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RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Prefers Sucking To Sex by Lostchild(m): 2:19pm On Sep 26, 2021
BonPatrick

Run from that person. You will regret your life.

Words are enough for the wise.
FamilyRe: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(op): 2:16pm On Sep 26, 2021
CsRockefeller:
The Book of Proverbs spoke a lot about your kind. Your foolishness is your greatest undoing.
KEEP QUIET.
And stop quoting scripture to justify your ignorance

I don't have time for ignorant you
FamilyRe: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(op): 1:57pm On Sep 26, 2021
I need those western babe that value flowers.

Me and nigeria women no rhyme at all
FamilyWhy I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(op):
I started laughing this morning when I remember my past relatie .

All my life I have been the one spending on people, especially women. I will spend and spend and spend and spend and spend and give and spend and give and spend and give until I became tired of giving without receiving anything from these nigeria women

The only gift I have ever receive from any Nigeria woman is a singlet. It came from the girlfriend of a child-hood friend of mine who gave it to me as a gift of appreciation. She bought me that singlet because I genuinly cares about her well being.

I felt I was over caring which is not healthy for my well being, o I decide to be stingy just to mellow my relationship.

I started looking for a woman that will genuinly care for me. I wanted a genuine woman but how can I find one when all Nigeria women believes that men must be the one to constantly care and spend on them ?

THEN, I STOP LOOKING FOR A CARING WOMAN

GIRL 1
Relunctantly, I started dating one. She was a working young woman. She works and receive almost 30k a month.

She: tells me, I love you.
Me: silent - no respond
She: I love you
Me: You don't love me
She: I love you
Me: You don't
She: I love you
Me: Please don't disturb me with your words.
She: I love you
Me: Stop.
She: You must accept it that I love you
Me: You don't know what love is
She: How can I show you I truly love ?

Me: If you want to show me you truly love me, spend some of your money on me.

Me: use your money to show me you cares for me.
She: I can't spend my salary money on you, I can't.
Me: But you also want me to spend my money on you?
She: You are a guui
Me: Really?
She: Yes

Me: OK, keep your money, while I keep mine.
Me: let us fv'ck and and pleasure ourselves .

Two weeks Later.

Me: Babe, if you are hungry, always go to the kitchen and fill your stomach, eat as you like.
She: filled her stomach
Me: babe, sweep and tidy the crib
She: I can't
Me: Ok
She: I want to do my hair.
Me: How much?
She: 4K
Me: How long will you carry that air?
She: 3 weeks
Me: I don't have.
She: You are a stingy boyfriend
Me: OK.

A month later
Me: Babe, are you are hungry?
She: Yes
Me: Go to the kitchen and cook for us
She: I don't want to cook abeg.
Me: I went into the kitchen and cook.
She: fill her stomach with what I cook.
She: I want to buy a jean trouser and that and also do my hair.
Me: How much
She: Total = N15000
Me: I don't have.

Me: I silently said, I will not waste my money on nonesense.

Me: that money is enough for me to buy a bag of rice and 20 litr oil for that my favourite widow and her children..

She: You are very stingy person.
Me: you don't know my personel.
She: I like you for one thing
Me: What is that?
She:, You can never let a woman go hungry.
She: but you are stingy
She: I think I am gonna leave you.
She: I am tired of your stingyness.
Me: OK, cool.
She left me for another guy:

Two months later, she tried to fight her way back, but for me. (I am not available)

GIRL-2

She came to my base.

She: wow 
She: You seem like a buoyant person.
Me: kept quiet. 
She: You are doing well.
Me: well?, hmmm 
Me: started thinking.
Me: Is she a mellow person
Me: is she is caring?
Me: can this person love me for me.
Me: can this person slow down for me.
Me: we just met.
Me: we f:vcked.
Me: asked, why did you allow me to f'vxk ?
She: I wanted you to trust me
She: Please trust me
She: Please, love me.
She: I want you to love me

After she open her leg for me to slide in, she billed me heavily and demand for a brand new android phone.

She became the devil in my life that will never repeat itself again.

GIRL 3 after two years alone.

Me: saw that she needed 
Me: went to the market and bought her lot of them.
Me: gave it to her.
She: jump on me, hug me
She: said, thank You.
She: how did you know I don't have ?
Me: I know; hmmmm
We: fv'cked.
She: Please date me.
Me: I don't know.
She: I can manage.
Me: called her on the phone,
Me: feeling lonely and horr-ny
Me: babe I want you to come
She: I don't have a phone
Me; how ?
She: I insert my sim in my neighbor phone
She: I need a new phone
Me: hang up.

NEXT ONE

Me: let me slow down
Me: no sex
Me: babe, how about your boyfriend?
She: my boyfriend is fine
Me: OK.
She: came to my base.
She: left
She: 15 missed call.
She : many apologies
She: many petting
Me: became overnight celebrity.
Me: how about your boyfriend
She: I don't a boyfriend

I became tired and decide to be celibate

For me, I wanted a relatie that is not base on money and materials things.

If a man pretend to be poor just to find a genuine caring woman, he will even missed the person he find attractive.

I later got fed up and stop looking for a woman that will show me genuine love and care.

LESSON LEARN

1. Don't waste your time looking for a caring nigeria woman, they are very scarce.

2. It is profitable unto a man to Godly spend money and help his fellow man than to spend money over nigeria women on relationship.

3 Women are mostly people of today and not of tomorrow



FamilyRe: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Lostchild(m):
reel14

I don tell una

95% of Nigeria women nor good

Period
FamilyRe: About The Ministry Of Help by Lostchild(op):
smiley
HealthRe: What Kind Of Disease Is This And What's The Cure Please Help Me by Lostchild(m): 2:03pm On Sep 25, 2021
Gbedulord:
can I see this drugs in chemist store
Yes, give (giseofulvin) a trial by taking it for five days.

Forget Nigeria doctors and also try to do research online
HealthRe: What Kind Of Disease Is This And What's The Cure Please Help Me by Lostchild(m): 1:06pm On Sep 25, 2021
Gbedulord

Most Nigeria doctors are not well exposed.

Just try giseofulvin and if it did not work on you within 5 days

Go and seek God help.
RomanceRe: Is Wedding Gown And Suit Biblical? by Lostchild(m): 4:47pm On Sep 24, 2021
OminickConcept

Marriage is between two people
RomanceRe: What Are The Possibilities of getting a good man by Lostchild(m): 4:41pm On Sep 24, 2021
Yes.

A humble man can be loyal once you earn their loyalty.

But what do you need a loyal man for ?
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 4:13pm On Sep 24, 2021
Mercychen:
Stop sounding like a broken record all over the place.

If you don't care about people in their darkest, no body cares about your rantings.
So, suck it in already.

For your info, the angels do God's biddings and commands. And im their duty to protect and cover not abuse.

DO NOT MENTION ME AGAIN!
NEXT TIME
Don't quote my thread.

You are not welcome
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 2:47pm On Sep 24, 2021
Acidosis

I can see that my bitter truth label your own mother as useless

Well, You get luck say I no dey your end, I for impact you with better slap.
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 2:14pm On Sep 24, 2021
Acidosis:
ahnie
grin grin grin Who will help thus guy bayiii?
Why on earth will I still want any sexual relationship with a Nigeria woman?

Why on earth will I have hard breaking sex with a Nigeria woman?

The last Nigeria woman I had sex with, her vagina tear my urethra.

She came for a purpose just to insert my left hand into her menstrual blood.

Mission accomplished, she left.
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 10:15am On Sep 24, 2021
Boomboost:
They say women are like Cats and men, like dogs. Cats no send their owners unlike dogs, but they're both good pets. Accept female nature and find a way to enjoy them.

Na necessary evil, Bro! Find ways to forgive and free yourself.
Yes, I will

Thank you
FamilyRe: About The Ministry Of Help by Lostchild(op):
Ablemax

I will shorten the answers to your question, although you may not fully comprehend the mystery on the message I am trying to convey to you, without your own many years of experiencing God workings in your life.

1. Why will the person not be able to enjoy his/her life?
The answer to this your first question above is very broad, but If you are called into this ministry of help, you are defaultly configured to sacrifice your time and life trying to build the life of others. Your brain is wired to constantly think of human beings. Your soul is program to do the will of others and put the need of others first. You are called to a live a life of servitude, to serve the common good of humanity

I have seen people who are into this ministry of help and servitude, they all tried to run away from it just to enjoy their life and retain their sanity. But they later find them self going back to it again. Why? because it is their call.

2. Why the constant attack?
There are things the devils will succeed in doing in Nigeria, but they will not succeed in western countries.

a. The ministry of help will attract unnatural prosperity to your life which will attract adversary - spiritual enemies and attack.

In my own family, there is an ancient landmark that no one will become rich. Immediately I engage myself into this ministry of help, money started coming into my life. I became exposed to all manner of spiritual and demonic attacks.

b. If you come into this world to help humanity, Satan will hunt you in this evil Nigeria soil.

d. Another reason for the attack is that, If you live a fruitful life, God will allow the devils attack you just to accomplish His plans. He will also allowed 10/17 years of trials just to purify you so that you can bear more fruit.

He said In (John 15:1-2) I am the real vine and my father is the gardener. He breaks off every branch that does not bear fruit, and he prunes every branch that does bear fruit, so that it will be clean and bear more fruit. (I John 1:9)

God will permit attacks and trials to come into your life just like He did to Joseph and Job. This is also how God grace works

3. Is It Physical or Spiritual?
Yes, the attack will be spiritual and physical. The enemies will try to kill you spiritually and physically. Spiritually, they will program event to infold just to kill. They will physically possessed and use the bodies of evils humans to wage war against you.

4. Why Will Their Life Be In Danger?
Your life will always be in danger because you are a big problem, and an obstacle to the devils. Satan hate opposition. Since you have allowed God and His angels to use your body to help in building this world, then you are prone to attacks.

The devils will attack you beyond your imagination because, they can easily succeed in Nigeria as Nigeria society is an evil society.

No matter their attacks, God will protect and shield you. God will also manipulate the devils attack to build and lift you up into greatness. That is why the scripture (Romans 9:11) All things works for good to them that love God.

4. [b]Why Not Able To fvck Any Chick As They Want Or Like?

If you have a high calling on this earth, Satan will hunt you. Their first and most effective instrument is women. They will bring devilish possessed women just to come and f'vck and pollute you.

At first, I never knew the tactics of the devils and this is what they used to hunt me and bring me down. No matter who you are, God gift will not violate the free choice of any man.

5. [b]How Can One Draw Or Get Grace From God Or Is Grace From Birth Naturally?
Fore-knowledge and predestination is before birth, but Grace is not also from birth. Grace is given because he foreknew you. Grace is given to the humble and not to canal Men.

(Jude 4:6) says; God resist the proud, but give His grace to the humble. God grace is precious and cannot be easily given to just about anyone.

The grace of God does many things, and one of the primary purpose is to subject a person into many years of trials and suffering just to conform them into the 9 fruits of the holy spirit. (Christ likeness) (Gal 5:22) love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility and self control.

The life, the suffering and prosperity of Joseph was a product of the work God grace. The life, suffering and prosperity of Job was a product of God grace

The life, trials, and glory of T.B joshua was a product of God grace, and few people on earth will be given grace. They will go through the process and humiliation of grace. ( James )

You can never reap the prosperity of grace without enduring the suffering and humiliation that comes from grace.

6. Can anything hinder the grace of God?
Yes, many things can hinder grace, that is why God does not give His grace to canal men. If God gives His grace to a worldly person, grace will not be able to fulfilled its purpose in their life.

a. Pride
b. Respectability.
c. Jealousy
d. Willful sin

God grace is brutal and can subject you to righteous life despite many years of trials. As you suffer unjustly over the consequences of the sin or the sins of the father's, the grace of God will surely delivers you. If you ask God for grace, you are asking him to subject you to long-suffering and humiliation that will conform you to brokenness and righteousness.

7. What Can Maintain God Grace
a. Love
b. Humility (recommended)
c. Virtue
d. Prayer.

8. [b]How Can One Know The Demons Possessed Girls So As To Avoid Fornicating With Them(outside question).
You cannot know them because they are just like normal fine looking persons. I will tell you, 93% of humans have been polluted through sexual intercourse with multiple partner. While some of the fine girls you see are active marine agent from the water, sent forth to sex and destroy men of great destiny.

People highly engage themselves with sexual immoral life and polluted their spirit, soul and body. These promiscuous girls/women will spiritually pollute any person of glorious destiny that sleep with them.

Sex with a person automatically make you one body and spirit with them, so the person that are virgins are less likely to possessed and pollute you.

Be Careful In All Things
Watch And Pray.
FamilyRe: About The Ministry Of Help by Lostchild(op):
Ablemax:
Longest time @lostkid

I have some questions to ask pertaining to this post,but before I ask the questions a good example of people who are called into the help ministry is late T.B JOSHUA, he's a giver without control button.....

Now my questions

Thanks inaddy
Able man

I will answer all your question in two different post in a digest version and I will not broaden it with scriptural teaching. To convey to you and clearly answer your question, I will write you twice just to give digest explanation.

THE PROPHETIC MINISTRY
If you Ablemax believe that T.B Joshua was called into the ministry of help, then I will gladly agree with you. But in my own knowledge, T.B Joshua was never called into the ministry of help and servitude. He was called to be a prophet and he hold the office of a prophet.

T.B Joshua was a wise fellow and understood what many other pastors failed to understand. He focused on two things, humility and love, although he was cloth in humilty since his early life but, what he needed to grow in was love.

T.B Joshua knew that, to grown in God, one need to grow in love, and there is no love without giving, so, T.B Joshua added into his office the ministry of help to reshape his destiny which became the source of his glory.

T.B Joshua expanded his ministry through different dimensional of works of charity's which reshape his calling. Other men of God expanded their office by opening church branches all over the country in the name of soul winning.

T.B Joshua was not called to serve, he was called to be a prophet but yet still desire to serve. There are people who are called to serve, although anyone can choose to serve others because the ministry of help and service is the ministry of love which is the highest calling in all created beings. T.B Joshua knows this, so he added the ministry of help and service to his office. This ministry of help later became the main source and secret of his, power, fame and glory.

T.B Joshua succeeded where other men of God has failed. They focus on church growth in the name of winning souls. They focus on prosperity and they crave materialism. They crave fame, glory and the desire to make name. They desire more anointing because they failed to understand that character proceed God power. Unlike T.B Joshua, he never focus on power, he focused on love. The more T.B Joshua engage in love and kindness, the more people pray for him, the more God lift him up in all dimension.

If you are a follower of T.B Joshua, you will notice that, immediately he increase the ministry of help from 2008, he began to grow in grace and strength. He began to become more famous and more wealthy, although he never flaunt his wealth unlike others, he just kept a low profile. (humility)

T.B. Joshua has genuine love for humanity despite being in the office of a prophet. He will follow his Emmanuel TV team to go and do humanitarian works of charity and help. You will see him among his crew carrying bags of rice. You will see him on his kneel in front of the elderly's men, women who will pronounce words of blessings onto him.

There is a way you will love humans so much that, you will forget materials things. You will become so humble no matter the wealth you have. You will see wealth as nothing, that is how T.B Joshua feels. He love humanitarian works more than the prophetic office he was called into

I repeat: T.B Joshua added the ministry of help and charity to his own life and reshape his destiny - these became the source of His power and glory.

THE MINISTRY OF HELP
The ministry of help is the highest calling of creation. It is the ministry and works of God and the highest Angels who seek to help mankind. To help in diminishing the pains and suffering which lies upon the world, God and His angels had to used the bodies of some pure humans to established all over the world help organizations like orphanage homes, charity's and many none profit organizations (NGO) like food banks, oxfam, the united nation funds, the children funds, Word health organizations and many, many more. All these organizations are ministry of help. These are the organization God has established to help many sufferers and war torn disasters areas. Many of them are government fundings

That is why He said in (Mathew 5:6) Happy are those who greatest desire is to do what God requires, God will satisfy them fully

(Mathew 5:9) blessed are those who works for peace, For God will call them His children

MY ADVICE
You must be careful in your decision making and not follows the ways of canal men. You must be wise and not do things as others do, but make sure, love and kindness is your priority.

In any areas where you specialize, and you find joy and ease in doing it, that areas is where you have been called into. But for you to grow and prosper in your field of expertise, you need to add the ministry of help and service to your life.

If you want to reshape your destiny and grow in life, you must engage yourself in works of charity and help. Look all around you; you will see the poor, the handicaps, the blind, all the sufferers. Just choose to help them and expect nothing in return. Pay your tight to them, continue to do it for many years and expect nothing in return.

And If your works of help and charity is acceptable unto God - then He will channel you to greatness.
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 4:53pm On Sep 23, 2021
Ninejaywon:
@lostchild

It is never to late to take the red pill. angry

Women generally are like that, not just Nigerian women. angry
You are right.

My annoyance is on Nigeria women because the only thing I got from them is pain and losses.

I repeat: you are 100% correct.
FamilyRe: About The Ministry Of Help by Lostchild(op):
Ablemax

You just ask the bravest question.

Right now, I am going out and I will take my time to write you when I am back.

I will be honest in answering your question.
FamilyRe: Do You Want A Career Woman Or A House Wife? by Lostchild(m): 2:01pm On Sep 23, 2021
Hyerin:
If there are no good women, I suggest you be with your fellow men then.
I will manage

BAD one.

Only bad women everywhere
FamilyRe: Do You Want A Career Woman Or A House Wife? by Lostchild(m): 1:15pm On Sep 23, 2021
Hyerin:
If you're a genuinely good man yourself then you would have no problems with women gravitating towards you. Men keep saying no good women this, no good women that without self-assessing themselves. This is how I know your definition of a good woman is someone who is a doormat.
No good woman
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 1:15pm On Sep 23, 2021
Mercychen:
Stop sounding like a broken record all over the place.

If you don't care about people in their darkest, no body cares about your rantings.
So, suck it in already.

For your info, the angels do God's biddings and commands. And im their duty to protect and cover not abuse.

DO NOT MENTION ME AGAIN!
SHUT UP
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 9:59am On Sep 23, 2021
greenie77:
Which men?
SHUT UP
FamilyRe: Do You Want A Career Woman Or A House Wife? by Lostchild(m): 9:46am On Sep 23, 2021
Snitch24:
If you truly love your woman dearly
You no go like make she dey depend on you 100%
If any sane man wants to marry a Nigeria woman, he better marry a career woman.

As for me, I no get time for more Nigeria trouble (women)

Me and Nigeria women no rhyme
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op):
Vision101:
@Lostchild

SHUT UP



@me
Stop insulting my good friend. tongue
She has fowl mouth.
She need to be quiet when men speak.
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 9:38am On Sep 23, 2021
greenie77:
Some much anger boiling inside....seek better ways to ventilate it, so you can move on better with your life as this life is too transient to waste it living it in your present frame of mind.
SHUT UP
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 6:56am On Sep 23, 2021
greenie77:
I am not physically around you but your mind convinces you that you can slap my mouth......hmmm, this is getting serious!
SHUT UP
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 6:53am On Sep 23, 2021
I can help a man
But
If I will help a woman only when suffering children are involve
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 6:31am On Sep 23, 2021
greenie77:
I have an insight into your present frame of mind, so I don't feel offended. wink
SHUT UP
before I slap your mouth
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 6:21am On Sep 23, 2021
greenie77:
Uncle Lostchild you are a rollling stone, seek professional therapy as there is so much fixations you need to deal with.

Any mental health professional who go through your threads, would clearly see the string that bind them all......seek professional help, a quiet therapy room will help you exhale.
Mama
SHUT UP
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op): 6:20am On Sep 23, 2021
Iyaebe:
Sleepwalking millionaire, good morning.
SHUT UP
FamilyRe: SINGLE MEN: I Am Warning You To Be Very Careful. by Lostchild(op):
Mercychen.

Are you not a woman? Yes

Do you know what it is to be a man?

Do you know what it feels for a man to loss his world?

Do you know what it is for a man to suffer unjust?

Do you know what it feels for a man to be homeless for a year?

Do you know the amount of demons that, I have contend with ?

Do you know what it is for a man to overcome 30 years spiritual and physical battles ?

Do you think greatness is for boys?

May the angels of God slap your dirty mouth for calling me this boy.
FamilyRe: Do You Want A Career Woman Or A House Wife? by Lostchild(m): 6:06am On Sep 23, 2021
RenerdsMedia:
Sometimes, what you need comes to you, lol.
Just that Nigeria women are too promiscuous.

Marrying a Nigeria woman, is like marrying problems to ones life.

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