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AutoChick4U:
look up to the hills where thy help comes from. You don't know d doors that would have opened with that singular act of kindness

Even the pregnant woman that came to me was even a very nice person.

Just that I have to run from myself.

Romanoff:
Not just women sir, for people in general.

Thank you

Some nairaland users insulted me heavily here when I wrote about why I care too much for women with their children. Even op said, he cannot help a single mother which is insane.

For me, I spend more on women because I have more soft spot for their children, including teenage girls, single teen mothers that are suffering.

I don't attach condition as long as you are a human.

Many people think I am stupid which I am not.

Wawelexy:
U should should have just overlooked the pregnant woman and his husband and help just for the sake of the innocent unborn child.... Not as if u did any wrong by not giving tho.

You have encourage me that I am not stupid and that I should always have compassion on women

buhariPLEASEdie:
Bro........next time just give what u could afford to loose without being paid back.,.......if not for anything the sake of the pregnancy........

Kinda bad........

You have shown me that I am not stupid and that I should always have compassion on women

I care so much for women always, they come to meet me for help because they cannot hide their pain.

She refuse to meet her fellow women for help.

She came to meet me for help because she believes that I will. But I refuse to help her because I was avoiding myself

Nigerians made me look like a foolish person.

I refuse to help a needy pregnant woman because I am running from my real self. Yes, I needed to save my peace and sanity

In 2018, I move to a new place, a married woman with children started and always comes to meet me to give her whatever she wants from me which I always do. One day, the husband came to me with anger, and told me to stay away from his wife. I said, OK.

Even If i use common sense - helping people I know has landed me in too many conflicts, they are just too over many for me to overlook anymore.

Because of the many years of constant betrayals that lead me to regret my life, I move to a new town and decide to start afresh. In the past I have shown too much financial care and love for women that backfire and work against me. So I decide to stay focus on myself for the first time in my life.

After living in this new place for about six months, a pregnant woman who also live in the same visinity ask me to help her. She told me to lend her some money.

She told me that, she had not eaten since morning and she wants to cook something to eat and her hubby is out of town and will be back later.

She told me she will refund me when her hubby comes back, she was pregnant, hungry and need help.

I badly wanted to but I instantly had many flash back and I told her, I don't have the money right now. I told her, why can't you go and meet that your fellow woman down there? she may be able to help you, she replied me with God forbid.

The money she asked me, I have it in my base, multiple times over but I refuse to give her. I painfully refused to help her because nigeria society has made me look like a fool.

To save my peace - I just have to only help strangers and not give help to the people I know

Did I do wrong?

What do you think?

badaatum; Tell me what I did wrong..

Nabanga; You can report me to the police

Emotionalbeing; Tell me what you think on the above thread.

nnamdiosu; What do you think?

VTJN ; You can see I am no more concern about women.

eyinjuege; You can reveal more of your demon and call me pedophile

OlawaleBammie:
If u continue to behave due to ur past experience, u will be soo bitter even towards ur mother

I am glad to share this because some cold heartless nairaland users are insulting me because of my kind heart towards women.

I refuse to help a needy pregnant woman because I am running from my real self. Yes, I needed to save my peace and sanity

In 2018, I move to a new place, a married woman with children started and always comes to meet me to give her whatever she wants from me which I always do. One day, the husband came to me with anger, and told me to stay away from his wife. I said, OK.

Even If i use common sense - helping people I know has landed me in too many conflicts, they are just too over many for me to overlook anymore.

Because of the many years of constant betrayals that lead me to regret my life, I move to a new town and decide to start afresh. In the past I have shown too much financial care and love for women that backfire and work against me. so I decide to stay focus on myself for the first time of my life.

After living in this new place for about six months, a pregnant woman who also live in the same visinity ask me to help her. She told me to lend her some money.

She told me that, she had not eaten since morning and she wants to cook something to eat and her hubby is out of town and will be back later.

She told me she will refund me when her hubby comes back. She was pregnant, hungry and need help.

I badly wanted to but I instantly had many flash back and I told her, I don't have the money right now. I told her, why can't you go and meet that your fellow business woman down there? she may be able to help you, she replied me with God forbid.

The money she asked me, I have it in my base, three times over but I refuse to give her. I painfully refused to help her because nigeria society has made me look like a fool.

To save my peace - I just have to only help strangers and not give help to the people I know

Did I do wrong?

What do you think?

NaBanga:
We will watch your posts in case we need to report your behavior. Nigerian police move into action when money is involved. I am willing to put something into their pockets to protect innocent children.

Don't let my kind heart pain you. But since it does, you can go an hang yourself and die.

Nabanga

Do you think Americans are suffering poverty like your Nigeria families?

Pinkzebra:
Lostchild , you need healing from the soul ..you complain terribly about your relationship with others , especially women . I wonder if.you have fond memories

Thank you for understanding my ordeal in deeper level.

Thank you

budaatum:
His behaviour would not be accepted in UK neither. The parents would likely stop their daughters visiting him or and they'd call the cops on him!

Recent child abuse events make it inevitable, so long as the parents are not irresponsible.

NaBanga

The problem both of you have is that, you people are fault-finders.

That female child reference was made by saphiere on her last thread that hit the front page of a man who was accused of raping a two year old girl.

Make una two get sense

VTJN:
Why are you so concerned about the female gender? What happened to the male gender?

Anyways, I'm a stranger too as you don't know me yet, so come and help me

Yes, I spend my money a lot on women, because I have sisters.

But right now, I only help men and men only

greenie77:
If as a father you see your 2 year old daighter in the apartment of your neighbour who is a bachelor and probably lives alone, only in his boxers in the presence of your daughter.... will you give him.a hi-five?

Being in that state of being only in one's boxers in the presence of a child is very inappropriate, worse is one not biologically yours!

Greenie
Let me agree with you. In this life, we should not allowed people daughters to come near us (men).

We should not help them either.

Naturally, I only allow male kids into my apartment becos I like male kids a lot.

I am even desiring to have only male kids

Nabanga

Do you think Americans are suffering poverty like your Nigeria families?

eyinjuege:
You really sound and it seems you act as a pedo, grooming his prey.
Stop it

I don't need a prophet to tell me you are possessed with demons

nnamdiosu:
Bros. There's something called helping from a distant.
When you buy biscuit for a 2 year old child that isn't your relative, wave her bye and go home alone. your house isn't a biscuit factory.

Even in good, we need to be wise and apply common sense.
You can help someone, meet them in public, do the good you have in mind and go your own way.

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100% correct.

In fact I no longer allow them to come near me.
I help strangers only and go my separate ways.

mariahAngel:
You need to understand that you’re peculiar, and you probably do things in a way that most people find strange.
The reason why it seems like the whole world is against you could be because you do and understand things differently from how majority do.
You’re odd (which isn’t a bad thing).
You need to learn more about and understand yourself and your relationship with people (the way you relate with others).
The more you learn to understand that you’re different, the less likely you will be offended by people.
Also, you need to learn to do things right.

Angel Mariah

I truly thank you for your encouragement and I also fancy your life in understanding things in deeper level.

In 2016 I was walking around my hood, when I saw a mentally sick (mad) woman, carrying a child of about 2 years old. I was sadden because the baby look so lean and dirty as a result of suffering. I stopped, walk a bit closer as I stare at the beautiful child.

The mad woman kept looking at me, while I fix my whole attention on the baby. For me, I badly wanted to go and collect the child from her, but I can't because I am not at the right position to do that. I was lost and sadden in my thought as I grieve that I live in a society that is upside down.

If I see a woman taking care of her own child, for me, I see it as a humanitarian work for God.

If I see a woman suffering because of her child (ren), for me, she deserve to be paid or compensated because of the suffering the child has brought to her life.

When teenage girls need help and no one is ready to help them, they go into prostitution and do things beyond their control.

When a single mother need help and no one wants to help, she goes into prostitution for the sake of her child.

This is why I keep trying my best despite all adversary, and no matter the wisdom I used in doing things right; the enemy will manipulate every kind act, to back fire and work against me.

In order for me to retain my sanity and continue with my purpose here on earth, I had to come up with a different strategy to show kindness and give help to strangers - the people I don't know.

budaatum:
Don't you see what's not quite right here?

It may be wrong in Nigeria society because of the insanity of many Nigeria lustful men.

But in my own oersonel, there is nothing wrong if a 13 years old girl is in my life. In a place like america, she can be in my life as long as I did not try to mollest her.

When a young teenage girl with vision cannot find a helper, she will go into prostitution.

When a single mother cannot get help - she goes into prostitution just to care for her child.

Even the mother of the 13 year old girl was very please with me, but I had to withdraw from her because I saw the evil coming in.

Nigeria is an evil place.
Nigeria is place of selfishness
Nigeria is a place of greed.
Nigeria is a place fit for abnormal people

Nigeria is a place where evil strive

There are many things the devils will not succeed in doing in America but they will succeed in doing it Nigeria

I forbid this land because LOVE does not lead.

Lamanii22:
Maybe your help should be online since physical ones don't appreciate you.... Help mother's with kids on heree... You can start wiv me though...

You made me but I care more on what I see

Strangers only.

Emotionalbeing:
Terrible things happen everywhere.. I've seen a case of a 3yrs old baby girl been raped by a 27yrs old guy here in Lagos..
You might be different but why will a 2yr old girl follow you to your apartment and you just remove your clothing and you're putting on only boxers.. Is somehow sha..

Point of correction. I was making reference here. No two year old little baby girl followed me into my apartment.

But if I may asked? what is wrong if a 2yr old baby girl enters my apartment?

What is wrong if I remove my shirt and wear only boxer in my apartment as all men normally do?

Your shallow thought like the one above is the reason why Nigeria society will remain upside down. Even the western countries, their goverment will take your own baby from you if you failed to give the child the life he/she deserve.

Any society that failed to embrace love and selflessness like Nigeria will remain backward.

Selfishness destroy

A single mother was in great need. She was starving as there was no food for her to eat. As a humanitarian, I instantly scan her and knows that she need food as none was willing to go and help her.

Because her hubby traveled, I began to make plans on how to go an help her because she desperately need help.

I instantly heard a voice that said to me, do not try it, the women inside her yard will falsely accused you of f'vcking her. I held back.

Within a week, she fell sick and was taken out for medicare because she was not able to go through more stress with the little baby.

Within days, there was a heavy rumour - quarelling and fighting within the women that surround her. They falsely accused her that she was sick because of fornication against her baby which is not true.

They quarrel and fight over her on her behalf for 5 consecutive days because of them say, you say, I say, even though the person was in sick bed somewhere

Very useless set of women.

In 2016, one foolish person almost accused me of having sex with a young teenage girl I was helping. She wept bitterly because it sound like a manipulation, and I too was full of regret spending my money on something that back-fire, but life goes on

So In 2017, I move to a new neighborhood because of evil women and their troubles. In this new place, a 13 years old girl was attracted to me because she love God and saw that I always engage myself in spirituality a lots. She likes me so much and wanted to be my friend of which I was willing to accept her and genuinely cares for her. She shared many of her struggles with me and I was even willing to help and finance her education.

I instantly withdraw from her because evil was around me. Yes, evil humans will instantly suspect and falsely accused me of wanting to f'vck her. Such evil thing has never or will never even enter my mind.

Satan has powerful hold over them.

At age 13 I started liking little children so much and you know, kids will always love anyone that knows how to play with them and care for them.

Even as an adult I always have children friends wherever I go. I will jist with them, play with them, will kiss them, hug them, and tell these kids how much I love and care for them. I have not started having kids of my own yet but that doesn't stop me from loving the kids of others.

I always tries to help, whenever I see a woman suffering with her children. I will do everything within my power just to give her the help she need because of the well being of her children. I can spend my last penny for her because I do not want any child to go through my child-hood experience of suffering.

I grew up in suffering and experience so much abused as a child.

All these good qualities above in me changed, the very day a woman I don't even know, accused me of wanting to kidnapp her own children in 2017.

I have never seen this woman in my life before. I don't even know the children she was talking about. That very day, I received the worst slap and beatings of my life. They were dragging me on the sand, they felt so happy that, they have caught a child kidnapper. It was God intervention that save me.

When she was speaking and bearing witness, I just felt the presence of demon, using her body to speak and accused me. It was after God save me is when I realize I was inside a street where there is anti-robbery and anti kidnapped police station. (Area Command Division)

It was Almighty God that heavily set a way for me to escape the devils trap that day.

Since that very day, I no longer like or allow people children to come near me. Anytime I see a child, the memory of that events will flash in my mind. I completely lost compassion for women with children even though they are struggling. I no longer feel their pain.

THE MESSAGE

Example
Imagine if in kindness I bought a biscuit for a 2 year old girl. She came to my apartment like a friend while she play and ate her biscuit in my house. Inside my house, I was shirtless and I wear only my boxer as all men normally do.

A person who saw the little girl entering my house, start allerting neighbours and accusing me that I wanted to f'vck the child.

How can a man be fasely accused of wanting to f'cvk a two years old baby ?

I have continously seen this kind of accusation only in nairaland - Nigeria

I keep wondering how Evil Nigeria society has become

saphiere

Keep bearing false witness, tarnishing the image of a person who does you no harm.

Keep doing the work of your father - the devil. I am sure, you will receive the wages of Satan.

bmdmix11:
the 13 no get name shey.
make dem dey deceive u there.

not even holy spirit na fallen angel

[quote author=daddytime post=1m post=105933598]Arrangee by all involved...

Do not be naive..

You'd be amazed at what length people go to set up churches, attract customers, and make money.

Do not be deceived my dear.

All na work and wash..[/quote]I 1000% disagree with you because I know the prophet too well.

BUT

It s just fine if you don't believe

yellowgarri2:
you have forgotten me

I even kept your first time contact email but I didn't say a word as there is time for everything. You are not patient.

I once saw on TV in a church deliverance, a fallen angel from among the cosmic spirit was speaking through the vocal chord of a man, and the demon said something that marveled me to this day.

The demons look at the people and said, among the more than 10,000 believers and some pastors inside the congregation, only 13 persons are truly serving God

I was shocked up till this day, that many who thought they are truly serving God, will only find themself dissapointing

I saw a prophetic service, where a man went to church and was asking God for help. God directed His prophet and brought the man out. The prophet prophesy something unexpected to the man that marveled me to this day.

On a sunday church service, the seer prophesy and old the man that, his wife is currently in a hotel room with another man. He prophetically gave the hotel name, street address and the hotel room number and told the man to go straight to the hotel and caught the woman red handed. He also told the man to bring with him his wife, from the hotel straight the church and the man left. I began to wonder why God would revealed such a sensitive info that will end a marriage.

The man went to the hotel prescribe to him by the prophet and caught his wife in the hotel room with a man, he took the woman straight to the church. I watched to see how God will handle the whole adulterous act.

The prophet told the man that God wants him to forgive his wife. He told the man that, he need to forgive his wife because he too need forgiveness because the man himself has been having secret sex with the younger sister of his wife.

Even the wife was shocked, because she was hearing this for the first time.

I learn that, God is the author of peace, harmony and not of division.