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RomanceRe: A Water Girl: Asked Me To Be Her Lover. by Lostchild(op):
THE TEMPTATIONS

The answer can still been seen in Gen 3:1-7) because the circles will always repeat itself. The Devil knows that, to strip Adam from his glory and authority, the woman is they key to his fall.

➫Women are extremely very weak creature.
➫Women are very easy for demons to manipulate.
➫The very nature and mind of women can be fine tune to suit their purpose.

See, if a man refuse to kill, then he cannot bring his fellow man down. The main weakness of a man is easily seen inside a woman. And the easiest way to destroy any great man is through a woman. This has been since the beginning of time and it will always be so till the end of days. As a man, the Devils will always come to you and tries to lure you away from God plan to a different path, which will only lead to your destruction.

They will bring different offers of beautiful women to divert you from the right path. This will bring you life difficultys, life delays and make your journey and trials of life very long.

It is an age-old tactic of the enemy to try to devour what God is bringing forth while it is still in its infancy.

ADIVICE

I keep using sob stories to pass on messages to some of my fellow young Kings on this forum. Don't easily fall for the charms and beauty of any woman. Watch out very well and go for her soul (character)

Even the beautiful women that are not demonic possess still have sick soul.

MEN pray, pray, pray. Prayers and virtue is the only weapon that will free you from all troubles and bondage.

FINAL WORDS

The smooth rising and continuous glory and peace on any man will be determine by the non possessive and good woman in his life.
RomanceRe: A Water Girl: Asked Me To Be Her Lover. by Lostchild(op):
MY OWN REALITY
This relevant question can be ask, why do I always meet beautiful Marine women?

1. It is not possible for Satan to bring me down without using women.

2. In this country called Nigeria, there are 100 different ways for a man to die. And Nigeria WOMEN are first way to kill and destroy any man. Yes, you heard me correctly.

The devils will bring different women around me like a deadly trap. I was very ignorant like many of you and I fell into some of their trap.

I was surrounded by different types of single and married women with their constant flirting. But I, like a dumb fool easily choose the prettiest girls which are the main destiny killers.

May God help all young men out there..
RomanceRe: A Water Girl: Asked Me To Be Her Lover. by Lostchild(op):
THE MESSAGE
This question was asked here on this forum. Can sex affect the glory and destiny of a man?

The answer is 199% YES..

There is nothing wrong in having sex when it is done in the right context. Sex is not harmful when you do it with a person that is contrite and clean in spirit.

Sexual intercourse is the bonding of the spirit, soul and body. You become one body and soul with the person you are having sex with. That is why a woman or a man can transfer spiritual and physical disease into your body via sex.

If she or he has spiritual infirmities like setback, stagnation, limitation and disappointment, she or he will transfer them all into your spirit and life via sexual intercourse.

Sexual intercourse is a synchronism between the physical and the spiritual. Even spiritual or dark Occultist men sometimes avoid sex. Because the vagina of a woman is very powerful and sex is more of spiritual.

If you are careless and ignorant, sex will destroy your life and glory. There are many men and women walking around with empty glory, the devils has taken away their shining stars via sexual immorality.

That is why as a man in Nigeria, you must pray and watch out. You must avoid runs girls from coming into your life at all cost. It is more safer you pick a virgin girl or marry a tomatoes seller, than to marry a runs girl.

When runs girls sleep with demonic possessed Occult men, these evil men take away their stars and left then empty. If you marry these empty girls, you and your children will face massive endless problems of life.

If you are a glorious man, sexual intercourse with a demonic possessed woman will quenched your fire and kill your destiny forever. You will loss all your stars.

I repeat; sexual intercourse with spiritually polluted women or men can suppressed and silent your glory forever.

WARNING
Learn from the warnings and mistake of others to avoid stories that touch. And be very careful of whom you date or sleep with.

Peace. ✌
RomanceA Water Girl: Asked Me To Be Her Lover. by Lostchild(op):
When A Mami Girl: Asked Me To Be Her Lover

As a man if you think women has chase after you, then yours is small. Mine was such that, women will stop me on the road and be toasting me. I am not talking about one time event, but several experience in different dimension.

Each time they do this, I always feel it is not right. I feel something is wrong. For any woman to stop a man on the road and started toasting him, conveys that something is not right in that person.

How, and why?

She was a water girl.
She was a messenger.
She was an instrument.
She was a distraction.
She was also a sex worker.

She was the fourth - Mami water girl that came into my path.

She was 20 and I was 21 years old then. It was the prime time of my life, a time where I will make the right or wrong decisions that will shape my life and my future.

I got a link and decided to travel offshore to look for small contract job. When I got to my stop, I paid for a ticket, waiting to board a flying speed boat that will take me offshore.

As I kept waiting, a fine young chocolate woman walk up to me and asked me, where are you going?

I told her, I am going offshore.

Please don't go, she confidently blurted out to me.

Why, I asked?

She said, I like what I see about you and I want you to come and stay with me.

But I am going there to work, I replied her.

You don't need to work, she replied me.

Why, I re-asked?

She said to me; I'm a very fine feminine guy and she herself will be the one p€ying me. All she need, is for me to follow her back to her house in town, then stay in her house and be her full time lover.

She instantly admit she was in love with me. She said I should agree to go back and stay in her house and she herself will go and hustle to take good care of me.

I kept quiet and couldn't utter a word. At first, I didn't know she was a sex worker and I also did not know she was a mami girl.

She said I will stay in her house, while she will go and do sex work and provide for all my monthly basic needs. She told me she will do anything for me and give me what I want.

I sternly looked at her, a very beautiful young woman, who's offer seem very strange to me.

She was offering me free vagina.
She was offering me free accommodation.
She was offering me free monthly (p€yment)

What a very fine offer I must say, but I truly never got enticed by her sweet offer. Although I knew in my heart of heart, I can do a lot better and will never agree to such an easy offer.

I didn't want to give her the feeling of rejection, so I told her I will look into her offer and will put her words into consideration. But first, let us travel to the island. When we got offshore, it was a world between oil workers and sex workers.

It was a strange world that is full of enjoyment and lust.

The next day, I went to see her in her cabin just to converse with her like a good friend. I asked her some questions about herself, including how much she makes from the sex work.

I was surprised she makes the same amount of money with some of the minimum shell oil staff.

She told me she makes 9/10K everyday, which is like 270K to 3000K every month. Because she is the most beautiful sexy gal among all the sex workers. Money like that in compare to our today currency is 1million naira plus of today.

I then asked her, do you enjoys the sex?

She said, no. She only feels the trushing but fees nothing at all.

She then looked at me like a hungry tigres and asked me to lay hold of her and hug her. I stretch fort my arms open for her to come. She walk towards me and sat on my lap and wrap hug me so tight while she lay her face on my shoulder. I guess she was a lonely gal who needed the warm hugs and soft touch of an affectionate man. smiley

I did not see her as a bad person, but I only see her as a girl who met the unfortunate of life. And my wish for her is that, God has delivered her and set her free from the bondage of marine spirit and prostitution.

The good thing is that, I never did have sex with her because I was not ready. Seven days later, I discovered she was making prayers and offering sacrifice at night to the mami water Spirit - goddess of the lake.

She was a mami (ogbanje) girl who was commission to be a sex worker.

In my ignorance, I never thought she was a water girl. In fact, she was the fourth mami girl I had encountered and escaped within few year.

Very early in the morning, I instantly left the island without her knowledge when she was asleep. And 7 months later, I became a multi millionaire back then.

God channelled me and opened financial doors for me that made me to become multi millionaire back then. Even after I left the island, I still had more encounter with more brutal marine girls.

In looking back now, I realize how the Devils will use many different ways to divert glorious guys from the right path which is God plans for their life. I was 21 years old at that time. If I had stay with that beautiful mami girl, I wonder what would have be of me.

It was the time of my life where I will make the right or wrong decision that must shape the journey of my life.

The end.
FamilyRe: The Life Of A Bachelor Is Not Easy At All. by Lostchild(op): 2:18pm On May 20, 2022
tayo60:
There are good girls out there, not only among market women, but the problem with you men is that, you look at d wrong place for a good woman. U don't know that, diamond are always in a rough!
I am 36+.
I still have years before I'll turn 40. I will wait till I get to the right location, then thoroughly shine my eyes and search.

I am praying and trying to get back on my feet.
FamilyRe: The Life Of A Bachelor Is Not Easy At All. by Lostchild(op): 2:11pm On May 20, 2022
Mindlog:
Eyah, Uncle lostchild is now in love with a market girl. cheesy
Mindlog
Last year I met this beautiful dark yellowish market girl in my home town. She heavily wanted to date me, but I was not ready to proceed. I was constantly on the move.

I still remember her till this day.

It took me many years to realize I was dating wrong women, which I greatly regret. For those guys that married market girls, they did the right thing. Forget their nagging and attitude.

It is in the nature of all women to nag.
FamilyRe: The Life Of A Bachelor Is Not Easy At All. by Lostchild(op):
I shun Nigeria girls - I hate their life of prostitution and I heavily despise all runs girls. I see most nigeria girls of today as useless because they are so greedy, fake and promiscuous.

In their greedy heart, they always want to only enjoy.

In their greedy heart, they do not want to suffer with any man.

In their greedy heart, they do not want to endure trials and learn patience.

They always want to eat, enjoy, eat, eat a well cooked food, without them enduring the heat and fire to cook the food. Even if you give them the undeserve well cooked food, they will never be satisfied. ⇓

Because a hoe will always be a hoe.

A rich handsome man was looking to date a good woman for marriage. He later found one and spent millions of naira in marriage. He paid her bride price and do church wedding.

He bought a car for her and employed an army military personel to be guarding his new wife wherever she goes.

Within that short period, do you know this lady started f'vcking her army body guard and was later caught?

This tells you how useless many of these Nigerian girls can be.
FamilyRe: The Life Of A Bachelor Is Not Easy At All. by Lostchild(op):
The best place for a man to pick a wife is via the market. Even the church is not that safe to pick a woman. You can find peace as a man by even marrying a tomatoes or fish seller.

My friend met a girl at the church. Both of them are even choiristers and they became good friends. Each time she came to visit my friend as a church member, she will discuss about her ongoing wedding plans. After her discussion, my friend will convince her and bang the hell out of her.

Each time she comes, she will talk about her fiance, her wedding and how everything was going smoothly over her upcoming marriage. After every discussion, my friend will f'vck her for hours.

Her fiance was paying for things for her dowry and marriage, while my friend was constantly banging her in his apartment. I was so angry and had a fierce quarell with my friend, that what he was doing with this 27 years old young woman was very wrong.

She was a choirister at the church, who was about to get married to a good man, and yet she was still f'vcking my friend, unknownly to the husband to be.

My idiotic friend heavily f'vck this new bride to be of another man for almost 30 consecutive days.

I was so furious with my guy because his brain is inside his p-nis.
FamilyThe Life Of A Bachelor Is Not Easy At All. by Lostchild(op):
1. Anytime I see extremely beatiful Nigeria women, I don't admire them because most of them have rotten brain. (pride)

2. Every time I see flashy women, I don't acknowledge them because they live rotten life style.

3. I used to date only damsels. I mainly do this to suit my ego, but life itself has thought me that, all that glitters, are not gold. Even the gold I am looking for, may be inside the dirt.

THE STORY

My mother gave birth to three handsome men. We grew up with our father and not with our mother. Part of our upbringing was that, we don't eat outside. This made me to become a good cook when I was 13 years of age. Even today as a man I don't even know how to eat outside in restaurant. If I am traveling, no matter the journey I just don't patronize restaurant. I can only buy snacks when traveling by road.

As a man I still do - go to the market to buy what I need for the entire week. But each time I want to go to the market, I get depressed.

Why?

Market women always asked me, why are you not married?

Men don't care at all if I am not married, but the women will constantly hits me with this question and expect me to give them the straight answer. Even if they don't ask me, I can still read it in their mind and sees it in their eyes.

I began to wonder what women normally do to their own fellow unmarried women.

Some will say to me, you need a wife.
Some will asked me, why are you not married?
Some will asked me, when will you marry?
Some will asked me, don't you have a wife?

Chaiii... angry

Their question always jolt me and makes me very uncomfortable and ashame. I was always afraid to tell them, I want to marry a western woman. This will even root more aggressive and unpleasant question from them, so I just keep mute or shyly smile away from them.

One day I went to the market to buy something different. As I pass by, I saw a young woman that sell something I need. I stopped and approach her. Babe, how much do you sell this?

She told me N1000

I asked her, will you sell it for me for N700?

She said, since I want to sell it for you on that price, then you will have to marry me.

I thought she was joking, no, she was damn serious. She knew I have no wife.

I was apalled by her confidence but at the same time appreciative. l cheesy

Of course, I will like to marry you I blurted out, but I am struggling. If I marry you, I will need to take good care of you and not want you to be exposed to the sun, neither will I want you to be in this open air. I need to care for you and love-vendor you to my taste.

She looked at me in silent and slowly turn her face away like thinking and being understanding to my words.

She slowly package the stuff for me, I paid and said to her, thank you. Although I could feel she was lonely and needed to be held by a good hands. I guess she was looking for a man she can build a life with and grow rich with, unlike all the other greedy hunt€rs out there.

Some part of me feels she was joking but some other thought feels, she just need a good man

IN MY OWN OPINION

I have seen and have converse with many of them beautiful market girls and I see almost thesame trait in them. I see that these market girls are young women of substance. They are business wise and will make good wives and help mate.

➫Market girls will make more of a better wives than office career women.
➫They can manage your home much better.
➫They can help and support the home much better in all difficult time.
➫They can endure hardship with you.
➫They are patient in all things.
➫They can toil and build a life with you.
➫They are more of family oriented than career women.
➫They will not easily cheat on you.
➫They are lowly in their expectations.
➫They can love and marry you for the man you really are.
➫They are not materialistic like the hunters.
➫They are gold miners.
➫The highest and most important, they don't have the history of runs / prostitution like the hunters.

It is now very difficult for a man to find a good Nigeria girl with no history of prostitution. In fact, prayers unto God is mandatory for one to marry a young Nigeria woman.

Nigeria young women and their greedy heart + materialistic mindset = has corrupted their soul and made them to trade their vagina. Even career women of today have history of prostitution.

But there is a saying, in every temptations and trials of life, there is always a way of escape.

Although I, myself will not marry any Nigeria woman, but if given the chance, I will humbly choose market girls over working career women.

Why?

I embrace virtue, sanity and peace of h♥eart.
FamilyRe: They Cut Off His Head Because Of This Mistake by Lostchild(op):
smiley
FamilyRe: They Cut Off His Head Because Of This Mistake by Lostchild(op):
Omihanifa:
Let me correct two things from this your write up. The Igbo guy didn't use a piece of Koran to wipe his ass. What he was used was a leaflet instructions of a medication, written in English and Arabic.

All those leaflet that we normally find inside packs of drugs ( you know they are written in different languages). So the illiterate guy that saw it assumed he tore the Koran simply because the guy wasn't a Muslim.

Secondly the above stated event took place in December 1994 and the name of the victim is Gideon akaluka.
Your correction is a confirmation and the reality of my story. I did't fully remember the year but I know from experienced, this happened in the early 90's when I was in primary school.

No one can be a hypocrite before God, for every man will reap the reward for all they have sown.
FamilyRe: They Cut Off His Head Because Of This Mistake by Lostchild(op):
If you compare what is to come to the north, and what is happening right now is like a dress rehearsal. The whole entire muslims will feel the gravity of their foolishness and idolatry.
FamilyRe: They Cut Off His Head Because Of This Mistake by Lostchild(op): 2:24pm On May 16, 2022
Nonam:
which of the northern state?
Plateau State
FamilyRe: They Cut Off His Head Because Of This Mistake by Lostchild(op): 12:48pm On May 15, 2022
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RomanceRe: Guys!!! Have A Lady Ever Wooed You Before? by Lostchild(m): 1:27am On May 15, 2022
Islandlady:
hm I smell lies grin
Honey
I don't share lies. You will believe when I share the story someday.
FamilyRe: They Cut Off His Head Because Of This Mistake by Lostchild(op): 1:03am On May 15, 2022
Writing...
FamilyRe: They Cut Off His Head Because Of This Mistake by Lostchild(op):
Those who do not know history are doom to repeat history.
FamilyThey Cut Off His Head Because Of This Mistake by Lostchild(op):
They Cut Off His Head

There are three reasons why I don't feel sorry for my northern Nigeria brothers over their suffering, destruction and death in the hands of boko haram and bandit.

1. All the killings and violents they suffer today in the hands of boko haram and bandits, is for the purpose of God discipline. The violent killings and destruction on northern Nigeria is God permissive will, to discipline them. God has allowed Satan to used boko haram to teach them many lessons, so that God Himself can pull them out of darkness to the light by 2035 upwards.

2. Boko Haram are Muslim jihadist and they kill Christians unbelievers as their faith commanded them to do, right?

3. Muslims are religiously reaping all they have sown.

THE STORY
In 1992, a Christian man from the south east Nigeria lives in the north. He was having a bowel movement and was heavily pressed. He was about to go and use the toilet but since there was no tissue paper, he started looking for any paper he can use to wipe and clean himself up after toilet.

In his findings he saw a piece of the Quran on the ground and he picked it up as he headed towards the toilet. Unknowing to him that a Muslim man saw him when he picked up a piece of paper from the sand.

The Muslim man followed him up just to see what he wanted to use it for. After this Christian man finished using the toilet, he came out and saw the inevitable (accusers)

His life on earth has come to an end because of a piece of paper that has inscription on it. Just one Muslim witness that testify against this non Muslim southern man, enrage all the Muslims in that community and they seize this man.

Because he mistakenly used a piece of paper from the Quran to clean his ass after using the toilet, they drag him away and used sharp big knife to cut his head off.

They hang his head to a long wood and started to display it on the air in every street as they chant and praise their god over their justice.

They celebrate and chant with joy; - Alla hu agbarho. Allah hu agbarho. May god and his holy prophet Mohammad be praise.

They were dancing and chanting that, they killed the Christian blasphemer who violate Islam and their holy book.

THE MESSAGE
The Quran and the founder of Islam failed to teach all Muslim that God is love. The Quran did not teach Muslims that, God is also the source of our craving to personally know and love him. Out of this love God took on a form that is comprehensible to us mortal beings.

Through this act of love we can now share in the joy of the Angels by seeing and knowing God directly. This is why the 'Truth of all truth' said; whoever has seen Me has seen the Father.

God knows well the inner state of every human being and reveals himself to each heart in accordance with its needs. There is no better way for a person to enter true spiritual life than by encountering God by himself. God became man and dwelt among us so that we might not fear or see Him as something strange, but instead see that Him God is love. In love God commanded us to love one another and forgive one another.

THE REALITY
Christianity carries the true light that drives out all darkness and leads us to bliss along the path of truth. Our Holy Bible thought us the basis of God's goverment - is the way of LOVE - and out going concern for the good and welfare of others. Love toward God in obedience, humility and worship - is the way of giving, sharing and helping one another

These above will bring out the truth, and show that we are truly the children of that God of love who gave His life to save us. You ought therefore to abide in that love and serve one another, and even give your lives to serve others.

These are the few areas where Islam has failed to teach all you Muslims about the Holy One.

God Himself.
RomanceRe: Guys!!! Have A Lady Ever Wooed You Before? by Lostchild(m): 3:52pm On May 14, 2022
Islandlady

Yes in several times. They will even stop me on the road and be toasting me.

One of them proposed she will be paying me $ wink
RomanceRe: How A White Gal Took My Friend To America by Lostchild(op):
womenareapes:
when I was in Canada way back then, (dating 2018) alot of African women are coming my way to the extent of proposing and striking a deal if I put a ring or even date them undecided

Even when refusals them started planning evils way to deal with me undecided

Why will I come to abroad to look for a Africa woman to marry when a lot of Asians, white Latina are all chasing you and want you to date them with overdose of love undecided
Which sense is it for me to follow my wicked female black species with bipolar mental disorders undecided

Don't let anybody decieve you that Africa America women are good! They are way useless and full of depression undecided

Is only in Nigeria that men are chasing those black piece of female, and as soon as them leave this country to abroad! No men will always come there way not talk less of to Strike a convo with that black female species.

THIS IS THE FIRST STAGE OF DEPRESSION.

The second stage is when for more than 8month them wont recognise the world "hi" because no men will come there way and say hi. And once they mistakenly heard the world "hi" them come into panick attack undecided

THIRD STAGE OF DEPRESSION: you start seeing them on YouTube posting rubbish in hope for a contact to contact them or ask for a date. And the good part is that them won see!

FORTH STAGE OF DEPRESSION: careful for this stage is one of the most dangerous stage. They will finally have the courage to approach after they have gotten tired of Thier dildos and intimacy gadget! Them fantasize the torch and smell of men after them haven't seen men approaching them for more than 1yr. Hence developing courage to approach men and when them do, they got a lovely rejection and hence developed the feminist trait. black women of this stage of depression will do everything in their means to implicate you or pull you down just because you reject there approach.

FIFTH AND FINAL STAGE OF DEPRESSION: this is a typical example of the op and what she is facing right now. Them started importing men from there route of origin (Africa especially Nigeria men).
Them will come down to Africa or seek the attention of there family members to look for a simpsgood man for them to marry after they have damage there life. And most of them got a child to whom they have been collecting child support from undecided

Be wise and dont fall prey to those black species.

Is always better to marry a fat white woman than to marry a black woman.

THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!
FamilyRe: Marriage Is Fake : Wedding Is More Of A Scam by Lostchild(op): 2:05pm On May 06, 2022
pappilo:
Bro whatever you do, do not, I repeat, do not get married! You will always regret it. I love my late dad, he was the best dad anyone could ask for but if I see him in the afterlife, I will ask him why he never told me the truth about marriage and advise me no to get married.

Love someone (with sense), have children, live together but never ever sign your life away. Finally do not let any woman you are with know everything about you.

The first thing that deteriorates after marriage is your sex life. I think its a psychological thing. Maybe the subconscious feeling that you've both got each other for 'life' messes with the brain.

I was married for 14 years. My ex-wife started a relationship with a work colleague and a month after using the police to kick me out of my house, the dude left his own family and moved into my house.

I was charged with several offences for an altercation I had with the guy when I caught him in my house. My ex-wife (we were still married at the time) the mother of my children came to the crown court to testify against me on his behalf. The jury saw through their lies and determination to send me to prison and acquited me on all charges (over 5)

Its been a few years but I still shudder at the thought that I believed so much in this woman and chose her over my own siblings.

Attached is msg I got from her this morning. This is despite her taking the house which I put down 66% of the deposit. This woman earns almost double what I earn and I pay her over a quarter of my net earnings for child maintenance.

You'll probably still go ahead and get married but its almost guaranteed that one day in the future you will look back and wish you heeded the advice of many people who told you not to
RomanceRe: How A White Gal Took My Friend To America by Lostchild(op): 2:01pm On May 06, 2022
pappilo:
Bro whatever you do, do not, I repeat, do not get married! You will always regret it. I love my late dad, he was the best dad anyone could ask for but if I see him in the afterlife, I will ask him why he never told me the truth about marriage and advise me no to get married.

Love someone (with sense), have children, live together but never ever sign your life away. Finally do not let any woman you are with know everything about you.

The first thing that deteriorates after marriage is your sex life. I think its a psychological thing. Maybe the subconscious feeling that you've both got each other for 'life' messes with the brain.

I was married for 14 years. My ex-wife started a relationship with a work colleague and a month after using the police to kick me out of my house, the dude left his own family and moved into my house.

I was charged with several offences for an altercation I had with the guy when I caught him in my house. My ex-wife (we were still married at the time) the mother of my children came to the crown court to testify against me on his behalf. The jury saw through their lies and determination to send me to prison and acquited me on all charges (over 5)

Its been a few years but I still shudder at the thought that I believed so much in this woman and chose her over my own siblings.

Attached is msg I got from her this morning. This is despite her taking the house which I put down 66% of the deposit. This woman earns almost double what I earn and I pay her over a quarter of my net earnings for child maintenance.

You'll probably still go ahead and get married but its almost guaranteed that one day in the future you will look back and wish you heeded the advice of many people who told you not to
FamilyRe: Women Are FAKE? by Lostchild(op): 1:56pm On May 06, 2022
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FamilyRe: What Is The Benefit Of Marriage To A Man in this present time? by Lostchild(m): 1:45pm On May 06, 2022
My Big Brother.

I love it so much when people share stories of broken moment. I feel touch over stories.

I will paste it into one of of my old thread. May God strengthen you in your difficult times. embarassed

pappilo:
Bro whatever you do, do not, I repeat, do not get married! You will always regret it. I love my late dad, he was the best dad anyone could ask for but if I see him in the afterlife, I will ask him why he never told me the truth about marriage and advise me no to get married.

Love someone (with sense), have children, live together but never ever sign your life away. Finally do not let any woman you are with know everything about you.

The first thing that deteriorates after marriage is your sex life. I think its a psychological thing. Maybe the subconscious feeling that you've both got each other for 'life' messes with the brain.

I was married for 14 years. My ex-wife started a relationship with a work colleague and a month after using the police to kick me out of my house, the dude left his own family and moved into my house.

I was charged with several offences for an altercation I had with the guy when I caught him in my house. My ex-wife (we were still married at the time) the mother of my children came to the crown court to testify against me on his behalf. The jury saw through their lies and determination to send me to prison and acquited me on all charges (over 5)

Its been a few years but I still shudder at the thought that I believed so much in this woman and chose her over my own siblings.

Attached is msg I got from her this morning. This is despite her taking the house which I put
down 66% of the deposit. This woman earns almost double what I earn and I pay her over a quarter of my net earnings for child maintenance.

You'll probably still go ahead and get married but its almost guaranteed that one day in the future you will look back and wish you heeded the advice of many people who told you not to
RomanceRe: What My Mother Told Me About Bride Price (dowry) by Lostchild(op):
I know that, all the nairaland WOMEN has blacklisted me.

My writtings has hurt them a lot which is very good. I am very glad to offend them all.

They should go and listen to one of my favourite song "No Way Jose by Baby Bash ft Akon"

Say I ain't got time.
RomanceWhat My Mother Told Me About Bride Price (dowry) by Lostchild(op):
What My Elderly Mother Told Me About Bride Price. (Dowry)

Last year I had the opportunity to seat down and converse many things with my elderly mother, as I question her over many things on Nigeria traditions that seem to puzzle me.

I questioned my mother and asked her about everything nigerians do today in the name of dowry and traditional marriage.

To my surprise, my mother told me that the original bride price or dowry of a woman in our today currency is N120, with kolanut and little drinks. And I believe the bride mostly leave her parents house as a virgin.

She plainly told me, all that people do today in the name of marriage is nothing but pure selfishness and greed.

No wonder, I always have doubt and see their tradition and marriage as a pure scam.

Have you ever wonder why Africa families are always hungry and poor?

It is because of greed which root our woes.

The greedy parents will heavily bill you and give you endless list of what to pay and buy just to marry a woman with high body count.

The list rage from 500K to 1.5 million. If you refused to pay them, they will persecute you. Even your own woman will be the one to constantly sing with it in your ears.

The Igbo's parents are the worst on this. My mother complained over the heavy billing they gave to my middle brother when he was marrying an Igbo babe. They billed my brother 100K on the dowry alone

Tradition and greed has made them all a bunch of hypocrite

Damnn. Nigeria is a funny place.

I am outta here.
Christianity EtcRe: How To Attract Money With Sugar, Rice, And Salt. by Lostchild(m):
This is a sacrifice for the hungry gods. grin
RomanceRe: by Lostchild(m):
My women here don't appreciate love poems. grin
FamilyRe: Why Are Trees Used As Shrines? by Lostchild(m): 4:44pm On May 05, 2022
Sweetooth:
Wow... I remember one time I traveled to my hometown, I was very much younger then. My Dad's bro warned me seriously against peeing in the Compound. I heard from my mum that there was a shrine in the compound but I've never set eyes on it... Everyone of my Dad's brothers are Christians even those in the village, I still do not understand why the tree is still there. Their parents are late, the ones living in the Compound are Church goers, Who then worships it?
I called out to God at night four days ago, I asked God to help me as I can no longer endure living with Nigerians.

As long as Nigerians continue with traditions, passed out to them by their fore-father, I see them all as idols worshipers.

Period.
FamilyRe: My Plans For The Future by Lostchild(op):
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FamilyRe: Why Are Trees Used As Shrines? by Lostchild(m):
Sweetooth:
I traveled from the North to the East. I saw lot's of Shrines in people's compounds, mostly at the entrance. Some of them built small houses for that purpose but a great number of them were trees. Is there a reason why?
The worship of idols is why Nigeria and India families irritate me. Inside those threes, are abode of demons.

Community and families destiny are cage in those ancestral threes. Even in my home state, there are ancestral threes and shrines in every towns and cities you enter. The people who planted these shrines and altars are dead, but their children still keep and serve them in the name of tradition.

If you genuinely look at all the tradition they upheld today, is highly rooted from paganism. When I complained here on nairaland about their evil tradition, one big fool quote me here telling me their tradition must be respected.

Just traveled to white countries and check to see if there is any ancestral threes and shrines. Also check their living..
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Please, pray against every ancestral threes in your family
FamilyRe: Why Are Trees Used As Shrines? by Lostchild(m):
Sweetooth:
I traveled from the North to the East. I saw lot's of Shrines in people's compounds, mostly at the entrance. Some of them built small houses for that purpose but a great number of them were trees. Is there a reason why?
It is their tradition and inheritance from their father's. An inheritance that has plunder them onto a life of misery.

Bunch of hypocrites.

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