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GeniusWannabe:
Based on this definition, do you expect those goals to be achieved with a snap of the fingers?

But the goals are achievable when there is understanding and maturity between the couple

Why playing with your husband feeling that is hieght of immaturity.

GeniusWannabe:
What does marriage mean to you?

Marriage is nupital knot tied with two opposite gender, that ought to remain for forever if every neccessary viod is fill between them...It's strictly made for adults that knows how to express thier displeasure without hurting each other.

GeniusWannabe:
She's probably not happy about something. Don't you think politely asking her about it would be a good idea?
You're already considering cheating on her. Don't you love her? Did you get married to her because of sex? Haba! This is a test of your faithfulness, and you are already showing signs of failure. Try your best to discard that consideration and focus on getting to know your wife's problem(s). Marriage isn't a bed of roses.

Who have time to pamper a full grown lady of 28years, she know what her husband love and expect from her in love making, why is she pretending as she has no urge for sex or maybe she getting it outside, who knows? Oh maybe she thinks she is doing her husband a favour, that is childlish thought...such drama woman should be ignored till futher notice.

No woman can manipulate me with sex.

Op go ahead, anything that makes you happy is welcome.

Anything that can cause pain on a man without him gaining financial dividend should be given a good gap.

Leave her for some months, she'll open up to you.

nnokwa042 ...Sir your input will go much far in this thread thank you.

KingAzubuike:
You just said nonsense. 20 years and set up yourself when you're not financially decent yet? You need a brain transplant to be honest.

What of living with a friend till he find his feet?

I'm not perfect but they are some barriers we can only break with braveness.

They are many mummy boys out there that need to wake up from thier dullness,i detest that attitude.

Oma307:
what happened if he is living with his mother at age 22. at that his age, I don't think it is bad, there are many things to learn from his parents

What is that things he should've learn from his parent he has'nt done for two decade of his life with them......As a man the moment you rearch 20years you should set up yourself a personal accomodation if not possible squat with a friend.

A man that is not constructively stuborn will find it difficult to make it in his early age.

Stop supporting timidelty friend.

creolehunt:
Where is he supposed to live? Pray tell.
On the internet, everyone is self sufficient and independent.

Indirectly refering to me in your last paragraph

He should go and squat with his friends, many news we have gotten in time past on how people commit sucide when they can't endure family pressure.

I don't want that to happen to OP, We are talking about someone mental well-being he should take a bold step this new year.

MariaAngeles:
There's nothing wrong with that if he hasn't found his feet yet.
Don't be judgemental.

If you read my comment cleary you won't find me being judgemental, am just giving him a sincere advice to leave his parent home in this year inorder to overcome her mother insult, am not forcing him.

Atleast he have many cousin and friends he can squat with them till he find his feet as you said.......only for his peace of mind, he should act as man now to contaradict his mother narration about him.

Lamanii22:
There's nothing wrong with living with your parents at the age of 22... Plus it would save you the stress of house rent....

Then he should be prepare to recieved insult from his parent, mostly from average family.

At 22years you're still living with your parent...make a strong move this year to avoid more of her insults.

Phenomenal16:
My question is does this expensive big girl look work?

Be transparent and sincere in whatsoever you do because you'll remain unchanging in it but when someone start pretending to achieve something, they will surely change to who they are in true reality and those achievements they got won't be straightforward, sincere, proud of them because they got them in pretence and deception.

stupidity:
Maybe she was with her main boyfriend and told him you are her Godson. Who knows.

Hahahaha

blackfish56:
21yrs old nd u dae find love **in osu voice** " ma sister you're lucky oo but you do not know"

You still too young (21yrs) to undastand life
He's
*final year student
*alot on his head right now probably
*project to defend
And you ungrateful bitch is here blabbing nonsense you're just thinking only about yourself..

Pls when is rightful age to understand life?

Op search yourself if you've that intend mind to marry her then convince her with that confidence, she may endure if she has understanding

Do an introduction if possible or engage her..........Good woman are hard to find, if you find one, do everything to keep her.

The ball is at your court, you know what you want but do not delay her out of your selfishness...remember you'll still have daughters and will want them to marry at the proper age...

Bring a razor and chew it with your teeth it will leave painful mark in your mouth but it will still be heal..

It is always painful on the first time but she will still be healed just do pampering as a man....

Jgoldie:
They should just give these people Biafra abeg,enough of all this pdp n apc war in the south east and south south

Lagos has been free of traffic since they all went for holiday in their village

Very bad coming from a girl, are you just like this online or both in reality?

Do you know they are yoruba and hausas living in south east...pls let us embrace one another and stop this competition and hatred between us.

LadySarah:
It will take only but a min to be confined to a wheelchair as he is and you will be disabled as he is.An injection gone wrong or an accident.

You teenage boys littered all over this forum seem to lack manners.serious manners.

Yinka Ayefele isn't doing bad same as Asuquo Cobhams.

Grow up

Shut up....will you marry a disable or allow your daughter marry one?

So because he's a teeneger he should not speak on his opinion, what will happened if you "Miss maturity" ignore his comment instead of belittling him...

Look for another disable person like you maybe deaf and dumb lady, that will make a good pair..

That word "girl" is understatement, use "woman" when describing her....

Only woman can take out the bulshit..

I'm considering 2021, 30+ by then, only by grace of God...

Clowns everywhere, they can fall for even apes, speak up to lady, they can't...

You op why did you bring this up here?

To make mockery of men or what?

Can you approach a man confidently?

You don't force someone to be normal..

A man can not be a mentor to a girl...

A man that claim he is faithful to his wife will never leave her out in any casual knot with a lady for the safety of the marriage or do your wife know about it?

It's good to help but it should be done with rational reason not creating a wrong impression.

Learning how to mind your business and knowing the future possiblity of your deeds especially the one that can affect your marriage will be good for peace of mind.

Thegeneralqueen:
men suit nice idea what order color do men like aside black

You supposed to know the colour he cherish so much, brown and ash colour is good for me...

Gift him a wrist watch and new men suit not black, look for other colour he love...

No need of mentioning her moniker....

To your question, yes you can find nice partner here.

Ladycewhy:
you will be shocked to know its a fully grown adult past 30 years of age behind that moniker.

I hope the disscusion is about how to better one life not politics and celebrity lifestyles

Everybody can not be talkative!

Lekside442:
but I’m saying the truth..she gets angry on unnecessary stuffs...I don’t just understand....just wondering if it’s not ordinary...she sees a picture of me and she was mad as hell...what for?just my pics...I don’t just understand anymore..

Oya post the picture let us see....oga tell us the truth here....

Lekside442:
i didn’t show her any pics..it was my pics that was there..she just saw it and asked when did I snapped this pics and I showed her the info..which was upper last week Thursday...and her mood just changed and gets angry unnecessarily...I don’t just understand.

What does the picture background looks like?. You can't snapped picture in native doctor shrine and expect the lady to feel good about it.

That picture is questionable if na english people.....

Jewessgratitude:
What's In the pics you showed her?

Pertinent question.

This is good report, i celebrate with our gallant soliders..May God help them in this battle.

Play along with her, if she is not married, are you both not adult or should i say you don't find her attractive?

How old is she? Do the thing and forget it having sex is nothing except you're one those churchy guys out there, it does not pay......