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Christianity EtcRe: My Neighbor Is Pressuring Me To Accept God by Lostchild(op): 6:46am On Jan 15, 2023
sreamsense:
To me you keep listening to the suggestion of the devil. Jesus did not promise that you will see perfect pastors in church. Don't hide under canopy of good pastor or they are doing business to fore sake the assembly of God's children. Jesus himself has warned his children that in the end time, many fake prophets will arise and shall deceive many. When Jesus said many fake prophets will arise, where do you think you will find these fake prophets? Is it not in the church? It means at endtime, almost every member you see in the church will be fake (... because he said they will be many...).

However, Jesus who told you these things will happen did not tell you to foresake assembly of God's children when you see all these bad things happening in the church. It is the devil that is suggesting to you that you are wise on your own. Jesus prophesied that in the endtime, sins shall multiply. If sins multiply, it may get to every segment of life involving pastors, church members and entire world, but when you see all these things, Jesus didn't tell you to leave or run away from the church.

Running away from church is never a solution, it is the deceit of the devil to make you cold so you can fall for his deceit of the devil by taking one to hell. Jesus himself said in the last days, many will become wax cold, it is the ploy of the devil to listen to suggestion not to go to church. You are not serving pastor but Jesus, go to church, see what you can contribute positively to grow the church of Christ as you boost your spiritual temperature as you fellowship with other brethren. Satan is going all around to give people reason why they don't need to go to church so he can win people to hell by making them too cold in the spirit. Be vigilant!
Those buildings you called church buildings, don't exist in the spiritual realm. So I have no affiliation with pastors.

I am also writing something called 'my encounter with Zeus' can I mention you?
RomanceRe: The Prince And The Thief by Lostchild(op):
The Merchant And The King

I will update later.
RomanceThe Prince And The Thief by Lostchild(op):
The Prince And The Thief By Sadhu

There was once a king who had a son. The prince was just and good like his father. However, he knew nothing whatsoever of the condition of his people - how they lived and what they needed - because he lived in the palace and rarely saw any of the common people. So one day, he decided to live among them for a time and study their life so that he could help them when he became king.

With his fathers permission, he left the royal palace and lived among the people as an ordinary merchant. No one, except some of his courtiers, knew that he was the prince in disguise. Thus he lived and grew to know the lives of his people. He came to understand the ins and outs of their private and social lives and made plans and arrangements to serve them better.

As a merchant, he had to deal with all kinds of people, and he encountered all sorts and shades of characters. He was especially distressed to see how many people resorted to lies and frauds, selfishness and greed, cruelty, theft and wickedness in order to make money for themselves.

With his fathers help, he often secretly aided the innocent victims of such unscrupulous characters. Nevertheless, he loved even those who had fallen into evil ways, and never injured those who deceived and maltreated him. He always forgave them and tried to help them change their ways. Many were reformed and became law-abiding citizens of his fathers kingdom, although some did not.

Now, there was a thief who had so often injured innocent people and robbed them of their earnings, that the prince saw no option but to have him imprisoned. When the thief got out of jail, he wanted revenge against the prince whom he supposed to be an ordinary merchant. He entered the princes hut to steal everything of value, but the prince overpowered him and admonished him for his shameful behavior:

You should work hard and earn your living in a respectable way, he told the thief. If you needed anything, you should have spoken to me and I would not have refused your request. You disgrace yourself when you injure innocent people and steal their things.

This is not right at all. You think that you are hurting others, but you are actually harming yourself. If you do not change your ways, you will surely come to grief on the judgment day. In hopes that you will see the folly of your ways, I forgive you this one last time. Do not mention this matter to anyone else, but use this chance that is given to you. You will not escape punishment the next time.

For some time, the thief kept himself in line. But after a few months, his old nature reared its ugly head again. One day, he set out to rob people in a distant village. Now in that village, there was a poor widow whose husband had died a year after their marriage.

After his death she gave birth to a son. The sudden death of her dear husband was really a great shock to her and, sadly, she had no relatives or friends to aid her. But as she was a devout and God-fearing woman, she found peace and happiness in the worship and presence of her God, even in the midst of all her hardships.

Her son cheered her and helped her to forget the woes of the past. She raised him in the faith, fear, and love of God. She patiently endured all hardships and troubles, working very hard to make a living and to educate her son properly

In her need, she faced many trials and temptations and bravely overcame them all. At one point, when she was so poor that she could not provide milk for her son, some wicked young men tried to take advantage of her situation and lure her into immorality. But she watched and prayed, and through Gods help, she remained faithful to what she knew was right.

In time, the widows son grew to manhood and secured a good post in the city. He had to leave his dear mother behind in the village, but he faithfully sent her money every month. At the time of this, the son had just returned to visit his mother after two years absence.

Embracing each other, their hearts overflowed with joy, and tears flowed from their eyes. It was a wonderful and moving scene.

The son bowed in respect and honor at his mothers feet and put before her all the money he had saved for her to live out her days in comfort and security. The mother had also put aside some money every month from her small earnings for the day when her son would marry. Rejoicing in their long-awaited reunion, they placed these tokens of their mutual love in a purse, then ate and talked together for a long time.

Afterwards, they went to bed expecting to rise and see the next morning with joy and gratitude. But alas! No one knew that before the sun flashed in the eastern skies their tears of joy would turn into tears of sorrow and grief. For while the widow and her son were fast asleep the same thief, whom the prince had forgiven, broke into the hut searching for valuables. Just as he discovered the money in the purse, the widow and son awoke and discovered him. Thinking only of escaping with the purse, the thief attacked them with a sharp knife.

What a tragic scene! The son lay dead on the floor in a pool of blood. The poor widow hardly noticed her own wounds. She screamed helplessly, fainted, and fell down on her sons dead body. Neighbors rushed to help, but they were bewildered and stunned to find the son dead and the mother lying senseless on top of him.

In the morning, the widow recovered a little from her swoon and three or four women helped her in the funeral procession, while the neighbors carried her sons coffin to the village cemetery. But as the coffin was laid in the grave, the mother fainted again. As the people tried to rouse her, they discovered that she had breathed her last. Killed by grief, she was buried with her son in the same grave.

The entire kingdom was enraged at the news of this tragedy. A large reward was offered for the capture of the culprit. Some people suspected the thief, but no one had any evidence. Months passed without any progress in the case.

About this same time, the king became very ill and the prince returned to the palace to nurse his father. After some days, the old king died, and when news of his death reached the people, they lamented greatly.

After the days of public mourning, the prince succeeded his father and was crowned king. On his coronation day, crowds of people had gathered from the four corners of his kingdom. Many of them were astonished to recognize the prince as the man who had lived among them as a merchant. During the reign of this new king, all the people prospered and the country progressed, because he knew his people well. He knew from his own experience how to deal with them and how to improve their condition.

Finally, the time came when wickedness should reap its evil harvest. One day, the thief was drinking and enjoying himself in a wine merchants shop. That day he drank so much that he became senselessly drunk. He began to talk stupidly, and without realizing what he was saying, he confessed his guilt: I killed the widows son. With his money I enjoyed life. Now I defy any man who dares to catch me. He had hardly finished speaking when he was arrested and put in jail.

After he came to his senses, he regretted his stupidity and unsuccessfully tried many tricks to escape his fate.

THE JUDGEMENT
The next day he appeared in the court of a magistrate, but because of the seriousness of the offence, the magistrate sent his case to the king. As soon as the thief saw the king he turned white as a ghost. He knew it would be useless for him to try and talk his way out of anything, for he at once recognized the king as the merchant who had taken pity on him.

The king asked him, do you recognize me? Yes, Your Majesty, the thief replied. Then the king asked further, Do you wish to defend yourself? No, Your Majesty, he said.

The king added: Look here. I admonished you repeatedly years ago, and had forgiven you. I gave you ample time to reform and become a good and law-abiding citizen. But you did not listen. You wasted all your precious opportunities and now your sin has found you out. Not only has your sin revealed you, but it also cries out against you and convicts you. Through your crime, you have determined your own fate. The thief was taken from the kings presence and executed.

THE MESSAGE
In the same way, we will all be judged on the last day when God judges the living and the dead. The Master once lived on earth as the son of man. He knows every one of us well. He cries out to us to Repent:

Now is the hour of pardon! Now is the day of salvation. If we are indifferent to a salvation as great as that now offered to us, our sins will surely convict us and lead us to death.

The end.
FamilyRe: With God's Help; I Finally Move To A New Peaceful Quiet Place. (part 3) by Lostchild(op): 12:15am On Jan 13, 2023
SHINJA:
I always like your stories... cheesy
When I started writing my stories on nairaland, I receive so many insult. I remember trying as much as I can not to retaliate to their insult.

I knew that, many here hated my stories and even want me to stop writing. But their hate could not discourage me from writing more of my harmless true life sob stories.

Deep within me I knew there are those who enjoy and like my stories, especially the women. So, I kept on writing because of only those who love to read my stories.

The most important thing right now is that, I am glad to see someone like you who enjoy and love to read my stories.

I am happy cheesy
HealthRe: What Is Behind Sickness by Lostchild(op):
I will update later.
Write about the spiritual reality of HIV and AIDS
FamilyRe: With God's Help; I Finally Move To A New Peaceful Quiet Place. (part 3) by Lostchild(op): 5:53pm On Jan 11, 2023
EastAlchemist:
Apart from Nairaland do you have other places where you share your message of light?
I will mention your moniker on my other write up on the religion section of nairaland.
FamilyRe: With God's Help; I Finally Move To A New Peaceful Quiet Place. (part 3) by Lostchild(op):
EastAlchemist:
Apart from Nairaland do you have other places where you share your message of light?
I only share on nairaland. But I am looking forward to create my own website soon. It will be a website where people can obtain a lot of info on spiritual warfare and prayers on format.

I am also writing a book. When I publish my book, it will help some to come out of darkness.
FamilyRe: With God's Help; I Finally Move To A New Peaceful Quiet Place. (part 3) by Lostchild(op): 12:07am On Jan 11, 2023
EastAlchemist:
Been following your post
Nothing Is wrong with you
They’re demons trying to make ignorant people continue to be ignorant
I admire your courage and resilience
Keep it up sir with your message of light
I’m your biggest follower
My Friend.
Thank you for your words of encouragement.

I am glad. smiley
RomanceRe: When My Friend Wanted To Fvck My Woman by Lostchild(op): 12:44pm On Jan 10, 2023
Words Of Knowledge.
RomanceWhen My Friend Wanted To Fvck My Woman by Lostchild(op):
1. As a young king, marry a virgin. If you find and marry a woman as a virgin, then you are lucky. The God created default setting and frequency of a woman is when they are still vertically a virgin. Their love is like a super glue, blindly strong and real. If you marry virginprincess, sorry, I mean a virgin, you may likely have peace of heart. One reason I encourage virgins is that, too many preeq has spiritually and physically damage many good women out there. Their polarization have change from vertical to gbolatical. They can no longer endure and enjoy one Gbola for too many years in their marriage. Even when married, pleasurable andrinalin momento with their ex will always race through their mind. They will constantly missed their ex in your marital home.

2. Older Kings. If you can't find a virgin woman, then marry a decent but peaceful woman who has love for God and also fear his judgement (hell) fire.

3. Virtuous women are golden. If you can find a virtuous woman in our current time, then you are a lucky man. God has indeed favor you with a mine of gold.

THE GIST

Years ago I was dating a young woman who so much love me. Everyone knows that this girly gal was a wify to me. I also have a friend, who was very close to me. I never knew my friend was eyeing my woman and have the desire to fvck her.

One day, I went out to work. When my friend came, he saw I was away and my young vertical wife was alone at home. It was the opportunity for him to make his move. He also felt my vertical woman will agree to his very sexual move.

He then initiate sexual advance towards her but my vertical woman resisted him. He then grab her and tried to force her, but she continue to resist him. She struggled to open the door and ran outside, and didn't tell anyone what happened.

When I came home, my queen rush to me with a smile and hug me, saying " my sugar welcome. smiley

She then told me everything that happened. How my friend tried, grab her and how she force her way out of his grip

Wow, I blurted out in amazement shocked

You know that feeling of a king, when your queen genuinely love you and is loyal to you alone. cheesy

If my friend had succeeded, he will constantly be fvcking her without me knowing and would have gotten her pregnant. How will I tell the world I was not responsible for the pregnancy of my gal? No human will believe me then. I will then have a b-s child that is not biologically mine or look like me.

Continuation
I was never angry, but meditate and tried to understand why my close friend would want to do such a thing to my vertical woman.

I then asked her, have you told anyone?

No, she replied.

My queen. Do you love me, I asked huh

Yes my sugar, she blurted I love you. kiss

Hmm mm. smiley

If you truly love me as you say, promise me you will tell no one about it. Let this be a secret between us. undecided

She nodded and promised. lipsrsealed

I then ushered her to my bed, strip her naked, and made passionate love making to her with multiple orgasms as reward to my woman for her loyalty to me smiley

I also made the mistake for not showering her with romantic gift to enhance her love to me alone. kiss

I felt there was no need for me to confront my friend as I didn't want to embarrass him or loss his friendship.

I really love my friend. I was emotionally connected to my friend, while sexually connected to my woman.

I was concern about the future, and didn't want to choose my woman over my friend.

I also felt my gal will leave someday, but my friend will stay. That same friend, was the one that betrayed me and almost sent me to jail cell.

That same devilish friend, was the one that drop poison and charm into my shoe. See the link.

https://www.nairaland.com/6936195/he-drop-poison-charm-into

LESSON LEARNED

Every act of betrayal, will always repeat themself. Forgive people but disconnect from them. I repeat, forgive but let them go. A snakes, however it changes its skin, it remain a snake.
RomanceRe: Money Can Never Buy Love by Lostchild(op): 6:40pm On Jan 09, 2023
Nyascobar1414:
Nigerian men with na money be fine bobo
AS MEN; we need money to enjoy our life. Money enhance all things.

But the Nigeria women we have today are leeches. Always want to eat food they didn't cook.
RomanceRe: Bald Head Attack. Who Can Love Me Without Wearing Cap?? by Lostchild(m): 6:33pm On Jan 09, 2023
PhDkapital:
So yesterday evening was the first time many of my guys saw my head without my face cap on.
The way they responded was the proof I needed to know that my head is very embarrassing.
If say I get money for this condition, maybe e for better...
After the way they laughed at my bald head, taking pictures from all angles, including this wicked one attached that was taken from behind and above me, I just wonder which babe still ever want to accept me like thishuh
You need to have money to enhance thing. There is a cure.

Check www.forhims.com.
Christianity EtcRe: My Neighbor Is Pressuring Me To Accept God by Lostchild(op): 6:24pm On Jan 09, 2023
ecolime:
Your neighbour loves you.

Please accept Jesus as your Lord and personal savior before it's too late.

Don't live life carelessly bro.
Sure.
Jesus is life.
Christianity EtcRe: My Neighbor Is Pressuring Me To Accept God by Lostchild(op): 6:17pm On Jan 09, 2023
DaddyCK:
is she lightskin? angry
Mr Cork.
No kill me with lauuuughhhhhh grin grin grin

She is chocolate skin. grin grin grin
Christianity EtcRe: My Neighbor Is Pressuring Me To Accept God by Lostchild(op):
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Christianity EtcRe: My Neighbor Is Pressuring Me To Accept God by Lostchild(op):
I remember seeing one thread here on nairaland of a boy who complain of him having financial depression. He said he had no food, no money, no light, no television to comfort him.

I was shocked when I saw some here asking him, have you given your life to Christ?

Some even comment, have you accept Jesus as your Lord and savior? cheesy

I was like, wtf is wrong with these funny people? A person is depressed and you are asking him to accept Jesus in hunger?
shocked
Christianity EtcMy Neighbor Is Pressuring Me To Accept God by Lostchild(op):
I have a neighbor, a very nice woman who love the word of God. She is very peaceful, humble and meek in nature. She get super excited each time she sees me and often brought gift to me. I know why she get excited which is very Godly and good. smiley

Day 1 The first time she saw and met me in person, she was very much afraid of me and wonder where I came from. She knew I am not from the land. When I tried to talk to her, she instantly refused and reject me not to talk to her. She was very fearful. She is a woman that avoid trouble and hardly trust people.

Day 7 I brought some fruits to her. She took them from me but I found out she later threw them away. I knew she was afraid to eat from the unknown stranger. undecided

Day 9 She apologize over her first snubby reaction about the first day when I tried to talk to her. I accepted her apology. smiley

Day 11 She brought to me some fruit too. I accepted them and ate them lmmediately I had the chance.

Week 2 She has asked me. Did you go to church today?

I replied her, no.

Why, she asked?

Me told her, I don't go to church. I know what to do and I know where I belong. She became afraid of me more which I understood. wink

When I scan her person, I saw she was harmless and good woman. She was a person of peace and harmony. I then start treating her with agape love as natural to me.

I knew in my heart, she will instantly submit to love. For love seek not the upper hand, but the lowest place of service.

In time being, she began to observe my
speech, behavior and way of life. She saw I was an immaterial person. She became more confortable with me and told me she is happy I move here to join her.

One Day She asked me, why don't you wanna go to church?

I told her, everyone has their God, and my personal relationship is between me and my own God.

She agreed, but insist I should forsake not the gathering of thy brethren.

I quote the scripture (Isaiah 57:15) when God said. I am the high and Holy God, who live in a high and holy place, but I also live with those who are humble and contrite in spirit, so that I can restore their confidence and hope.

She agreed and let me be.

The more she experience love from me, the more she submit and was full of happiness. She then told me I have the qualities the church need and asked me to join their church.

I told her, I can't join any Nigeria church for now.

Why, she asked?

You will also not understand my journey I blurted, but someday, you will. wink

Why can't you go to church to listen to the word of God, she re-asked me?

I told her, these Nigeria pastors are fake. They all selfish materialistic men. They don't understand the deeper ways of God, nor do they practice what they preach.

She was sadden over my words but nodded her head in affirmation, and told me, not all pastors are fake. embarassed

I told her, Ok. But I see them as business men who love to do what they enjoy doing.

Every Week I do tell her sob stories of what happened to others, and always end it with virtuous message. She likes and enjoy my short gist cheesy

She then told me, you know a lot ot things about spirituality, yet you don't go to church. shocked

Months Later She fully submit to love and we became good friends. She start sharing some of her personal life info unto me, including...

She will always give me gift and money without me asking her. Paying my bills, self including food and wanting me to feel comfortable in her house. All these are the consequences of my actions. I, myself can never reject the consequences of love. She is a person that is humble, so seeing her own kind always filled her with excitement.

She believes I have the character which God need. She tried to heavily pet me to be going to church. grin

I told her, God has remove me from Christiandom. I can never go back to my vormit. She was like, what Christiandom? undecided

I lauuuugh and told her, you will not understand. grin

Everytime we see, she will always gives me a Godly smiles. She said, since I move here, she has never seen me go to church. I always stay at home on sundays. She wants me to embrace and accept God by going to church.

She said if I start going to church, things will turn around for me and financial breakthrough will come.

I sternly take a look at my good friend and smiled. smiley

I have seen more wickedness in this country than you can now imagine. She told me I should not look at the wickedness of men. I should accept Jesus and be going to church.

I told her, I don't belong to Christiandom. But until this so called Nigeria pastors start preaching love and start practicing that same love they preach, I will not listen or see them as men of God. sad

THE MESSAGE

I recently walk up to her. I asked her, do you know that there are more church in Nigeria than anywhere in the world?

Yes, she nodded.

Nigerians have more religious centers and practice more Christian spirituality than anywhere in the world. They go to church always. They pray a lot. They sow seed and pay tithe to pastors always and believe in God more than the white men. But their ways and daily life is more closer to that of the devil than of God. undecided

Take a look at the white men. They are not that religious like we Nigerians. They don't practice spirituality like the average African black man. But their ways of virtue and disciplinary lifestyle is more purer and closer to God than that of the black men

The scriptures (Mathew 5:8] clearly says; Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.
RomanceRe: Why The Rich Don't Help The Poor by Lostchild(op): 6:21pm On Jan 08, 2023
Sweetplum:
You are correct. I v been in situations where I help and help till I v little or no cash on me. On friday I left my home with N5000 extra cash to eat lunch and also take cab back home. I didn't take lunch cos of loss of appetite but used the remaining change with almost all my tfare as money to give some young kid I saw begging on the road. The kids really look so poor that I can't doubt them.
A times, I ll want to help but ll be with no money or means to help. Yet we v those that can help and aren't willing to help.
May we be spiritually opened in our eyes to know that the presence of poverty is not good.
Most of what people piled up and also waste away can be used to strengthen others in this our suffering world.

Sweet plum. I am proud of the bolded you did. There is a saying that, love is the narrow path only few travel through. And love bears up its brother smiley

RomanceRe: Why The Rich Don't Help The Poor by Lostchild(op): 6:06pm On Jan 08, 2023
Karlifate:
https://www.nairaland.com/7513695/experience-rich-only-rich-relative

Good Samaritan, body go tell you. grin
Mr Karlifate.
I know what I am talking about. That person from the link you pasted, is only spending on his friends and family members. It is good to give and help, but do it wisely unto the right people.

Like me, I prefare to give to people I don't know. (needys and physically challenge?

It is also natural for people to come to you when you have what everyone want (money)
RomanceRe: Why The Rich Don't Help The Poor by Lostchild(op): 5:54pm On Jan 08, 2023
Samantha123:
Lostchild, so how did that open letter to a South African lady go? grin grin grin grin
O yea babe, it went well. The beautiful nairaland South African lady I wrote, got my open letter. I even saw her, Samantha123 reading it. wink
HealthRe: What Is Behind Sickness by Lostchild(op):
Please; behind every sickness and health challenges, there is evil spirit or Demons behind it.

You can share with me all your health challenges, and I will tell you the evil spirit behind it, and how you get rid of them.
HealthWhat Is Behind Sickness by Lostchild(op):
I believe in good health.
I believe in science/technology.
I believe in spiritual reality and always tried to see things from the spiritual prospective. Knowing fully well that, the spiritual forces of light and darkness have some control over the physical realm.

When things happens, I always want to know what the Blessed creator, God Himself is saying about it and not what men are saying.

In 2016, God said something that struck my imagination to this very day. God said that, 80% of those infected with HIV and aids did not get it via sexual intercourse. It was spiritually and enforce and projected into their spirit man which manifest in their physical body

Demons manufacture diseases and causes sickness through demonic possession. If there are manufacturers, then there must be a materials they use in their manufacture. And the devils have many materials. One of their spiritual material they use to manufacture disease is lust, anger fear and human wickedness.

Although, sin and human wickedness goes forth into the earth as spiritual diseases which affect humans.

Example; cursing and insulting words in the physical realm are evil arrows in the spiritual realm.

Example 2; If you betray someone in the physical realm, that means demons has use their spear through you to stab someone in the spiritual realm.

Example 3 Those church buildings you see physically, do not exist spiritually.

Example 4. Your faith in God or His promise is a golden Shield (armour)

Example 5 The few genuine Christians, prophet, pastors you see on church altar wearing coat and tie physically, are putting on the attire of an armour like that of a Roman soldiers spiritually. We are soldiers in the spiritual realm and not so in physically. What I mean is that, what you see in the physical realm are not so in the spiritual realm.

Demons will create circumstance that will make people to have fear and insanity, and they will collect this insanity and use it to carry out attacks and manufacture disease. They carry out many different attacks on the human body and manufacture many different deadly sickness through thought projection and other various ways of wickedness of men. But I have learn that, the highest disease is our ignorance.
RomanceRe: Money Can Never Buy Love by Lostchild(op):
THE MESSAGE

NIGERIA WOMEN Life is a wilderness. There are valleys and at other times, there are mountains high views. The good things you want in life will not come the way you want it and when you want it. That bed of roses you dream of, will come through trials.

Good things also comes in small package, and you will pay a heavy price for it..

MEN: This saying goes to you. Make money and women will come in abundace after you. This saying is hypocritical. Because only Nigeria hunters will come after you when you have made money. Relationship that is rooted on money and materialism can only be maintain through continuous act of money.

As a man, you don't need money to date any woman. You only need money to live and enjoy a Godly life to the fullest. Any woman who cannot love you poorly is not worthy to be in your life. I am not trying to justify poverty, but it is the real truth.

Women in general are emotional beings. When a woman loves you, she will endure with you and not stress you out. She will not burden you. You yourself will become her treasure. She will constantly act base on her emotions and affection towards you. Your presence, kisses and soft touch alone will gladen her heart. A woman will only stress you when kids are involve, because women don't toil with their children. Provide for her kids, then no problem at all. smiley

I repeat; any woman who will date you when there is pl€nty is a hunter. Anyone woman who prioritize money over you or your well-being is not a normal woman. In fact, most Nigeria girls and women of this 21st century are hunters.

They are not normal. angry
RomanceRe: Money Can Never Buy Love by Lostchild(op):
I was at home, when a young man came to my home with his family, to ask my father to give him that my same beautiful sister in marriage. He wanted to marry my sister. He was a young man mainly in his early 30's, while my sister was in her early 20's.

I remember looking at him, he has made money and want to settle down. He was not bad looking in appearance at all. But my sister do not have any love-erotica towards him. She was seeing the guy for the first time, so she refused.

My father had to talk pressure my sister to accept the marriage proposition like in the olden days where fathers give their daughter out in marriage. With the pressure, my sister (oblige) accepted and my father was happy. He gave them his blessings and then, the young man took my sister to his home.

One week with her new forced husband, she did not allow sexual intimacy with the guy. They had a heated argument over this, and my sister packed her bags and came back home. She left because she has no love for the good stranger. When she came back, I was happy that, my sister has finally come back home. I was lonely without her.

One day, my sister met a gentleman that is a little bit older than the first guy. This new guuii was heavily broke, but my sis genuinly loved this new guy. He is gentle soul and also a wonderful man who surely ended up a good husband to my sister.

The problem Is this man is so broke and lived in a one room (face me I slap you) apartment.

My sister came one day, packed her belongings from my father's house and went to live with her new found lover. Despite her beauty, she choose a good man over money

The Ordeal
The man was poor, and it was difficult for them to feed with their baby. Despite their poverty, my sister still find peace and comfort in the loving hands of this darling of a man. True love is really more of a tie than anything I must say. They continue to struggle and place their trust in God. They had many years of financial challenges but their love and endurance = enable God to pays the way for them.

The Breakthrough
One day, the man got a call and got a job offshore. Within a short time, oil money started coming in different folds. My beautiful lanky sis who once look like a native hen-fowl, instantly changed into a female broiler. All her lanky kids now look like puff puff -oroborsky. In reality, poverty is evil and not many can endure it.

The man then brought his first car, second car, with other landed properties and built house, a resting place for his family.

One day, I sat my sister down and asked her, how did you come this far?. When she told me how she endure suffering with her husband, it was very embarrassing. That my sister is now currently a proud landlady, with their family cars.

And she has been married to her wonderful husband for the last 21 years.
RomanceMoney Can Never Buy Love by Lostchild(op):
According to greek scholars, love is extended into four dimension. Eros - Phileo - Storge - Agape.

If you now ask me this question, What is love?

True love is our character. It is a learned behavior. It involves the sacrifice of self for someone you love without expectation of reward. It's hard, but very few people have it and give it to others.

The true definition of love has been perverted with sexual lust or satisfaction. Love is not an emotion, it is an action. I repeat, love is not a feeling.

When you and your partner understand this reality, then both of you will have a chance of longevity in marriage.

THE GIST

Recently, I was around three Nigeria babes and heard their conversation. One of them said, so Elene has not change right? No, replied by the other one.

Na wao o, the third one blurted out.

What was their conversation all about? Their friend, Elene recently got married to a wonderful man. Yes, this good man worked very hard and made money. After making money, he met Elene who portray herself to be a wife material. This man did everything as society expect from him. Paid a bride price, wedding and got married to their friend, Elene. He provided everything for Elene. A nice house, comfort, car, finance, love and care. He even gave Elene a business of her own. But their friend Elene is still fvcking other guys. Her excuse to justify her whoring was that, I don't love my husband.

READ GIST 2.

Many years ago, my sister met a girl her age and they became friends. This girl was a beautiful young wife of a well todo guy who move into a certain part of my home city. She was marrying one offshore guru in his late 30's while the babe was in her 20's. She was trophy wife, I mean she is extremely very beautiful.

One day, she came to visit my sister as she always do. And she was in shock when she met one of my handsome brother for the first time. Who is this, she asked?

My sister told her, he is my brother. She was lust in her thought because this guui was a perfect definition of a good looking guui.

This married babe told my sister she is in love with my brother, and that, my sister should work my brother into her arms. To her, this was the kind of guui she has been looking for.

She was ready to do anything just to have my brother as her new found love. She was madly in love with my brother. She doesn't care about money because my brother nor get shishi. My sister then work my brother into her arms. My bro took the chance as a fine guy and started kpanshing this married beauty queen.

She was very, very beautiful, yet working for for the love of another. She began to spend her hubby money on my god damn brother just to keep him to herself.

She was married to this type of men who think they can use their money to hold a beautiful woman to them self. The hubby was using money to hold her to himself, while she herself was using money in trying to hold my bro to herself. After a while, my bro fell in love with someone new and walk away from her.

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RomanceRe: Why The Rich Don't Help The Poor by Lostchild(op): 10:45am On Jan 07, 2023
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RomanceWhy The Rich Don't Help The Poor by Lostchild(op):
Money always attract the good, the bad, and the ungly. So, it is natural for many people to come to you when you have what everyone want (money)

Nigeria rich men and the super rich don't help the poor. They only help those that surround them. Those that are useful to them. How did I know?

THE WEST

I have a friend, an ederly white man who live in Australia. He reach out to me when he saw I was homeless and suicider. He then asked me, what happened to you? It was very difficult for me to explain to him the cause of my downhill, because he will not understand. After many days of me contemplating, I manage to explain a little about my difficulties and daily challenges. He then asked me, is the Nigeria government not giving you any life support?. I told him, no. The government don't even know or care wether I live or die. He was in total shock. Because the Australians have support system that cater for those in difficult situations. They even have system that financially support single mothers.

In the western society, everything works. You can even take loan and be paying little by little. The government are doing everything possible to fight poverty. The goverment and many rich individuals set up many charity organizations, help foundations and various support group that strengthen the weak.

Even different folks like Bill Gate, Warren boufet and many of the super rich folk in the west cannot reach out to the poor themselves, so they set up and sponsor many charities organizations, NGO's to help them reach out to the poor and needy fellas.

NIGERIA

The Nigeria society is a self centered society. A society that is upside down. I repeat, Nigeria is a kill or be killed nation. Nigeria is a place where everyone keep sowing greed and reap corruption which lead to poverty. Their motto is; everyman for himself or everyman with his own kettle. I mean, the well being of others is not their concern. (insanity)

In Nigeria, if you are going through poverty and problems, just be sure that, your poverty will surely kill you. No body will come for your aid. Nobody is ready to help you. If your family circle is broken, then you are dead.

See, this is my own view why the africa rich men don't reach out to help the crying poor souls

1.The Rich Men Are The Government They are only there to enrich the rich and the super rich. And the super rich only help the rich and the kabals themselves. Everyone constantly steals and pile up wealth they can never use in their life time. They spend their money only on family, luxurious and flamboyant lifestyle. They only help their ambitions and spend on their life of promiscuity.

2. Climbing The Ladder
I understand this. As they climb to the top of the ladder, they find it difficult to reach out those poor people below. But in reality, the rich men don't truly care to reach out to the poor men below. They don't set up help organizations that come down to strengthen those below. They don't set up charity's, or NGO that will help them to fight poverty. They don't even know how to go about reaching out to the poor because it is not part of their life style.

Fear
Nigeria rich folks are afraid that everyone want to hurt them. This fear comes as a result of demonic insecurity and also of betrayal. The Nigeria society is such that, the rich can't go out without military escort. This insecurity has prevented them from going out there to poor neighborhood for them to see things for them self.
This fear has made Nigeria rich and super rich feel that everyone want to kill and hurt them. They also feel that everyone will likely betray or do them more harm than good. So, they surround them self with wealthy folks like them self. They only do things with with people they can still use to enrich them self more. .

3.Nigeria Rich Men Did Not Know Suffering. From experience, I will tell you, Nigeria rich folks do not know suffering. They don't truly know what it means for a person to be extremly poor and hungry. Yes, most of them started from scratch before they became rich. But they truly don't know what it means for a person to suffer chronic poverty for many years. If they have suffered in their life, they will easily feel the pains of the poor and they will engage them self in humanitarian works and services of love.

I met a rich man in person. He and his brothers were born in a very poor family and they suffered chronic poverty for many years. His family once lived for many years in a zinc house in a slum area. His mother was constantly sick and suffered poverty and tears. In their financially most difficult moment, their mother died. After years of them working hard, prayers and persistent tennancity, they all grow rich. He remember where he was coming from. He never forgot that his mother died with sickness and in poverty. After he became a rich man, he venture into charity work in a quest to help those that are suffering poverty and in sickness. I asked him, why are you doing this? He humbly said, because of his late mother and what his family went through. He knew what it means for a person to suffer poverty, hunger and sickness.

For example, I once saw T.B Joshua sent many trailers of rice and money to a northern community that is heavily filled with men and women who are blind and crippled( physically challenge). According to the chairman of the disable community, he said since he has been living there all his life, he has never seen any rich Nigeria person or politician done that to them about what T.B Joshua just did for them..

T.B Joshua was called into the office of a prophet, but T.B Joshua enjoys humanitarian works than even his pastorial and prophetic works.

4. Wickedness
The spirit of wickedness is rampant with the black africa race. I say this because I have seen many form of financial wickedness in Nigeria. I have even seen people on this forum who cry out for help on this nairaland here. Although I cannot help them right now but my heart genuinely goes out to them. I even know several multi billionaire here on this forum who will never give out small money to strangers online. Some of them are millionaires, but they can never reach out to help out online or offline. They have their reasons why they don't give out money online which is very stupid.

5.Spiritual Blindness
The spiritual blindness is the most formidable form of blindness. The soul is void from love and the mind and heart of a person become blind to virtues. It makes people to be at the wrong place, doing the wrong things, at the right time.

Spiritual blindness makes people to be lavishing money on luxurious life, spending money on exotic cars, spending money on political ambition, spending money on rivelry = parties, drugs, achohol, gambling and spending money on sex with prostitute

I was sitting in a bar, while I power charge my phone. Some yahoo guys were there too enjoying them self. Suddenly two money conscious gurus came with their cars and take their seat. They order for beer, barbecues and a full roasted chicken to be brought for them. One of them has a big stomach and keep on eating and enjoying himself.

Then a mentally poor woman walk very closer and sat somewhere, looking at this two men as they gulp their chicken and beers. This woman was very hungry and in need of food. She was so weak and poor that people may think she was mentally ill, but no. I easily detect, watched and knew she was hungry as she take a frail look at them. This two men and the yahoo guys saw her, but their spiritual blindness prevent them from knowing why the woman was sternly looking at them. I felt her pain and wanted to give her something but I have nothing with me that very moment.

This question is asked; why is it that, Nigeria rich men don't help the poor?

The answer is simple. Nigeria rich don't help the poor because they are spiritually blind
RomanceRe: Seeing Vision by Lostchild(m): 3:03pm On Jan 06, 2023
Ilamina:
shocked
Ignore what you saw on that movie, but I will answer your question via my experience.
FamilyRe: That Woman Is A Liar by Lostchild(op): 1:38am On Dec 19, 2022
gaby:
If only we could get the man's side of the story to enable us to meet the truth in the middle.
Sensible men know the truth.
She is a liar. sad
FamilyThat Woman Is A Liar by Lostchild(op):
That Woman " piecuntie" Is A Liar

See the link.

https://www.nairaland.com/7485365/divorce-husband-sponsored-me-school

I know I should mind my business, but I was pained over the lies of this woman. If I will marry a woman, I will do it because for the sake of having a child I can call my own. I will always cherish and bow my head in salute to men and always help men. But, if I will help a woman, it is for the sake of virtue and also for who I Am. Women are naturally an abusive gender. Nigeria women are cold heartedly wicked. I no longer like them at all.

The front page thread about the woman who wanted to divorce her husband who train her to school. All the first line of commenters really show great sign of chron[right][/right]ic immaturity.

1. What is wrong for a woman to marry a plumber?
I remember seeing two white women who was so proud to tell everyone that ther husband is a plumber. The complainer is an ingrate. You can see her evil pride to belittle her husband and say the man is a level 3 plumber. A level 3 plumber who did shitty job and use his lowly job to train her ass to school. The wobderful man gave her education and do things for her that her own father and mother could not do for her. Even her fellow wicked female friend was advising her not to marry the plumber husband who has sacrifice so much for her.

2. She gave some details of some of the financial help she gave her hubby, but yet, only God know what the man himself has done for her. When a Nigeria woman did something for their hisband, they will use it to insult and broke shame their husband. They will sings songs of abuse to filled the heart of their hubby with pain and regret. Immediately they start making money more, they will take over and abuse their husband and make the man feel suicider.

3.No man in his right sense will wake up one morning and start hitting and beating their wife over little argument or disagreement. That woman has been insulting her husband too much. In her own words, the hubby has warn her about their age difference, and that she needed to show some respect. But she kept insulting the man. Do you know what it takes for a man to tolerate a disrespectful and sursive wife?

She is insulting the man, making his life a living hell.

4. She married a good man who educate her illitrate ass. She then later realize the Man is still an illiterate and she started cheating on her hubby with an educated young lad. Only God knows how long she did fvrk outside until her hubby found out about her sexual stupidity. Despite what she did, her hubby did not divorce her.

And now the man is cheating on her with another illitrate or uneducated woman, paying her sexually in her own black coin. She felt the sting and came here to cry fowl cry. Looking for foolish advice to justify her pain. She has used her ungratefulness and evil pride to push her husband away.

She herself will surely burn in regret. She should asked those divorcee women that has no husband, they will tell her the painful reality and truth.

THE TRUTH

Any wife who make her husband feel like a king in his home will usually find him treating her like a queen, and he will be far less likely to be attracted to other women.

Men who feel belittled or not respected by their wives will likely lose their attraction to her, and start being attracted to those who show them respect.

This is the truth.

RomanceRe: Nigeria Women Are Cold by Lostchild(op): 5:11pm On Nov 23, 2022
For those of you the wicked gender who want to insult me, just know that I am jobless a man.

So, more of your insult is highly welcome

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