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InfernoNig:
You try.

I did like to find a good woman with good character but you see, I have given up.

So I will just go for the pretty dolly's and expect the worst in them.

After all, na children be my only gain.

iPrevail:
She's gotta have both... Or else fvckit!

Bro
He no go easy oh. To find beautiful woman with character is like hunting for the best job that only takes prayer and fasting to lay hold on

Queenslander:
Beauty ☹️

Take a kiss

InfernoNig:
Do you know how to read? Cos if you do, you won't ask this dumb question.

No oooooh

I dont know how to read, but I know how to spell a little

AutoChick4U
I am glad you have to speak out your pains. You should also not forget that nairaland is more of a rude forum, so don't be surprise when you get crazy replies.

Be strong and pray every night for God help before you sleep

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You have said it all.

Pierocash:
But this is just one of the numerous responsibilities that men shoulder ,yet they think we are doing nothing.

That was how she bragged and insulted me,and even told me I wasn't gonna claim that boy that she will give him to another man and deny me my child. I told her"go ahead".

Few years later she realised that no man can shoulder the responsibility of another man's child,forget the fake love they tend to display from onset,it is all pretence,they just wanna have a piece of the cake and compound her woes.

She cried and started looking for me,I gladly took over my child's welfare but made her realised that I only allowed her to satiate her foolishness.

Today ,she respects me like her Lord despite the fact that we aren't dating anymore.


Men are men, respect us

So all the pretty dolls out there have ugly character?

InfernoNig:
My people will say

"A girl with an Unacceptable character, will get married, but won't stay long in the marriage"

A girl with a good character is the one of the most beautiful creation of God.

Physical beauty is temporary and just soothes your eyes, while beautiful character is permanent and soothes your soul.

P Square said in their song

"Ima ni malum ma eh
Ima lum ma (nobody ugly oh)
O kwe nguna talin madu baby
O gwo nu God eh"

translation In English

"Do you know you are beautiful
You are beautiful (nobody is ugly)
It's money that's abusing people baby
That's how it is"

A person who is beautiful and have no positive character condemns his/her beauty. Character is the substance that enrich the mind and soul. Someone who is beautiful with ugly character can’t contribute anything good in a family, in a society and in a country at large. Beauty is just a mere quality that fades away any time, when we talk of beauty it is mostly viewed to be your good-looks, your appearance in body shape, face, sexy eyes but is not it. The major beauty is your character. So, What is beauty without character? Your character is your beauty, so if you have a positive character then you are extremely beautiful.

Proverbs 11:22. A beautiful woman who rejects GOOD SENSE is like a gold in a pig’s snout.

Note: I am not saying I won't marry a beautiful girl, I will marry a beautiful girl with character.

Nearly to all marriage is this 21st century is short term.

How can you know a woman with good character without testing them? I will always go for the pretty's dolly - and expect the worst.


ElprimaHomes

Beauty vs Character

I saw one nairaland chenkess chastising a guy why he would think of beauty instead of character in a woman

As for me Lost child - I will go for pretty (dolly) because fine man + fine woman = fine offspring

Which sane man will be looking for a woman with good character in this 21st century? when 95% of all women worldwide has rotten mindset and character

I will choose beauty over and over again because my only gain from a woman is to have children.

Which one would you choose?

Your honest opinion is highly welcome

elmagnifico411:
No need for words. You're a lost child nah. May u be found.

The reason why you feel the thread got you know where is because you are spiritually ignorant. If an ocultic man sees a thread like this,ó they will acknowledge the strong awareness of its writer.

Imagine, a write up you read in English language, you not only fault find it, but you quote it with your Yoruba dialect trying to bully the writer, is that not hypocrisy?

Do you think I will tolerate your bullies? Why didnt you quote me with english at first?

See, all my conflict of life is not with men but with the devils, when you sound like an enemy, then I will refare you as one of them

ahnie:
Why are we always at loggerhead seff?

I will answer you and I will answer question but not today. When I answer you, I am sure, you will not be able to say a word but

Adamgeneral12:
Thank you very much

For many years I have tried to understand the rebellion of Satan but I guess it is still currently a mystery to all mankind.

I was told that Satan was not the one who started the rebellion, and that, It was Belial and leviathan who suggested to Satan, why don't you be a God?. At first Satan resisted their councel but later give in.

God said that Satan began to feel that the power and light that emanate from him, was coming from his own body. Satan started looking on himself and remove his eyes from the blessed God who had created him with glory.

Satan also told all the angels of heaven that their weakness is the source of their strength, what is the need for them to look unto the blessed God?

NOTE
Pride is not a violent demon but a self destructive one. When the spirit of pride possessed a soul, it can make its victim more finacialy prosperous just to keeps its victim in continous bondage that will lead to other form of bondage that lead to etetnal damnation.

In year 2010 I set a date for a shy friend of mine. When the babe came, we discovered that the babe was the daughter of a very prominent politician in my state. She was the type who can not keep any man to her life because of her insane pride. Her pride is as high as the sky, it was such that she wanted everyone to serve her like a goddess. The reputation of her father has filled her with pride to the point that she became charaterless. I and my friend knew that, this person is impossible.

In year 2012 I met a lady I intend to woe. She was a beautiful elegant lady. From her contenance I sense she was financially a successful person. I marvel when she told me that I cannot handle her. I asked her to explain what she meant?

She told me that I am the gentle type of man and I cannot handle her because of her kind of masculine person. She told me, she is the type that does not submit to any man. She said, even in her place of work, she doesn't submit or regard the opinion of any person. I just understood that, she is the impossible and prideful type and I did let her go.

Pride like this is beyond redemption. Even the scripture (James 4:6) says that God resist the proud, but gives grace to the humble.

It takes humility to walk with God on His terms of being faithful and grateful in the days of smallness.

Adamgeneral12:
I think this proud na one spirit on his own, how person go come know say the spirit of proudness don enter him body?
If person detecte say him get proudness for body how him go do?

Adam.
I simple believes that pride is a personal choice, this is why I will strongly advice you to learn to glory more in your weakness than in your strengths

One answer to your question is that; I have seen people with extreme pride because pride is itself a demon. Pride is the subtle enemy a person cannot easily detect in himself. That is why a humble savior and a proud sinner cannot walk together. Christ will never come up to us in pride, therefore we must come down to him in humility before we can enjoy Him or enjoy His blessing.

Satan fell because of his ignorance which rooted pride in him. That is why God will never bless a person without humility and brokeness as pride always go before the fall. Pride can easily penetrate into ones heart when they start to walk in finacial glory.

HUMILITY
Humility is a dirty cloak your wear. Just imagine a wealthy man who put on a dirty clothes, there is nothing fancy about him.

It is the humble man whom God protects and liberates; it is the humble whom He loves and consoles. To the humble He bestows unto them grace, that after their humiliation He may raise them up to glory. Even many christians and pastors do not understand what the grace of God does to a person. Asking God for His grace is like asking God to humiliated you which brings humility and brokenness

God reveals His secrets to the humble and the humble man enjoys peace in the midst of many trials and conflict, because his trust is in God, not in the world.

See (1 peter 5:5) In the same way you younger people must submit to your elders. And all of you must put on the apron of humility

The revise bible version (RSV) : clothes yourself, all of you with with humility

euromilion:
I love the Japanese too,their moral standards are way higher than all Africans together,Japan is a place where if you lost your phone or wallet I can assure you that you will get it straight away.

Leave anything valuable on the street and come back the next day and find it there intact.

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I agreed 99%

aurorae1:
Confucianism and Taoism bleeds into every fiber of their society. You don't have to be Christian or Muslim to live a good communal life. See we here that carry religion on top our brain, see our society.
It's nothing if you don't allow the good of your religion to influence you.

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Daily parrot

1. That your brother is very dangerous to his wife, he is very dangerous to you as swell.

2. Take back your car and give it to someone who will be remitting the 100k

3. Let the woman divorce your brother. The money they remit for the car used it to take Care of the children.

May God bless you

ahnie:
Tbh,you maa get small skoin Sha o.learn to accept criticism.

Hich glehen schlafen

Many times I have seen where a person suffered and traveled abroad, the devils will succeed to bring them back to Nigeria just to kill them. God save some, while some lost their life because they traveled back from abroad to their home and the devils used the body of evil Nigerians to kill them

The answer to this re-occurence is that, Nigeria is an evil land - a stronghold of the devils and and also strong-hold of God. Just like the way America is the No 1 physically, Nigeria is also the No 1 - spiritual super power in the spiritual realm of the world. The greatest souls of humans in God will be born in Nigeria and Satan will do everything to hunt and kill them.

NOTE; I am not inferior when I keep saying that, the ways of the white man is more Godly than the ways of the black man. Me and white men believes that; It takes a community to raise a child which is 100% true

THE STORY

I use to have a brother that is extremely introverted, calm and quiet in nature. He can stay for months and not talk to anyone apart from me. He can stay for years and not befriend anyone. He is the quiet type who doesn't complain but very meek in nature. He faithfully does house chores and never complain. My father love him and favors him, but my father hated me so much because of who I am, and many times, my father wish I was never born into this earth.

After my mother divorced, she move all my sisters along with her, why she left me and my brother behind because of our education. My father is a lover of women and can never do without marrying women, so he married a new wife who has three children from three different men. This new step mother became the new instrument of the devils.

My father hated me and constantly persecute me while he likes my brother a lot and constantly shows him little act of kindness. At age 10, my father told me he can no longer finance my education and that he has remove his hands from my life. I become the most poorest student in the entire primary school and constantly miss my test because of no money to buy 2a & 2b excecise book to write test. I remember owning just 1 T shirt all my life. I will wash it and wear it because no one to cares for us. My father has other children from his other wives and constantly spend on them and care for them, while me and my brothers is left to suffer.

Since my father has withdraw his hands from our education, my younger brother decided to learn a working skill, funituring / artisan skills, of which my elder brother took him somewhere and sign him for the job. I remember washing plates in a canteen just to cloths myself but luckily I was opt in for scholarship exams which I was happy to have opportunity that will sponsor my education but the devils in my family thwarted and divert it.

Immediately my brother started learning the funituring artisan skill, all of a sudden, my step mother began to persecute my brother so much and refuse to give him food. When my brother comes back from work, the woman will refuse to give food to my brother and my brother will have no choice but to stay in hunger. My father couldn't say a word but watched as his sons where being persecuted and maltreated. This step mother, her three children was well fed and my father continue to finance their education but me and brother was? being brutalize with hunger and suffering.

When my brother comes back from work, he would fetch water and stays indoor till the next morning and goes to work with empty stomach. Even when he comes back from work, step mom will not give him food. My brother began to suffer, this led him outside to look for help. He manage to find a woman that cook and sell rice, he will fetch water for the woman, filled her drums with well water just in exchange for a plate of soup. As a 15 year old boy, I tried to fight for my brother but there was no one to come to our rescue. My mother was busy spending money, heaven and earth for my sisters and grand children while me and my brother is heavily suffering under the hands of an evil step mom.

My brother manage to make contact with our neighbor who own an taxi (car). During the night, he will ask my brother to wash his taxi for a pay of N20. This taxi driver was a heavy weed (Igbo) smoker and all his friends are weed takers. My bother will seat with them and jist with them, he became friends to them because my step mom no longer wants to see him inside the house anymore. I cried many times when I saw how my brother was being starve with hunger. Because of the suffering of my brother, I tried to fight the woman and my father over their wickedness and abused over us, but I was too young.

One day, I noticed my brother talks out of point and without knowing that his association with the okada man and his friends has prompted my brother to test and smoke weed. This is how my brother run mentally ill (madness)

THE SPIRITUAL

The evil marine powers in my family, succeeded in afflicting my brother with madness just by taking weed. My family was in shock as they see my brother run mental. We could not help the situation because at that time, you hardly see a church that has the power of God, this is why men like TB. Joshua was heavily persecuted in the millenia era.

Back to the story, my brother became mentally ill and my family could not help his situation. I also notice that he will become normal when he stop smoking weed, but re later go back to smoking without our knowledge.

One day, he smoke and loss his right mind, walking on the road at 1:am at mid night, he was shot by police on patrol vehicle. I cried when I saw my brother being shot in the leg and my family started running around, looking for a way to remove the bullet. I remember when he came to me and told me he was hungry, I bought food for him and I cried seeing him suffer, for me death is more better than living. I cried and even up till this day, I still cry over his disapearance.

After a while my family took him to lagos, there was no cell phone at that time. When my brother came back from lagos with his mental conditions, my father drove him away and told him never to come back. It has been more sixteen years , we his family member has never set our eyes on my brother.

What happen is that, the devils target me twice but they failed, and my brother became the next target of the devils. They know that the only way to make my brother run mental (madness) was to persecute and push him outside. In this way they are able to work on his destruction. The devils knows that my father like my brother and will never persecute him, so they used his evil wife who never like my brother to persecute and expose him to people that smoke weed - The evil step mother was door opener for the devils to afflict and destroy my brother.


MY EXPERIENCE IN 2008; will be in The next thread

ahnie:
No need to insult him,just read and pass
Greetings!

No let my life pain you.

Satan ; let me be, I ain got your time

elmagnifico411:
Aswearigad, this na yeye writing.. mtcheww... Oshi o da nile pako.

Look at one of the sons of Eshu

1. Because of the spirit of lust.

2. Their flesh has not been crucify

InTheCloudySky:
This OP, you sure love to write. Why not start a blog?

I will soon stop writing on Nairaland.

I just want to share my past and move on

ibechris:
While u are learning in a hard way,pls do not save ur money in Banks.

Go to investment houses,and open accounts with them. At least u are sure of making something out of it on a monthly basis.

Thank you for the advice.

100% Well spoken.

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Felimax:
Muslims KNOW NOTHING about JESUS CHRIST! What they know about JESUS is like a basket full of water. God has made it so interesting that they lack reasoning and common sense when it comes to this (apologies if you like).
CHECK THIS OUT!

Jn 14:8-11
Philip said, 'Lord, show us the Father and then we shall be satisfied.' Jesus said to him,

9.
'Have I been with you all this time, Philip, and you still do not know me? 'Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father, so how can you say, "Show us the Father"?

10.
Do you not believe that I am in the Father and the Father is in me? What I say to you I do not speak of my own accord: it is the Father, living in me, who is doing his works.

11.
You must believe me when I say that I am in the Father and the Father is in me; or at least believe it on the evidence of these works

Observe that what Phillip demanded to know was to see the Father or that the Son should reveal the Father, how come the Son suddenly attribute the Father to be Himself? That is to say Jesus is the absolute and true reflection of the Father or if you like just as the master said and i quote I Am in the Father and the Father is in Me. (I AM).
We cannot use our limited knowledge and human way of reasoning to decipher the absolute attribution of God. God is God in the Father, the Son, and the Spirit. Shalom!

blackbriar:
Keynote : all financial responsibilities

OK

udoji2021:
My fellow Nigerians up north that badly wants the country to practice Sharia law. It's time to relocate to Afghanistan now and enjoy the benefits and goodies of an Islamic state.

Interested people can contact pantami for free visas

blackbriar:
With the taliban taking over, how are you coping
Are there still jobs?
Is visa still available for jakpa purposes?

. This thread made me laughhhh

blackbriar:
Well Japanese women marry for financial security. A Japanese lady will marry you after making sure you can take care of all the financial responsibilities required by a family.
Hers is to be housewife and wear lacoste and eat at expensive cafes.

Japanese people crave wealth a lot just like us.
Wait till you visit Japan.

Japanese people do things for money as well, they have bills to pay.

Wait till you walk on Ginza street or Shinjuku street. Nigeria craze for sudden wealth is problematic. But in japan you can find something to do to earn money for your cravings

What you say is very natural in every society.

I agreed with you %70

heniford2:
Go to japan naw stop making hell noise here

I can see you are one of my haters. Keep hating till you enter your grave.

I puke @ heniford2