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MeeztaFabulouz:
7 years of struggle to cater for and build a decent home, I have spoken so many times and to no avail. Since I was born up till this year, I hit a woman for the first time in my life. The reason is just because she did something stupid, I didn't want to get involved in any argument or fight, I just went to book a hotel room and had a quite time to myself that night till the next morning and on getting home she just attacked me saying I went to sleep with another woman.
I have given her the options so many times to go her way if she is not happy being with me but she won't go. As am writing this, I have not eaten her food since yesterday and I just got home only to see her serving me food and trying to make up but this is not the first time. I practically made her not go to the shop today and I was expecting to see that she went to the shop. When ever we talk, she listens and behave herself for a while but its like there is a spirit that comes into her and when it does, she forgets everything and only tries to bring trouble and more trouble.

Go back to your fathers house, she will not. Ok go and be with any other person that will tolerate your attitude she will not leave my house. All she does is money money money this and that. Even with her business, she does not use a dime for anything in the house aside her own stuffs.
Can you imagine she had a fight with me some time ago because I personally went to pay my kids school myself? All because I didn't give her the money to go and pay herself as I normally do?

Can you also imagine she had a fight with me one day all because I bought a jeans and slippers for myself without buying anything for her and the kids because I had bought some nice stuff for all of them including her like a week before then.

This is a woman that has never bought me even a boxers since marriage and has never gotten me anything gift for my birthday or anything but I just ignore all that and focus on making the family happy. Yet I am not happy in my home because I know what I go through especially this year that corona made things rough, I have passed through hell just to ensure my family is fine and we are not put to shame yet a matured thinking lady does not even care about anything.

Those saying I am a fool for thinking of suicide because of a woman, it is not because of the woman I am thinking of such, if you really know what depression can cause, knowing how hard you struggle to earn your money and spend it on someone who cares less for you, you will understand.

MeeztaFabulouz
I am a late comer to this this thread and I understand what you went through and what you are going through. I once dated a girl who's attitude almost made me to lost my life (accident)

Recently my neighbour was crying and he said out loud, God, as gentle as I am, why didnt you give me a good woman The man cried and left home.

I recently opened a thread where I label women as more bad than good and some are lashing back at me that I was wrong.

Women are impossible.

Lazycapitalist2:
Thanks, but I have suffered in this country. And i still live here.



Largely because MTN and ECONET were able to charge that high, that they earned the profits needed to build the infrastructure that we have for GSM

I mean, all them telecom masts were not built by government.

Plus Glo came in and helped bring down prices by competition....which was how the programme was supposed to go.Since there was no price controls by government, companies were free to set prices...including prices that were below the competitiors....

Now if there had been price controls...we won;t have had the GSM/interent /etc network we have now


Yes, because when you pay N30 for something that costs N53 to make .....that is one kwh.....not much of a profit is made to fix things up to the level where we have light 24/7

(I mean right now, we need at least 90000 EXTRA mw...before we can start talking of 24/7 power.Where is the money going to come from....)

The money your leaders steals only in just a month is enough to generate 50,000 MW. Even if the govt provide all the funds needed for stable electric supply, all the money will still disappears

Nigeria is a nation of thieves

Lazycapitalist2:
The problem is

1.The grid is out of date and needs fixing

2.The Trnasmission company of Nigeria is dependent on funds raised by the DISCOS for fixing the grid

3.However, due to the fact that power in Nigeria has been charged at a price below its cost of production, there isn't enough money to fix the grid...and it needs tens of billions of dollars to fix.

4.The way forward is for every house to be metered, and power to be deregulated. Let the DISCOS charge as high as 100 naira per kwh (okay, that's too much tho)...so that they can earn a profit that can be ploughed into fxing the grid and also power generation.

Nigerians should read the PWC report on funding on power in Nigeria. For those who cannot read long story, the summary page is below.


Remeber the GSM....we paid high prices for GSM. We paid as high as 10000 naira for SIM cards alone...if not higher. They earned insane profits...and used those profits to build up our GSM network that provides the basis of our strong IT and telecoms sector.

Let power be deregulated. Then there would be no more system collapse.

What you wrote here is pure none sense because is like you are not suffering in this country

Which Telecom network sold Sim card for 10,000? MTN and Econet extort so much from Nigerians by selling Sim at N26,000. If not the fact that it was Glo that brought these thieves to their kneel by selling Sim @ N3000 with N2999 airtime on it. Glo later slash it down to N100/200.

Here where I live, we live in darkness but constantly pay light bills even though we don't see light

Your comment is pure nonesense

Mikester
Your write up does not apply to my belief at all. I plan to do baby mama plus because Marriage is nothing but a contract between two people and I ain't gonna sign any contract with any vag!na that is unreliable.

Any beautiful chenkess just come my way now. I go conner her enter my house and give am 9 months, then we go do baby mama plus.

We will live together and wedding ceremony no join at all.

Baby mama plus is DA bomb

1F30M4:
LOL. Don't kid yourself bruh



If (all) women are more bad than good and they are photocopies of men, so therefore (all) men are bad; originally.. In other words, vagina pipu dey learn work for where men dey nau? Nahh you don't need to answer this at all, it's just rhetorical..

You want a woman cos you weren't created to be alone.. You will find a beautiful woman, very pleasing.. You'd sure wanna know that which is relatively easier yh; you'll find women who'll lay with you in bed, you'll find women to frolick with you, you'll find women who will beget children for you, you'll find women who are ever ready to enjoy your money with you; yes you will find them EVERYWHERE.. But you do want a good woman right, who no like better thing?! You can absolutely have it all but certainly not with this mindset of yours.. You will ruin everything before you realize it since you cannot stop seeing them in a bad light.. Yeah, you need to work on yourself first

There are bad people everywhere irrespective of their nationality, race, tribe, religious beliefs, gender orrr even blood ties; bad people live amongst us so also are good people

I'm in no way disputing the fact that you've had bad experiences with women in the past, your feelings are absolutely valid.. On a lighter note though, if the men say all women are bad and the women say all men are wicked, that means everybody is bad niyen, sometimes even our creator isn't spared lol.

You speak true.

I am trying to let go of my past and look towards the future, but it is diffult when the past keep repeating itself.

This is why I need to work on my life first.

I need a renew mind.
May God help me

Kobojunkiee:
It is all about you and your small mind, isn't it? Please go get mental health care abeg!

If nor be me na you he won be?

My small mind can comprehend things that your junkie brain cannot.

That witches inside your papa house wey turn you into a junkie. I tell you the truth, he no go ever better for am

cococandy
I admit to you at first that men are bad because I picture some of the bad things a man can do but that doesn't mean i admitted to you that men are generally bad.

If all men are bad, then God will have wipe and destroy this earth completely.

Woman are naturally very bad but they are not violent in nature unlike men

Women are perfect mothers but they make terrible wives

Womam are just a photo-copy of men
While Men are the original.

My conclusion is that; women are more of bad than good

Kobojunkiee:
Seek Psychiatric help immediately!

Junkie.. Junkie... Junkie..... Let me tell you about my awareness of the story of Mrskillz1

A man married a woman that is spiritually connected to the water. Because of this a whole family is suffering because of the demise from the woman.

Because I am a person who has dated one who came from the water, I know a lot about them; The one I dated has killed many men and destroy the destiny of many men. She was a destroyer and it was Almighty God that save me from her evil powers.

According to the story of Mrskillz1 she said her mother was an ogbaje and she narrated how her mother died and her last words shows that the woman is truly an ogbaje.

Because of my knowledge and experience in life I knew I could give her more guideline on how to seek the helping hand of God, what to do and how to go about it.

Kobo junkie. He pain me say you will never have sense again in life.

Satan has truly blinded you and made you a junkie

Your madness is loading........

kodded:
Next time read the full context of a conversation before jumping into conclusion

The person I quoted clearly stated out that there is no God, and I was replying him with that qoute from the scripture.





.....and for the record, a real child of God belive
God's word first before any other word from science or technology.

Have a great night

That Kobojunkie is suffering from Schizophrenic.

Kobojunkiee:
You do realize that if God were to transfer my mercies to you, it would likely come after He has transferred my sufferings and afflictions as well for they tend to go hand in hand with His mercies.

Which suffering?

If truly you dey suffer, you for don get sense

For the now your madness is loading......

hayoholla:
Lol, so it just suddenly fly gbim into his body like your prophets and pastor do tell you and you believe

I know a very good man years back. This man and all members of his family are mentally sick because of a family curse.

No matter the scientific name of any disease, the sickness or diesease mainly originate from the devils

kingxsamz:
You're not intelligent, Infact you're far from it.
And I don't mean to be rude, I'm just stating facts. They are recommending churches for you to visit and numerous unreasonable spiritual nonsense to do, and you're saying thank you.
When you have finished wasting your time and playing with your brother's life by jumping from one church to another like Ada Jesus, then you'll come and cry. It's not you I pity, it's your brother for having someone like you as a sister with such poor line of thoughts.
If you people are so aware of these spiritual nonsense that you so much believe in, and believe churches have the answers, then you won't be suffering from poverty, insecurity, hardship, sickness and terrorism.
Don't find your brother medical help, keep jumping from church to church enriching the pockets of your fellow man. Mtchew.

kingxsamz You are a fool. You do not have sense at all to type this senseless words to someone who is in pains.

Mrskillz1 there are too many crazy fellow on Nairaland. Just be strong and accept the fact that you will meet goat and sheep.

Kobojunkiee:
It is all about you and your small mind, isn't it? Please go get mental health care abeg!

Junkie junkie. You are a goat.

Junkie the nairaland goat

You did google search just to paste me a link about Schizophrenic. You want to show me your high level of stupidity

I dont have to google search to prove to you that you are truly a crazy junkie

Let me tell you where Schizophrenic come from. Yes, Schizophrenic is from the water kingdom.

What they do is that, they invoke the spirit of a person and lock it inside a bottle, and they can also voke the spirit of animal to live inside the body of that person. As long as the spirit of that person is lock in a bottle, they will never be in their right mind

Hey junkie. I just told you the origin of Schizophrenic

Mrskillz1. Dont mind that goat who called himself kobojunkie

sageb:
@lostchild for real?

I am the Lost child.

Kobojunkiee:
An Ogbanje girl sent on a mission into your life... dude,your delusions runs deep.

Kobojunkie.
A mermaid girl was sent into my life on a mission because my shining stars

My money is on many digit.
My money is too long

I am a generous giver
I am big spender
I am a problem solver

I am a fine guy with too much money to help people

Get this into your junkie brain

[quote author=Kobojunkiee post=101504592]Stop speaking like an imb_ecile..


Kobojunkie. Your madness is still loading.....

Kobojunkiee:
Spiritual blindness? This from one who goes around packing the delusion that he dated a mermaid as a life achievement.
ROFLMAO

For an ogbanje girl to be sent on a mission into my life, shows that I am a very unique guy

Kobojunkiee:
Dem dey talk Schizophrenia, this one dey add stories of his own delusions of dating a mermaid as if na the same thing. Abeg, go get yourself help please !

So Schizophrenia go make three family member have mental illness?

Kobojunkie. Your dysfunctional brain can never be reset

You be really junkie

nzeobi:
Life is all about learning from our experience or from other peoples experience. I look forward to your post

Only those who has put their hand on the fire, knows the burning pain from the fire

Kobojunkiee:
Dem dey talk Schizophrenia, this one dey add stories of his own delusions of dating a mermaid as if na the same thing. Abeg, go get yourself help please !

Truly I say to you; You are really a junkie. Your spiritul blindness has made you a chronic fool

You truly prove to every one on nairaland that you are a junkie and fool

cococandy:
So you’re admitting then that your thread is based on falsehood

How my thread take be base on falsehood?

Are women not generally bad?

I know that there are many bad men out there but women are generally bad and only good on their children and family

nzeobi:
Why not write your story here so we all learn from your experience

I will soon leave nairaland. Yes I am planning to write my story so that people can learn.

When I write I will also mention your name so that you can also read my story

Richy4:
I am just concern because having been privileged to study statistics as a borrowed course, I understand better...I may probably have been thinking like you and won't understand the importance of not Painting with the Same Brush ...

Now, when you are talking about women being bad, You did not select a population....There are women species all over the world.. different race, colour differences, different age bracket etc.. is it Nigerian women only or women all over the world that were bad? <<<<Importance of statistics.,,

Let us say you eliminated other countries except Nigeria, if I'm correct, Nigeria has 36 states and Capital.... Did you experience all this bad experiences in all the 36 states...where is your statistical observation from (.is it in kogi or Lagos etc}

Now if you carry a survey about Unethical Behavior of women... You have to state the area you were looking at for example
<< Is it a bad behavior in work places
<<< is it bad behavior in various homes
<<< is it when they appear in public spaces etc......That should also show in your observation

And I'm gonna assure you that there's no way u will have 100% positive/ negative... so if 97% agrees with you, are you going to throw away the opinion of the 3% that disagrees..

No one is gonna dispute/ rubbish what you may have passed through from the hands of women but there are some people who thinks that women were angels because of their own experiences and observations... and you too will not dismiss their opinion but respect it... That's why using the word "some" in a write up like this is Better and it will also make u sound smarter because u considered others who might have different opinion ....

You judge correctly. I did some edit

cococandy:
You are more likely to be duped, kidnapped, robbed, raped, physically hurt or die at the hands of your fellow man . But go awff.

The dumass below me sha

I know that there are a lot of bad men out there

But I cannot generalize that all men are bad

Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.

Slow down; I repeat slow down. I am asking you to slow down because there are too many good and bad advice that will confuse you. What your family is going through is pure demonic manipulation. I once dated a mermaid girl and I know lot of secret and how you will go about it by seeking help from God that will lead to deliverance.

If you want my advice, please click email on my profile. I did like to talk to you on the phone. I will tell you a secret.

Remember I am not a spiritualist. I am just someone who suffered by dating a mermaid girl. It was almighty God that set me free. Contact me I will advice you in a Godly manner on what to do