₦airaland Forum

When beauty was truly what they were.

Not now, women enhance their beauty with artificial paintings.

David Mark is one of the people that destroyed this country.

But then, let's take the message and leave the messenger.

Soludo's Solution needs a solution.

Soludo the cho cho cho man

OP, stop venturing into a topic you know nothing about.

What nonsense are you explaining up there?

Story!

If they are serious, it will bounce back. What is holding it is politics.

FG is the weapon fashioned against itself.

Meanwhile, Seun, you have done well with this new Nairaland look. Well done.

Who doesn't know that?

Even though GEJ is a poor leader, but his records are far better than Buhari and Tinubu combined

Jennyclay:
Chioma is really lucky to have Davido because OBO is a giver and a kind man.

I love how davido is spoiling Chioma. Good
men should also emulate, Spoil your woman according to your financial capacity.

Once you make your woman happy, even you as a man will be happy. It's a simple logic.

I pity men who listens to Ghe ghe

No. Davido is lucky to have Chioma.

Why on camera?

Any act of kindness shown with camera is no longer a kindness but a validation.

The Bible said "Do not let your right hand see what you left hand is holding".

Anyway, well done to the foundation

Pacesetter123:
So, whose fault is it?
The students who applied and was given admission to study it,or the school authority/FG who advertised for the program in their curriculum and admitted students into it?

Both

Nothing sophisticated here na.

Congratulations to the couple

Where's the video?

Make Angel wey hold trumpey blow am oo

Kalatium:
People think men are “rock solid.” Strong. Unshaken. Providers who feel no pain.
Truth?
Many husbands are fighting battles they’ll never confess. Silent struggles that eat deep into them and, if ignored, can damage a marriage.

Why don’t men talk?
👉 Society says “man up.”
👉 They don’t want to look weak.
👉 Or they don’t want to stress their wives.

But silence doesn’t mean peace. Behind that calm face, here are 10 battles most husbands secretly fight in marriage:

1. Pressure to Provide
Bills pile up, business slows, yet he must smile and act like all is fine. Inside? Shame and fear.
📖 “But if any provide not for his own… he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” (1 Timothy 5:8 )

2. Fear of Losing Respect
Sarcasm, comparisons, and ridicule wound him more than most women realize. Respect is oxygen to a man.
📖 “…and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33)

3. Loneliness (Even at Home)
He misses attention when his wife is too consumed with work, kids, or activities.
📖 “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9)

4. Quiet Struggle With Temptation
Yes, even good men wrestle with thoughts they may never admit.
📖 “Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” (Matthew 26:41)

5. Shadow of Failure
Every man wants to be his wife’s hero. When life knocks him down, silence hides his pain.
📖 “…David strengthened himself in the Lord his God.” (1 Samuel 30:6)

6. Bottled Emotions
Society says “men don’t cry,” so he bottles stress, anxiety, and grief, no wonder mem die early.
📖 “Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.” (1 Peter 5:7)

7. Comparison Pressure
Seeing friends “doing better” quietly makes him feel less.
📖 “For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves…” (2 Corinthians 10:12)

8. Work vs. Family Guilt
Struggling to balance being present with providing.
📖 “To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

9. Fear of Losing Love
He wonders: “Will she still love me if I grow old, broke, or sick?”
📖 “Charity never faileth…” (1 Corinthians 13:8 )

10. Spiritual Insecurity
When his wife seems more prayerful or dedicated, he may feel inadequate.
📖 “Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” (Proverbs 27:17)

The truth is this: Husbands may look strong, but they bleed silently.
Wives, when you understand these battles and respond with love, respect, and support, you don’t just heal your husband — you fortify your marriage.

📖 “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)

👉 What do you think?
Why do men hide their struggles, and what can wives do differently?

Women do you agree men go through these battles?

Nice writeup.
You see that number 9 eh... that's the major problem most men have.

I always tell my friends that there is a pretentious submission women (especially Nigerian women) have largely because you provide. No such thing as unconditional love for a man.

Once you have this at the back of your mind, you will understand women.

Always follow the right path to get whatever you want in life.

NOUN is not a proper school for many professional courses.

You can't use "shortcut" to get what others got through the proper channel.

Pope98:
hello sir can i get to message you if you don't mind sir so i can reach out

Drop your email

DrMB:
After a whirlwind year of high-level summits, state visits, and international forums, BAT is finally taking a 10-day working vacation in Europe. But here’s the question: will this be just a well-deserved break, or a strategic mission in disguise? Which meetings might be happening behind the scenes? And could this leisurely European getaway hold the seeds of new partnerships, deals, or policy moves?



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He disappeared in Brazil for 5 days after his St. Lucia's visit. Only to reappear when Buhari died.

Make una allow our Ajala the traveller to enjoy his presidential jet oo.

Our people say "he who has a new pant will always have the urge to urinate"

Very petty people.

But God just saved that man oo.

The would-be wife would have showed him shege. Why marry a man you won't be in good terms with his siblings.

Lol. All these shambolic elections.

I have suggested before that we no longer need to waste money on INEC for elections.

Let every aspirant just declare interest and file an appeal in court. Then, whoever the court declares winner will just assume office and start ruling. We will save a lot of money that way.

Dangote is really doing well.
Every Nigerian should thank God every morning for Dangote

Chujor1634:
My kid sis got married on the 16th of August in Eleme LGA of Rivers State.

I still look at the decor and I’m so amazed at the work of art displayed.

Rate it guys

So, you dey here. I was in that Emere's wedding.

I don't understand. So the man didn't know or what?

dederocs:
Sue when video clearly show you slapped people first and instigated the fight?

You people should talk with sense...the law support the victim not aggressor.

Na English you dey speak o. You watched the half video. If she sues that air hostess, she will cash out hands down.

The air hostess intentionally pulled her clothes up to disgrace her.

Comfort should sue Ibom Air for improper exposure. That Air hostess should be penalized.

Smartcitizen:
Dora Nwanyi oma Kaa woo!

You are blessed as Ohafia lady.


👍👍👍

Kaa brother!

Igbapele? Unu mela agi?

Mgbe eme, nna! Kaa

Yeye people!

Na now them dey wake up.

Ndi iberibe. Tufia

Yes. That's my village. We don't tolerate rubb!sh

Those scrap dealers and drub add!cts must not be found in my community

Ebem....Kaa ni woo!

Mben! Kwenu woo!

Ofu na iso....Kwenu woo!

The clueless father clóówn of a governor.
Meanwhile, so Benue state doesn't have first lady?

I hope he won't reappear later like Shekau who they claimed to kpai more than 5 times.

That's how they told us they have kpai-ed Bello Turji in North West, but the man is still operating with his men.

First of all, are you a polygamous man? Do you have more than one wife? Do you intend to have more than one wife?

If the answers to the above is No. Why have a WILL? No need!

columbus007:
Madam wait, don't you have sponge? There good sponge you can use now.

Don't give wrong advice. It's not a sponge issue.

Britishcoins:
This happened few weeks ago, it started like heat rashes and after several medications, it was disappeared but the scare refused to change to his original color.

people said it called Nla.

even the baby hair is removing.
I have tried several medications including Yoruba agbo.
it is painless to the baby right but I don't like the color of his skin.
Pls what is the solution?

It's called Nla or Nta.

It doesn't require oyibo drugs o. It needs traditional methods. I think they use nzu (clay) and some other herbs to cure it.

Call your mother or mother in-law, they should know about it.