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MEN; If you marry a Nigeria woman, you have married more problem to your life.

You better be prepared

I will be resting and enjoying myself in (SoBe), why I pray for you to overcome.

I wanted to be silent for a while but I had to create this thread because one mumu nairaland female was telling me to change my mindset about Nigeria women.

The only thing I have seen in this life is that 95% of Nigeria women are terrible, period.

I have met many women in my life that, I have become so convince that 95% of nigeria women are toxic and wicked in nature.

All my life I carried Nigeria women on my head, the more I tried to help and lift them up, the more they keep draging me down. Nigeria women spiritually and physically drag me down to the point where I became homeless.

The devils used nigeria women to drag me down to the point where I became physically and emotionally down. As I am now, I can never make any life decision base on any woman on earth.

NIGERIA WOMEN HAVE SHALLOW SOUL

Nigeria women can praise you today and curse your life tomorrow.

A nigeria woman can pray for you today and swear for you to die tomorrow.

A nigeria woman can give you a plate of food, she will tell the world that, she is the one feeding you.

If you reveal your secret to any woman, you die well.

Nigeria women are very selfish people, they can never help a suffering man but they expect a man to help them.

If a nigeria woman help you - God is heavily involve

Nigeria women will not give you anything for free - unless she is a selfless and Godly soul

If you want to buy something from a nigeria woman, she will heavily cheat you because you are a man.

They quarrel like crazy.
They gossip like hell.

If you are a broke man - nigeria women will be the one mocking you. A man can never look down on you but nigeria women will make you to commit suicide if you are poor

If you marry a Nigeria woman, don't get broke. If you get broke, you are finished.

MY EXPERIENCE

Devilish nigeria women almost killed me many times - It was the mighty hand of God that save me

Nigeria women drain me financially -

Nigeria women ruine my beautiful life.

Nigeria women turn my world upside down

I have lost more than 400 million naira because of useless nigeria women.

I lost many of my properties because of cold hearted Nigeria women.

I became homeless for 1yr because of nigeria women.

Women land-ladies gang up against me, evicted me and threw all my properties out of my apartment and it was nigeria men that still rescue me.

I suffered and raised money again- blood sisters scattered my money and made me more homeless.

I move from one town to another and finally rent somewhere to start afresh. I had to move out of the place within two months because of landlord wife, that is making the life of everyone a hell. Even her hubby feel like dieing.

I move to another town again and settled down there as a tired drain person, I also fled the place within two months because of a crazy nigeria women single neighbors.

I became homeless again - Then I endlessly search and I found an apartment in nice neighborhood, I was surprised that, the owner was a very young woman who inherited the place from late father. I explained to the young lady that, I am homeless because of many unexpected event that happened to me.
She told me to pay her 12 months. I pleaded with her to accept 11 months rent and that within 18 days I will bring 12k and fulfill all her demand. She told me to my face that, she doesn't care if I am homeless. I began to plead with her, I began to beg her to save me from homelesness. I plead and promised to give her the remaining 12k within three weeks.

She said to my face, all she cared about is money. I started running helter and sketer and went to meet those who I help that own me money. I went back there in a hurry to pay her, she has already rent the place to someone else who paid her in full. As I was about to live, she told me, didn't I tell you I will give it to anyone who meet her needs?

I said to myself, if this lady is a guy - he would be compassionate to his fellow homeless man

I left the young lady with pains and as I walked inside the rain- I started weeping and I said, God, why have you abandoned me ?.

I later move to my sister place - She started giving me scam format - within 9 days, when she saw I was not falling for her scam tactics, she asked me to leave her house which I did within 10 days

I move to another town, where I settled just to rest to regain my sanity.

In this new place, two of the crazy and sick minded nigeria women + landlady instantly started troubling me. I almost beat one of them.

I sat down one day and I asked myself - WHY, WHY ?

I began to weep and silently mentioned the name of my elder brother - He warned me many times concerning nigeria women but I failed to see his own life that, it was nigeria women that destroyed him.

RenerdsMedia:
That's right, the only woman in my life is very much independent, she chose me herself and I couldn't resist cause she understands me a lot.
I am a bit cold and blunt, so choosing a woman for me as always been almost impossible, keeping one without her own interest will lead to quarrels, cause I got no time catching feelings

This days, you are lucky if you find a good woman.

Romanoff.

This has nothing to do with being a christian, it has to do with my mental health.

I have always done what is right, by not allowing my past to influence my present. I tried continue in virtue but I know what I saw and I know what I have seen.

Women you see has done me more evil for many years. For many years I focus my attention in solving the problems of people while I neglect myself. The most painful thing is that, the same people will becomes the devils weapon against me.

In my own life experience, it has become a crime for a man to help another's man wife.

It has become an evil thing for a man to help an encourage a teenage girl

It has become an evil thing to show love to another's man children

It has become an evil thing to care for peoples children even though their parents is still alive.

I always do things and make too many sacrifices out of genuine selfless love towards women

I have decide; let them carry their own cross

When a person keep labouring for many, many years with no benefit, he will need to rest.

I am a tired person:
I have tried. I think I need rest.

Mercychen:
Why are you now telling us?
A helpless and needy person came to you for help, and you know the right thing to do but refused and you're coming to say it here to receive an applause or what?

Look, this boy. You need to change this your mentality about women that you got as a result of an ordeal with the female members of your family because It seems to have reduced you to nothing but a beast.

Can you listen to yourself? A preggy woman. Two people at that. SMH.

You better change this your attitude towards women as you're beginning to sound irritating like someone I know who because a lady refused to date him, started calling every lady a LovePeddler and behaving like a kolo mental all over the place to the point everyone started avoiding him.
By the time he realized and tried to amend his ways, it was already too late as no body wants to associate with him again.

So you better change now and stop creating hateful and spiteful threads about women before it's too late.

Las Las, na woman born you.

Old Mama
SHUT UP YOUR ROTTEN MOUTH

RenerdsMedia:
Although I'm not married, I notice most housewives are promiscuous, why?
They are mostly idle.

Get someone that has her own interest instead, not one that only desires to please her husband

I understand your point in deeper level.

In Nigeria it's good to marry a career woman.

Just that, I see things differently.

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incogni2o:
That you can shout on any day any time abi

I always feel that career women has too much ego and an can easily cheat.

Although, anyone can cheat

Snitch24:
Godforbid bad thing

My brother
If you are heavily loaded with c$sh, you will not be looking for a career woman.

I trust in God as my financial provider - so I will not live a life where one career wife will support me financially.

I prefare a beautiful house-wife.

Very beautiful and calm in nature.

mosdii:
1. Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
2. Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
3. Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
4. Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
5. Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

chatinent:
There's nothing like wife material. Wetin fit look like Senator material dey still turn out to be Ankara. Just pick your devil, tame, and be a good tailor.

- Chatinent, 2021.

I will continue to have empathy for suffering children.

jesusjnr2020:
You know one thing I give to the demons, is that they know the truth more than most Christians even though they don't walk in it.

They know who is who and are never deceived as men are.

During the days of Jesus, while the supposed people of God were busy persecuting and opposing Him, the demons were worshipping and acknowledging His Lordship.

Jesus already foretold us these things, about many Christians including many anointed ones not being allowed entry into God's Kingdom but being cast into the lake of fire instead, so what demon, as devilish as it is, is simply confirming that truth.

Let Christians keeps deceiving themselves instead of heeding these warnings and consequently repent, what awaits them is many surprises on that day.

You have said it all. I have nothing to add to your truth.

donbachi:
Abeg share the advantages.

The ministry of help is a ministry that attract prosperity and God's blessings in two ways.

You need to understand that, there are two type of prosperity.

1. Prosperity through the law.
Prosperity through the laws works by giving and receiving. As you give, you will recieve in multiple fold.

2. Prosperity through grace.
This prosperity is the highest. It will come after your many years of persistent tenancity in trials. You will receive the never ending flow of God favor or the abundant river of God blessings.

This prosperity is extreme, I mean you will prosper to the point where you are distributing blessings to others. Just like Joseph of the bible or the last part of job life. It is like all the doors of heaven will be open unto you. Even your children will be blessed, deep unto deep generational blessings.

There are even many wealthy executives who are secretly into the ministry of help for many years. They are very rich and they can only reach out to the sufferers through other trusty's

Many of today's NGO's, or people who works for charity's, or help centers, are doing the work base on their selfish gains. But those who genuinly is called by God, who selflessly practice and fulfill all the above con's and sacrifices of their life in servitude, will receive the prosperity of grace.

For you to receive prosperity from grace, you need to understand how the grace of God works. The grace of God will subject you to suffering and conform you into Godlikeness, this is where your physical character will be tested for many years as you need Godly character to maintain God blessings. Your selfishness and lust will be dealt with because you will need Godly character to maintain God blessings. Just as Joseph and job has their heart tested for many years.

The ministry of help, carrys too many favours that is more than my scope of reasoning

I will try as much to share more about the advantage later.

The Advantage

The ministry of help is a ministry that attract prosperity and blessing in different phases of one's life. It is like a blessings that first comes through the laws of God - then proceed to the grace of God. Grace is where one will begin to prosper and later grow to distribute prosperity.

There are two type of prosperity in God. Prosperity from the law of God and prosperity from grace of God.

1. Prosperity Through The Law
•As you help others, you will also be helped.

•As you give to others, you will also receive in multiple fold

•Whatever you touch will prosper.

2. Prosperity Through Grace
•All doors of grace on favor will be open unto you. Money 💸 will chase you.

•All Your heart desires will be given unto you in abundance and above measures.

•Whatever you like, will be brought to you in many fold.

•Whatever you touch will prosper

•Anyone close to you will be bless.

•Financial Doors 💰🚪

•Fame

•Glory and honour. 👑

•Generational blessing extended to your kids.

•Peace of heart 💖. Because the blessings of God added no sorrow

There are different type of ministry in God

The Prophetic Ministry
The Apostolic Ministry
The Evangelic Ministry
The Pastoral Ministry
The Teaching Ministry (school teachers).

There is still another ministry called "the Ministry Of Help". This ministry of help and servitude is the most highest calling of all creation.

God Himself has called me fulltime into this ministry of help. It is the highest calling among all the Sons of God.

What Is The Ministry Of Help?
The ministry of help is a ministry of servitude, love, care and helpfulness. This is the ministry where a person will live to be of benefit to others, and to attend to the need of others first. It is a ministry of love, kindness and sacrifice, where you are called to help in diminishing the suffering of others.

You are called to share the misery which lies upon the world.

The ministry of help is a heavenly ministry that is brought forth to earth. It is the highest calling of creation and one of the most brutal and sacrificial ministry a person will be called into on earth.

The Cons
•You must have the ability to serve the common good of humanity.

•You are natured, caring, hospitable, meek and humble.

•You will not be able to enjoy your life for many years.

•You will have to sacrifice your life for others

•You will constantly put yourself under the service of others, by doing the good will of others.

•Your life will constantly be under the service of humanity.

•Your life will constantly be under the influence and control of God and His Angels.

•You cannot do as you like.

•Your life will constantly be under attack by enemies.

•Your life will constantly be in danger.

•You cannot party or engage in revelry.

•You must be celibacy or married.

•You are not allowed to fornicate or fvck any chick as you like.

Those who are called into this ministry of help, you will find some of them in places like charity organisations, orphanage homes and more help foundations. It is a heavenly ministry and a calling to suffer for others and to live for the well being of others.

The ministry of help has it's own advantages

buhariPLEASEdie:
Bro.........

Forget bout Samaritans this is Nigeria.......
Help only when it comes to your mind........
Do not help girls/women often.........they will take u for granted/ingrates.......that will get u hurt once more...........

You are a correct wise man

100 % √√

budaatum

Since my unconditional love for children is giving you concern, You should just go and hang and die.

VTJN:
>:

I love this your ministry

Do not like my ministry.

This ministry of help is one of the most brutal calling in life. I have been doing it for 17 years.

Many times I tried to run away from it, but find myself doing it.

You will not be able to enjoy your life

Spherical77:
Why can't you help the VTJN guy? You think everybody online ain't real?

If truly you now concentrate on helping men. What stopped you from helping the VTJN guy?

What stopped you from asking for evidence to prove his identity and if truly he's in need?

You are deceiving yourself you don't know. You think you have sense or better than those who render help online and offline?

Not until you prove yourself by helping the VTJN guy who asked for your help as a man, then you are a deciet. There are real and genuine people online that you can help. Also, there are fake people too online.

SHUT UP
He tell you say he need help.

eyinjuege

You are a devil, only devils have the kind negative energy that you have.

Your demon is not welcome here.

Jesusjnr2020

What motivated me to open this thread is that, some nairaland users heavily insulted me, they called me a pedophile, a child rapist suspect because I narate how I genuinely care for other people children.

Since childhood I have always live in forgiveness, by not allowing my past to influence my present which can cause hindrance the future. I tried to forgive and continue in virtue. My past keep repetiting itself like a circle. I became tired and felt maybe it is because I refuse to act. I thought I should no over look the evil deed of men anymore.

For many years I focus my attention in solving the problems of people while I neglect myself. The most painful thing is that, the same people will becomes the devils weapon against me.

In my own life experience, it has become a crime for a man to help another's man wife.

It has become an evil thing for a man to help an encourage a teenage girl

It has become an evil thing to show love to another's man children

It has become an evil thing to care for peoples children even though their parents is still alive.

My thought is pure. I always do things and make too many sacrifices out of genuine selfless love towards men, especially women

I have decide; let them carry their own cross

When a person keep labouring for many, many years with no benefit, he will need to rest.

I am now tired:
I have tried. I think I need rest.

jesusjnr2020:
Thanks be to God bro. It's an honor to serve.

What I'm saying here is from person experience, because i've been maliciously on several occasions before, including here in this forum. For instance, a lady here that was determined to bring me down at all costs, despite that I had been good to her and devoted a lot of time and effort to help her grow spiritually. Despite all she did to assassinate my character here over a year ago, up til date, I'm still praying for her and her family and wish her well.

I'm not necessarily doing it for her, but for myself, because I learnt from Jesus how important it was for us to forgive those who trespass against us. He said if we don't forgive others theirs, God wouldn't forgive us ours.

Having known what was required of us, although it wasn't easy for me at all, I must admit, but I asked God to help me to forgive as He had commanded us, since it was mandatory for us to do so, and He helped me, so now it's much easier for me to do so. It's been that glaring that some here have testified to that effect and desired to grow to that level of grace.

What you ought to understand is that following Christ can be likened to carrying a cross, living a life of humility and suffering, where it's not supposed about you, but about God, whom you're serving. Hence when you suffer and persecuted for righteousness sake, and doing what God instructs you to do, take it as part and parcel of what comes with the life you live, and that you're doing it for God and not for man. And you'd be rewarded and blessed for it, for blessed are those who do such and great is their reward in heaven.

It's not easy but you need it, and with God it is possible.

God bless.

Thank You

AutoChick4U:
A kind heart does not need any validation to be kind. Use d good Samaritan as an example

The good samaritans help the strangers

VTJN:
Good

I am a man, a stranger that you don't know. why can't you help me?

I have remove my attention from women and focus on men who have lost all hope of ever obtaining a better life

But I don't do online.

I care so much on what I see

This is my ministry

Sonnobax15:
Guy,you know nothing.....These so-men of God knows how to mastermind these things.....I'm speaking from experience here..

I understand

Sonnobax15:

Op,tho I understand your point cha...But you suppose know say every kind gesture wey you show to your fellow man today,na only God go fit reward you back......

You should have considered her condition prior to the baby she's carrying.....Tho some people will say what of the man who got her pregnant? Like why didn't he provide her needs since he's the one responsible for her pregnancy before leaving town? But sometimes we've got to have human sympathy for our fellow man instead of classifying every NIGERIAN as an evil person

I was avoiding my past. I was also avoiding the hubby

In 2014, I was falsely accused of f'vcking someone I was helping. It led to extreme chaos if not the fact that I was very calm and meek.

I had to avoid helping people around me to save my peace

jesusjnr2020:
You need to forgive their trespasses against you, otherwise, trust me, it would hinder you one way or another from becoming all that God desires for you to be.

I may not know the gravity of what they might have done to you and it may not be easy to let go, but you need to do so for your own good.

So sincerely ask God to help you surmount such bitterness so that you'd be able to move on from it to better things.

God bless.

Thank you for your words.

Two women physically did something to me in 2018 that made me full of regret and I promised myself not to show compassion on women around me.

I was full of regret that I care too much over the life of others

I always feel I was stupid to not focus on myself.

I always feel I was stupid to not care for myself

I keep having many flash back

MrBrownJay1:
if normal people who knew her didnt want to help nor did she want to ask them, then something is fishy... but you have all the right to NOT Want to give her money... just because someone is pregnant doesnt mean you should automatically bow to any of their demand.

if the guy who got her pregnant didnt provide for her then where is your fault in that?

In the past I use to focus my attention on women so much without even thinking about the men that got them pregnant.

Right now, I am tired of myself
I had to run from myself.

I need rest.

SportsHD:
I always look forward to your threads. Trust me, I understand what you're going through.

But, you need to purge that feeling that everyone wants to use you. I know you might've just avoided a slippery slope but, you could've considered the fact that she was pregnant.

I was running away from myself
I was advoiding myself
I was tired of myself and need rest.

Benki003:
Talk no more ur name says everything about you

You said this because you have no sense at all.