing you should do is have him thrown prison ... or arrange a serious beating for him ... leaving him impotent before he molests other kids. Do you believe your kid is the only one? He is damaged for life .... physically and mentally. How will he feel to know the one who did the damage is a free man? Do you know if he molested your elder son? You messed up big time...... let your husband know what happened..... h3 will know what to do.

This is one of the why I dislike women who are stubborn and can’t be controlled, husband gave a stern warning before hand and he trusted you enough to care for the kids now this. Hope this story isn’t true.

Separate the boys, change his school too (so he takes time to familiarize with the new terrain and friends) , show him more attention and love (cos that’s what he needs now, send your cousin away and let your boys be more occupied to take time off this , with time ask him what he thinks about the girl folk (jokingly o) his answer will tell you his progress.

nostradamoss:


Kill your cousin by giving him rat poison

Why are you tempting that woman to commit murder knowing the kind of mental state she is in? Is that a solution? You are a terrible human being.

dawnomike:
Send that your cousin away immediately and take your son for counseling.

Thank you so much, we are on it. I just don't know where to get an counseling center in P.H.

Originalsly:
Your husband probably heard about your cousin for him to warn you not to bring relatives to the house. Somehow you seem to be protecting the cousin when the first thing you should do is have him thrown prison ... or arrange a serious beating for him ... leaving him impotent before he molests other kids. Do you believe your kid is the only one? He is damaged for life .... physically and mentally. How will he feel to know the one who did the damage is a free man? Do you know if he molested your elder son? You messed up big time...... let your husband know what happened..... h3 will know what to do.

Thank you for your thoughts

loliapoopy2013:


Thank you so much, we are on it. I just don't know where to get an counseling center in P.H.

Search online... I pray God gives you the strength and wisdom to get through this phase

Opolopoopolonio:


So many words yet no sense, no valid point.

2 Timothy 3:16
16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:

2 Peter 1:20-21
20 Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation.
21 For the prophecy came not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God spake as they were moved by the Holy Ghost.

Hosea 4:6
6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou(yinkabeauty and co) hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou(yinkabeauty) hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.

Romans 1:22
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they (yinkabeauty and co) became fools,

1 Corinthians 2:15
15 But he that is spiritual judgeth all things, yet he himself is judged of no man

The scripture is clear on LGBTQI:

Leviticus 20:13
13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.

Romans 1:26-28
26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.
28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient

What is the meaning of this please? I read someone's post raining abuses on you, I never knew it was this bad. Do you read to assimilate? Why quoting all these scriptures, for who? A judgmental religious fanatic that you are. Did you read about the age of the boy? Can a 10-year-old boy consent to sex? Why do you people have dead conscience? Let your religious conscience be your judge If this post here is necessary to the pains my little son is going through.