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The Power Of Prayer

Prayer will recharge your spiritual man. Just as you need sleep and rest to recharge your physical body, you also need daily warfare prayer to recharge your spirit man. You can't waste hours in church services and pray for only 3 minutes a week and you expect that your three minutes prayer to cripple the enemies. 👹👿👺

I am a living witness, and I testify to you as a person who has battled heavy forces of darkness. There are five types of prayer, but warfare prayer does all the work. See link 👇
https://www.nairaland.com/7696280/5-types-prayer

Year 2016: After my intense warfare prayer, the Lord took my spirit into the deep abode of the Niger river - one of the Marine Kingdom in my home city. In anger, all did was to wave my hands and scatter the coven. The mermaid there began to lament as they watch me scatter their abode.

The Lord then brought me back to my physical consciousness. It was all good

Year 2016. 12:00am ⏰ at mid-night hour. I summon the spirit of God, come down from heaven -with fire of judgement and burn the Bermuda triangle.

I say to You JESUS; Move on the earth - over the Atlantic ocean like a raging fire (Isaiah 42:23)(Deu 9:3)(Psalm 97:3)(Isaiah 66:15) burn the marine kingdoms of the red triangle

With God spirit in me, I then DECREE; Let the Bermuda triangle burn with the destroying fire of God presence - In Jesus name.

3:00am ⏰. The Bermuda triangle sent millions of their demonic forces to my city. They came to arrest and kill me. At that moment, I became the most wanted man in the realm of darkness. I have wings, I had to flee through the air to another part of my home city.

One of my major target was the city of Lemuria, which is the Marine region of the India OCEAN. If you do research on Lemuria, the myth of lies will tell you Lemuria is a lost continent that was covered by sea. But in reality, Lemuria was and is a spiritual under water region and Kingdoms of the mermaids.

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My Readers:

Whatever I write on this forum, is based from my raw spiritual and physical experienced. My intention on this forum is to pass messages to my belove readers, especially to the torch bearers. I just want to awaken others to see the need and know the power of prayer.

Year 2017. I had an experience I will never forget. This experience recently prompted me to do some research online about the human body. I added below the question & answer I got from my online research.

What does electromagnetic do?
As such, electromagnetism is responsible for far more than just electricity and magnetism. It is the force that binds negatively charged electrons to positively charged atomic nuclei, ensuring that stable atoms can be formed and that chemistry – including the chemistry of life – can happen.

Are humans electromagnetic?
This electric current in the body generates an electromagnetic field. Because the human body, and every living organism on this planet, is an electrical body all made up of charged particles. It is also subject to the laws of electromagnetism.

What is electromagnetic vs electric?
Electric current is the electric charge's movement through a conductor and the electromagnetic waves are formed due to moving electric charges but once created, they will spread through a vacuum. The smaller packets of the energy which propagate as the electromagnetic waves are photons.

The above answers is what I got from the research I did online.

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Found out about Nairaland in 2009 when I was looking for girlfriend through Nigeria online dating website

DAramis:
May your goodness never bring about your downfall. Always be on the lookout and try to help in situations where it is needed. Like it was once said, majority of people who you come across always have an agenda that most times becomes selfish on the long run.

One of your rules is what I have always known. Never give good advice to someone when unsolicited. It always backfire. (An example, a guy I helped and even advised on what to do to succeed turns out to backstab me. In further digging (by chance), I got to know that, a man that had never rendered any help whatsoever was the one that said I meant evil and harm to him. Both of us parted our ways despite living next to each other)

Never cross an ocean for someone who is never willing to cross a puddle for you. (At the initial time when you make such sacrifices, you might not know. Try and seek for help from such people even not needed and know their reaction. That would help you to limit to the minimum, the future assistance to be rendered to such people).

Nice points which you listed up there. Above all, learn how to say NO verbally in most requests when you actually meant it within you. Your ability to do that, negates you from being a people pleaser.

DAramis
Some of the issues I have with some people comes through my being too extra nice to them. I learnt a big lesson from this and I stop being too nice to people which become much harder as most people around me want me to be very, very nice to them.

I change my bad habit and I stop being too nice. Right now I playing safe mode just to keep my sanity.

Thank you brother for the great advice.

Thanks to all for reading my dramas

mariahAngel:
Not everyone deserves kindness, but a people pleaser aim to please everyone, even those who don't deserve it and at the detriment of himself/herself.

Miss Mariah
There is a difference of being too nice, being kind and being a people pleaser. Since my tender age I have learn that no one can satisfy humans. As a person when you have good character trait, people who experience you become please with you and enjoy you, that is how it is, that is the way it is, that is how it should be.

If you want to help only people are wothhy of your help, I tell you the truth, you are not ready for charity work. Just imagine you see a woman with children starving, you know that she has bad attidude but yet you still give her help for the sake of her children. That is what christ love and kindness is all about.

I understand you on this, some people are not worthy of your sacrifice. This is the reason why I have decided not to let people I know into my circle because of over familiarity and abused.

%20 of the troubles I had in the past came from me being too extra nice to people in my life. When I stop being too nice I had more issues because people around me want s me to be very nice to them. This is why trying to please people is very dangerous to ones sanity.

My painful experience comes from those I know in my circle whom I tried to lift up, they only ended up trying to drag me down by waging war against me.

Even Jesus heal and help those who never appreciate or thank him for his help. What I mean is that In life you will meet the good and the bad. They key is to learn from them all.

Miss Maria. Thank You for taking your time to read my long drama and you even comment.

As for me, I am playing safe mode

Karleb:
These wouldn't stop you from getting burnt.

All you need is common sense and to follow your instincts. If these are your rules, then it's fine.

You are the sailor of your ship.

Thank You.
That is what I am currently doing, using my common sense to relate with all humans.
To keep my vision alive and active, I must not help anyone around me, this hard lesson I have learn

kumulus:
A good heart is NEVER good enough, Lloyd.

You should at least high light more on what you mean

Keemsleek005:
Many of us have fone through what you going through but that as not stop us from been nice, one simple advise, today yoi might think you been taken for granted but the day the rewatd will come you wont expect it, it's when you given up that the reward of been good will manifest.

We all have our story to tell for been good and nice.

Thank you

bukatyne:
Sorry, the OP is too long.

Biko, do you.

Goodluck.

You love gossip that is why you are just too lazy in reading

mariahAngel:
You were a people pleaser! Not necessarily kind.

I see myself as a good and kind person who loves to help everyone around me, but if I may ask you

What is the difference betweeen kindness vs people pleaser?. can you explain

Waiting to hear from you

@MariahAngel
In your first quote, you said I am not a kind person but a people pleaser. Knowing myself fully well, I will say that your opinion of me is very cloudy. You said this because you didn't know that I have been doing charity works for 17 years without any financial support or reward from anyone.

I removed my mind from materialistic pleasures and I spent all my money on those who needed it more than me. I sacrificed my finance and body doing the works of charity. If I had been married then my vision would have died. I had to sacrifice and suspend my marital life by choosing my vision over marriage because I know that, someday I will reap all I sow.

The unhealthy rules above that is now governing my new life, if I had applied such foolish rule in my past, my vision would have died. In life you meet the good, bad and ugly.

To keep my vision active, I had to embrace all manner of humans and tolerate the good and the bad alike. I receive many wounds in my soul but I never allowed this to stop my calling. Because the works of charity and love is the only virtue that gives me joy.

I am person who believes that someone out there is suffering and needed my money than me. So, I will have no choice but to give them away.

Imagine, if I see a man or woman who cannot pay his/her rent, I will have no choice but to give them the money to pay their rent. Am I not a kind person?

Going back to this question, what is a people pleaser? PP can be define as a person that does things just to please others to gain their approval.

What is is a kind person: A kind person is one who is full of empathy and is able to feel the pain and suffering others.

I am not a people pleaser trying to gain acceptance. I am a server and a helpful soul who feels the pain and suffering of humanity.

I am a very discipline person who always do what is right.

Get this into you

Before you read, please know that I came here to talk about myself. I am a person that is so badly wounded to the point where I feel that it is impossible for me to heal my wounded soul. Even if God did bring healing to my life, the scars will always be there.

If it is possible I would have died because of my good heart, kindness and love towards humanity. It is God that still says that my works of charity and help will not kill me. Every time I think of my past deeds and sacrifices towards humans, I only realize that I truly do not love myself at all.

For many years with no reward I made many sacrifices to many people that even some of the receivers do ask themself, what kind of person is this? And some of my good deeds to the people close to me always backfire and works against me, but when I keep helping people I dont know, then I have no proble at all. Despite the many advesary I continue to keep my works of charity active and encourage myself to forgive and forget. I was convince that I must not allow my past hurt or betrayals to influence me against my vision. But I later realize that when you forgive and forget your history- then your history will repeat itself.

I experience many injustice without retaliation or bitterness. People who are close to me take me for granted. They take advantage of me because of my selflessness, gentleness and kindness. I ended up making unworthy and wrong people a priority in my life and many of them are no longer in my life. (I let go of them)

My existence is acknowledge mainly when people need my help because I am always available to help them in any areas of their life. It is impossible for me to narrate the ingratitude and betrayals I received over the cause of many years. It got to a point that I asked myself, in what way am I doing it all wrong?

In 2019 I gave a very good and Godly help to a child-hood friend who later manipulate and turn my help upside down and my sacrificial help to him cost me so much suffering and nearly sent me to jail cell. It was even God that intervene. I sat on the floor and I wept bitterly. I said to myself, enough is enough.

In late 2020 I decide to live a new life and I set personal rules that will govern my new life and these rules have helped me to retain my sanity and peace. Although many new people around me, especially women feel offended as I have become a person that is very difficult for one to penetrate easily.

MY SANITY and SAVING RULES

These are my (sanity) and savin rules.

1) Good morning, good morning to everyone

2) I must mind my business and not involve myself over the affairs of anyone.

3) I must watch carefully and observe the character of everyone I meet. This will enable me to spot the judas around me and also relate with people without them violating me.

4) I must not give advice to anyone ( except work related issues. (Newly added)

5) I must watch out for myself always and not pay foolish attention to anyone around me. This gave out the feeling of (rejection) to the kinky ladies around me.

6) I must never give anyone I know important help without them earning it. And even if I do I must do it to a minimum level.

7) I must never help anyone that lives around me and I must not also ask help from anyone that lives around me.

I must help many strangers only. I must help a lot and lot of people from afar who are not close to me and I will never regret over them.

9) I must not be close friends with anyone that lives around me.

10) I must not talk too much; I must speak less, except on important issues.

11) I must acknowlege and respect the personal decision of others, even if their free will of choice is leading them to their early grave, I must stay clear.

12) I must make myself my first priority, this has made me to genuinely love myself and want to take good care of myself for he first time.

13) In a relationship, I must not pass much info about myself to my date or pending wife.

14) My YES is yes and my NO is no, but my NO can be change to YES with multiple pressure.

15) I must not be concern about the criticism of any person about me, as the most important thing is what God is saying about me

What prompt me to write this was my recent breaking of rule No (7). I got burnt instantly by violating this principle that is now governing my life. Right now I am so full of regret as I type this. I must make sure that, it never repeat itself again.

I remember a woman who said that, before you go into the life of people to help them, you should ask God in prayer to bind the demon in their life. I thought she was talking trash and believe that her words make no sense at all. From my bitter experience I know now that she was %100 right.

Saintmary. I have gone through so much that all the many years of my painful experience has changed me in many ways and I can never go back to being that over excessive kind and mr nice person I used to be.

EDIT
Someone quote me and said that I am a people pleaser and not a kind person. She said this because she has no idea that I am born to be a server, messenger and a care giver. I don't have to please people just to gain their approval. Why on earth will I please a person just for them to accept me?

She has no idea that I am a person of peace, and my peace always reflect around me and made me to be well accepted wherever I go. Many people are please with me because I have qualities that people love.

When a person has an evil character, people will hate and reject him. But when you have good character trait, people who experience you become please with you and enjoy you, that is how it is, that is the way it is, that is how it should be.

EDIT 2
The person who prompted me to open this thread was a neighbour. He came to me for directions and guidance on something I know too well. I offered to give him the help he needed to save him from problems that will arise. After few days he started behaving strange and when I entered my bathroom, I heard his conversation with someone, he told the person that he didn't want me to involve because he feels that I may spoil what he wanted to do. I was surprised over his statement and what he said. For me not to get angry I walk out of my bathroom so that I will not hear more of his foolishness. I had to withdrawn from his affairs; and allowed him to do as he pleases.

Right now for the last two days he has been trying to seek my opinion as he is facing the problem I wanted to save him from. I just don't want to tell him that I heard his conversation about me but I plainly told him that at first I tried to help him and save him from the very problem he now complain about but right now his affairs are longer my concern

You will get burnt if you help those that lives around you;

Thank you for reading

Lagosinter1:
Are these beggars genuine or not?

There is no day I move around Lagos especially on the mainland that I don't get barrage of requests from people who are seemingly stranded, hungry or have insufficient transport.

This is irrespective of the gender but they are usually females, nay teenagers- who move around in twos or threes.

Today going to Oshodi, I alighted at Iyana Ipaja to buy things, a dark teenager of about 20, and five foot six, accosted me. She had a blonde hair, a t shirt and shorts.

She greeted me almost genuflecting, with beams of smiles and immediately apologised for accosting me.


With a sonorous voice, she said she was headed to Ikotun and pleaded that I give her 200 naira to buy food.

I inquired if she had anything doing, she responded that she learnt fashion designing but was still saving to start her own.

I told her I had no money to check her reactions, she said there was no problem and wanted to leave.

Given that I was in a good mood and uninterested in whether or not she was telling the truth, I obliged her with the 200 naira.
She thanked me and left.


I was later to see her with two other girls, still approaching other people-- men-- at random prolly with same tales.


After about 5 mins, I met another two teenagers less than 18, this time with request to buy bread for them.

This is not a one-off event. It happens always.

What do you guys think about such persons or are they just coming to me because I look like a pastor? Lol

Why do you always pray to ask God for something again anf gain?

They are genuine and they are in need. Give to them and move one..

Dont forget: keep giving to them

It is even in my to do list. I will buy all manner of intimacy gadgets for my mate

Women does not burn out fuels. It is we men that burn out lot of fuels (calories)

So se'x toys (vibrators) is a plus

thebosstrevor1:
I support every measure and means to bring law and order.

The country is in choas, to prevent further choas, a martial law need to be imposed.

God, i miss Abacha

When abacha was in power, all those showing power were peeing on their pants any time his name was mentioned.

Where is abacha?

Where is the abacha you are so bragging about?

Where is he?

If you can't answer me, then keep quiet

He can only do that to those aboki's that cannot read or understand english.

Some here in the south still dont even know how to use the ATM machine

Many of the comment above are very natural, but my reason for not getting married yet is of various kind

1) I have fear when I think of getting married. Why? when I see the heavy tears and regret of married men over the bad attitude of their wives, fear dey catch me.

2) Many women of today are just too materialistic

3) Marriage of today is conditional. It is only for better and not for worse.

4) I have experience the extreme negative attitude from women that is making me fed up in marriage, so baby mama plus seem to be the best bet (Taste before you pay)

5) Many of the ladies I see all around me are not for me. You pick a woman at the place of my destiny.

6) I don't want to experience divorce, so delay is good for me

Marriage is not friend rice and chicken

udoji2021

I am late to comment on this thread. Your wife may be a good person but the financial hardship is breaking her soul

FreeSpirited:
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We all know Nigeria is bad and limiting but regardless, people are still making it, getting married and raising kids.
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Personally however, I see it as a big risk. A huge stress as this country is filled with uncertainties in terms of economy, security and politics.
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And when raising a kid, I believe the prevailing culture can influence the thinking and potential of the kid. And aside, exposing kids to this dirty and wicked system I feel it's dangerous, especially when you talk of traveling on our roads, our broken health care that can kill you anytime, poor public facilities, and poor avenue to explore talents.
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And sometimes I'm like what if I'm stuck here with my family, unable to take them to a better land of sanity and opportunity. Or if I travel over there and still meet obstacles preventing me from moving them easily.
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All of this and many more factors makes me envy and praise young guys who are marrying and still taking care of their family in their own way. Dem dey try.
The question is, is it really not that bad for young families and their plans to give their family the best in this country? Am I just delusional or too idealistic?
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It's affecting my decision or seriousness about marriage.

You are doing well.

The best love I will give my children is not to birth then in Nigeria

SLOVFO:
I am a 37 years old man that is about to court and marry a 20 year old lady. The lady in question came highly recommended by close friends and she is quite matured for her age. The parents are also willing to let her go. But i am hesitant, as i consider the age difference between the two of us. Moreso, she is just in her year one in a higher institution.

Please I need the opinions and advise of experienced folks.

I understand your fears. Why don't you do baby mama plus just to see how it goes

CHoccolaTE:
You cannot bash selfish politicians and armed robbers and kidnappers, its women you people are obsessed with.
Funny black men. That's why black race can never progress. Black men are dumb

Are women in the civilize western society no worse?

Of course.

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

I admire and respect men like your type.

Kudo

meobizy:
I don’t think I can survive there. It’s nice to see OP is thriving.

Even at 23 dating a 55 year old never crossed my mind talk less of now that I can’t go lower than 24 or higher than 26. 34 or 36 was the oldest woman I ever dated at the tender age of 21.

You are posting as a guy with a female profile

Goldp5988:
Why do u always think like a baby?
Happy childrens day.
No be me be your problem.

I guess you do enjoy the story above written by lost child?

Idiot

CHoccolaTE:
Oh women are more of bad than good because op wife cheated?
In this same nairaland there are topics about males that kidnap and butcher women for rituals, there are topics about male kidnappers that demand impossibly high ransome. There are topics about fathers molesting their children and males in general molesting underage kids, there are topics about males killing innocent people for no reason, every single day there must be one story of something extremely evil that was carried out by a male. If women are more of bad than good then men are worst than satan himself

To bash women go dey sweet una and you black males are the one holding the development of the continent back and making everyone's lives miserable with ypur terrible leadership and wickedness.

We enjoy bashing women, their own too much.

As for those men that are butchering women for rituals. They are worst than the devils

greatcheer:
Please am in benin I need a divorce lawyer, how do I go about the process of filing.

08152455890

1) Because humans are unreliable this is why I don"t trust any humans.

2) %90 of marriages is a pain in the ass

3) I receive many pressure from women that I should go and get married, but I ain't give in to their fucking shit.

Baby mama plus is the best bet

Jeon:
I'm in a relationship which I proposed with a ring already with this knelling down of a thing though I did it while in school ( same class).

Even though I have always been in charge of the relationship, I found out that she was raised by only her mother and so have no father like experience while growing up, she will always provide anything I need with a very innocent mind.

The challenge now is that I found out I really have made up my mind to marry her earlier but reality hitting me now is that she's not satisfying me sexually at all because I could not penetrate through her Virginia only robbing my thing on the surface, sincerely I've done all my possible best.

Is as if she's not fully developed down there and I'm not finding it funny at all.

The pain she complained of during my trying to penetrate her during sex is unbearable and very unlike of virgin related thing

Her mom and my parents and most of my friend and hers already knows about the proposer thing because one of one of her loose friend publicized it.

She was a virgin when I met her and I've went/ going through hell in making love with her since I made her realised I can't play mumu of no sex till marriage and she agreed.

She's very caring, but I discover I don't enjoy or will ever enjoy sex life with her.

Now after thinking of what possible exit way to end the relationship, I told her my genotype is AS knowing fully while that hers also is AS.

I told her I won't want to suffer my kids if I will have one and so we will have to end the relationship.

She has been crying and trying to convinced my that one miracle would happen and that we should go and do another test in different hospitals to further confirm is the earlier result is correct.

I told her we should be ready to end the relationship by month end.

Can I get further insight or contribution ?

This kind story you brought to this table shows that you are still a very immature teenager.

You are too young and immature for marriage.

Telkevog

I have heard you

Hmmm

Bhus21:
Some 3 weeks ago I confronted my wife about a man she'd been seeing. She unapologetically told me she had slept with him and wanted a divorce. This is my attempt to process this shock to my system and heal from the trauma.

I no longer fear what the devils can do. Marriage is my only fear right now