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Hyfer:
Boss ...I have been living in my neighborhood for over three years now and their is this gal that lives close to my house and have been crushing on me but I have not been able to talk to her cus I'm kinda shy guy.. .
How can i get to chat with her..ur advice will be deeply appreciated.

[color=#E238EC]Just go back through the pages bro.. Issues relating to shyness has been treated many times.[/color]

[color=#E238EC]The second point is what drives 96.83% of those who participate in it...
Some do it to feel accomplished.
Some are doing it to fill a perceived hole in their life..

No matter how accepted or accomplished you are on social media/virtual life, if you don't fix yourself, the problems will still be there and deep down in your subconscious, you are still the same broken entity..[/color]

constance500:
it's like you've never seen someone being bathed with dirts, mud, pepper and some other funny things mostly in school environments before.

[color=#E238EC]You go don know people wey go university "advanced secondary school".[/color]

[color=#E238EC]Get busy and chase your dreams..
Stop contacting her and block all means of communication. Go out and have fun, meet new ladies..

Go where you are appreciated, not where they tolerate you.[/color]

[color=#E238EC]She don open "boot'thick" na... Hos everywhere. ..[/color]

Alexbrain:
Interesting discoveries, hope they all make the world better not worse?

[color=#E238EC] Depends on those in charge..
The discoveries can be made to benefit or harm the world. .[/color]

[color=#E238EC] she must be very stvpid. Who gives a fvck whether she's a virgin or not..

Na ppl wey go use her for money rituals go contact her last last... [/color]

[color=#E42217] Well, the only thing most ladies have to offer these days is their body..

If it's Beyonce or Rihanna or Kim K or Ini Edo or Yvonne something, y'all be saying she cute she sexy..

Fvck double standards.[/color]

[color=#E42217] CorGier Harddon Ustec y'all need to see this.. Signor putit is making sense. .

The pussified white knights will start asking him who broke his heart now..[/color]

mayowa1111:
i never see my name oo

How about now.. You don see am?

[color=#E42217]Enter recovery mode and wipe the cache. If that doesn't work, do factory reset..

If the two methods doesn't work, look for forums about xiaomi phones online, you'll definitely see someone with such issue and solutions to the prob.[/color]

solasolasola:
Nice one there. But you need to realize I didn't create a thread saying guys shouldn't date broke girls or saying girls shouldn't date broke guys! My thread serves to put an end to that part of the argument involving the two sexes.

[color=#E42217] Your thread still revolve around both the original and counter thread.
Those that opened those threads thought they have a view they need to air and people responded by giving them their own opinion about the issue.

Goodluck trying to end the debate...[/color]

solasolasola:
One thing I have noticed on Nairaland is a chain of related events: an action and a reaction; a thread and a counter-thread. For example, a lady created a thread about why ladies should flee from broke guys. Before long, a guy created a counter-thread about why guys should run from broke ladies. Bitterness; acrimony everywhere!

I believe you all have points. The only problem is this shouldn't call for any thread whatsoever. Creating a thread over this issue is pointless and only serves to hurt the opposite sex's inflated ego.

Meanwhile, I have a question for those of you who think it's wrong to say no one should date a broke girl/guy: When you were broke, did you even like yourself? Be honest o.

[color=#E42217]@ bolded is all I've got to say about your own thread too.[/color]

[color=#E42217]If you believe in this list, go and donate yourself to a medical lab for teaching students..[/color]

[color=#E238EC]Desperation/Being desperate.[/color]
[color=#E42217]The fact that we desire some sort of relationship with the opposite sex will bring out desperate behaviors in most of us. We all know desperation kills attraction.[/color]
[color=#E238EC]The ff are some of the behaviors that shows desperation;[/color]
[color=#E42217]1. Always giving the woman attention/talking to to her at every given opportunity (Do you know what "having a life of your own" means?).
2. Always in agreement with her even if she's bullsh1tting him (Nobody wants a weakling that's nit man enought to hold is ground/defend his stance on matters).
3. Always calling and texting her (calling immediately after collection of number/always eager to answer or return calls/always apologizing for missing her call and some other 4ked up shii in that line will only make you look like a lifeless and jobless mofo).
4. Always available (Like you don't have nothing going on for you in life except her.. "hey can you come over" and you are there within 5 minutes just to help her fix her light. Wehdone sir).[/color]

Imagine a woman did all of the above for you, what happens?
You'll lose all the attraction you have for her because you mind will be telling you she's desperate cos nobody wants her and why should you settle with an unwanted element

[color=#E238EC]There is no shortcut to get rid of these sign but the main thing to do to reduce desperation to the barest minimum is to adopt the "Am the price mentality and the Abundance mentality(There are a lot of women out there).
When you see yourself as the price, you will stop putting women on pedestal. When you start treating a girl as the best thing in your world, she will believe it and b4 you know it she'll dump your a55 because you've given her enough reasons to believe she's better and deserves better than you..
Let her know you have an amazing life without her and she's lucky to be part of it..
You don't have to go out of your way to impress her, she's to prove that she's worth your time..

Spend time on yourself/your hobbies, your dreams and goals in life(everything is not about poosie).
When you believe and act like you're the price, you don't apologize for missing calls because you are busy with your life, you are not always available for meaningless suffs and you don't see women as the sole purpose of your life. You don't call all the time or fret over missed opportunities to talk cos there are others you are attending to.[/color]

[color=#E42217] The best form of bulletproof/armor is to stay out of range..

Anyways we ain't got no nuclear bomb or even atomic bomb over here..[/color]

barackodam:
But she was resurrected, wasn't she?

[color=#E42217] When?
The only resurrected member of the Lance family was Sarah(white canary) not Laurel (ex black canary)..[/color]

kennykendo:
The show won't kill Iris, but I am.sure.someone might die...

As for Barry, the speed force awaits him.

Jay Garrick MIGHT leave the speed force..


I just hope flash season 4 isn't going to be like the comics where Wally dawns the Red Flash Suit...

It might be nice but let's see

[color=#E42217] Laurel Lance died in arrow.. What's stopping them from killing Iris sef..
She makes barry look like a lil b1tch, it's annoying mehnnn.

All this movie industries shoving the idea of "special someone for you" and "homos3xuality (that mr terrific nonsense in arrow) down our throat by force sef.[/color]

Ikio:
That move will affect south korea and japan.

[color=#E42217] Any unprovoked attack on NK right now will lead to a war America can't win alone and we all know Russia and China are waiting for them to mess up and they will let hell loose..[/color]

Talk2bryant:
I like the way Africa is omitted on the impact zone

[color=#E42217] That's the range for launch stations within the country ooo.. Mount those missiles on a submarine with the ability to launch missiles underwater without having to surface and everyone is in danger.. The subs could be chilling near Lagos or Miami without anyone detecting them and booooooooommmmmmm shiit happens. .[/color]

tahoe:
Why she no wear bra

[color=#E42217] Most female artiste will do anything to look sexy and appealing..Same with them Miley, Nicki, Riri n co..[/color]

[color=#E42217] Those of you saying the US will do this, do that, it's not that easy ooo..
Most of the world's super powers are wary of North Korea.. Dude doesn't say things he's not capable of doing.
This is not the era where only one or two nations are leading the nuclear warfare race o..[/color]