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Dayotheeone:
Assistant Jesus! Gateman of heaven, Record keeper of the book of Life, you have done well..... kobojunkie
Check your mail, your ticket for the concert in hell has been successfully booked

Are you are the curse demons that book a concert ticket for me in hell?

Tell your master - the curse! Devil that I am not in darkness, that the day should overtake me like a thief. For I am a son of light and son of day. I am not of night nor of darkness. I am alert and sober, for those who get drunk get drunk at night. But since I am of the day, I have put on the breastplate of righteousness and love, and helmet - the hope of salvation.

jesusjnr2020:
True but men also.

Yes
There is no exemption

See (Matthew 5:38-48)

38. You have heard that it was said,' An eye for and eye, and a tooth for a tooth.

39. But now I tell you: do not take revenge on someone who has wrong you. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, let him slap your left cheek too.

40. And if someone takes you to court to sue you for your shirt, let him ha e your coat as swell.

(41) And if one of the occupation troops forces you to carry his pack one kilometer, carry two killomettress

(42) When someone asks you for something, give it to him, when someone wants to borrow something, lend it to him.

43.You have heard that it was said, 'Love your friends, hate your enemies

44. But now I tell you; love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you (45) so that you may become the children of your father.

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46.

47

48

See (Matthew 5:3-11)

What is heaven?

Heaven is a kingdom of love, a love that rooted peace, joy and happiness. If God rapture just 10% of the current women on earth, the kingdoms of heaven will be destroyed.

Many of you nairaland men have critisize me because I always create thread from my life experience and speak the truth that seems to attack the personality of women and humans. What many of you don't understand is that I am a person who has gone through the wilderness, the valleys and seen the shadows of death. I have fought and shield myself against all high ranking forces of demons and if not for my calm and meek personel (nature) I would have been completely be destroyed by the devils.

Many of you NL reading this would have seen me on the news;

A man was caught with his neighbour wife.
A man killed his fellow man
A man killed his neighbour
A man killed another's man wife
A man killed his devilish niece
A man killed his evil nephew
A man killed a woman
A man killed his landlady
A man beat a pregnant woman.
An arm robber is caught
A kidnapper and ritualist is caught.

I would have been on the news because Satan most ultimate power of destruction is to use the body of humans to carried out his wills. They have many tactics but their major instrument is (WOMEN) and (ANGER)

Some Years back I would have killed a young woman if not for someone that grab me from the waist, shouting, asking people to come and hold me. Satan would have succeeded many times to destroy me but the Almighty has fully shielded me against the devil.

Most of all the things I suffered for many years is rooted from mainly women. Many times I do count all my losses and wish I knew the things I know right now, I the lostchild would have dudge many bullet and arrows of the enemy.

I keep writing my stories because I want people to see me as a patient man - over how many times I have fallen.


THE STORY
Whatever you read here is a fiction of my imagination, it is a story that comes from my own mind. It is part of how Satan can provoke and destroys a man with anger

I once knew a handsome young man in port-hacourt who came from a poor family back-ground. He was so poor that he must do daily hustles to survive. One day he got into a fight with one lady. The lady was the first person to attack and pick a bottle. He himself also got angry and out of anger he stab the lady and unfortunately, the lady instantly died. When he saw that he had killed a woman, he instantly tried to kill himself by instant suicide, he stab tear his own stomach but he didn't die.

He was arrested and taken to the hospital where he spent about two months receiving treatment. After his healing, they took him to the prison, where he await his trial.

His family was so poor that they couldn't help him because it was a case worth a millions of naira to settle. To the faith of this young lad is that, he must suffer the consequences of his action and spend many years of his life in prison.
He spent one year in prison and he was taken to court. His family can't afford a lawyer and I am sure they have lost hope on him.

Almighty God knows the plans of the enemy and used a good Samaritan to take a lawyer for this young man. He was taken to court for his final judgment, and in court, the Lord manipulated the whole court case and he was found not guilty.

The witches lost the court case against the lad because the Lord Jesus manipulated the court case and the young man won the case and was set free

He gave his life to Christ Jesus and he is INDEED A FREE MAN. (Gal 5:1)


ADDEDUM

I met a man who left his home because of his wife. I asked him why?. He said, he is afraid, he might kill his wife, so he left home to save himself.

THE MESSAGE

WOMEN: If you are reading this, if you do not change your ways, you will continue to be a property of the devils.

MEN:
Do not fall into anger. If you cannot control the spirit of anger, you becomes slaves to the spirit of anger. He who can suppress anger has more strength.

When you see trouble coming your way, walk away from it, although people will see your meakness as a sign of weakness but it is truly the source of your spiritual strength against all arrows and spears of the devils

To be meak you must learn to break your will in many things. To live in poverty communities, you must endure all things without complain and persevere faithfully.

Meakness is actually the elder brother of humility, I mean meakness is a more higher virtue than humility because it is one of the fruit of righteousness

If you would persevere to be like Christ, you must consider yourself a nobody and be meak. If you would become meak, you must be content to seem like a fool in this life.

He who seeks to be like God, to have perfect and Godly characters will find only
trouble and grief in this world.

In the spiritual realm, meakness, gentleness and love is actually a breastplate - it is a spiritual armour of God - that will shield you from the physical attack of the devils.

★★WORDS OF KNOWLEDGE★★

Therefore you are to be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect (Matthew 5:38-48)

The Lord did not give us this commandment just for our own spiritual discipline. He gave it to us because there is a power in nonresistance to evil that crushes the serpents head. It tears evil out by the roots, out of our hearts and the heart of our aggressor. This commandment was given to forbid us from doing that by which evil is multiplied and perpetuated. If we attack another, verbally or physically, evil is released. But if that evil is not able to affect its victims patience, peace, or love, that which is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered . . . bears all things . . endures all things (I Corinthians 13:5-7), then the evil that was released is bound and defeated. Every blow that we are able to absorb without retaliation or resentment begins to consume the evil in the one who delivers it, as well as any that may be resident within us. But if your enemy is hungry, feed him, and if he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in so doing you will heap burning coals [of conviction] upon his head (Romans 12:20).

☆☆FINAL WORDS☆☆

You are not yet a child of God until you are tested for many years. To be a son of God you must be meek. To be meek, you must be like a child. (fool)

Your faith will be tested.
Your heart will be tested.
You and everything about you and your will be tested.

And many of you have failed your test and keep failing your test

No, I will not. Just don't blame your son but the house-help.

An 18 years old boy is a walking erection

MufasaLion:
Both can be found in a woman.

Finding a humanitarian woman will be hard brcause most women of today are more of self.

johnrix

1.If you want to know a woman true character, watch how she treats people.

2. Behave like a broke guy

3. Don't try to please her.

MufasaLion:
I'm sapiosexul but beauty is a must.

Intelligent woman is good too, but for me beauty come first.

I also desire a woman who is very humanitarian, we can do charity work together.

I find kindness very appealing.

If I cannot help them right does it mean others cannot help?

Klass99. If you are poor does it mean others are poor ?

Shame of you

edunaragold

From your above write up, I am supprised a Woman could say all that you just said.

You cannot please all men

Babes like you with rotten brain are the reason I so much despise Nigerian women.

Do you know how many people I put on my waiting list?

So I will just be instantly sending money to anyone who cry out online for financial help?

The people in particular are in need of food stuff and I am not in lagos.

You are just too crazy to speak to me.

I puke at klass99

Klass99:
Alaye, nothing stops you from loving and helping, even from afar.

Practice what you preach by sending them money for food or paying a food merchant for food stuff and delivery to them.

SHUT UP your shit maut
Na you won tell me who I go help and when I go help.

Senseless human being

leksite120:
In the actual sense, no woman is non-submissive . She's only that because she hasn't probably seen a man stronger and possess qualities that are more than hers.The moment she see one , she'll become featherless.

I believe your words

That is how it is.

GboyegaD:
And all he could do was slap her because she is a female, right? If his male friends that he can't handle say such, will he slap her? Violence has never been and will never be the solution. As an elder brother, he should know better than embarass himself and make the girl right with her statement.

To those quoting him saying he's right, I am trying to understand your points of view.

Pray not to fall into the hands of a crazy woman, if not

She will turn you to mike tyson

emmanuelbrown26:
U can count on people to lean on

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mariahAngel:
If your foolish friend knows what is good for him, he’d cut off all ties from that insolent so-called fiancée of his for daring to disrespect the memory of his late mum.

By the way op, shey na person wey them never even marry na she you dey refer to as wife?

Angel Mariah
Take three kiss

Vethinno2:
I'm in the same dilemma.
I'm a 27 years old lady who's so much inlove with an Urhobo man. He have all the qualities I want in a man, but my parents won't even agree to meet him let alone allow me marry him because he's not Igbo. I'm so TORN I don't know what to do. I don't think I can bear not getting married to him.
I need your advices please

Marriage is a choice for two person.

Wake up: You are in the 21st century. Go and marry your man. If you failed to stand your ground over what you want, you dont deserve to be his wife.

Elizabeth:
How can i marry against my parent wish! is not possible.Who am i in the first place.

Africa ladies with their backward mentality

Na your parents go marry for you

Mumu

Angeldemon

1. Your friend nor wise at all.

2. The babe deserve angelic slap, those slap that will dumb her.

I wish I was the one that slap that her fowl mouth

Foodqueen:
All corners.

What do you mean All corners

internationalman

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crackhaus:
The definition of "wealthy" with reference to this topic, needs to be explained.

If what you mean is a situation where the woman earns a higher monthly income/salary than her husband-to-be, then I don't believe there's any real struggle to be had.
Both are still within the same social class but simply have disparities in earning power.

However, if what you mean is a situation where the woman is wealthy (as in millions/billions wealth), then forget it... It's ONLY in Nollywood that such a woman could marry a man beneath her social class.

In the real world, there aren't that many young "wealthy" (in millions/billions) women to start with... and even where there are, they'd rather marry a man who is equal to them in wealth or slightly higher.

You have said it all. I had one small encounter in 2012 with one of those managerial lady boss.

Check my edited write up above

frozen70:
Let's wait for the men then

Its even difficult to find a comment from a man base on his experienced. Check the above edit write up.

Ruke1989:
One reason I get nauseated when I see a less successful girl telling me they love me. I realize they won't do that to a broke guy. So I get nauseated because I think love is being used as a trick to get successful men to sponsor poor girls who try to play on men's intelligence. The high income ladies will never in their young age profess undying love to a broke guy unless for fear of not finding a husband eventually using that man as sperm donor. They hate to be used by men financially but they love to financially hook up once they see a Roch man they can use. Stop hiding under tradition of man being the financial head or even scripture and accept the fact that ladies are just selfish without restriction.

They are quick to reject submission to a man headship over them but once topic is about
whose money should be spent. They will quickly tell you you are the head so spend your money on the family and leave me to spend mine on myself

Hmmmnnnn

Well said

bepositive11:
I really hate questions like these. Look for both. Both are very important and it's possible to find. Hard but possible

Yours is a good advice
And that is what I want

emmanuelbrown26:
This boy called lostchild again, life is really fucking u front and back

You are correct

socialmediaman:
Lostchild I understand the feeling of betrayal, but also don't forget to take responsibility for your actions, that’s one of the things that make you a man.

When someone gives you an advise that causes problems for you, remember you chose to take their advise, you trusted them, they failed you, but you also failed yourself for trusting them without thinking it through. If you take responsibility, you learn to weigh your choices and make your own decisions to your pleasure rather than to please someone else. Trust seems to be one of your strengths as well as your weaknesses. Also, I suspect you have appetite for risk, since you can give someone everything you have hoping they will succeed and pay you back. By doing that, they save their own money and use yours to gamble, hoping you won’t cause much trouble if it doesn’t succeed. They think you as the dolt.

To your other point, any woman who listens to the advise of other women to quit her marriage without considering her financial situation, has herself to blame. Those other women gave her the advise she asked for, but the choice was hers to make. They don’t owe her help if she quits the marriage, it’s for her to figure it out. The only advise she should consider is the one that says “here is 1million naira, take it and leave your marriage and start a business”.

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frozen70:
Just respect yourself that's all she needs

And that word respect yourself involves everything about marriage and relationship disciplines

I disagree with you 100% because this is a question for men to answer