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Nneomaj:
survelliance or on survelliance,women are more faithful in marriage.
I can assure you that,if my man tries it on me,he'll be glad he did.
But then,b4 you do that,be sure you are clean.

Ebonyeyes:
Well that Hummer and rolex can only tide you for a short while what will back it up huh?

mama-gee:
You're a jobless wankster . . .
Geta  job or better still get lost . . .
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mamagee that goes all about nl telling people to get a job or get lost,to get a life, bla bla bla.


You could use some of the advice yourself.Let the people express themselves,even when it's silly which is a lot still let them be

googles:
[size=13pt]hmmmm
now you have just confirmed the type of girls you roll with
why would a respectable and responsible lady keep multiple affairs
like i told you in your other thread
sweetheart, UPGRADE [/size]

bubugul:
that's your wife right there; likes of her are rear.
you mean she looked you in the eye and told you that, meeen! her love is for real. don't throw it away
you are not crazy, I mean, this happened just once, come on,
pls go ahead and take her to the alter,

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
the fact that she told you means Poo!!!!!! you have to sit her down and let her explain to you WHY she did it and what were the circumstances. check her environment to see if there is absolutely no way that she will do it again and then make up your mind about giving her a second chance or not. coming clean while crying is a cheap way to try to redeem herself. make sure thats she is TRULY remorseful before giving her a second chance, dont just believe the tears.

if she cheated because:
- she wanted to hurt you after an argument then your problem aint fixed
- "she was drunk" and she still drinks a lot then your problem aint fixed.
- her boss said it was the only way to keep her job then your problem aint fixed.
- all her friends pressured her into "going down with the flow" then your problem aint fixed.
- some guy just paraded a few thousand $$$$ under her nose then your problem aint fixed.

also if she only told you because her lies/cheating ways were going to backfire in her face then your problem aint fixed.

na2day?:
nicely done

Ujujoan:
You are such a cheap loser. A sorry excuse for a man. You are looking for an excuse to shelve your responsibility abi?

Maybe you should go for a intimacy change!

googles:
[size=13pt]whatever happened to the root of all evils[/size]

[size=20pt]money !

money !!

money !!!
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embassyme:
A GROWN UP

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(10) A healthy relationship begins with two people who come together already completed, mature and ready for the great responsibilities that come with love. Simply, it is not a woman's job to raise her man. Your Mr. Right should not rely on you to be his life mechanic -- you're not there to fix his financial, psychological or emotional problems. He needs to have healed his mistakes and hurts of the past and now be solid and whole so that he is able to face new challenges confidently when they arise, as well as be a strong support system for you.
(9) TO FEEL HOT!
Assuming you are putting in the effort to maintain your appearance, it is your man's duty to lust after you – to remind you that you've got it going on. From complimenting you on an outfit to noticing a new haircut to a for-no-reason-at-all "you are so beautiful" reminder message, your guy should make you feel gorgeous.

(BELLY LAUGHS.
While your man doesn't need to be a stand-up comedian, he should be able to spike your days with a dose of laughter. Life can be hard, and your guy needs to be someone who is dedicated to turning your cloudy days blindingly sunny. We all know laughter is the best medicine, and having it as a primary ingredient in a relationship recipe is critical to its short- and long-term health.

(7)PRIORITIZATION.
No matter how in-demand your man is, you should be No. 1 on his speed dial, and never should he bypass a call from you for someone else.  It is key for you to know that you can count on him for anything and everything, always. This doesn't mean that he shouldn't have a life -- he should. It just means that he should be looking out for yours.

(6)GREAT intimacy.
There is no excuse for a man not deliver in the bedroom,  if he wants to. After all, there are plenty of tutorials in the form of indecency, magazine how tos or girlfriends willing to be tour guides to help them get it right. Living a sexually unsatisfied life isn't living at all. If a man isn't willing to put forth the effort to learn what it takes to turn you on, it is time to turn him off.
(5)BUTTERFLIES, STILL.
When apart for a few hours or a few weeks, for no pinpointable reason, reconnecting with your man ought to give you the warm-and-fuzzies, even after countless kisses, unlimited hand-holds and hugs galore.  Maintaining the butterfly feeling is proof that your guy is putting forth the effort to keep romance alive.

(4)FREEDOM.
Freedom is an excellent indicator that your man trusts you. Freedom comes in many forms – freedom to have a girls-only weekend in Mexico, freedom to explore a new career, freedom to be alone – all of which circle back to your man trusting your decisions and giving you space for your own growth.

(3)UTTER ADORATION.
Inside and out, every quirk, every "flaw", every everything about you should be understood and adored by your man. Never should you feel the tendency to be a chameleon, adapting to what you think he wants you to be. You should already be everything he needs. A good guy will go the extra mile to make you feel great about your insecurities.

(2)A SAFE PLACE TO BE 100-PERCENT YOU.
In a healthy relationship, you should feel safe, liberated and loved enough to be who you are – all the dimensions of your being – all the time,  figuratively unclothed. So if that means you are a buttoned-up badass by day and someone who dances around singing into a hairbrush by night, so be it. A forever-guy will not only allow it, he will love it.

(1)PATIENCE, GENEROSITY AND CONSIDERATION.
These are the triplets of kindness, each one of equal importance. Patience means he can deal with tension calmly and productively, looking at life's challenges as opportunities to teach and to learn. Generosity of mind, spirit, heart, wealth, time – anything you want to share (even dessert!) – your guy must want to share equally with you. And finally, your man should be considerate of your feelings, your time and your goals. He should be considerate of how his decisions impact you.

Tack these demands onto your mirror and use them as affirmations. The right man will come along when you have the courage to stand your ground. Hey, it's your life and your every happiness, right?

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