Politics › Re: “I Want To Continue Serving Nigeria” – President Jonathan – by Lordabas: 9:27pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Is he serving or destroying Nigeria |
Romance › Re: Why Is It Understandable For A Guy To Cheat In A Relationship Nd A Girl Dare Not by Lordabas: 9:18pm On Nov 11, 2014*. Modified: 9:40pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
masterpat: In the society we live in today, guys freely invite other women home and have their way if their partners are not around but a girl dare not try such or else...
I'm also guilty of this crime and when ever I'm in the act, I ask my self this question *** if my gf do something like this and i find out, will i ever be able to forgive her Do you have any legitimate reason for thinking this or are you just generalizing and judging the entire male population cos you're a cheat??!  |
Family › Re: I Need Help "My Children Fear Me, Rather Than Respecting Me" by Lordabas: 2:45pm On Nov 11, 2014*. Modified: 3:21pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Being respectful & loving to them wil cause them to be respectful & loving to u. Be a good role model & a good listener.
Talk to them,dont shut them down by yelling to try to tell them something.Stop & think about your responses back to them without blurting out your answers.
Dont lose control & do something harmful 2 them cos of ur anger so that they wont fear u doing something to them. Punishments should never be because of your anger/frustration,let it always be a direct result of their misbehaviour so they dont confuse punishment with 'dads temper'
To make ur children respect you, you need to start doing many nice things & showing your love all the time with some rewards.I'm sure they'll also start showing love & respect u too. Once they start giving u respect you can make them anyway you want.
Being firm & consistent with ur guidelines & setting boundaries for them and mostly loving them cos they are God's gift.
Love always returns love. Hate & fear always returns same.
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Health › Re: Science Explains Why Men Get Erections In The Morning by Lordabas: 1:44pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
One of the mysteries of the world has been finally explained  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Are Humans Still Going To Have Freewill In Heaven? by Lordabas: 8:53pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
There must be. If there was no free will in heaven how would satan have rebelled?
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Romance › Re: Why Is Nigeria's Age Of Consent 16? by Lordabas: 8:40pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
jswaggzo:
but if he's her agemate and not an adult you wouldn't mind abi? Sure! That one dey |
Celebrities › Re: Chidinma Ekile And Her Beautiful Mum In New Single! by Lordabas: 7:45pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Who is Chidinma Kelele??
Is she related to Stevie Wonder
Why are their eyes closed..are they blind
We don't know her over here in Cotonou
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Romance › Re: What Does The Expression "Love Is Blind" Mean To You? by Lordabas: 6:57pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
It means that when u are in love with someone you cannot see if they are hurting u cos u are blinded by your love for them.
Its like women who stay with men who abuse them. These women love their man so much that they cannot see that the man is beating them to death
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Romance › Re: Why Is Nigeria's Age Of Consent 16? by Lordabas: 4:35pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Fuuurck age of consent!!! At 16 you're still a minor
And if an adult come sniffing around my 16yo daughter he'd be setting himself up for some serious future dental work |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Long Will I Wait For Him To Marry Me by Lordabas: 12:33pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Men move at a slower pace than women. Dont expect him to truely grow up until he's over 35. And why rust it anyway? Try living in d moment & appreciating him as he is. If he feels pressure hes gönna bolt. U should stop focusing on that on focus on your r/ship
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Romance › Re: What Is Actually Good About Getting Married. by Lordabas: 12:01pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
doingreat: PLEASE I NEED HELP someone plz explain to me the reality in marriages. Though as an optimist, I am inclined to believe that God designed marriage to be enjoyed. But stark realities are staring me on the face. Realities that a vast majority of marriages are in shambles. they are either dead, dieing, comatose, or at best...walking dead. me I don tire ooooo. this is important cos for us single ones I need to know so I don't make a life long mistake. IS MARRIAGE A MISTAKE? seriously considering becoming a eunuch. cos it seems marriage complicates simple things. plz serious comments needed. preferably from married folks. #seriouslyconsideringsingleness4life. but for moral reasons it would be far better to get a baby mama, get a kid or two, and live happily ever after..........as a single man. You haven't met the right person yet. When you do, it will all make sense. |
Family › Re: Can A Physically Abusive Person Change? by Lordabas: 11:47am On Nov 10, 2014 |
No.
Physical abuse is a tactic for control.
A physically or verbally abusive person will always fall back on those methods to feel superior.
This is a dangerous man, and one to be avoided. |
Romance › Re: My Prety Wife Alwayz LockUP At Night. by Lordabas: 10:30am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Poor guy! You're sounding pretty frustrated..sounds like u are doing everything u can. Just get yourself a hooker, a wife ages but prostitutes stay the same age  |
Romance › Re: Why I Dont Like To Date Fat Babes(omo Orobo) by Lordabas: 10:16am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Op Just wait until u marry the slender beautiful girl and she gains 100pounds after having a baby  |
Education › Re: What To Do When Having A Boring Lecture??? by Lordabas: 10:08am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Stare at the lecturer angrily because he's so damn boring Or Go explore an imaginary world..physically present, mentally absent  |
Romance › Re: Most Ladies Are Just Disappointing And Disgusting by Lordabas: 11:09pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Ok op
Have fun dating your hand |
Family › Re: Men With Stretchmarks , How Do You Cope? by Lordabas: 10:43pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Men with stretchmark..eeeww
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Romance › Re: Guys That Don't Respect Ladies. Why? by Lordabas: 10:40pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
I don't think men generally disrespect women. Women just don't respect themselves. |
Romance › Re: E-love; True Love Or LUST?? Opinions Please. by Lordabas: 10:29pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
sleekyjay: Ok, most people do this E-dating stuff. Now, my question is; This love does it really exist or its just a lust oriented feeling often mistaken for love, Prob'ly because you'v seen he/she's cute photos, heard a voice to die for or maybe the prson's wits & intellect fascinates you..
Whats your take on this? if u'v been into something of sort, was it worth it? hmmm. . . Well dude.. It aint love..also it aint lust. Its fake.. To hide..to fill a hole in u with something virtual Online r/ships are not gud...its just momentary. U can like a person on net bt cant live ur entire life with him/her..especially for people who consider looks as important.
See this way...wen u have not even seen the person nor talked..how can u be in love with them...what if when u meet that online person in real lifè..what if shes completely different? If shes been lieing.. If shes fake...security is the issue. All am saying is... It ain't love/lust. Its just virtual.lol
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Romance › Re: 5 Things Women Are Always Hiding From Men by Lordabas: 9:58pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Na today.. Women been hiding tinz since the time of Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden  |
Romance › Re: Naija Women/ladies Antics by Lordabas: 9:55pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Humblebloke: This is how naija ladies ask a guy if he has a girlfriend That awkward moment wen the picture no gree show  |
Education › Re: UNIUYO 2014/2015 Admission Update Thread by Lordabas: 9:40pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
jozeph1: Uniuyo supplementary list has been forward to jamb website visit #www.jamb.org.ng click on admission status if you've ben offered admission head str8 and pay your acceptance fee of N15,500 and print out your admission letter My name is on the jamb site bt not on uniuyo portal. How come? Any problem? |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Do You Still Respect Guys That Begs You For Money? by Lordabas: 9:18pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
hmm |
Nairaland General › Re: What Post Did You Hold In Secondary School? by Lordabas: 6:22pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
darnley16: What was the post you held during your secondary school days. 1. Head boy 2. Ass. Head boy 3. School prefect 4. Laboratory prefect 5. Library prefect 6. Time keeper 7. Game prefect 8. Labour prefect 9. Time keeper 10. Head girl 11. Ass. Health girl 12. Health prefect 13. Specify other. I attended the same school with Seun He was the toilet prefect   |
Celebrities › Re: Meet The 8 Finalists Contestant Of Miss Butt Brazil (see Photos Of Ukwu) by Lordabas: 6:18pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
ggrin: Rokiatu We talking Brazil here not Kenya |
Education › Re: How Did You Meet Your First Lover In The University. by Lordabas: 5:54pm On Nov 08, 2014*. Modified: 6:26pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
I met her when she was getting abused by a useless nigga Then i went and beat the hell outta the nigga 
After the fight, she told me she felt like i was fighting for her honor
Awwwwww 
It was friendzone at first sight |
Romance › Re: Angry And Frustrated!: How Do I Get His Attention? by Lordabas: 5:32pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Tell your friend to look down at his crotch and lick her lips If it doesn't work then d guy is dull. 
2) go up to the guy and grab his crotch. This must work 100% assurance |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Winner: Jennimma! by Lordabas: 4:57pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
I vote for QUEEN
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Crystal Palace (1 - 0) On 8th November 2014 by Lordabas: 4:28pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
DiMARIA has gone from a tiger to a cat. I guess thats what happens when u get mixed with mediocres  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Crystal Palace (1 - 0) On 8th November 2014 by Lordabas: 4:09pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Man utd is a very boring team to watch. Quality of play zero!! |