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BusinessRe: Lagos Govt. Seals Dominion Pizza Over Illegal Discharge Of Untreated Sewage by lonelydora: 8:30pm On May 12
They are looking for egunje. Domino Pizza should settle them. Country hard
FamilyRe: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by lonelydora: 7:06pm On May 09
ikeno:
Really Don't Know How To Handle This Situation

Few weeks ago an ex of mine who I still keep contact with cause we stay in same state and sometimes she comes over to my place even though am not married but she was once married but due to domestic violence she left are husband and have been fending for her 3 children through her business, called me 2 weeks ago and said her seven old daughter who is the second born belongs to me and the reason she never told me was because I was not ready to settle down then.

She sent me a video of the girl and to be honest, facially she looks like me and few of my friends I showed the video to admitted she looks like me.
Since she sent me the video have been in shock and really don't know what to do in such a situation.

Have told her to come to my place this weekend so we can talk about it.

So guys how do I go about this situation any advice will be welcome
Go and carry your cross.

"Sleeping with a married woman is a loan repayable someday in whatever way Karma chooses"
CelebritiesRe: Ashley Ogle's Outfit To AMVCA Awards 2026 by lonelydora: 7:01pm On May 09
Bwrezz and yansh are the best gift nature bestowed unto man.

But then, too much of everything is bad. I like moderate bwrezz.
EducationRe: Students Of Nigerian Tulip International Colleges (NTIC) Bully Zara In Abuja by lonelydora: 12:32pm On May 09
What is going on with our secondary schools?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Bournemouth Suspend Player, Alex Jimenez Over Inappropriate Chats With Minor by lonelydora: 12:29pm On May 09
Chai! He will learn the hard way. Why does he want to knack a minor?



Abeg, guymen here, stop using chats to toast a girl. Everybody wants to trend these days. Don't give them receipts with chats.
PoliticsRe: PDP Further Extends Deadline For Purchase Of Expression And Nomination Forms by lonelydora: 4:45am On May 08
Which faction of PDP? Wike or Turaki?
Car TalkRe: Lagos To Charge Motorists For Street Parking by lonelydora: 4:44am On May 08
Amoda is on the throne. All he knows is tax, tax and tax. Amoda and his boys have never created wealth in thei lives.

Odi mma. E go reach everybody.
PoliticsRe: INEC Opposes Move To Deregister ADC, Says Legal Grounds Not Met by lonelydora: 5:06am On May 06
We no longer care. We, Peter Obi's supporters, have dashed you people ADC.
CultureRe: History Of Ezhionum Kingdom In Ukwuani Local Government Area of Delta State by lonelydora: 5:05am On May 06
Iweakbro:
Those guys from across the Niger will some come to claim we are part of them lol.
You are an Igbo man whether you like it or not. You can't sugarcoat our origin.
CultureRe: History Of Ezhionum Kingdom In Ukwuani Local Government Area of Delta State by lonelydora: 5:04am On May 06
They are Igbo people. They should stop deceiving themselves.
BusinessRe: Zenith Bank Appoints Engr. Mustafa Bello As Chairman At Annual General Meeting by lonelydora: 5:03am On May 06
Engr. Bello, welcome on board. God's Grace as you pilot the Zenith rudder.

Jim Ovia, the man that changed banking in Nigeria. I wish you well in your future endeavours.
FashionRe: Choosing The Perfect Watch To Match Your Unique Personality by lonelydora: 5:01am On May 06
Mtchewww!

Most people wear non functional watches just for fashion. Most now use phones to check time.
FashionRe: 12 Types Of Shoes Every Nigerian Woman Should Own by lonelydora: 5:00am On May 06
I have almost all. But how many do I wear?

I no dey wear reach four of my shoes. They are just occupying space in my shoe rack.

Maybe I will do giveaway someday.
FashionRe: 12 Types Of Shoes Every Nigerian Man Should Own by lonelydora: 4:59am On May 06
I have almost all. But how many do I wear?

I no dey wear reach four of my shoes. They are just occupying space in my shoe rack.

Maybe I will do giveaway someday.
PhonesRe: Data Wars Begin: MTN, Airtel, Globacom Shift Focus As Growth Slows by lonelydora: 4:56am On May 06
Starlink all the way.

No time for mobile network wayo.
SportsRe: AFCON 2025 Final: Morocco Turns Down Senegal President’s Request To Pardon Fans by lonelydora: 4:55am On May 06
Na wa oo!

Person go watch football to have fun, enter wahala.
HealthRe: Hiv Can Be Transmitted Through This. by lonelydora: 7:13pm On May 01
You wan stop aboo.ki people business oo
PoliticsRe: Yusuf Buhari Emerges As APC Consensus Candidate For Katsina Reps Seat by lonelydora: 5:42am On Apr 30
Rielbusinesses:
Imagine Yusuf Buhari.
Is he not the boy who made tramadol and codine very expensive?

A jonkie that nearly killed him self on Abuja experience and was flown overnight to a hospital in UK.

These politicians see Nigeria as a shop.
Nigeria is actually a shop. Na where person dey work, he dey chop
RomanceRe: Men Wey Put Woman For House Wetin Be Una Experience With Woman? by lonelydora: 4:44am On Apr 25
He that findeth a wife finds a good thing and obtaineth favour from God.


Marriage is beautiful. Forget what all these nonsense celebrities portray.
CrimeRe: 3 Women Lured With Malaysia Job Offers, But Taken To Mali To Work As Sex Slaves by lonelydora: 6:02pm On Apr 19
Women no dey hear word.
CelebritiesRe: Deborah Mbarah Accuses Blessing CEO Of Doctoring Her Medical Result On Cancer by lonelydora: 8:21pm On Apr 07
Nigerians sef.

Blessing CEO lied herself to fame with someone's house and you people think she can't continue with the lies?

She should be used as an example so that others will learn
PhonesRe: Your 20,000mAh Power Bank Is Not Actually 20,000mAh. by lonelydora: 1:04pm On Mar 23
It's a well known fact. Even car batteries are not what it is rated.

Nigerians eh.
CelebritiesRe: Chinyere Udoma At Prophet Odumeje's Church (Video) by lonelydora: 8:48am On Mar 22
I agree! Odumeje started well with prophecy back in Onitsha. Odumeje prophecies unbelievable outcomes those days in Onitsha before he ventured into Eddy na Nagwu church.
PoliticsRe: Bishop Onaiyekan To President Tinubu: We Can’t Continue Like This by lonelydora: 7:56pm On Mar 01
Amoda Ogunlere no send anybody papa.

Tinubu didn't come for good governance. He only came to chop life and enlarge his dynasty
PoliticsRe: 3 Years After, Silence At Kolmani Oil Field by lonelydora: 7:54pm On Mar 01
Kolmani was a conduit pipe for Buhari and his cohorts to siphon money.

Although, my company benefited massively from that project
BusinessRe: Which ₦500k Business Can I Setup For A Friend? by lonelydora: 3:50pm On Feb 25
Paige001:
I think dry grains like rice, corn, soyabeans, beans or even crayfish
Please if you are into this and know everything about the business, can we talk?
PoliticsRe: US Military Trainers Arrive Nigeria - Defence Headquarters by lonelydora: 6:06am On Feb 17
Which one is trainers again?

Why do Nigeria government always lie to her citizens?
PoliticsRe: RMAFC Denies Ceding Oil Wells To Cross Rivers, Says No Final Decision Yet by lonelydora: 6:04am On Feb 17
Whatever you see any government agency deny is about 80% true.
FamilyRe: Divorced (or Separated) Couples, Can You Please, Share Your Experience? by lonelydora: 4:53pm On Feb 12
letskeeptalking:
cheesy cheesy cheesy

I'm not really worried about that.
My advice is that you make your marriage work. Have a heart to heart talk with your husband. I wish you well.
FamilyRe: Divorced (or Separated) Couples, Can You Please, Share Your Experience? by lonelydora: 4:48pm On Feb 12
letskeeptalking:
I guess my real question is: knowing what you know now, would you make the same choice again?

I’m currently on the verge of divorce after 15 years of marriage and three kids.. Even though this is my decision, I feel like I have no real choice. My husband (if I can even call him that) says he doesn’t want to lose his family, but he does absolutely nothing to show it.

A lot has happened over the years, and it’s reached a point where I genuinely believe there is no future for us as a couple.

So I feel like I have two options: divorce him and move forward as a single mother… or stay, knowing I could never love him again.

I worry about my kids and how growing up with parents in a loveless marriage might shape their future relationships and choices. But then I also wonder, would they be better off growing up with a single mother?

I’m not concerned about stigma or even about finding another partner someday. Honestly, the way I feel right now, I’m ready to remain celibate for life.

If you’ve gone through this, can you please share your experience?
Do you regret your choice?
Looking back, would you make the same decision again?
You should have stated what the issue is.

Note, make your marriage work oo. Outside rough o. Nothing dey outside o
Foreign AffairsRe: French President, Macron Says "China Is Welcome" In Europe by lonelydora: 4:31am On Jan 22
Macron should not allow Trump to remember him oo

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